Is dating a hot TS woman a myth like Bigfoot?

[Nightgoat77]

So I spent literally all of last night checking backpage and craigslist andit seems like all the "passable" TS women are working that dick for money. The rest of them just look like drunk dudes after a really raging halloween party. I was chatting with a T-girl I met on craigslist for awhile and then the inevitable, I DO NEED GIFTS/DONATIONS bomb dropped. She actually got pissed when I told her I just wanted to chat and not fuck her right away. Again, she got mad, said I was wasting her time. Next time you should mention you want donations in your post shit dick! And I thought normal women were loosely hinged. Give a dude copious amounts of estrogen and apparently they turn into mega moody cunts as well. I'm done digging through the layers of bullshit and lies to find just one T-girl who would maybe, I dunno, go out on a fucking date or something. I'm leaving it in the hands of the porn gods. If I'm meant to have an experience with a Tranny I guess she better fall outta the sky and into my lap because theyre harder to read than a fucking space shuttle schematic. I'm fine with my hand and my 1.5+TBs of carefully sorted T-Girl porn. I just dont think dating is possible unless they just never grasp what a rare and valuable commodity they are on the streets and escort sites. Work that dick, make that money. I cant really blame them.

Anybody here ever had a relationship with a TS that lasted more than a few months at best?

[bigkid69]

Bigfoot is a myth?

[rodinuk]

Some examples in here:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?79635-Could-you-have-a-relationship-with-a-TS

[Lovecox]

I have done it. One relationship was 8 months, another (on and off) 2 years, and neither were sex workers. And if I can do it, anybody can.

[tao1kiku]

I was married to a totally passable, gorgeous Trans woman. It can happen, just hard to find

[giovanni_hotel]

You're not going to find many TS suitable for dating on BP.
Once they're in that 'get money' mindset working as escorts, that's how they see ALL men, a means to an end.

However there are attractive TS who don't escort, are going to school and trying to live quiet, anonymous lives.

Check YT as many 'normal' non-escorting TS chicks have lifestyle channels.

[Chaos]

First off, I'd sooner look for a date on the SUN than BP or Craigslist....seriously..
Second, fuck off with the attitude..."mega moody cunts"? The fuck is wrong with you?
Do you even have clue one how hard it is to be comfortable in your own skin when your brain tells you things are wrong with you and no one else can see a thing?
Do you know how much shit these girls had to endure and still do? (not all of them but a lot that I know)
Imagine waking up one day and everything on the inside says your entire outside is wrong...then do that every day for years, maybe even decades in some cases....Then watch everyone you care about either walk away or shit on you for it...THEN get shit from strangers,potential employers....pretty much everyone...EXCEPT a VERY small group of people...most of which turn you into a fetish and will only be with you behind close doors...denying having anything to do with you in public...
Here's the funny part...I've only ever dated cis women...I've never HAD the chance to date anyone else...and I've been single (no sex either) for OVER 6 years....I STILL have a better attitude than you do. Then again I also know from my OWN experience how hard it is to be "wrong" and have no one know or see it and place all the blame on me....Not to mention the abuse for being different...
Moody....yeah...try having life itself and everyone in it fuck with you....in the WORST possible ways...and then try smiling through it all GENUINELY....Go fuck yourself.

[fred41]

No..

[fred41]

To comment other posts -
You can date escorts too.
Its called dating... not : every person I take out to a meal or an event means we have to potentially get married and have a brood of children. You can date someone cause you enjoy their company...
even better when the person whose company you enjoy is someone you find attractive enough to make your heart beat in double time.




P.S. Backpage is for escorts and craigslist is (generally) for hookups or escorts.
But you know this...you're just pissed that they won't have sex with you for free. at least be fucking honest about it.

[Laphroaig]

P.S. Backpage is for escorts and craigslist is (generally) for hookups or escorts.
But you know this...you're just pissed that they won't have sex with you for free. at least be fucking honest about it.

Yep, also see below for more info that the OP posted on another thread.


This literally just happened to me. They threatened me by showing they knew my real first name and said they would send the texts we had going to my "woman and family", not wife but woman so I assumed they didn't have fuck all concerning my information. They asked for 120$ for wasting their time. I literally wasted all of about 3 minutes of their time so I got pissed. I basically told them to do their worst and immediatly blocked them and chancged ALL my passwords. Deleted my facebook account too just in case. My wife knows I like watching Tranny porn but she would not be happy to know I was calling escort services. 15 years of marriage so our sex life is stagnant to say the least. I'm sure we can work things out if these fuckers actually try to ruin my life over 3 minutes of their time. Lesson learned to say the least. Anyone know how to dump all browser files on Windows 10?

[fred41]

good work Laphroaig.
I hope his life gets ruined.
It's probably wrong of me. I know there are more important things...and that this is just an internet chat site...and that the real world is more important and complicated than that...and that's a terrible thing to wish on someone.
but..
Fuck him..If his life gets ruined...
it's a mini holiday for me.

