Transwomen that discrminate?

[Raymond_King]

Im Having a problem attracting transwomen. (Before anyone ask im not all shady looking. im 6'3, 230lb, Flawless skin no tats. All my white teeth. On my worse day im a 7/10. so im not scaring anyone away) So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways. We talk for a bit and i get invited over. We i get to the door she opens it with the chain lock on then closes the door. Im confused then she calls. She says "sorry baby no black guys. You sounded white over the phone" lol. So im thinking she was serious about the whole White and spanish thing. A PR trans women from NY that isnt in to brothers? I never meet one PR persons (guy or woman) that was emerged in "black" culture in one way or another! From there speech, dress style, Musical preferences. I know PR's that are more "black" than some "black" people i know. And she was Trans! For a ground that spends 22hr of there day getting discriminated on to have one discriminate on me because im black?! Im not mad im confused? Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom) So my question is do transwomen not like black guys? Did that lie grandmothers used to tell there granddaughters about how it rubs off during sex make it over to this community also lol? Seriously. Any black guys out there in a relationship with a trans or any trans out there in a relationship with a black guy?

[DeadGirl-Productions]

Uh, dude. She may not like black dudes in the same way she might not like pineapple on her pizza. Let it rest and go pay for someone else. It really is THAT simple. Most people don't have agendas, just tastes. The sooner you take that into account, the less confused you'll be.

[TSPornFan]

Attraction is all about discrimination. She may not be into black dudes. A lot of women only like macho black guys. A person is only racist if they believe blacks are born criminals, Mexicans are super lazy criminals, and all Asians are too small.

[ktkraft]

im with the op on this one. if a person doesnt like a certain race (when it comes ot just sex and not a relationship) i feel like there is something much deeper going on.

[Ben in LA]

Forget her and move on. Life is too short worrying about why she doesn't see black guys. For every one that doesn't, there's three that does.

She's set in her ways and you don't have to prove your self-worth to her. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

[jamesedwards]

What's going on Raymond? I hope you are well.
I am going to tell you this, when you read it, take what I said and think about it, go do research etc.

Whenever a TGirl put in their advertisement as saying they only want so called "white guys" (there's no such thing as white people anyway), THAT'S WHAT THEY REALLY MEAN!
When you see that, run in the opposite direction, you don't need them and there are plenty of fish in the sea.

She had a chain lock on her door? Ummmm so....... There are millions of heterosexuals that have chains on their doors and she live in the NYC right? ummmmmmm you know how it is here bro, this is not North Carolina or the Hamptons! If she is alone she has the right to keep a chain lock for safety, it has nothing to do with you, she probably lives alone.

Now I want you to read this and think on it before you reply, and put your foot in her shoes. The reason she probably made that statement is she has probably had better turn outs with a European men and PR men, which she can relate to if she speaks Spanish. She probably got jerked dealing with African American men, or they always come up short. She has bills to pay and if she is putting out a service she wants to be paid and full. When we walk up into a supermarket and buy things, they don't let us have it for a cheaper price unless you have a coupon, and I love those :dead: Now, what if you were a male escort and PR women kept jerking you every time, at some point you would do the same thing, that don't mean you or she hate PR people it's just you can't do that type of business with them. She might not be racist against African American men its just she don't trust them. I am AA myself and I know how some AA men are when it comes to business, they always want to come up short. Why don't you call her and ask her what's the deal also with that, then you will have insight one what she really thinks and why she advertise the way she does. Be calm about it and have a good convo with her. Never know she might let you do her, but if she don't like AA men period I wouldn't call her racist, its just her preference. And she has that right. She said she lick black and spanish men, well, there is no such thing as Spanish people, its a language, not a people.

Now you said you don't know one PR person that was emerged in so called black culture (which don't exist) do this. There are tons and tons of PR people who are not into AA as you might think. Unless they are Afro-Puerto Rican, or Afro-Cuban, Afro-Dominican etc. They are dark and are still to the ways of Africa, just speak Spanish because of European Spaniards colonization! Those that are emerge will differ from you on their part and say they are not of you, simply because of their assimilation into European Spaniard culture, they don't fully understand they were colonized. Yes they have gotten into the AA culture but when they are home they are into their own, how many PR don't speak actual Spanish? I can't name five on one hand. They are bi-lingual so that should tell you right there. African people worldwide are very influential, people latch on to our culture cause its very exciting! We had fashion back in the early 60's where as PR people were not wearing fades, and afros, bally's, British Walker shoes, Stacy Adam shoes and belts, etc, they were still long haired, and walking around with unmatched clothing and colors with basically no style, until Hip Hop came which African Americans made. So don't get caught up bro in all that. She has the right to like and fuck who she wants and you also.

