I want to leave my wife for Transgender Women

[Kyletrace67]

It's crushing me everyday. I want to love a ts women the way she deserves to be loved.

[Random532]

Most of them are crack hoes. Go back to your life and bash off more

[TSCURIOUS]

You need a reality check! If you think "happily ever after" is going to happen - it isn't! The percentages are not on your side!

[Kyletrace67]

Trust me I get it. I thought this was just a fetish but it's been like 7 years now.

[Laphroaig]

Trust me I get it. I thought this was just a fetish but it's been like 7 years now.

Ahh, the famous "7 year itch"

Trust me, your wife wont "get it".

[rodinuk]

It's crushing me everyday. I want to love a ts women the way she deserves to be loved.


Nah you just want free ts sex on tap rather than having to pay for it like you are now

[lifeisfiction]

It looks like the OP declared his love and was given the ultimatum. There are several plausible (cough) outcomes.

The Good: His wife will be supportive, understand that she may not just sexually, but emotionally lacks in what he needs. An grant him the chance to pursue his true love. By doing this he has helped to understand accept herself. Super Duper Good: She might join them a threesome.


The Bad: (More like reality) Sadly after the divorce and everything he may not have two pennies to rub together with neither woman staying with him. He will alienate his friends because it is hard to be friends with two people who hate each other. They will take sides. Lets hope the OP doesn't have kids. With all the drama it might affect his work and social life in a negative manner. The Super Bad: He finds out that his gf's mother with the medical conditions is really her super rich lover.

The Ugly: His wife will leave him for his best friend. Then he finds out that his gf is the mistress of his best friend and both women are cool with it. Super Ugly: They tell his friends he was the worst in bed and waterboarding is a better than sex with him.

[legault]

this is why you should never get married

you are going to get screwed and neither will like you cause youre broke

[nysprod]

Nah you just want free ts sex on tap rather than having to pay for it like you are now

Obviously, you've never been married...or even had much of a gf, most likely...

[philipsfrog]

If that is how you feel then leave her, its unfair to your wife to keep the relationship going

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Is your want based on just sex?

[Skye]

The OP doesn't love tgirls. He's just a tranny chaser who wants to fulfill the sexual fantasy he's developed from watching too much pr0n. Tons of single TGirls, EVERYWHERE. They just aren't interested in the chasers, unless they're paying for it, of course!

[melody mayheim]

Your obviously not happy if your considering leaving her for a ts girl. Thats horrible. Youre hanging on for? So ur not lonely? Thats only gona get ugly when she eventually finds out ur fucking an escort. There might be ts girls that are crack hoes but theyre also ts girls who are amazing that want to be loved. Always remember to treat others you the way you would want to be treated.

[DegenerateLibertine]

Ah, you limerence-drunk sap.

Sober up and reassess.

[Skye]

It blows my mind how the majority of men on this forum think that the way the girls act in the porn is reminiscent of how they act in real-life. I, personally, know there are a few dozen single in my city alone - and London is much, much, much smaller than Toronto, where I can only imagine there are hundreds that are single and just waiting for a decent guy or girl to treat them like a human being. We're not all escorts, and we're definitely not all druggies.

[tranylover]

To OP KyleTrace67

I am going to start with, I am in no way judging you.
I'm reading your posts, and I assume there is no active relationship with a trans girl.
Have you had sex with a trans girl yet?
The urge for a sexual encounter has been for 7 years?
How long have you been married? Are you friends?
Do you have kids?

Some people will disapprove of my suggestion, but go have an encounter with an escort. In Europe it's not a taboo to pay for sex.
It's better to occasionally visit an escort than destroy two peoples lives. The responsible action would be to stay with your wife, try an experience first. Remember a relationship with a friend, companion, spouse, is worth more than sex. I've written papers, and posts on human sexuality; there's one on this site, look it up. I'll discuss more later if you want.

[melody mayheim]

I think he should keep his dick in his pants if hes a married man. :)

[Dark passenger]

I think dudes just posting just to post. Go get some girl dick, take a few shots and go home.

[Luce_Moonbeam]

Sounds like obsession over a fetish to me. My opinion is that it's unsafe to act on in the OP's current mindset. Smells really odd to me and I can't quite put my finger on it.

[Dark passenger]

Its not like theres a woman he wants to hook up with or theres a certain situation he wants to pursue. Its like he wants to get some girl dick n hes fantasizing about it. Go experience it and then when you do then come back with a conversation on it. But dude we all are crazy about trans-women. If you want talk about it then strike up a convo, not an absurd conversation like this.

[rodinuk]

Think he might have experienced it...


This was great for me to see reminded me of the first time I took shecocj in my throat


Older lady named Nicole. Very sexy very natural looking, one of my top 5 tranny experiences she's got a curren ad up on backpage

[Dark passenger]

I definitely missed that. All in all, it seems really suspect to me. Believe me I been thru some shit with being married and all that jazz that comes with being attracted to trans-women, but this don't sound right

[here4dafun]

Sounds like an obsession to me.

