I don't know if this is the appropriate section for this, please move if it's in the wrong spot.
Let me start by saying that this forum is the first place that I have read comments from transgender girls, and as I am a brand new member I don't really know much about the lifestyle or what is generally accepted. This forum has been a real eye opener, and has actually made me more confused than ever. I hope someone can help me figure all this out.
I am attracted to women. Nothing about a guy is attractive to me. I found this place as I have become more and more interested in transgender girls. However after reading some of the comments here, I don't think my assumptions are reality. I am not trying to offend anyone and I apologize for my coming generalizations, but I am just putting my thoughts out there. I thought that I would match well with a transgender girl, because- in my experience- I find that the GG I have been involved with use sex to get to relationship stability and then dial it back. The GGs that I have been involved with that have a high sex drive have also been less than faithful...it seems that they desire sex not for the release but for approval...so I wind up with a partner that does not satisfy me, or one that satisfies me, and everyone else.
I had never seen a transgender girl until I saw one in porn. She was so hot I thought she was a GG until she revealed she wasn't. I was pretty shocked. Like I said I like pretty girls, and this chick was hot, I had no problem with her plumbing...I have it too. After seeing more and more hot transgender girls, and having my own issues with GGs, I thought: "maybe dating a transgender girl would be for me"...My misguided thought process had me thinking that a transgender girl would be more sexual- because they would have more knowledge of a male sex drive, but that the sex wouldn't be based off approval like so many GGs. I know I am generalizing but bear with me.
So now I read here that if you like transgender girls you are a "tranny chaser" and then they don't like you. I don't have any interest in being topped or blowing anyone, but I am a pleaser by nature so if a girl wanted oral I would be ok with it, but then I read that if I did that then some girls wouldn't want anything to do with me. The plumbing isn't what attracts me, but what does seems like it was manufactured in my own head. Confused.