I JUST GOT RIPPED OFF BY A CON ARTIST

[YasminLee]

PLEASE LET ALL THE GIRLS KNOW...THIS GUY IS ABOUT 5'10 185 LBS..HE'S CAUCASION/ITALIAN AND A DECENT GOOD LO0OKING GUYS...VERY SMART, CONVINCING, AND ARTICULATE...IN MY CASE..HE POST AS A BASEBALL PLAYER WITH THE YANKEES...HE DID THE WHOLE OFFER ME THE DAY RATE...WANNA SPEND A COUPLE HOUR..HE'S INTO TGIRLS CAUSE WE DID HAVE SEX...HIS ASSISTANT ON HIS WAY..(SHE'S EITHER DOMINICAN OR SOMETHING..ACCENT...) I WENT INTO THE SHOWER..AND HE TOOK OFF WITH MY MONEY...GIRLS...THIS GUY IS VERY CONVINCING, AND TAKE VERY CAREFUL STEPS...EVERYTHING THAT COMES OUT OF HIS MOUTH...LESSON OF THE DAY...IF IT'S TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE..IT JUST MIGHT...THANK GOD..I DEPOSIT MY MONEY EVERYDAY AND HE ONLY STOLE 2 CLIENTS WORTH...NYC

[Legend]

What a complete jerk and a liar but you should you have looked in the yankees roster to see if he was truly a member, i have had money stolen from me but you just have to learn from those mistakes like me so it wont happen again.

[GroobySteven]

Badness!
I'm sure this guy is going to get spotted by someone who knows him if this message gets propigated around as it should.
seanchai

[YasminLee]

JUST HAPPEND THIS EVE...HE SET IT UP AND SPEND THE WHOLE DAY...I'M JUST HAPPY I MADE MY DEPOSIT EARLIER...THIS IS NYC BTW..WARN THE GIRLS HUN TO WATCH OUT FOR A CON....

[GroobySteven]

Is that the dude in the photos as I saw you posted them in another post with Eva Mendez or am I missing something?
seanchai

[YasminLee]

NO...HE'S NOT IN THE PHOTO....

[GroobySteven]

Oh fuck ...
I've just heard the little one in the top photo got stomped on by Legend (or it might have been buggered) and the twink in the lower photo has been lynched by a gang of outraged Yasmin Lee fans.

Seriously, you might want to remove their images from this specific post though, in case anyone is as bleary as I am today.

seanchai

[YasminLee]

BETTER BABY..I'TS SO LATE RIGHT NOW..I CAN'T EVEN THINK..I'M IN SHOCK STILL I GUESS....THAT THIS HAPPEND TO ME...

[tgirloverct]

Sorry to hear what happened, it'll come back to him in one way or another. While I don't wish anyone who works hard at what they do to get ripped off, I wish it would've happened as a lesson to the many girls that attend the parties who treat all black men like they are shit and think they will only get conned and ripped off by a black guy. It goes to show , again as unfortunate as it was for you Yasmine, that there are shady people of all races, ethnic groups, etc. He's probably ripped off many of the girls, but they are too ashamed to tell it publicly because he is white and "good looking". I applaud your courage. Keep on doing what you do, you seem to have class, unlike many of the other girls who just look good.

[Shining Star]

Yasmin, sorry to hear about your unhappy "visit", but like I posted earlier, goodlooking white guys can work their mojo on a girl and make let her guard down.

Everyone is so busy screening this one or that because they might be a thug, when those smiling faces are the biggest thugs of them all.

Don't worry girl, at least you are alright, money can be replaced, your life of physical well being cannot.

Oh yes, what the ***** were you doing taking a shower leaving a date in your apartment knowing where your stash was? Again, these good looking guys will sex you up and then suggest "let's take nap/shower",.. you never know.

[greenkb]

its getting to the point where you can't trust anyone these days. yasmin, I'm sorry for you lose. Lets just hope the bastard gets he's comeupance soon.

[deadclan69]

reminds me of the story of the ts who took my money and fobbed me off with crap sex, tiredness, boredom and clock watching. What goes around comes around...

[George Costanza]

PLEASE LET ALL THE GIRLS KNOW...THIS GUY IS ABOUT 5'10 185 LBS..HE'S CAUCASION/ITALIAN AND A DECENT GOOD LO0OKING GUYS...VERY SMART, CONVINCING, AND ARTICULATE...IN MY CASE..HE POST AS A BASEBALL PLAYER WITH THE YANKEES...HE DID THE WHOLE OFFER ME THE DAY RATE...WANNA SPEND A COUPLE HOUR..HE'S INTO TGIRLS CAUSE WE DID HAVE SEX...HIS ASSISTANT ON HIS WAY..(SHE'S EITHER DOMINICAN OR SOMETHING..ACCENT...) I WENT INTO THE SHOWER..AND HE TOOK OFF WITH MY MONEY...GIRLS...THIS GUY IS VERY CONVINCING, AND TAKE VERY CAREFUL STEPS...EVERYTHING THAT COMES OUT OF HIS MOUTH...LESSON OF THE DAY...IF IT'S TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE..IT JUST MIGHT...THANK GOD..I DEPOSIT MY MONEY EVERYDAY AND HE ONLY STOLE 2 CLIENTS WORTH...NYC


karma

Sorry you got ripped off Yasmin. Once bitten, twice shy.