One!


Im Having a problem attracting transwomen. (Before anyone ask im not all shady looking. im 6'3, 230lb, Flawless skin no tats. All my white teeth. On my worse day im a 7/10. so im not scaring anyone away) So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways. We talk for a bit and i get invited over. We i get to the door she opens it with the chain lock on then closes the door. Im confused then she calls. She says "sorry baby no black guys. You sounded white over the phone" lol. So im thinking she was serious about the whole White and spanish thing. A PR trans women from NY that isnt in to brothers? I never meet one PR persons (guy or woman) that was emerged in "black" culture in one way or another! From there speech, dress style, Musical preferences. I know PR's that are more "black" than some "black" people i know. And she was Trans! For a ground that spends 22hr of there day getting discriminated on to have one discriminate on me because im black?! Im not mad im confused? Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom) So my question is do transwomen not like black guys? Did that lie grandmothers used to tell there granddaughters about how it rubs off during sex make it over to this community also lol? Seriously. Any black guys out there in a relationship with a trans or any trans out there in a relationship with a black guy?

[Ben in LA]

Was just browsing Tumblr when this popped up. They're talking about gay men, but the subject matter is still of interest.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/09/09/no-blacks-is-not-a-sexual-preference-it-s-racism.html

[daltx_m]

maybe she once owned a shop in ferguson.

[Tapatio]

Was just browsing Tumblr when this popped up. They're talking about gay men, but the subject matter is still of interest.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/09/09/no-blacks-is-not-a-sexual-preference-it-s-racism.html

Interesting. I'd never fuck a fat chick, though. Never have in my life.

I'm not prejudiced against fat people in any way except not wanting to stick my dick in one.

My body, my rules, regardless how those rules are written.

[MrFanti]

Or the other question is, why wouldn't some transgender individuals discriminate? Discrimination has no borders.

[fred41]

I can't speak for women, but as man I can say with utmost certainty - you can't will an erection to happen.
All the sensitivity training in the world can't force you to be turned on.
So it really doesn't matter why one person won't have sex with another.
It's a pretty big world out there
Just move on.


...are we ever going to get to the point where we say : "That Penthouse Pet won't sleep with me just because I'm hideous...and that's just wrong."

[bigkid69]

Maybe it is experiences, maybe she had a black boyfriend in the past and she doesn't want to be reminded of him. Or maybe she had black guys trying to be her pimp in the past or maybe in her experiences they have fucked her too long as you suggest. Whichever way it is, it is still her choice and as has been said, there are plenty of fish out there, just need to find them.

[Instrumental]

im with the op on this one. if a person doesnt like a certain race (when it comes ot just sex and not a relationship) i feel like there is something much deeper going on.

I agree. I understand the claim that it's just a matter of taste, but in order to dismiss an entire race of people, I can't help but believe there is some sort of racial disdain even if it's on a subconscious level.

As a mutt, I've never been able to relate. And to top it off, even though I identify as black, I've been thought to be an Arab, Puerto Rican, Dominican, and Hispanic, so if a woman were to dismiss me just for being black it'd be clear to me that it's about race and not simply taste.

[CaptainPlanet]

Maybe it is experiences, maybe she had a black boyfriend in the past and she doesn't want to be reminded of him. Or maybe she had black guys trying to be her pimp in the past or maybe in her experiences they have fucked her too long as you suggest. Whichever way it is, it is still her choice and as has been said, there are plenty of fish out there, just need to find them.

Or how about the easiest answer of them all. Maybe she is just not attracted to Black men. It can literally be that simple, nowhere when you sign up to become an Escort/Prostitute do you have to agree to see "Any Client" its all personal preference.

I live in LA i have had this happen to me One time in the past 5 years and i must say it helped me avoid all her friends for future encounters.

[CaptainPlanet]

I agree. I understand the claim that it's just a matter of taste, but in order to dismiss an entire race of people, I can't help but believe there is some sort of racial disdain even if it's on a subconscious level.

