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Sub-poll: of those of you who have voted, how many have actually been with both?
Better yet, how many have actually been with both and know about it? I met some post-ops who were married before and their husband never knew they were post-op. So its possible some people have been with post-op and not known about it.
That is extremely fucked up, that those husbands never knew that. I for one don't appreciation lying to a significant other, just so that they can accept you. I wish people were more honest, maybe they can realize that the significant other will appreciate them more, then being with someone who is false!
So your saying the guy would appreciate her more knowing she used to be a man rather then accepting her as a women which is the reason why he married her in the first place.That sounds really stupid.
EDIT:What kind of straight man would want to hear that information anyway,your marrying the person for they mind anyway right.
Actually let me clarify my comments since everyone takes offense to it! Even though i made those comments, it was made, because of the fact of lying to that individual. And Not letting them no who they are dealing with. If a straight man wants to marry and loves that person dearly, then fine. Let that person make the choice. If a relationship were to go further then here these hypothetical examples out.
1. A guy marries a person and has no idea this person has an STD and has been having sex with that person, wouldn't it be nice to know it? 2. They marry and hypothetically lets say the man wants a kid, ooo shit now what is this female going to say; "ooo shit i was born a man and I dont have the ability to produce kids!, and now i have to tell him! (not everyone wants kids and I understand that). Thats my only stance, if you can be honest about who are, and the person already likes you than why not be honest instead of hiding something like that?