Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
Infern0
(to the person who asked did i tell her i was breaking up with her yes, the quote is above, and yes i've already had in 24 hours, 37 text messages from anger to sadness to asking forgivness and all the way back again)
These girls are prone to all sorts of goofiness and bitchy behavior...they love testing your manhood by acting like bad little girls...the answer is to pull down her pants and give her a good hard spanking followed by a total pounding...
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
Infern0
Well this is it isn't it. Even though I consider myself straight and would never do anything with a guy, she considers me not straight because I like her, and yet she considers herself a woman (I did too, but if i'm a "fag" for likeing her....)
She needs to sort her fucking life out because it ain't going nowhere except maybe rehab clinic or prison if not the graveyard.
Sorry just being honest, I'm 100% happy with myself, i don't care what she calls me, she just hates herself even though good people try to help her she doesnt want it, she doesnt want to be "understood" she doesn't want to be "accepted" she wants life to be full of drama and some sort of fucking fantasy world.
Well, shove it up your ass love and fuck right off
(to the person who asked did i tell her i was breaking up with her yes, the quote is above, and yes i've already had in 24 hours, 37 text messages from anger to sadness to asking forgivness and all the way back again)
Well you can't blame her, you're a hungangels member. That would make me want to call you a fag also.
Other than that you have to let her go because she's not going to change her views on men who date her, same like me. She probably sees and identify herself as woman but can't see a man with her as straight, i get her and know where she's coming from, its hard to understand.
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
jamiethewild
Well you can't blame her, you're a hungangels member. That would make me want to call you a fag also.
Other than that you have to let her go because she's not going to change her views on men who date her, same like me. She probably sees and identify herself as woman but can't see a man with her as straight, i get her and know where she's coming from, its hard to understand.
As I said, these girls will test you...once you show them who's boss they respond more favorably...
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
Two sides to every story, trust that I've been in your shoes.when you get some distance you will see that turning a blind eye to bullshit is lying to yourself.
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
wow that is seriously fucked up.
hell women are just fucked up.
half the time they want one thing but you are so fucked if you help them get it!
case in point after sex, i never ever bring the girl a tall glass of ice water...nope I just lay there next to her for a half an hour and talk about how thirsty we are......and they love it.
Think about it....30seconds to refreshing ice cold water.....30min of talking about it...
and they want to talk about it?
Case in point here, you are not gay, you are dating her because you see her as a woman and you are attracted to her. But because you are attracted to "her" she thinks you are a fag?
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
I'm surprised you guys don't see this...she's been texting him...she's lost the negotiation because she's demonstrated an unwillingness to walk away from the table...she's now begging for a total pounding...my suggestion is that he give it to her...
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
jamiethewild
Well you can't blame her, you're a hungangels member. That would make me want to call you a fag also.
Other than that you have to let her go because she's not going to change her views on men who date her, same like me. She probably sees and identify herself as woman but can't see a man with her as straight, i get her and know where she's coming from, its hard to understand.
Straight, gay what the heck is it with the labels. Maybe some people can become interested in another person because they are if we have to use a label they are, "bi-curious" and find that a woman with a penis is a comfortable way to explore bi-curious.
Somewhere in that journey isn't just possible jamiethewild that a man might find himself in love with a human being?
Hell I have no idea what is going on with this couple but I certainly don't think that any transexual woman should call a man a fag because he is willing to accept her. And besides it is just shitty bigoted language just like the "n" word or when people call me a heb or a shenny or a nike.
Now people say things in anger when they are in love which is why I tell the OP just to let it all chill but calling a man that accepts your transition a faggot is fucked up and I am actual sorry you understand people treating other people with indignity and like shit.
Sorry but if the OP's story is 75% true his girlfriend became very pissed off at him and did and said things she should and hopefully will regret. He seems to love her enough to post here about it ( or maybe I am naive) but I wish them the best and I would hope that girls that don't choose SRS can find people they can share their lives with that accept them.
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
fivekatz
Straight, gay what the heck is it with the labels. Maybe some people can become interested in another person because they are if we have to use a label they are, "bi-curious" and find that a woman with a penis is a comfortable way to explore bi-curious.
Somewhere in that journey isn't just possible jamiethewild that a man might find himself in love with a human being?
Hell I have no idea what is going on with this couple but I certainly don't think that any transexual woman should call a man a fag because he is willing to accept her. And besides it is just shitty bigoted language just like the "n" word or when people call me a heb or a shenny or a nike.
