The problem in my head

[beidzet]

Hello everybody :),

My name is Philip and I am 21 years old married guy with a beautiful wife and 8 months old little darling called Isabelle. I really love them, but I cant handle with my head anymore. I was impressed by shemales from my puberty, but I stopped to watching ladyboys videos. I was strong for 6 years from now, but I failed today. My wife is sleeping and I am watching ladyboys and their amazing butts and cock, it makes my dick hard faster then my wife did. I dont know what to do but I cant handle with it and I still didnt fuck with ladyboy but I really want to! On the other hand there is my family but I cant fight with it anymore, its so hard u cant imagine :(. Do you think that it would be better if I said everything about me to my family, or do you think that I should be quiet about it? Please help me, I came here just for some advice. Thank you for responses.

[JenniferParisHusband]

There are like a hundred of these kinds of posts from people in the past. Here we go again... First thing you have to think about, you came seeking advice on what is essentially a porn discussion board. So the advice you get, it's going to vary, and it's quality is going to be suspect.

I don't speak for anyone but me here, but a marriage is about honor, commitment, and most of all love. If you are going to act on it in a way that jeopardizes your marriage, just get a divorce and go do whatever the hell it is you want to do. Don't be stuck in something that doesn't make you happy, and don't condemn them to being with someone who doesn't want to be there. Otherwise, man up, and be responsible. You chose to get married. Which is more important.

[Laphroaig]

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?89149-Married-dilemma

[Laphroaig]

A few more threads.

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?80320-Need-Advice-But-Don-t-Want-to-Be-Judged

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?92203-married-a-woman

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/showthread.php?65031-Caught-by-wife-n-shes-ready-to-leave

Don't expect much sympathy here...

[Ironass]

Tell your wife. Talk to her about it. Maybe you can work something out with her where she'll let you see other gurls in exchange for making some of her fantasies come true. It's better to do it all up front rather than end up with hurt feelings or a pissed off spouse!

[fordly66]

Don't say a thing to her or any of your family. Stop looking at ladyboy porn and porn in general. Honor your wife and family ! Be a good husband and father, go to church if you have to and maybe even confide in a priest or other heads of church, but don't tell your wife. You know the old saying, "the grass is always greener on the other side"? Trust me, sex with a ladyboy is no better than sex with a genetic woman. You are letting some fantasy in your head cloud your judgement !

[jelqmaster]

You want his wife to know he wants a cock on her?

[shushu]

Call 911 :-)

Just kidding. Maybe you can try to watch porn together with your wife, starting with straight porn. If she likes it, try transexual porn. If she likes it, call a transexual escort and share her with your wife. This could be some kind of happy end ;-)

[martin48]

What! And have the priest want to watch the movies with me. Over here they all wear frocks and most fuck choir boys





Don't say a thing to her or any of your family. Stop looking at ladyboy porn and porn in general. Honor your wife and family ! Be a good husband and father, go to church if you have to and maybe even confide in a priest or other heads of church, but don't tell your wife. You know the old saying, "the grass is always greener on the other side"? Trust me, sex with a ladyboy is no better than sex with a genetic woman. You are letting some fantasy in your head cloud your judgement !

[tao1kiku]

It's something that's not going to go away. But you did make a commitment to marriage, and now that you have children, you are responsible for their lives until they are old enough to be on their own.

One option is to find a decent transgender escort, and once or twice a year engage them, but stay responsible to your family commitments

[Catalyst]

I have to agree with tao1kiku on this but if I may add...

Option one: You get this "distraction" out of your head and realize that you have a family that you are already committed too and seem to love. Focus on them because a secret like this is playing with fire. Just think of it this way... is a moment of weakness worth a lifetime of regret ? Having a family to love and that loves you is one of the greatest gifts you can have.

Option two: If this is really a deep rooted issue that you just cant get out of your mind. Seek some help, seek the advice and help of your wife if you feel you can talk to her about this. If its a healthy relationship you should be able to discuss such things. Tell her you love her and you need her help.

One way or another secrets like this have a way of being discovered sooner or later and if its unexpected someone always gets hurt, so its up to you to make the first move but dont leave it.

We are human and we all have desires as such. When you commit yourself to someone those desires dont always just go away like turning off a lightswitch. Your priorities change and now commitment to the ones you love become the first priority. A relationship or marriage sometimes forces you to re examine yourself and you will habe to learn how to manage those thoughts, desires and habits that may harm your family.
Its like this... If you love your family you will naturally want to protect them and keep them safe. If someone threatens your family you would step in and protect them no ? Sometimes the threat comes from within... You have identified it now you must deal with it.
From personal experience this could be a small thing but it has potential to be one of the biggest threats to you and your family. Its an insidious threat that creeps in and all too common.
You are asking for advice, that tells me you are concerned and could use some help, thats a good start.

Best of luck to you :)

[Tapatio]

Trust me, sex with a ladyboy is no better than sex with a genetic woman. You are letting some fantasy in your head cloud your judgement !

Unless you want a penis to play with in some way.

In which case, sex with a (pre-op) TS is A LOT better than sex with a genetic woman.

[Dark passenger]

I don't kno what dudes deal is but he sent me ths same message in my private messages talkin bout the pictures I have posted of my "cute little dick." First player I got a LOOOONG dick n two I aint got no pics of my shit posted! N 3 im a dude so I don't know what dude is on here. Go get some girl dick, stop actin lie u just all the sudden got back into TGirls n keep it 100 with urself. U want some dick, so go get some dick