[holzz]

So I spent literally all of last night checking backpage and craigslist andit seems like all the "passable" TS women are working that dick for money. The rest of them just look like drunk dudes after a really raging halloween party. I was chatting with a T-girl I met on craigslist for awhile and then the inevitable, I DO NEED GIFTS/DONATIONS bomb dropped. She actually got pissed when I told her I just wanted to chat and not fuck her right away. Again, she got mad, said I was wasting her time. Next time you should mention you want donations in your post shit dick! And I thought normal women were loosely hinged. Give a dude copious amounts of estrogen and apparently they turn into mega moody cunts as well. I'm done digging through the layers of bullshit and lies to find just one T-girl who would maybe, I dunno, go out on a fucking date or something. I'm leaving it in the hands of the porn gods. If I'm meant to have an experience with a Tranny I guess she better fall outta the sky and into my lap because theyre harder to read than a fucking space shuttle schematic. I'm fine with my hand and my 1.5+TBs of carefully sorted T-Girl porn. I just dont think dating is possible unless they just never grasp what a rare and valuable commodity they are on the streets and escort sites. Work that dick, make that money. I cant really blame them.

Anybody here ever had a relationship with a TS that lasted more than a few months at best?

Backpage is a dating site? wow....i guess you're not looking in the right places....

i don't think it's a myth, but it's about finding out. Since passable TS women who aren't escorts, and in a still transphobic environment, will keep low and only disclose to those whom they trust looking on Backpage orCraiglist, which after all exist generally to sell goods and services, doesn't cut it.

go on traditional dating sites, or help LGBT bodies or chat online on Facebook. Most TS women aren't escorts and dont have to be.

[bimale69]

It's not a myth at all... I speak from experience.

[livepersona]

It's not a myth but your chances are very low and really depends on where you live. And you have to ask yourself l, would you date yourself?

[JM Off]

I don't expect to ever "date" a t gurl. The few that could be date material were strictly bottoms and if I wanted to fuck someone in the ass I'd go home with my girlfriend.

The ones that can lay the wood were either in for the money or dreaming of a time when it would shrivel up and fall off.

[nysprod]

good work Laphroaig.
I hope his life gets ruined.

Fuck him..If his life gets ruined...
it's a mini holiday for me.

His post has a 70/30 chance to be bs in the first place lol

With regards to the original question as Geo. Harrison said; it's gonna take money, a whole lot of spendin money

[crystalsopen]

It's not a myth but your chances are very low and really depends on where you live. And you have to ask yourself l, would you date yourself?

Exactly, i think trans people are about 0.3% of the population, and about 10% of guys having an interest in dating t-girls. Those odds suck for dudes who want to date a t-girl. I personally know several other t-girls who have done webcam and/or porn who date guys. As for me, I'm pan-sexual, but my best most stable relationships have with emotionally mature, stable men. I'm single, but I'm not really looking to date anyone right now.

[ilove2swallow]

find trans in trans night clubs

[trish]

Hey, stop staring at my feet - my eyes are up here.

[alpha2117]

For gods sake just go old school to a bar where the girls go - if they see you face to face and you seem like a decent human being then you have a shot. The internet is for sex work or the like and can match actual human interaction.

I've dated a couple of girls over the years and I met them either at a venue or through other girls I was friends with. It's not like I'm an Adonis either - but I can be fairly funny and charming and I treat people with respect and act like a gentleman around girls no matter what their birth gender and that's always seen me right. If the first thing you are interested in is whats between their legs then you are doomed.

Be prepared to fail though - it's just like any time you try to meet any girl, they always have a lot more choices than we do and unless you interest them they are just not going to jump into a relationship with you just because you want them too.

Why in the age of the internet people seem to have forgotten the basic normal way of finding a partner (through social situations) seem bizarre to me. TG girls are just like any other girls in most ways and whilst you may need to go to more specific places and have more specific sensitivities to certain things the process really is the same.

[obslam]

It's not a myth. Be proactive to meet via proper dating sites or in town - not on escort sites. I met a wonderful girl, never escorted, and married her a few years back now.

[Gingerly1975]

First off, I'd sooner look for a date on the SUN than BP or Craigslist....seriously..
Second, fuck off with the attitude..."mega moody cunts"? The fuck is wrong with you?
Do you even have clue one how hard it is to be comfortable in your own skin when your brain tells you things are wrong with you and no one else can see a thing?
Do you know how much shit these girls had to endure and still do? (not all of them but a lot that I know)
Imagine waking up one day and everything on the inside says your entire outside is wrong...then do that every day for years, maybe even decades in some cases....Then watch everyone you care about either walk away or shit on you for it...THEN get shit from strangers,potential employers....pretty much everyone...EXCEPT a VERY small group of people...most of which turn you into a fetish and will only be with you behind close doors...denying having anything to do with you in public...
Here's the funny part...I've only ever dated cis women...I've never HAD the chance to date anyone else...and I've been single (no sex either) for OVER 6 years....I STILL have a better attitude than you do. Then again I also know from my OWN experience how hard it is to be "wrong" and have no one know or see it and place all the blame on me....Not to mention the abuse for being different...
Moody....yeah...try having life itself and everyone in it fuck with you....in the WORST possible ways...and then try smiling through it all GENUINELY....Go fuck yourself.
Thank You

[up_for_it]

Thank You

Bump!

[alyssaluxor]

this is actually a fantasy of mine but its hard to find a guy to date

[Lester316]

Just going off of the title of this thread...

Fuck I hope not because if I find the elusive T-girl who is open to dating me I'd rather she isn't covered in hair from head to toe or likes living in a forest... call me shallow if you will but I've got the body hair maximum quotient per relationship covered and I like putting the central heating on in the winter.