Strange the way things work out though; I'm used to reading stories of how T-girls rip off their clients: $300 for a 5-minute hand-job or having a pimp to shake a guy down. Funny how things come full circle.

Not that I am endorsing any of this dishonest behavior. It sucks to be ripped off no matter who you are, T-girl or client.

[lasvegaslex]

very sorry to hear that, at least it was just cash you know...coulda been worse. Hope this fucker gets his...

[wombat33]

:twisted: Hi Jasmine,

Wow, I am really sorry to hear of your misfortune as I hear you are like the sweetest T-girl out there. Remember, what goes around comes around. This guy will, and chancesa re have, gotten his fair share of shit. it is inevideble. I am a new t-girl admorer and would love to come see you this week if you are free. I think you are totally seductive, sexy, and sweet.
Think good things........this guy will get his one day.

[Nowhereboy]

"What goes around comes around"? and "Funny how things come full circle"? I know you gentlemen can not possibly mean to imply that any of these misdeeds by others is justification for what happened to Yasmin. That is, however, what it sounds like. Bad experiences with TG escorts do not justify robbery any more than Robbery justifies bad experiences. Be careful not to slip into a mentality that blames the victim.

YasminLee has been a welcome presence here on HA, she has done nothing to deserve these witticisms that in fact cast aspersions on her. Again I do not believe that was either of your intentions, but take care in what you write, it is out there for a very long time

[Realgirls4me]

Yasmin,

Bad days, as are dishonest assholes such as you encountered serve a purpose -- they are there to remind us that most days aren't that bad after all, and that most people -- the vast majority -- are decent and honorable and live up to their word. He's part of the one-tenth of one percent. I am sorry for your experience. Karma will catch up to him. ...Give more details of this clown in any and all forums you participate in.

Wombat33,

Cocks not attached to a woman aren't attractive. This isn't a cock forum. The term "totality" comes to mind.

[JRon]

If you had a picture of this douchebag I would beat his fucking ass myself - I'm going to be in NYC next week and would LOVE to look his punk ass up.

In more positive news, you are looking as beautiful as ever. Don't let the assholes get you down!

[YasminLee]

DEADCLAN69 HUN...YES WHAT'S COMES AROUND GOES AROUND...AND I DO DESERVE MY SHARE OF BAD BEHAVIORS IN MY PAST..THIS POST HOWEVER, AS EMBARRASING AS IT IS FOR ME...I WANT MY GIRLS OUT THERE TO BE ALERT SO THEY CAN PROTECT THEMSELF...I KNOW A LOT OF GIRLS DON'T USE BANK FOR DEPOSIT AND CAN REALLY BE HURT BY THIS.I CONSIDER MYSELF LUCKY. I MAKE A TRIP TO THE BANK EVERYDAY..

TO THE TER.. THERE HAD BEEN TIME WHEN I DO RUSH A FEW OF MY CLIENTS AND JUST WANT THEM TO CUM AND LEAVE..WHEN GUYS SHOWS UP NOT CLEAN IT GROSS ME OUT...I DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL SOMEONE..OH HEY, U'RE BREATH STINKS AND I'M HOLDING MY BREATH (AND I SWEAR IT'S ALWAYS THE ONE THAT WANTS THE GF EXPERIENCE) LOL..... OR U SHOULD SHOWER AFTER #2 BEFORE SEEING A GIRL..IT'S EMBARRASSING FOR ME......AND OFF COURSE I DON'T WANNA GIVE THE MONEY BACK AND JUST SAY LEAVE. ..THAT TIME SLOT I HAD FOR THEM I COULD OF HAD WITH SOMEONE ELSE SO IT'S NOT FAIR FOR MY LOST...IT ALL COMES DOWN TO THIS...I TRY MY VERY BEST TO ALWAYS BE FAIR AND FULFILL THEIR FANTASY....

[houndog]

Another con that is continuing to run is for a man to intercept the client on the way to the provider's room with a picture of the provider for ID (printed from ErosNY), and then telling the client that he is the provider's manager and to pay him for your upcoming visit. When it happened to me in a nice midtown hotel, I told him to come with me to have the provider tell us both that that is what she wanted.....and of course he took off, running down the exit stairs and out of the hotel.

[Vicki Richter]

Why don't you post his phone number. All escorts I know always have the guy's phone number before a date as a precaution.

[ian]

Woah

Sorry to here about that Yasmin.

The guy sounds like a slimy eel. These sorts of people have no pride. I sure his negative energy will amount up somewhere down the line.

That guy will never in his life time get the backing or moral support that people on HA will give you Yasmin.