Now people say things in anger when they are in love which is why I tell the OP just to let it all chill but calling a man that accepts your transition a faggot is fucked up and I am actual sorry you understand people treating other people with indignity and like shit.
Sorry but if the OP's story is 75% true his girlfriend became very pissed off at him and did and said things she should and hopefully will regret. He seems to love her enough to post here about it ( or maybe I am naive) but I wish them the best and I would hope that girls that don't choose SRS can find people they can share their lives with that accept them.
Srry you don't understand why i would treat like man shit if his into transexuals. So i support her and applaud her for her behavior, she's taking her anger out and that's always healthy. She's taking her frustrations and thats healthy also. I support her at 100% what she did.
Like i said, try being a trans-woman in your other life.
Seriously, are you that incomprehensible towards women like us that desire SRS. How can be sooo lame to say " well i just hope girls accept themselves for who they are." look am not going to bring a controversial topic back but get your facts straight here. You sound soo naive. i will get a vagina wether cocksucker likes it or not.
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
jamiethewild
Srry you don't understand why i would treat like man shit if his into transexuals. So i support her and applaud her for her behavior, she's taking her anger out and that's always healthy. She's taking her frustrations and thats healthy also. I support her at 100% what she did.
Like i said, try being a trans-woman in your other life.
Seriously, are you that incomprehensible towards women like us that desire SRS. How can be sooo lame to say " well i just hope girls accept themselves for who they are." look am not going to bring a controversial topic back but get your facts straight here. You sound soo naive. i will get a vagina wether cocksucker likes it or not.
Jamie, in a ll due respect while we are only hearing on side of this conversation, this isn't about a guy objecting to his TS GF wanting to have an SRS.
It sounds like every time shit went bad in their relationship, whether it was because somebody did not put the cap back on the toothpaste or put the toilet seat down that this dudes GF decided the best way to cut him down was to call him a faggot etc.
It is unpleasant behavior at best and frankly a weird way to treat a guy who accepted this woman's decision that being born a man was not her destiny.
From what you are saying basically no man should ever accept a woman with penis as a mate in life and that if he does so it is a sure indication he is gay.
There was nothing in this post where this guy said they arguments over his GF going through SRS. I think SRS is great for TS it is after all a completion of a circle of discovery. It sounded a lot more like they just had issues and she beat him up verbally for being willing to accept her as a woman with a penis, rather than a rejection of her desire to SRS. If I missed that in my sped reading than I stand corrected because any TS who wants to finish the circle should, but I read it differently. I read it as a guy who was pussy whipped by his GF for being a cock hound because he accepted her as a woman with cock.
Did I misread it?
Re: Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore
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Originally Posted by
Infern0
Things were good for a while, we had a lot of common interests and there was a real connection, but after a while things started to get real messy. So much issues and insecurity, which I was more than willing to try and help with.
Sick of being up all night, every night till 3am "convincing" her that I loved her, and accepted her for who she was.
Sick of convincing her that my family and friends did accept her (they really did, not a single fuck was given) and that they weren't always staring and talking behind her back.
Sick of being called a "fag" whenever an argument happened.
Sick of panic attacks and depression.
Sick of no gratitude for anything, and being compared to past "lovers" who had cheated on her and treated her like crap when i didn't.
Sick of being told to "fuck off, fag"
Yeah, just sick in general.
I made a real go at this, but it was such a headfuck, and very very bizzare, when I first met her she lied about being a virgin (i didn't really care) and being "innocent" etc, after a while the cracks and lies started to show, but still I put up with it, she called my parents at 3am the other day to talk to me because i was "getting agressive", all that happened was every time we argue she calls me a "fag" and tells me she could "beat the shit out of me" (serious) which I just laugh at, but this time I was eating a bowl of cereal and had had enough, so literally I just dropped the bowl which smashed on the floor looked her straight in the eye and said "try it then". now, I would have never lifted a finger against her, i would have just let her hit me, whatever but I am sick of being put down and having this fucking issue with testosterone levels, and every time she gets mad, trying to belittle my masculinity, it's BULLSHIT.
Not going back, fuck it she drained all my money too so she can move back in with the parents because i'm the one who pays the fucking rent, bills, food, gives her going out money.
Or go back on fucking cams again, lazy fuck.
SRS
/rant
Okay I've read all your problems but what are hers....?