Be a man, and if you can't and DON'T want to be there for your wife, don't hurt her. Tell her the truth, and let her move on with her life. Now when your life goes to hell, and she's with a guy who treats her like a queen...

Don't come whining back!

[BellaBellucci]

The OP doesn't love tgirls. He's just a tranny chaser who wants to fulfill the sexual fantasy he's developed from watching too much pr0n. Tons of single TGirls, EVERYWHERE. They just aren't interested in the chasers, unless they're paying for it, of course!

Nailed it! A pot brownie point for you, young lady!

~BB~

[Skye]

Yeah. I tend to be pretty blunt.
I'm pretty sure many of us are after all the crap we've had to deal with in transition.
I've had a few guys who told me I was fat 'n ugly a year ago come crushing back.


Hahahaha. Never-gonna-happen.

And, look, Kyle. The fact that you referred to us as trannies just shows us exactly how you see us, and it definitely isn't like a woman!
Think before you say something stupid, people. It's a form of "acting" in pr0n.
I somehow doubt these women want to be treated the way you imagine treating them in the real world.



!-- Edit --!
Awe BB, I lovvveeee pot brownies. Gluten-free, ofc.

[niceguy4ts]

If you know for sure you want to be with a trans woman then try a dating site and just start as friends with no sex. Get the sex part out of your mind and you will find you will be very emotionally attracted to a trans woman and the sex later on will be that much better. There are so many trans women that would love to be treated to dinner without the possibility of sex. I once called an escort just to take her to dinner and that's all we did and then a paid her phone bill and then she tried stealing from me so that was the end of that.

[Skye]

Truthfully, we get emails on dating sites all the time from people who think that we're so desperate, we'll sleep with them.
Okay, not sure how it is for the good looking girls, but that's my experience, at least.
Well, with guys emailing me. Honestly, I've had very few girls who do that, but then again, I have different rules with girls than boys :p

Truthfully, though, if someone who is outright just nice to me asks me out to dinner, I'd say no (health reasons) and probably suggest something else, like the opera or the ballet. <3


The general rule that I don't flirt with is that I never meet guys from trans-oriented domains.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

If you know for sure you want to be with a trans woman then try a dating site and just start as friends with no sex. Get the sex part out of your mind and you will find you will be very emotionally attracted to a trans woman and the sex later on will be that much better. There are so many trans women that would love to be treated to dinner without the possibility of sex. I once called an escort just to take her to dinner and that's all we did and then a paid her phone bill and then she tried stealing from me so that was the end of that.

How long did you know this woman to where you decided to pay her phone bill?

[niceguy4ts]

I knew her 2 days and she called me the next day saying her boyfriend kicked her out and her dog so I rented a uhaul and put all her stuff in it and drove her 150 miles to her cousins place. she was really on the street so I had to help her. We never even had sex. which idc about.

[lordworm]

Friendzone alert.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

I knew her 2 days and she called me the next day saying her boyfriend kicked her out and her dog so I rented a uhaul and put all her stuff in it and drove her 150 miles to her cousins place. she was really on the street so I had to help her. We never even had sex. which idc about.

You're gonna get taken advantage of a lot with that "nice guy" shit.

[Nikka]

Most of them are crack hoes. Go back to your life and bash off more

sad bad true

[Vladimir Putin]

It's crushing me everyday. I want to love a ts women the way she deserves to be loved.

You shouldn't have gotten married to begin with.

[tao1kiku]

"I want to love a ts women the way she deserves to be loved."

If you have never dated and had an emotional, loving relationship with someone who is transgender, it's a bit rash to be feeling you should leave your marriage to become involved with someone who is TG.

The first rule of thumb is to treat a Transgender woman as a Woman, (not as an object to be loved), so whatever you think it is that they deserve, stop! In any kinda of relationship of love, each person gets to know each other, and they figure out from there if they are compatible, like each other, and maybe if the Gods smile on you, you two fall in love.

Your idea of how she deserves to be loved may quite well not be what they understand and appreciate love to be.

[Paladin]

How many times so I have to remind you all not to feed the trolls???

[Jimmy W]

Thank you Paladin.....This shit brain is not married, has no wife, isn't leaving his mom's basement for anything and has zero options in life. He just likes talking to salesmen

[Dark passenger]

Thank you fellas. This jackass is stuck in fantasy land and just posting anything to try n spark a conversation. He wants to love her like she deserves to be loved..... Is there something magically different between loving people? Don't feed the trolls. Steven, prime example of people posting bullshit!

[Skye]

The OP is just sick in the head, passenger. That's all it is.

[Georgeswat]

used to think like him when i was 21 and i was unhappy with my girlfriend..now i know one thing for sure,i really love transsexual women but i don't know if i could really fall in love with one so i could overcome the prejudice of my local society..