Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore

Things were good for a while, we had a lot of common interests and there was a real connection, but after a while things started to get real messy. So much issues and insecurity, which I was more than willing to try and help with.

Sick of being up all night, every night till 3am "convincing" her that I loved her, and accepted her for who she was.

Sick of convincing her that my family and friends did accept her (they really did, not a single fuck was given) and that they weren't always staring and talking behind her back.

Sick of being called a "fag" whenever an argument happened.

Sick of panic attacks and depression.

Sick of no gratitude for anything, and being compared to past "lovers" who had cheated on her and treated her like crap when i didn't.

Sick of being told to "fuck off, fag"

Yeah, just sick in general.

I made a real go at this, but it was such a headfuck, and very very bizzare, when I first met her she lied about being a virgin (i didn't really care) and being "innocent" etc, after a while the cracks and lies started to show, but still I put up with it, she called my parents at 3am the other day to talk to me because i was "getting agressive", all that happened was every time we argue she calls me a "fag" and tells me she could "beat the shit out of me" (serious) which I just laugh at, but this time I was eating a bowl of cereal and had had enough, so literally I just dropped the bowl which smashed on the floor looked her straight in the eye and said "try it then". now, I would have never lifted a finger against her, i would have just let her hit me, whatever but I am sick of being put down and having this fucking issue with testosterone levels, and every time she gets mad, trying to belittle my masculinity, it's BULLSHIT.

Not going back, fuck it she drained all my money too so she can move back in with the parents because i'm the one who pays the fucking rent, bills, food, gives her going out money.

Or go back on fucking cams again, lazy fuck.

SRS

/rant

oh and did i mention, I get up for work at 5am, most nights after 2 hours sleep because im dealing with her issues until 3am when i basically have to beg her to let me get some sleep, she stays in bed till 1pm, when i've been working 7 hours, I get home at 6 or 7 because i'm pulling overtime to fund her lifestyle, and then the house is a fucking mess, and I have to cook dinner because if it's her night I come home to fucking MCDONALDS@!!!!!!

aRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Sounds tough, take a step back. Bad stuff in life is kind of like jello. When you first make jello you bring it to a boil, it's hot and you can't hold it. You put in the refrigerator for awhile and it takes form and then you can get your hands around it and hold it.

Bad shit in a relationship is just like jello, once you put it in the refrigerator for awhile you will be able to get your hands around it and decide what you need to do going onward.

Just my take.

So how did you leave it with her...did you tell her you were breaking up with her?

The best part is coming up. It's where she lies to all her friends painting you as the bad guy. Then she stalks you online. And finally there will be the late night calls begging for forgiveness ...

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Originally Posted by BBaggins06

The best part is coming up. It's where she lies to all her friends painting you as the bad guy. Then she stalks you online. And finally there will be the late night calls begging for forgiveness ...

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And then the booty calls!

I would have done the same if not worse maybe even more worse atrocious words and behavior, maybe would of have thrown things at you, thats why i don't date and only escort. I hate men that are into trans-women, yet am a trans-woman. Life is so fucking unfair.... the f*gs/bi/confuse are the ones that want to be with us, its a shame....

There is life after a breakup trust me.

Sorry you couldn't take any more fella, but from what you've said, is it any wonder she was taking the piss?
It sounds like you let her walk all over you.

The scenario you've depicted sounds like a fucking nightmare. Do yourself a favor and move on. Nobody needs that kind of abuse. There are plenty of people out there who will love and appreciate you with respect and consideration.