Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
Once you are first intimate with a trans woman you do think about your sexual preference. To be honest, my first thoughts are HIV, you must be safe in bed. I'm sure you will be back for more, nobody goes that far without wanting it!!
It comes down to whatever makes you happy. People spend too much time categorising things, it's a new world, enjoy yourself and live your life. Trans women are absolutely amazing. I haven't met nothing but high sex driven, sexy, intelligent t-girls and I'm sure you will too.
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
These threads are the best.
We've probably all been there, so we're probably speaking to ourselves- but lololololololol.
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
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Meedmike
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. I thought you lot being the hound dogs that you are must've gone through something similar in your early days. She wasn't working or anything, at least that wasn't the nature of my relationship with her. Just two consenting adults with some grade-A kush lol. We smoked we talked we talked until we got aroused and started kissing and and moaning and touching each other. My jeans came off and then her bra came off. Then I sneaked my hand below her waist to find a monster of a cock. I'm serious that thing is thick! I said I wanna try and she says go ahead and I go to town. And I must've lost track of time because next thing I know I'm upside down getting rimmed while sucking her. Anyway when the time came for me to be penetrated I had a freak out and she was kind enough to understand and not press me to continue. I collected myself and put my clothes back on and thanked her for having me. Now I'm confused sexually. I don't know, and frankly I'm afraid, that if the opportunity comes I might not be attracted to pussy. Like I'm constantly running a scenario in my head where I'm in a bar and I find out that I'm not attracted to the women there, like I don't know why it's terrifying to feel no attraction to females. I'm still confused and it's been a week since my experience.
I went through that phase myself 30 years ago after the first time I jerked off to and released myself over a pic of a T-girl sporting a cock. I then went into a panic asking myself "am I really into cock? Does this make me a faggot? Oh shit, I don' wanna be a faggot. I hope I'm not going to be attracted to guys next!"
At that time, I was still mostly attracted to GGs but this was when my sexual attraction to pre-op TSs started to evolve. A few years later, I met one in person for the first time at the now-closed Show Center in New York's Times Square. It was also the first time I was no longer ashamed or grossed out over being attracted to pre-op TS. We were in the private booths. She showed me her dick, I showed her mine, we both jerked off together staring at each other's dicks. A few months later, I saw her again downstairs at Show World (also long closed down) in the TS section. I was in the front row when she did her strip dance. After I tipped her came my very first time I touched another person's cock - her cock. That was exciting. A couple of months later I tipped another beautiful TS at Show World to come in the booth with me (which was technically illegal but who cared about laws in New York before the Giuliani era?) where I first touched her cock, then she put on a condom and then followed my very first experience of sucking someone off. The rest is history ...
It's nerve racking at first, but it gets better. I know you will eventually look favorably towards your first time. You might even regret you didn't let her fuck you in the ass! You will learn to accept yourself and be at peace with yourself.
I'm still attracted to GGs, but I'm no longer attracted to pussy, unless she has a big clit.
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
like I said earlier, don't sweat it
...when it gets to the point where you start to amass a collection of David Bowie and Judy Garland CDs,,,,THEN it's time to start worrying
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
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Originally Posted by
Meedmike
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. I thought you lot being the hound dogs that you are must've gone through something similar in your early days. She wasn't working or anything, at least that wasn't the nature of my relationship with her. Just two consenting adults with some grade-A kush lol. We smoked we talked we talked until we got aroused and started kissing and and moaning and touching each other. My jeans came off and then her bra came off. Then I sneaked my hand below her waist to find a monster of a cock. I'm serious that thing is thick! I said I wanna try and she says go ahead and I go to town. And I must've lost track of time because next thing I know I'm upside down getting rimmed while sucking her. Anyway when the time came for me to be penetrated I had a freak out and she was kind enough to understand and not press me to continue. I collected myself and put my clothes back on and thanked her for having me. Now I'm confused sexually. I don't know, and frankly I'm afraid, that if the opportunity comes I might not be attracted to pussy. Like I'm constantly running a scenario in my head where I'm in a bar and I find out that I'm not attracted to the women there, like I don't know why it's terrifying to feel no attraction to females. I'm still confused and it's been a week since my experience.
While I admit that I had my hangups in the beginning, I wasn't sure why I liked trans women. I wouldn't even go near their dicks for the first two years or so. I have never ever ever lost my attraction to pussy though.
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
I try not to label things. The way I see it- people just like what they like. Just go with what you like. I like hot girls. If a hot girl happens to have a dick, that's fine...I have one too. I like what I like and don't like what I don't like...just keep those separated and you'll be fine.
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EZWind
like I said earlier, don't sweat it
...when it gets to the point where you start to amass a collection of David Bowie and Judy Garland CDs,,,,THEN it's time to start worrying
Damn....that means I can't regard Rob Halford,Freddie Mercury, and Mina Caputo as my idols? I've always hated Wizard of Oz!
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
good thing you didn't let that tranny fuck you, trannies are sort of like a gateway drug into full gay with men
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
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Originally Posted by
Meedmike
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am.
The probability is high that you didn't know before either lol
Re: Experimented with a transsexual and now I'm confused
Relax. In with the good. Out with the bad. You're attracted to who you're attracted to, so if you've honestly found GGs attractive in the past, you'll find them attractive again. Don't worry about labels as sexuality is too complex to easily categorize. Maybe you'll nail it down one day, but if you can't, you can't. Enjoy the journey.