As a mutt, I've never been able to relate. And to top it off, even though I identify as black, I've been thought to be an Arab, Puerto Rican, Dominican, and Hispanic, so if a woman were to dismiss me just for being black it'd be clear to me that it's about race and not simply taste.

Could be true.

I have been with a few girls who told me they don't "Normally" see Black guys but gave me a pass. I asked why they chose not to, and the answer almost always led to MONEY.

[stan.smith]

Interesting. I'd never fuck a fat chick, though. Never have in my life.

I'm not prejudiced against fat people in any way except not wanting to stick my dick in one.

My body, my rules, regardless how those rules are written.

even fat chicks need some lovin bro!

[Tapatio]

even fat chicks need some lovin bro!

And I hope they get all that they need.

I'll send the next few your way!

[kingaddictx]

Im Having a problem attracting transwomen. (Before anyone ask im not all shady looking. im 6'3, 230lb, Flawless skin no tats. All my white teeth. On my worse day im a 7/10. so im not scaring anyone away) So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways. We talk for a bit and i get invited over. We i get to the door she opens it with the chain lock on then closes the door. Im confused then she calls. She says "sorry baby no black guys. You sounded white over the phone" lol. So im thinking she was serious about the whole White and spanish thing. A PR trans women from NY that isnt in to brothers? I never meet one PR persons (guy or woman) that was emerged in "black" culture in one way or another! From there speech, dress style, Musical preferences. I know PR's that are more "black" than some "black" people i know. And she was Trans! For a ground that spends 22hr of there day getting discriminated on to have one discriminate on me because im black?! Im not mad im confused? Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom) So my question is do transwomen not like black guys? Did that lie grandmothers used to tell there granddaughters about how it rubs off during sex make it over to this community also lol? Seriously. Any black guys out there in a relationship with a trans or any trans out there in a relationship with a black guy?

welcome to the wack world of TS's. The truth is being a minority doesn't exempt you from being a racisit. I've meet racist mexican and PR GG's before so seeing TS's that are the same doesn't surprise me.

Stupid people are stupid. what can you do other than keep it moving. for everyone of them there are plenty of level minded people out there.

In the future thou you may want to save yourself some time by letting them know you are black/dark skinned/etc before you come over. TS's especially seem to jump to conclusions about who/what you are based on your voice.

Im mixed and people assume i'm straight white. The opposite has happened by my buddy who is italian but from BK so "sounds" black. girls just shut um down once he started talking.

[wearboots4me]

To the OP, I'm not Black, so I don't know which girls see black men, but I would check out the escort review section. There is a New York City thread. Maybe that will help point you toward the girls you want to meet. I think the city has a lot of escorts, with a little research you should be able to find someone.

[legault]

Im Having a problem attracting transwomen. (Before anyone ask im not all shady looking. im 6'3, 230lb, Flawless skin no tats. All my white teeth. On my worse day im a 7/10. so im not scaring anyone away) So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways. We talk for a bit and i get invited over. We i get to the door she opens it with the chain lock on then closes the door. Im confused then she calls. She says "sorry baby no black guys. You sounded white over the phone" lol. So im thinking she was serious about the whole White and spanish thing. A PR trans women from NY that isnt in to brothers? I never meet one PR persons (guy or woman) that was emerged in "black" culture in one way or another! From there speech, dress style, Musical preferences. I know PR's that are more "black" than some "black" people i know. And she was Trans! For a ground that spends 22hr of there day getting discriminated on to have one discriminate on me because im black?! Im not mad im confused? Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom) So my question is do transwomen not like black guys? Did that lie grandmothers used to tell there granddaughters about how it rubs off during sex make it over to this community also lol? Seriously. Any black guys out there in a relationship with a trans or any trans out there in a relationship with a black guy?

that is the dumbest thing ive ever heard and it sounds pretty racist in itself

[Jericho]

So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways.

Erm,...
:shrug

[DeezNuts515]

that is the dumbest thing ive ever heard and it sounds pretty racist in itself

Yeah, this guy sounds like a complete douchebag, and is entirely full of himself.

[dreamon]

It is not racist to not find certain people attractive. It would be racist to say I won't see black clients because they steal (something I've seen written on these boards), but simply saying I don't find them attractive isn't racist. It's just the way it is. Some people like certain things. Your skin color or tone is a huge part of your overall appearance.

