Originally Posted by
tsjizelle
this!
Personally i just think that hearing it from a "fan" or "porn consumer" isn't as offensive to hear from as it is from another ts. Simply because it's coming from someone who essentially lives out the same life as the person in question. Like why would you want to analyze another ts unless you're scoping out competition? That's the only time i would ever even see a legit reason to why we read eachother.
Most girls comments on other ts and their position in their transition always root from a place of ego, fear and insecurity. Most people, as per their nature, will put down and quickly "call a spade a spade" for things that trigger any of the above 3. It's understandable, but not an excuse just because you see it and have delt with the same spades yourself. It's sickening to be honest to see the lack of unity we have amongst each other as ts women. Perhaps i'm looking way too into this, but i'll call a spade a spade as well! And comments coming from other ts like jess has done, only perpetuates the struggles and challenges that ts women face, and then undermines the effort gone into changing and overcoming them. especially for her to say that if you put it out then you need to handle the feedback, yet where have you been published?
i hope you don't take what i"m saying as me trying to negatively come against you. I think you're a beautiful woman, i honestly don't know you personally and i am sure you're a great person, with lots of loving people in your life who value you. So i hope you don't think i'm tryin to start some type of rivalry or anything. I just think it's silly for someone to come on, who has no relevance to the industry to quickly put down and belittle the girls who do for the way they look.