with one exception: one can go out with "any woman" and still expect sex right away. and if you're working "in the industry", it's likely that you have a demeanor that suggests the night might be ending with more than just a peck on the cheek.
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That's your choice to make not to have sex with him..
Most men in this day in era expect sex at the end of a date or at least second base...
That goes for straight/gay/trans relationships etc
It's up to the two parties to conduct themselves in the manner they want.
I've dated plenty of men long term who never had a single long term relationship, and that's cause I didn't put out in the first month or even second month.
I made him work for it..a lot of men think if she is gonna sleep with me on the first night then she must do this with everyone..
So in a way yes it's a way for them to get off fast, but at the same time it's a way for them to figure out your character too..
I don't place blame on men...I place blame on the individual..
You can only be treated how you want to be treated in a dating situation.
Let's see, I like GG's and have had lots of fun with them both in and out of the bedrrom, no problem. But, I also like TG's, and I like them both as people and, have to say this, I also like them for their special 'parts', and there is the rub. The TG gets mad if she is liked because she has that 'part'.
Tranny chasers are men who fetish on women like us, it does not give a hope of stability or a hope in creating a strong bond and relationship since tranny chasers cannot see past the dick fantasy, that is a tranny chaser and therefore would never date one.
If a person calls me she male I would punch him in the face believe that, she male has no useful meaning to describe me accomplishing my womanhood, it's highly offensive and degrading, it's offensive as a term because they don't respect you enough to call you by your identity, instead rationalize it as a term to use to make you a freak, like a hybrid, or a sideshow. Same as lady boy, or he/she, or shedick, etc...
Tranny chasers will never take you as a woman seriously, and i don't know why avoiding any intimate contact with them is bad, actually I think it's useful. i have seen too many gf get used and burned by tranny chasers, and I will never associate myself because I refuse to be hurt, burned, and used.
some of us are only satisfied once we get to full womanhood, and have lots of respect for ts who do not conform to these terms... However Many are comfortable and that's ok too... not my personal taste. But I get it.
Men fetish on women? I think the term tranny chaser is passed around to liberally..I mean any man under the sun who wants to suck a trannies cock is a tranny chaser to some
And you can't say that honestly if you never give the guy a chance to know you other than the sex...
Some guys will fall for your personality or other reasons...
Some guys just need to get past the judgement..as did many transsexual women before they came to terms with who they are..
To just label a guy is unfair...
I assume you don't like to be labeled...
If you own your sexuality and know yourself – sex on a first date should not be a deal breaker. Some relationships grow from casual sexual relationships, some from friendships and other you just hit it off straight away. If you know what you want and are clear about it then fine. have sex if you so wish….
No the fetish is directed towards ts...
Liking a tranny does not make one a chaser.
some men want to have a relationship or maybe even marry a ts. That does not classify a chaser.
If a guy's sexual fantasy is to dress in womb's clothes, what do you call him? A crossdresser, it s fetish.
What do you call a guy who looks at ts women as a fetish? Tranny chaser.
If labels hurt you then it's the person who isn't comfortable.
It goes far beyond just liking a ts kelly, its the main point of the attraction.
I never met straight guy who says "I date any girls with vaginas", they hold a personal standard or in the case any guy would just fuck Rosie O Donald.
Date a man who focuses on dicks so much, get a sex change let's see if they stick around.
I'm not saying they don't, but what I am saying there is greater chance you don't get a call back...
There is a greater chance that individual doesn't see a trans for any thing more than a piece of ass when he needs it...
Cause noone challenged his way of thinking
Or girls validate his way of thinking with their personalities
Umm yes .... I mean no.
What was the question?
Most men that want that were "tranny chasers" at one time..
They didn't know in the beginning a transsexual is what they wanted..
They had to sleep around and test the waters...
And then own who they are..
That all took time and trial and error
Before my husband and I were together he slept around with loads of women and a handful of transsexuals..some that I knew...
Does it bother me..NO...I'm secure and know he loves me....
Does it bother me he watches ts porn...NO...cause that's what guys do...
I just think some things are just SILLY...with the way transsexual women think..
We have been together for four years now..