[MrFanti]

I'm a Black guy but I'll mention the "elephant in the room"....

Perhaps this one (and/or others) had a bad business experience with a Black person....this isn't a justification of actions but rather an attempt to understand why.

[islandmix]

Why would anyone wanna be around let alone pay some one to, who doesn't like their race. Did op really believe he was gonna have chemistry with this person? Delusional

[lordworm]

Joke topic. TC hasn't posted again and has only 1 post... That's the big elephant in the room.

[IluvemHung]

Everybody wants to be a Negro, but don't want to be a Negro.

[Raymond_King]

Saw some good post and some "ok then" post. Maybe i should not have made so much emphasis on the fact that i tryed to call someone up. This has happened in my personal life before. On an actual dating site. I actually tried sending my profile and ect to an AA trans online a month ago. She msg back and said she had a BF already which was well and fine. She was nice enough to add me to her friends list anyways. Out of curiosity I took a look at her pictures since i was able to see them now being her Friend on the website and saw her boyfriend. And was about what im used to seeing with the majority of trans women ive personalty meet. White guy. shorter than her by 2in, thin build and thinning hair and much older than me (im 27) So basis of what i have seen i was thinking this was the type for this community of women. Most of you are probably right. I just need to get out there more and look around. Im not/wasn't trying to judge anyone out there or anything but after seeing something happen more than often i can be blamed for thinking it might be true, maybe this was the community type. (kinda of like seeing a fitness model/gym girl with a guy that looks like the Hulk because he a gym rat)

And to the person that thinks im too "sure" of myself or a douche. Im not. I just happen to have a mirror at home. Just like im sure you do. and you know good an well if you an 6 or an 10. Or At least you should.

[Raymond_King]

Saw some good post and some "ok then" post. Maybe i should not have made so much emphasis on the fact that i tryed to call someone up. This has happened in my personal life before. On an actual dating site. I actually tried sending my profile and ect to an AA trans online a month ago. She msg back and said she had a BF already which was well and fine. She was nice enough to add me to her friends list anyways. Out of curiosity I took a look at her pictures since i was able to see them now being her Friend on the website and saw her boyfriend. And was about what im used to seeing with the majority of trans women ive personalty meet. White guy. shorter than her by 2in, thin build and thinning hair and much older than me (im 27) So basis of what i have seen i was thinking this was the type for this community of women. Most of you are probably right. I just need to get out there more and look around. Im not/wasn't trying to judge anyone out there or anything but after seeing something happen more than often i can be blamed for thinking it might be true, maybe this was the community type. (kinda of like seeing a fitness model/gym girl with a guy that looks like the Hulk because he a gym rat)

And to the person that thinks im too "sure" of myself or a douche. Im not. I just happen to have a mirror at home. Just like im sure you do. and you know good an well if you an 6 or an 10. Or At least you should. (didnt know how to edit my post) But at the end of the day i guess i have no right to judge any woman on the reason of why she wont date an man.) I have turned down a girl that that long blonde hair massive fake tits and a tight ass. (Most "guys" dream right?) Because she was too short. Im 6'3 and she was 5'2.So I can say i haven't done it before myself. It about attraction. Which i agrre with the person that said attraction is some form of discrimination. I guess it will just always bug me if i was shot down because she not "attracted" to black guys or her grandmother told her when she was younger that "it" rubs off during sex. :(

[hippifried]

...are we ever going to get to the point where we say : "That Penthouse Pet won't sleep with me just because I'm hideous...and that's just wrong."

Well yeah... All the time:
"C'mon babe... I have a harness that'll lift up the flab so you can get to my dick. It's barely been a month since I brushed my tooth. I took a bath just last week & combed most of the lice from my pubes. Don't think there's anything contageous in those oozing pustules. Hey! At least I'm white. What more could you possibly walk? A romantic dinner? Well OK, there is an all night taco stand set up over in the RotoRooter parking lot. I even have an extra $10.00 bill if you can make change. What? NO??!!! Well piss off then, you hoity toity bitch!"

[gugaxamot]

Sadly, racism runs in all communities.

[Lovecox]

This part is interesting: "... most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina ... and on the sissy side"

It sounds like you're saying that other-than-black men lack stamina and are "on the sissy side". That's pretty funny.

[Raymond_King]

Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom)


This part is interesting: It sounds like you're saying that other-than-black men lack stamina and are "on the sissy side". That's pretty funny.
What's is Not funny is selective reading at a certain age.

