SXFX
12-21-2015, 06:24 AM
Ladies a little help or perhaps some validation on my thoughts.
From what I have seen and have done, it's my understanding that we men are more or less hard wired for orgasm. Doesn't take much a little of this a little of that a tight hole used correctly and bam....we are over the moon.....the hard part....not popping the bottle too quickly.
With respect to women (GG) i've had sex with things come in two quantities; one group just have no clue how to get off....or they need for getting off takes well over 30 minutes of mental and physical preparation and any slight adjustment to the earths magnetic field throws them off...those women are almost always either divorced or are part of the "it's the mans fault" club and dating them no matter how cute she is, is less than an enjoyable experience...these ladies...sex just due to their inability of knowing WTF they want...best 15mintues. Stick it in realize she has no clue where her G spot is or how it should feel and then get out go home have a beer and ponder life.
The other group of women (GG) know exactly what they want, how they want it and when they want it. These ladies are amazing and they make up more than a fare share of the female population. These women are sex positive. They enjoy sex with the man they feel comfort and trust and enjoy their orgasms and know how to get them. These women are awesome! some of the best teachers i've had in bed...and with them i can last gosh.....wow....the last one was 30min sessions easy...she was an amazing woman! I was a lucky guy to date her for about 8 months. I didn't ponder life after sex with her...rather i was worried i was never going to have sex of this caliber ever again!
NOW as for TG women, i am far and away an expert only having dated and been with 3 TS women in my almost 40 years....
of the 3,
1 was very sex positive and was an expert and getting off while we were making love. it was awesome! it was amazing...loved it.
1 was so so but we were both young and none of us knew WTF was going on...so we did our best to have a good time....it worked.
and now my recent GF of about a month...gorgeous Asian who has been transitioning for going on 5 years or so according to her. and though she is cute and amazing in bed....i fear that she is very similar as the first batch of ladies. She just has no clue how to get off......we have great chemistry and it's all very nice....but getting this little lady to pop...holy shit...what a mind fuck....turned on enjoying it...but...she just doesn't get off.....has owned only one sex toy in 5 years and i'm only guy #4 she has been with.....
So my question to you lovely ladies is this......once you began transitioning did you have to "relearn" how to properly obtain an orgasm? Knowing that hormones rewire brains and bodies did you notice that as you transitioned what was working for you in the beginning was no longer working for you later on? Basically did you have to relearn how to get off?
From what I have seen and have done, it's my understanding that we men are more or less hard wired for orgasm. Doesn't take much a little of this a little of that a tight hole used correctly and bam....we are over the moon.....the hard part....not popping the bottle too quickly.
With respect to women (GG) i've had sex with things come in two quantities; one group just have no clue how to get off....or they need for getting off takes well over 30 minutes of mental and physical preparation and any slight adjustment to the earths magnetic field throws them off...those women are almost always either divorced or are part of the "it's the mans fault" club and dating them no matter how cute she is, is less than an enjoyable experience...these ladies...sex just due to their inability of knowing WTF they want...best 15mintues. Stick it in realize she has no clue where her G spot is or how it should feel and then get out go home have a beer and ponder life.
The other group of women (GG) know exactly what they want, how they want it and when they want it. These ladies are amazing and they make up more than a fare share of the female population. These women are sex positive. They enjoy sex with the man they feel comfort and trust and enjoy their orgasms and know how to get them. These women are awesome! some of the best teachers i've had in bed...and with them i can last gosh.....wow....the last one was 30min sessions easy...she was an amazing woman! I was a lucky guy to date her for about 8 months. I didn't ponder life after sex with her...rather i was worried i was never going to have sex of this caliber ever again!
NOW as for TG women, i am far and away an expert only having dated and been with 3 TS women in my almost 40 years....
of the 3,
1 was very sex positive and was an expert and getting off while we were making love. it was awesome! it was amazing...loved it.
1 was so so but we were both young and none of us knew WTF was going on...so we did our best to have a good time....it worked.
and now my recent GF of about a month...gorgeous Asian who has been transitioning for going on 5 years or so according to her. and though she is cute and amazing in bed....i fear that she is very similar as the first batch of ladies. She just has no clue how to get off......we have great chemistry and it's all very nice....but getting this little lady to pop...holy shit...what a mind fuck....turned on enjoying it...but...she just doesn't get off.....has owned only one sex toy in 5 years and i'm only guy #4 she has been with.....
So my question to you lovely ladies is this......once you began transitioning did you have to "relearn" how to properly obtain an orgasm? Knowing that hormones rewire brains and bodies did you notice that as you transitioned what was working for you in the beginning was no longer working for you later on? Basically did you have to relearn how to get off?