Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
My opinion,, how one wants to look or how one presents themselves does not mean that they are not attractive. For example, a gay white male who does not dress or look like a female is attractive to someone. So if the same gay man puts on a dress and still has a manly way about him,, he will still be attractive to someone,, his face or body didn't change, someone will find him attractive. If a TS has what one might describe as manly ways or features,, this does not mean that TS in unattractive,, there will be someone in the world who will find him attractive.
I feel the problem comes from society brainwashing us on who is attractive or not,, just like the media shows a certain type of woman as attractive so do the people in the TS world, they do the same. The TS world is no different than the rest of the world,, people are judged on a certain scale of beaty usually defined by a select group. There is beauty in everyone,, some just have to look beyond their prejudices to find it.
As far as hate goes,, people will hate for any reason, if it isn't about race people would find another reason to hate,, it's just the way people are. I am hated by both black and white people cause i am a goth, I even get a few put downs from fellow t-people just cause of the way I dress. but it's the way i am and I won't change for anyone, and I do have a few people who find me attractive,, that's all I need. I don't need the whole world to accept me or think that I am attractive,, I have few friends that mean the world to me.
@ Amber,,,, I lived for a short time in Jackson Heights.
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
I'm a white guy and there are many women of color, both tg and gg, that I find attractive. Amber if that's your sister she's hot. But you know what I think you are even hotter.
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
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amberskyi
You're absolutely gorgeous here and you have fine taste in Tequila. I think black women are beautiful and it's a shame that some men are so close minded that they can't see past skin color.
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
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ilovetrees
You're absolutely gorgeous here and you have fine taste in Tequila. I think black women are beautiful and it's a shame that some men are so close minded that they can't see past skin color.
Not every man who is unattracted to black women is a racist. Some men are not attracted to the culture. Others do not find these women physically attractive because of their physical traits excluding skin color.
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FRANKLIN
Not every man who is unattracted to black women is a racist. Some men are not attracted to the culture. Others do not find these women physically attractive because of their physical traits excluding skin color.
I understand. Well said and I should of chosen my words with a finer comb instead of implying sheer racism.
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
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ilovetrees
You're absolutely gorgeous here and you have fine taste in Tequila. I think black women are beautiful and it's a shame that some men are so close minded that they can't see past skin color.
thanks luv:kiss:
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
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amberskyi
im starting to notice a trend not just on this website but others.apparently quite a few people seem to think that when it comes to passability,beauty,and femininity that black ts women lack it.what i find even more amazing is that alot of black men themselves believe this as well.
i have seen masculine ts women of all races.while it may be true that some races may have certain genetic traits like hairlessness or slight of build but testosterone is something thats common to males of all races.its is testosterone that really determines how masculinized a girl is going to be.
i myself am black and while i may not be the loveliest but i know that im am far from masculine and ugly.my face isnt masculine and body is not only completely feminine,also completely natural.
Amber honey, anyone who looks at you and sees anything resembling masculinity, is in serious need of glasses. You are all woman sweetie. Your smile is sweet, your eyes are lovely, and your body is as hot and feminine as can be. As a white man, I would feel so fortunate to have the pleasure of being with someone as sexy as you.
Black TGurls are the hottest women on earth, and you fit that list easily. I love black TGurls. I lived with a Black TGurl years ago for about 3 years. She was the best thing that ever happened in my life. We had to deal with prejudice too many times from assholes who just want to spread hate. We would still be together if she hadn't passed away.
Amber, some people are just stupid from birth. Always remember, THEY are the assholes to be laughed at. You are above them.
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
Amber, you are a very attractive woman. I wouldn't change a thing about you. I have always found woman of color (Black, Brown, Asian, Native American, Indian) to be very exotic. I dated both a Black woman and an Asian woman when I was in college. Great memories and still friends.
Re: tired of the hate on black ts women
Be proud your black and don't use it as an excuse for all your unfulfillable expectations in life. You are not the only black in this world, stop embarrassing people.