[Raymond_King]

Thanks to a few people for the replies. Ill just go back to that "sea" everyone is always talking about.

[broncofan]

What's is Not funny is selective reading at a certain age.
And you're giving credence to this insult by repeating it. If you took it for the nonsense that it is, you would not have had to repeat it under the guise that some unknown person said something which may or may not be true. That's a dodge. You were presenting it as a plausible explanation.

This seems to be an unpopular view in the thread, but I think excluding all people of a particular race from a service is racist, whether the justification is based on perceived attractiveness or perceived character traits. I've stated my reasons for believing this before but I figured I might as well throw that out there since I took exception to Raymond's comment and it is sort of the topic. Feel free to downvote if you think that's too harsh a view but since this dialogue has already taken place and gotten nowhere I'm kind of reluctant to hash it out again. One situation where I'd prefer a downvote to a rebuttal:).

[lordworm]

This part is interesting: "... most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina ... and on the sissy side"

It sounds like you're saying that other-than-black men lack stamina and are "on the sissy side". That's pretty funny.

And pretty racist.

[Laphroaig]

What's is Not funny is selective reading at a certain age.

Well, you selectively ignored the first line of her advert...

[skippyfever]

Im Having a problem attracting transwomen. (Before anyone ask im not all shady looking. im 6'3, 230lb, Flawless skin no tats. All my white teeth. On my worse day im a 7/10. so im not scaring anyone away) So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways. We talk for a bit and i get invited over. We i get to the door she opens it with the chain lock on then closes the door. Im confused then she calls. She says "sorry baby no black guys. You sounded white over the phone" lol. So im thinking she was serious about the whole White and spanish thing. A PR trans women from NY that isnt in to brothers? I never meet one PR persons (guy or woman) that was emerged in "black" culture in one way or another! From there speech, dress style, Musical preferences. I know PR's that are more "black" than some "black" people i know. And she was Trans! For a ground that spends 22hr of there day getting discriminated on to have one discriminate on me because im black?! Im not mad im confused? Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom) So my question is do transwomen not like black guys? Did that lie grandmothers used to tell there granddaughters about how it rubs off during sex make it over to this community also lol? Seriously. Any black guys out there in a relationship with a trans or any trans out there in a relationship with a black guy?

Not everyone has to like everyone, the world is not fair

[cbrowneye]

It is not racist to not find certain people attractive. It would be racist to say I won't see black clients because they steal (something I've seen written on these boards), but simply saying I don't find them attractive isn't racist. It's just the way it is. Some people like certain things. Your skin color or tone is a huge part of your overall appearance.

True, BUT not relevant because the provider never said or wrote the reason was attraction. Perhaps he should have asked.

[CaptainPlanet]

This part is interesting: "... most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina ... and on the sissy side"

It sounds like you're saying that other-than-black men lack stamina and are "on the sissy side". That's pretty funny.

Maybe he means most Escort that Top prefer men on the sissy side. :praying:

[cbrowneye]

Im Having a problem attracting transwomen. (Before anyone ask im not all shady looking. im 6'3, 230lb, Flawless skin no tats. All my white teeth. On my worse day im a 7/10. so im not scaring anyone away) So i decide to go to bp so i could at least spent time with one this month but then notice the girls ad. The first line of her ad says "I Love just White & Spanish" I ignore it and call any ways. We talk for a bit and i get invited over. We i get to the door she opens it with the chain lock on then closes the door. Im confused then she calls. She says "sorry baby no black guys. You sounded white over the phone" lol. So im thinking she was serious about the whole White and spanish thing. A PR trans women from NY that isnt in to brothers? I never meet one PR persons (guy or woman) that was emerged in "black" culture in one way or another! From there speech, dress style, Musical preferences. I know PR's that are more "black" than some "black" people i know. And she was Trans! For a ground that spends 22hr of there day getting discriminated on to have one discriminate on me because im black?! Im not mad im confused? Some one told me it might just be for her escorting work because most trans escorts like the guys with no stamina (so there not fucking for the whole hour or how ever long the "date" is for) and on the sissy side (makes it easier to get them to bottom) So my question is do transwomen not like black guys? Did that lie grandmothers used to tell there granddaughters about how it rubs off during sex make it over to this community also lol? Seriously. Any black guys out there in a relationship with a trans or any trans out there in a relationship with a black guy?

