Trogdor
09-06-2006, 12:24 PM
This is something that happens alot to me, but I'll give the worst cases I went through:
2002:
I knew a girl who worked at a store I worked in a year prior. I met her just before I left and she was up my alley, tall, thin, cute redhead. Plus she was a sexy goth, but one of the friendly ones without a gloomy disposition. She recently broke up with this jackass she was dating, she told me he treated her like crap, never paid attention to her, you get the idea. Anyhow, we talked alot, and we did alot of instant messaging and we got along quite well.
We both were not seeing anyone ( was a good few years since I had a date at the time this was happening ) and I suggested why not we arrange a time to go on a date. She was really digging that idea. This was around Febuary and about midway through the month we had free time ( ironic around Valentine's, huh? :lol: ) and anyhow I was getting psyched up for this. And since ole V-day was right around the corner, I grabbed a flower and a cute lil stuffed bear to give her as a lil gift. I get to the store the night we were planning to go out with. I wait about 20 minutes and I see her comming, just having ended her shift and I smile and walk to her, ready to present my gifts and she says to me, " Neil, I gotta tell you something."
"Oh, great," I thought to myself, "this can not be good." So we walk to the doors and sure enough, the worst was it. She told me, "Neil, you've been very nice to me, you're very sweet and handsome, but......I am kinda/sorta seeing someone now." ( Why do you girls use kinda/sorta when stuff like this happens? Do you get kinda/sorta pregnent? No, of course not. And to any younger guys reading.....when a girl says ''kinda/sorta'', it means yes she is doing whatever she is saying. )
"Oh smegging hell," I thought, "ok, calm down, dude. She's a good looking babe, it's no shock someone would wanna stay a stab at her." I ask her who it is she is seeing now. And she said, "I'm seeing Brandon." Now you are asking yourself "who's Brandon?" Brandon is the jerk she broke up with earlier, the same asshole that treated her so badly. It seemed she's given the rectum-faced pigmy another chance.
So what do I do? She said, " I'm so sorry, neil." And I said, "Indeed," and calmly walked away and tossed the flowers and the bear into the trash can and left the store.
And wanna know what happened to the girl now? Well, about 2 years ago, a buddy of mine who works there told me, "Neil, you know that girl you tried to go out with and who went back to that dude who treated her bad?" I said, "yea, what about her, man?" He told me, "That guy she went back to got her knocked-up. And he skipped town when he found out."
If that girl is reading this..........
You go, girl. :roll:
Now another girl I knew who lives in Gerogia was having a long distence relationship with me for several years. She looked like that short haired hottie from that VIP show Pamela did. Anyhow, she was bi and I was the first guy she liked really. We talked alot on voice chat and that kinda stuff. We were talking about seeing each other. We agreed that January 2003 would be the best time. I had alot of free time since the work I was at closed for the season, and I could get other work once I came back from seeing her. Anyhow, that summer and autum I was saving every dollar I made and had a nice chunk saved up. The week I was ready to see her, she went online and I started our ususal chat. Now I can tell when something's up and began working my way through the talking and got to the subjact where she moved out of her mom's home and with someone named Stacy. Now she's bi, like I said and thought she moved in with some girl she probably met. Well, turned out Stacy was a man and a guy in the army ( This girl told me she wanted to get into the millitary one day, it was something she really wanted to do ) And I asked her, "Well, what about me? I mean is all that we did over the past couple of years all done for now?" And she said, "yea, I guess so.....sorry." Well, I learn later she never got into the millitary and doubt she will now, since she put on a good chunk of weight after going on birth control recently and it seems she pulled this stunt on a girl both me and her know as well. this other girl did not take it as well as I did, and I myself tried to get as drunk as hell to mellow myself and wash the anger outta my mind. 2 bottles of wine later, I was not even buzzed.....seems I am a guy who can really hold his liquer.
Anyhow, I keep wondering what is it with girls pulling stunts like this.
And why, tell me WHY, these girls who say, "I want a nice man ( or girl in some cases ) who will treat me good.", but end up going or returning to a bunch of "bad boys", "bad asses", and such despite having been treated like crap by these guys. And if they did it once, they go back to these guys, just like a beaten wife.
I remember in high school, I had to play the role of dr. phil to girls I liked. I had to listen to them blubbing about their guys, "he dont pay attention to me," "he treats me like shit," "when he goes down on me, he does not pay attention to me needs." I hated when girls discuseed their sex lives with me. :x And after all that, they always go, "you're such a nice guy, you've been so sweet and kind to me. I wish more guys were like you." And one time, upon hearing this, I took a chance and went, "Well, I am not seeing anyone, how about I take you out this weekend, maybe catch a movie, get some dinner, it might be fun. :D " And the girl just smiles and goes, "Oh you. You're sweet and handsome and all, but can't we just be friends? I'd hate to risk ruining what we have right now." I always wondered why do these girls say they want a certain someone and that you are practically the prototype of what they want and yet don't want to have anything to do with you. And these are girls I've known since childhood. Is it not logical that someone you've known for years and can trust anything with them not be the most logical choice?
And what is it with these 'bad asses' that they want so badly anyhow? And why are guys from no name rock bands, espeically drummers, who will never make name for themselves, get the good stuff as well? Same thing with these guys who start trouble, just for the sake of starting a fight. And why do girls who say the above mentioned friends stuff seem to think that those guys they meet in the bars, who probably got some past criminal record, would be better material. And how is being just a friend much more rewarding and better than being the guy who's dating her, doing stuff with her and getting into her thong......I just can't see it anymore.
So can you girls answer me on this kinda stuff? Or am I just fucked up in the head or something? :?: Cause I am getting real close to tossing in the towel and going celebate all togather. Cause I can not tell you how much time, eoffort, money and emotional smeg I wasted since begining of high school to pretty much now.
