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blackheatUK
04-15-2016, 11:25 AM
Hi.
This thread covers two subjects: where and how to find transgendered women to date in London plus has anyone revealed to their other half their TS desires and the outcomes?
Until Wednesday I had a great and loving relationship with a woman for just under a year. I didn't state my love for enough so after a lot of wine she asked me outright if I had. Short version. ..hesitation she walks away angry. I hadn't the courage to confess I had revisited my TS desire. This came out during a talk the following day. Although she mentioned if the desire stopped at porn that's ok however I couldn't promise not to act on it. This has led to a break up however despite the heartache she accepts my need to address this need.
Has anyone's relationship survived such a revelation or are many on here leafing a double life?
Plus which reputable websites or places would you recommend to meet and date a TS...prefer no escorts.

holzz
04-15-2016, 04:22 PM
there used to be a club in London called the Way Out. I think in the South Bank, but not sure 100%. i used to live in UK, but going back soon, but POF or OKcupid are cool.

DiscoD
04-15-2016, 04:31 PM
you need tvchix.com . Fair play to you for revealing yourself to your parner, but I do not think there are many women who would accept it. Most women are just as ignorant about transgendered people as most men.

Trapt53
04-15-2016, 05:44 PM
you need tvchix.com . Fair play to you for revealing yourself to your parner, but I do not think there are many women who would accept it. Most women are just as ignorant about transgendered people as most men.

I think the problem was less about TS and more about his inability to commit to being faithful. If you tell your girlfriend that you feel the urge to act out desires with a third party, you're going to meet some resistance, unless you're already in a open relationship.