Interesting thing is this happens with natural born women as well. Just out of curiosity(which is why I'm here and the other site I will mention later in the first place), I contacted a woman from BP or CL who had similar wording in her ad. I contacted her on a well known review site,(which I'd consider it a sister site of hung angels). The reason I contacted her was because when I found her profile and read it there(review site), it had no mention of any race being excluded and I wondered why that was and why that race had to jump through hoops to first of all, find her on another site and then, to ask for a date. She contacted me back and tried to play it off by saying it was due to the experiences she had with that race being cheap, blah blah blah etc. BUT.......she would date that race if they contacted her from the same site I was contacting her from(the review site). I'm no fool and could easily recognize she only said that to avoid a bad reputation on the review site. If I have to go through extra research and contact just to "date" a prostitute and give you my hard earned money, you can go fuck yourself. I've just learned that whenever I see racial stuff like that on a persons ad(whether I'm that race or not), I immediately move to the next ad. Simple as that!

[Fyusian]

im with the op on this one. if a person doesnt like a certain race (when it comes ot just sex and not a relationship) i feel like there is something much deeper going on.

This.

You're going just for sex, not a relationship therefore it's really racism or are people in this thread really going to tell me that half of these escorts are attracted to balding middle aged obese white men? They don't pick and choose with them but do with black people, therefore it's racism.

Let's be honest, they don't do their job because they get to meet and have sex with nice handsome men who are actually models and rich superstars, they do it for the money. People are deluding themselves if they think it's about attraction.

I always find it funny when I come across ads (genetic females or trans-women) saying "no blacks" I myself have a quarter black in me and even though I'm mostly Mediterranean and look Spanish (so no one knows about my black heritage unless I tell them) I make it point not to visit a prostitute who thinks they can be in that line of work and discriminate based on a person's skin colour.

In any other job, including a legit massage service, you can't and probably wouldn't discriminate based on a person's gender, sexual orientation, religion or race and as far as I see it, these escorts are providing a service so why should it be any different?

It's bigger irony coming from a trans person though. As the OP pointed out, they go through discrimination themselves so it's disappointing that you have those who are racist and discriminate themselves. Make no mistake, it is racism.

Yes we all have our sexual preferences but these prostitutes aren't picky when it comes to bald fat white men are they? They throw their preferences out of the window all the time then but then when it comes to black people, it's always they I hear who get turned away. Not some fat ugly white guy so yeah, we'll put it down to racism.

[IluvemHung]

Man fuck that bitch! Lmbo!!! She don't doesn't like black well she must hate green too! Move on to the next. Not everybody on this planet can be cool and outstanding, that's just asking too much.

[jamesedwards]

LOL :dead: man some of yall are getting hostile LOL man if I were to buy a TGirl and I saw that ad, I wouldn't reach out to them, or nothing I would leave their ass right there. I am glad I don't have to go through that. But people have the right to chose who they want to fuck.

[Ben in LA]

But people have the right to chose who they want to fuck.
That goes for men AND women...so be like Soul II Soul and keep on movin'!

[Laphroaig]

there is no such thing as Spanish people, its a language, not a people.


"Farewell and adieu unto you Spanish ladies
Farewell and adieu to you ladies of Spain"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVmeeYwEiQw

[Lester316]

Saw some good post and some "ok then" post. Maybe i should not have made so much emphasis on the fact that i tryed to call someone up. This has happened in my personal life before. On an actual dating site. I actually tried sending my profile and ect to an AA trans online a month ago. She msg back and said she had a BF already which was well and fine. She was nice enough to add me to her friends list anyways. Out of curiosity I took a look at her pictures since i was able to see them now being her Friend on the website and saw her boyfriend. And was about what im used to seeing with the majority of trans women ive personalty meet. White guy. shorter than her by 2in, thin build and thinning hair and much older than me (im 27) So basis of what i have seen i was thinking this was the type for this community of women. Most of you are probably right. I just need to get out there more and look around. Im not/wasn't trying to judge anyone out there or anything but after seeing something happen more than often i can be blamed for thinking it might be true, maybe this was the community type. (kinda of like seeing a fitness model/gym girl with a guy that looks like the Hulk because he a gym rat)

And to the person that thinks im too "sure" of myself or a douche. Im not. I just happen to have a mirror at home. Just like im sure you do. and you know good an well if you an 6 or an 10. Or At least you should.

