Re: Would you date an escort?
I would not let a protection stop me from dating someone that i clicked with and liked/was attracted too. That being said i have no idea how i would take the having sex with other people and our special time probably not being so fun due to over saturation. Really depends on the girl, I guess a combination of my reactions and her take on sex. I would be willing to give it the ole college try though.
Re: Would you date an escort?
i would love to but i am a polygamist by nature. i like having many girlfriends at once. one isn't enough and for most if not all girls, this doesn't fly. the ones i do have don't know (and don't need to) about each other. the female brain has a big problem with the j word. jealousy. they simply can't get that guys like to have a variety of pussy and ass to lick and fuck. it keeps us happy and life spiced up.
Re: Would you date an escort?
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BLKGSXR
I'm sorry but your point bears no water with me. Luckily you are 100 percent entitled to have an opinion which I will never try and take from you but know I will argue it if its not logical! In this case...
Is the outcome not the same? escort is just a nice way of saying; slut,whore, prostitute, working girl- at least in the eyes of the law it is!
The moment you take monies in return for sexual pleasure makes one a whore!! all that screening is to protect themselves! because only lord knows what eviLs are out there. Would you visit someone who is dominant when you yourself is dominant?- NO! that's what these reputations are meant for. End of the day don't sell yourself on what is and whats not- if you arent filing taxes its not legal! :2cent
Sluts do it for free, that is not prostitution. That you include sluts with prostitution speaks to your level of ignorance. If law is your only guideline tell tell what things are, then yes its all prostitution. I'm not going to argue with you about your choice of law as a value, which I do not share. If it was up to politicians where I live consensual, no money involved, sex with a boyfriend would be illegal (the Republicans here in Texas would pass an anti-sodomy law if they could).
Philosophically I don't think laws punish victim-less crime (or crimes with willing victims) do us any good. It all comes out of the power hungry pseudo-Christian bullshit of people wanting to run other people's lives. The power hungry use a so called "god", or "tradition" or "protecting children" or whatever else they can think of as an excuse to do so. I'm not an escort or a "crazy ass whore", but I love freedom and hate bullshit oppression.
As far as the difference goes: Let me explain this in analogy, and instead of prostitution I'll use meat. It's like I'm explaining the difference between ground chuck and filet minion, and you're saying something like "meat is murder".
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Tapatio
Good point BLKGSXR- I don't know that the distinction matters- in addition to legality, the question is really "would you date someone who has sex for money?"
And as for "escort" being higher class than "whore"- good for them, but some of the filthiest, most diseased people I know are in the upper socioeconomic range. All the screening in the world won't necessarily prevent exposure from a nasty client.
I think: "would you date someone who has sex for money?" is a shorter version the OP's question. Depends on the person obviously, but I would. I've met escorts I'd date and escorts I wouldn't. Relationships are difficult. Just because someone is good at their job, pretty, and a good lover isn't enough to make them the right choice as a life partner. I realize I'm not the intended audience. I think the intended audience is people who are guys who watch porn and/or hire escorts. I was trying to get the intended audience to see differences mentioned earlier.
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crystalsopen
I think: "would you date someone who has sex for money?" is a shorter version the OP's question. Depends on the person obviously, but I would. I've met escorts I'd date and escorts I wouldn't. Relationships are difficult. Just because someone is good at their job, pretty, and a good lover isn't enough to make them the right choice as a life partner. I realize I'm not the intended audience. I think the intended audience is people who are guys who watch porn and/or hire escorts. I was trying to get the intended audience to see differences mentioned earlier.
Also good points- it does come down to the relationship between people.
I would have problems dating an escort. Did have problems dating an escort. And would have problems because given the same connection I'd probably try it again anyway. Love makes exceptions for pretty much anything.
And regardless who OPs intended audience is, I'm glad you're helping to inform this discussion.
Thank you for weighing in. If the subtext is TS, your opinion means a lot.
Re: Would you date an escort?
I ONLY date escorts. Mommy needs to know rent's gonna get paid on time.
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I will. But I am not expecting a queue to form. :-)
Re: Would you date an escort?
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crystalsopen
Sluts do it for free, that is not prostitution. That you include sluts with prostitution speaks to your level of ignorance. If law is your only guideline tell tell what things are, then yes its all prostitution. I'm not going to argue with you about your choice of law as a value, which I do not share. If it was up to politicians where I live consensual, no money involved, sex with a boyfriend would be illegal (the Republicans here in Texas would pass an anti-sodomy law if they could).
Philosophically I don't think laws punish victim-less crime (or crimes with willing victims) do us any good. It all comes out of the power hungry pseudo-Christian bullshit of people wanting to run other people's lives. The power hungry use a so called "god", or "tradition" or "protecting children" or whatever else they can think of as an excuse to do so. I'm not an escort or a "crazy ass whore", but I love freedom and hate bullshit oppression.
As far as the difference goes: Let me explain this in analogy, and instead of prostitution I'll use meat. It's like I'm explaining the difference between ground chuck and filet minion, and you're saying something like "meat is murder".
Im not going to be a rude child and start calling people I don't know ignorant but I will say you are fast to judge! Now onto the topic at hand!
Law was and is not the only reason I had, but I guess I could use it as my nicest reason. But taking gloves off on being nice.
Who the fuck in their right mind would try and find a future with someone who sells their ass for sex? People here in the States got shit fucked up! its a sad truth! Now dating can be argued!Examples: yes myself and "so-and-so" went out on a date- .vs. Yes myself and "so-and-so" are going out dating (on a regular basis) This is where I just say its OK to go out with someone you are trying to get with! but don't look for a future with an escort clean cut paste and dry!End of the day if you're looking for a future with someone who fucks or gets fucked by others as a "profession" then you are blind! Even worse you are lost in a facade!
Just my crusty 2cents! Now im cool as fuck with a lot of girls! But I know what they are looking for and what they aren't I guess it all lies on who and what the situation is!
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Tapatio
Also good points- it does come down to the relationship between people.
I would have problems dating an escort. Did have problems dating an escort. And would have problems because given the same connection I'd probably try it again anyway. Love makes exceptions for pretty much anything.
And regardless who OPs intended audience is, I'm glad you're helping to inform this discussion.
Thank you for weighing in. If the subtext is TS, your opinion means a lot.
I speak from personal experience in the past, nothing but drama and headaches best it to be cool as fuck because end of the day they will label you a chaser or trade.
Some of these girls have facebook groups where they just tear guys apart!.. shit i've become a story on those before and just realized it these escorts or whores are the most vile people I have met! They are about one thing and one thing only!MONEY!
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crystalsopen
I think: "would you date someone who has sex for money?" is a shorter version the OP's question.
It is certainly not shorter and is definitely not what I said. My main question was that if you have a good thing going with an escort, are you likely to spoil it by going out with her. Whether she has sex for money or is a brain surgeon makes no difference as I am not interested in a relationship.
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Hey guys, would you actually date anyone at all?