Thanks for any help. :D
2002:
I knew a girl who worked at a store I worked in a year prior. I met her just before I left and she was up my alley, tall, thin, cute redhead. Plus she was a sexy goth, but one of the friendly ones without a gloomy disposition. She recently broke up with this jackass she was dating, she told me he treated her like crap, never paid attention to her, you get the idea. Anyhow, we talked alot, and we did alot of instant messaging and we got along quite well.
We both were not seeing anyone ( was a good few years since I had a date at the time this was happening ) and I suggested why not we arrange a time to go on a date. She was really digging that idea. This was around Febuary and about midway through the month we had free time ( ironic around Valentine's, huh? :lol: ) and anyhow I was getting psyched up for this. And since ole V-day was right around the corner, I grabbed a flower and a cute lil stuffed bear to give her as a lil gift. I get to the store the night we were planning to go out with. I wait about 20 minutes and I see her comming, just having ended her shift and I smile and walk to her, ready to present my gifts and she says to me, " Neil, I gotta tell you something."
"Oh, great," I thought to myself, "this can not be good." So we walk to the doors and sure enough, the worst was it. She told me, "Neil, you've been very nice to me, you're very sweet and handsome, but......I am kinda/sorta seeing someone now." ( Why do you girls use kinda/sorta when stuff like this happens? Do you get kinda/sorta pregnent? No, of course not. And to any younger guys reading.....when a girl says ''kinda/sorta'', it means yes she is doing whatever she is saying. )
"Oh smegging hell," I thought, "ok, calm down, dude. She's a good looking babe, it's no shock someone would wanna stay a stab at her." I ask her who it is she is seeing now. And she said, "I'm seeing Brandon." Now you are asking yourself "who's Brandon?" Brandon is the jerk she broke up with earlier, the same asshole that treated her so badly. It seemed she's given the rectum-faced pigmy another chance.
So what do I do? She said, " I'm so sorry, neil." And I said, "Indeed," and calmly walked away and tossed the flowers and the bear into the trash can and left the store.
And wanna know what happened to the girl now? Well, about 2 years ago, a buddy of mine who works there told me, "Neil, you know that girl you tried to go out with and who went back to that dude who treated her bad?" I said, "yea, what about her, man?" He told me, "That guy she went back to got her knocked-up. And he skipped town when he found out."
If that girl is reading this..........
You go, girl. :roll:
Now another girl I knew who lives in Gerogia was having a long distence relationship with me for several years. She looked like that short haired hottie from that VIP show Pamela did. Anyhow, she was bi and I was the first guy she liked really. We talked alot on voice chat and that kinda stuff. We were talking about seeing each other. We agreed that January 2003 would be the best time. I had alot of free time since the work I was at closed for the season, and I could get other work once I came back from seeing her. Anyhow, that summer and autum I was saving every dollar I made and had a nice chunk saved up. The week I was ready to see her, she went online and I started our ususal chat. Now I can tell when something's up and began working my way through the talking and got to the subjact where she moved out of her mom's home and with someone named Stacy. Now she's bi, like I said and thought she moved in with some girl she probably met. Well, turned out Stacy was a man and a guy in the army ( This girl told me she wanted to get into the millitary one day, it was something she really wanted to do ) And I asked her, "Well, what about me? I mean is all that we did over the past couple of years all done for now?" And she said, "yea, I guess so.....sorry." Well, I learn later she never got into the millitary and doubt she will now, since she put on a good chunk of weight after going on birth control recently and it seems she pulled this stunt on a girl both me and her know as well. this other girl did not take it as well as I did, and I myself tried to get as drunk as hell to mellow myself and wash the anger outta my mind. 2 bottles of wine later, I was not even buzzed.....seems I am a guy who can really hold his liquer.
Anyhow, I keep wondering what is it with girls pulling stunts like this.
And why, tell me WHY, these girls who say, "I want a nice man ( or girl in some cases ) who will treat me good.", but end up going or returning to a bunch of "bad boys", "bad asses", and such despite having been treated like crap by these guys. And if they did it once, they go back to these guys, just like a beaten wife.
I remember in high school, I had to play the role of dr. phil to girls I liked. I had to listen to them blubbing about their guys, "he dont pay attention to me," "he treats me like shit," "when he goes down on me, he does not pay attention to me needs." I hated when girls discuseed their sex lives with me. :x And after all that, they always go, "you're such a nice guy, you've been so sweet and kind to me. I wish more guys were like you." And one time, upon hearing this, I took a chance and went, "Well, I am not seeing anyone, how about I take you out this weekend, maybe catch a movie, get some dinner, it might be fun. :D " And the girl just smiles and goes, "Oh you. You're sweet and handsome and all, but can't we just be friends? I'd hate to risk ruining what we have right now." I always wondered why do these girls say they want a certain someone and that you are practically the prototype of what they want and yet don't want to have anything to do with you. And these are girls I've known since childhood. Is it not logical that someone you've known for years and can trust anything with them not be the most logical choice?
And what is it with these 'bad asses' that they want so badly anyhow? And why are guys from no name rock bands, espeically drummers, who will never make name for themselves, get the good stuff as well? Same thing with these guys who start trouble, just for the sake of starting a fight. And why do girls who say the above mentioned friends stuff seem to think that those guys they meet in the bars, who probably got some past criminal record, would be better material. And how is being just a friend much more rewarding and better than being the guy who's dating her, doing stuff with her and getting into her thong......I just can't see it anymore.
So can you girls answer me on this kinda stuff? Or am I just fucked up in the head or something? :?: Cause I am getting real close to tossing in the towel and going celebate all togather. Cause I can not tell you how much time, eoffort, money and emotional smeg I wasted since begining of high school to pretty much now.
Thanks for any help. :D