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Who's paying here for sex and who payed for sex in the past and those ones of you who have stopped to go to escorts what was the main reason for quiting it?
I have visted escorts in the past,and quited it.I couldnt' deal with the fact that these girls didn't have sex with me because of my attraction,only because of the money i gave them.
What are your thougts on this matter?
Nevertheless Prostituition should be legal in every country and i still support the liberal ideas behind it.
I have done in the past. I'm not particularly proud of that, since at the time I was in a relationship; my sole justification is that I only remained in said until my children grew up and my ex and I could part with the minimum of damage to them. I also bought sex after that relationship ended and have no moral issues with it; it was a whole heap of fun.
I may well again in the future, since I have no problem with paying for sexual services any more than a haircut, nor do I see it as a reflection on my virility. Getting laid is easy enough; one pays prostitutes for certainty and the absence of attachment. I'm nice to them, they're nice to me, I give money, we need never see each other again. Simple, neat, convenient. I would reckon that nearly all the girls I have paid for sex were in my target zone were I dating, as far as looks are concerned, but probably a good bit under it as far as education is concerned. So the idea that they wouldn't screw me except for money, frankly never occurred to me.
At the moment I don't because I am in a relationship that means something to me and it would hurt her very badly if I did. So I don't do it.
As to the legal situation, it's quite simple in my view; anyone has the right to do as they will with their bodies, whether for money or not, as long as doing so does not interfere with other people's rights. Selling sex is part of that. I have the right to spend money buying whatever I like, as long as this in turn does not impinge on the rights of others. Buying sex is part of that.
So I think, obviously, that for commercial sex to be illegal is a breach both of my rights and the person who would like to sell it, and as such must be challenged. However, it is not, in my view, appropriate for sex to be sold on the streets in quiet suburban family neighbourhoods, nor is it acceptable (and I know it's rare but it happens) for people who are HIV positive to sell unprotected sex. So some regulation is required. Whether this is done officially or quasi-officilally, as where city authorities, for example, licence massage parlours and require the girls to use condoms and have regular STD checks, or unofficially, where certain cities or parts of cities are accepted 'red light zones' is down to the situation.
The greatest benefits IMO of sympathetic but official regulation are that it bears down heavily on people-trafficking and the involvement of organised criminals; and though it may be unpopular, I don't see why sex-workers should not have to file tax returns just like I do (as is the case in many parts of Europe, for example.)
yes i book escorts now and then :) I dont think anything , i dont feel guilty etc ... for me as I am an escort myself .. sometimes i just want to fuck a really fit exotic girl etc .. much easier to just book one dump a couple of hundred pounds and get my kicks then fuck them off and crack back on with my working, day/night etc . x
Yes, I pay for sex with escorts. The way I look at it, you are going to have to pay for sex one way or another.
never paid for sex for a number of reasons:
1. don't think i've ever been that horny to have sex (i mean to the point where i actually needed to pay the other party for it). when i was growing up i had a couple of really slutty friends that took care of those needs- but today, most are married or living somewhere else and in a relationship.
2. i'm somewhat scared of some kind of repercussion to come out of it. it's probably childish of me, but i also don't equate a few minutes/hours of pleasure to be worth the risk of whatever cons come with that kind of activity. basically, pros vs cons: cons outweigh the pros.
3. in a relationship and have been for some time. if i was single, i'd probably have a cougar on lock for companionship
I'm not a sex tourist, I'm a tourist who has sex.
No, never had and never will. Just an expensive for of masturbation.
yes I pay what is the problem
Protip. EVERYTHING is an expensive form of masturbation.
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Originally Posted by RawNY
I've felt guilty every time that I've done it. After I blew my load I kept thinking about how much I would miss that money.