If you could go back in time and speak to your younger self before you transitioned what advice would you give?
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If you could go back in time and speak to your younger self before you transitioned what advice would you give?
This sounds lame but nothing I like the road I have taken in life. Not online but in real life.
Hmm... don't spend all your money on pot, you'll need it for laser.
Mowing lawns is not a job. You know how your parents always tell you to get a job? Get a job.
Get ahold of hormones, risk it. Sitting around depressed smoking pot isn't helping your transition more than risking getting kicked out. The only way your parents will grow to deal with it is if the issue is pushed and they can't ignore it. The emotional improvements are worth it. Once you conquer yourself, everything else is easy.
High school means nothing! Seriously. If I could tell any high school kid anything, that's what I'd tell them. You think you have all this drama with your friends and such and you're all emo over it. It means jack shit.
SI scars don't go away. Help yourself instead of hurting yourself. If you're going to take drugs, make sure they're little blue pills.
Go vegetarian. Be healthy. Exercise?!? (pfft, like I do now...) You'll feel and look a hell of a lot better.
Don't waste your time in dead-end relationships. Don't trash your friendships.
You are beautiful. Never forget that.
PS: PBR is not beer.
Dont trust No one! Be prepared to see the masks hit the pavement .
Make good use of your time.
You can't turn the clock back.
"stop jerking it with your right hand, you're going to have mis-matched pecs"
"do it as soon as possible"
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"Escorting and porn are NOT the only options you have."
(And I keep telling myself that!)
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Do not be afraid to take chances. I was friends with a crossdresser group for so long that that held my development back a bit. Once I started creating a look of my own, I could see that one by one my closeted friends weren't so accepting of me anymore because I wasn't part of their "Water Buffalo" club anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by ShadowMaster
i would tell myself to explore my sexuality. I didn't know what ts was until 19 and didn't transition until i was almost 25...
i was attending ucla but drop out...big mistake in life...go bruins..ucla alumni, call me 50% off...lol
though i'm content with my decision to do porn..at heart i was that girl that was very private and conservative. I would tell myself to not jump into the porn industry...