People can suggest that it's a service the escort should see anyone but seriously we are talking about a unique profession; a job where you get about as up close and personal as it gets - the escort can pick and choose who they want to see because that's exactly what we all do whether we are or aren't paying for sex. This is one job where the 'but I'm paying argument' really is irrelevant. If the escort doesn't want to sleep with someone it doesn't matter how much you pay or want to pay, ultimately what any of us do with our bodies (escort or not) it's our choice.


I don't know about the states but in the UK we can't discriminate with goods and services, a Doctor can't refuse to treat on grounds of race they would be struck off, hotel owners can't refuse a room booking because of sexuality they would get sued. There are loads of examples. The difference with escorting/prostitution is that it involves a completely intimate act; the reasons a working girl has for refusing to see some clients are irrelevant to anyone but themselves and to know the exact truth we'd need to be in their heads knowing the operation of their mind which no ever can.

Also thinking logically one of the reasons escorting/prostitution can never be fully legalised in any rational country is the right of refusal. Like in my examples a Doctor cannot refuse to treat someone for issues of race, religion, gender etc; they have to do it as rightly caring for the sick should never discriminate but fucking people is all about discrimination. It's not meant in a bad way but we all choose who we find attractive or even if we don't find them attractive we are able to set limits on what we would do with someone intimately because that is our choice. Now imagine if working girls were told 'it's the law, you must have sex with anyone willing to pay the price' what then? Do we condone what is basically rape, making someone have sex with another person they don't want to have sex with? Or do we suddenly have a legal system full of guys taking escorts to court because they refused to fuck them?

I should add to my point above it works both ways. If we suggest escorts/working girls couldn't refuse to sleep with someone on grounds of race or whatever does that mean in the future clients would be refused a choice - no more independents just state run brothels where if you want to fuck you take the first available working girl (or guy) and even if you aren't attracted to them, or even of the compatible sexual persuasion you better fuck them or you're off to court with an escort grinning ear to ear because they'll earn far more now as you discriminated against them...

Just to add I highlighted the OP's comment above because it's utterly ridiculous that it comes from someone complaining about discrimination. Essentially looking at her profile and who she dates and making assumptions like 'maybe it's the community type' is like profiling a whole group based on their looks/tastes. Maybe the 'majority of trans women' you've met just happen to find certain types attractive, or maybe your viewpoint is screwed because you feel rejected; but more importantly you 'can be blamed for thinking it might be true' because despite saying the contrary you were judging a whole group of people by generalising them and their tastes instead of just thinking perhaps everyone just likes what they like because they are individuals and the choice is up to them.

[Paladin]

I'm a Black guy but I'll mention the "elephant in the room"....

Perhaps this one (and/or others) had a bad business experience with a Black person....this isn't a justification of actions but rather an attempt to understand why.

Bingo ! and most of the rest of this waste of a thread is a just that, a waste.

[sockratees]

Just because a group of people are discriminated against doesn't mean they're saints or won't discriminate back. People are people, their philosophies needn't be politically correct or rationally sound. I'm sure you've heard of racist blacks. Also, this perception of the "enlightened/understanding" transsexual guys have about these girls will throw you off.

[Sinista]

It might sound crazy but I actually find this a turn on but @ the sametime fuck it cause I find fucked up not all black guy's are the same,Some of the brother's are fucking it up for us tranz attracted men

[notdrunk]

It might sound crazy but I actually find this a turn on but @ the sametime fuck it cause I find fucked up not all black guy's are the same,Some of the brother's are fucking it up for us tranz attracted men

It is asinine logic. Shit comes in all shades. For example, an escort a few months ago killed an individual that attacked her during a session. The police now believe the individual might of been a serial killer that murdered escorts. The deceased was white and middle age. You can find a number of stories of white individuals being jackasses to escorts; however, you wouldn't find ads that say "no whites" in them. Why is that? For some reason, a minority of escorts believe that black people are all the same. It is an insult and simply racial prejudice. The color of ones skin shouldn't be an automatic disqualifier. Frankly, those individuals that use race as a disqualifier are jackasses.

Don't accept their asinine logic. You can't do anything about it though. That "brother" isn't your "brother".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neal_Falls

[pauldinho]

Sad.