Do T-girls get turned on by curious straight guys?

[Lonely rob]

I would love to finally take the plunge but feel that a T-girl would be put off with my straightness. Thoughts?

[Lester316]

I would love to finally take the plunge but feel that a T-girl would be put off with my straightness. Thoughts?

Do you go around waving a big sign that says 'I'm straight does that put you off?!'


In all seriousness you are over complicating just be yourself. I'm sure some T-girls prefer 'straight' guys or some prefer 'gay' or 'camp' guys. If you really want to meet someone be more concerned whether they like you not perceived stereotypes of how people are/act.

[peacheater]

To quote an old song, some girls do, some girls don't.

Think about any sex you've ever had - the less the experience, the more awkward it usually is. Yet there are few thrills that compare to the first time of a new sexual experience. Just find a local working gal - they've dealt with your situation enough times to not be uncomfortable about it, get it out of your system and then you'll reassess everything and wonder what the fuck happens next

[nysprod]

I would love to finally take the plunge but feel that a T-girl would be put off with my straightness. Thoughts?

Aren't you the one who's put off by the uncontrollable urge to suck tgirl dick?

[Lonely rob]

No. Not put off. But my thinking about T-girls is fairly new. I am aware that I'm being awkward but I ask because I'm naive about a world that I'm new to. Also ,I'm scared.

[nysprod]

No. Not put off. But my thinking about T-girls is fairly new. I am aware that I'm being awkward but I ask because I'm naive about a world that I'm new to. Also ,I'm scared.

Scared of what?

[Wendy Summers]

Ok. I'm not a therapist, but I play one in porn. So with that in mind, I'll give you my perspective as a woman... I'm not going to speak for every other transwoman because, as others have pointed out, individual tastes will vary.

First off the phrase, "put off by your straightness" is a huge red flag for me. NOT because I don't like guys who are straight, but rather because it tells me you have some sort of sexuality baggage. Whether you're struggling with the question as to what liking a girl with a cock makes you OR you know what you are (straight guy) but you have a need to make sure EVERYONE knows it, neither situation is appealing to me. That baggage often means your ego issues will get flung in my direction. I'm so not interested in that scene.

My advice will echo what others have said... before you start trying to date, find a pro. Work through whatever issues you've got going on in your head before you try to find a transwoman to date. Otherwise, it will not end well for you -- and in my experience, guys like you never see themselves as the problem.

http://www.wendysummers.com/tour/galleries/226/image_96475.jpg

[Lonely rob]

I don't know. Taking a step in another direction. Admitting I love dick as much as I love pussy. Is this retarded? Is this how freedom starts?

[Lonely rob]

You nailed it. I am the problem. For most of my adult life, l never gave my sexuality much thought. I am now trying to come to terms with to me is a new type of womanhood . A womanhood that is intensely arousing.

[nysprod]

I don't know. Taking a step in another direction. Admitting I love dick as much as I love pussy. Is this retarded? Is this how freedom starts?

No, it's not retarded, it's more the typical thing guys who are first coming into this feel.

[Lonely rob]

If I follow everyone's advice, where can I find a pro in the south end of Queens,ny

[Lonely rob]

I've been thinking about your advice.A pro would satisfy me sexually. But a friend would stick around to talk. This is the rub. I don't know any Ts's. I don't know where to look for one outside of a club scene. VI no longer drink so clubs and bars are out.

[Lester316]

Ok. I'm not a therapist, but I play one in porn. So with that in mind, I'll give you my perspective as a woman... I'm not going to speak for every other transwoman because, as others have pointed out, individual tastes will vary.

First off the phrase, "put off by your straightness" is a huge red flag for me. NOT because I don't like guys who are straight, but rather because it tells me you have some sort of sexuality baggage. Whether you're struggling with the question as to what liking a girl with a cock makes you OR you know what you are (straight guy) but you have a need to make sure EVERYONE knows it, neither situation is appealing to me. That baggage often means your ego issues will get flung in my direction. I'm so not interested in that scene.

My advice will echo what others have said... before you start trying to date, find a pro. Work through whatever issues you've got going on in your head before you try to find a transwoman to date. Otherwise, it will not end well for you -- and in my experience, guys like you never see themselves as the problem.

http://www.wendysummers.com/tour/galleries/226/image_96475.jpg

*Reads the text, looks at the picture...*

Wendy can I book a therapy session please??

[giovanni_hotel]

You live in Queens??? Come on bro.
NYC probably has a higher concentration of pro and regular tgirls than any place in the country.

Do your due diligence, check BP and Craigs list, don't go too cheap, go over the provider reviews on the interwebz and on this board, have a plan and go knock yourself out.

Also for future reference, MOST TS are straight, so by definition they are attracted to guys who identify as such.
Let me rephrase, most TS are attracted to MEN who are attracted to women.

How you specifically identify beyond being trans-attracted is kind of irrelevant.
Don't go around saying all the time, 'but I'm straight,' as if you need a qualifier for being attracted to preop TS.

Good luck bro.

Here's hoping you find a great TS chick you find interesting and attractive beyond the bedroom.

[alyssaluxor]

I love straight guys and almost all my trans friends love straight guys too

As for trans admirers/chasers most of them dont like them

[nysprod]

I love straight guys and almost all my trans friends love straight guys too

As for trans admirers/chasers most of them dont like them

But not to the level of refusing their money lol

[Torris]

You know what they say about assumptions....

I guess it would depend on your tgirl orientation. Do u wanna get fucked or does the concept of a girl with a pretty cock opening her pussy (ass) for you turn you on

For me it's the latter. I FF through tgirl fucking male scenes.

For me I am into tgirls bc you get anal (vag only het porn bores the shit out of me).
And I am intrigued by a pretty girl with a cock. As a straight guy in real life, I have never sucked a cock

But I could envision sucking Bianca Freires or Jane Marie's cock

[Lonely rob]

I scheduled an appointment with a pro. Please wish me luck. I'm thrilled and scared about losing my cherry.

[Lonely rob]

Thanks guys. I wish I knew all of you. I'll post with the results.