That's something positive to think about. :)

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

sucks that that happened to you

[flabbybody]

Yasmin, post his phone. everyone on the board can give him jerk calls all day and night. I'll get up at 3AM and call him.

it won't return your money, but at least the prick will be hassled and have to change his phone #. that's never fun.

[scorpion]

God idee. I would like to see the guy after some days of phone calls. :lol:

[Perverted Monk]

PLEASE LET ALL THE GIRLS KNOW...THIS GUY IS ABOUT 5'10 185 LBS..HE'S CAUCASION/ITALIAN AND A DECENT GOOD LO0OKING GUYS...VERY SMART, CONVINCING, AND ARTICULATE...IN MY CASE..HE POST AS A BASEBALL PLAYER WITH THE YANKEES...HE DID THE WHOLE OFFER ME THE DAY RATE...WANNA SPEND A COUPLE HOUR..HE'S INTO TGIRLS CAUSE WE DID HAVE SEX...HIS ASSISTANT ON HIS WAY..(SHE'S EITHER DOMINICAN OR SOMETHING..ACCENT...) I WENT INTO THE SHOWER..AND HE TOOK OFF WITH MY MONEY...GIRLS...THIS GUY IS VERY CONVINCING, AND TAKE VERY CAREFUL STEPS...EVERYTHING THAT COMES OUT OF HIS MOUTH...LESSON OF THE DAY...IF IT'S TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE..IT JUST MIGHT...THANK GOD..I DEPOSIT MY MONEY EVERYDAY AND HE ONLY STOLE 2 CLIENTS WORTH...NYC


All the brothers let off a collective "Whew"


Sorry I went there Yasmin. Its unfortunate that this had to happen to you.

[Quinn]

HE'S CAUCASION/ITALIAN


All the brothers let off a collective "Whew"

LMAO...

-Quinn

[tsadmirerinnj]

sorry to hear anyone getting robbed or anything like that ,but after all look at your proffession?cmon what do you expect to happen,not everyone can be trusted and as good looking as you are yasmin ,what the hell are you escorting for?maybe you should change careers .think about it

[willib]

Jasmin, I don't know U personally (I just like to watch your videos), but U seem like a pretty cool person, and I am sorry this dirtbag ripped U off.

[tsluva]

Another con that is continuing to run is for a man to intercept the client on the way to the provider's room with a picture of the provider for ID (printed from ErosNY), and then telling the client that he is the provider's manager and to pay him for your upcoming visit. When it happened to me in a nice midtown hotel, I told him to come with me to have the provider tell us both that that is what she wanted.....and of course he took off, running down the exit stairs and out of the hotel.


that sounds like a common sense con
With me all sessions are an "A & B" situation.
Once C" comes out of nowhere to
insist on " holding" the cash for a provider, then
it's immediate time to call off the meeting and make a U-turn.
( and i'm not paying any cancellation fee.)
and i'd be willing to bet that escort was in on the
scam as well.

[tsluva]

'

Bless your sweet heart,Yasmin, i really hate
this happened to you and curse the scum that did that to you.

be more careful in the future. you have to look out
for donations immediately
Get your $$ before you start session,count it away
from his eyes and never let any guest see/ know where
you girls hide/store it .

whether provider or client, we have to try to think
safety and precaution first and at all times.
even when i see an escort, i actually hide my
important wallet in my trunk, etc.and take a cheap spare
wallet with only the agreed fee in it with me to her hotel room
or apartment.

some may disagree with this, but i think its not
a bad idea for a provider to have a protection element
to some kind of degree as well.
should that mean phone screening, security alert system
tg-roomate or unseen "protection guy" in the next room.
( i actually bump right into a "protection" guy after
a session on my way out. )
Mace, Stun -gun shouldn't be out of the question with
a girl's protection either.
But of course, never reveal locations of these items.
,

[SnowJ]

That is not cool. Unfortunately there are some messed up people in this world.

I noticed that vicki wanted her to post up his details and such, well, if that's the case, then why not post up the details of all the tgirl escorts still escorting knowing that they are HIV positive. Only fair, isn't it?

Someone once used the excuse that each client knows what he's doing, and should take the precautionary measures to take care of himself, whether with a escort or just someone they meet and have a relationship with.

Are there not precautionary measures all escorts should take when dealing with a client? So no, it's not fair for her to post up his details. If we can't know who the fucked up people are, then neither should any of the escorts. You take a risk, right?

Double standard like a motherfucker.

[Jasadin]

SnowJ, how can you agree with others being outed while you remain faceless?

[sjamaica]

u got robbed, straight robbed, not conned. conned is when you have to do some shady shit for a big payoff and it doesn't happen like you expected.
he just made you comfortable, and then robbed you.
my question is, i saw in a earlier post, a partial quote" there are some smooth talking WHITE guys ..."
does this mean that white guys get less scrutiny that others?
like at the airports? in the bank teller line? at the car rental counter?
supermarket checkout?
i don't know, i am just asking

[Jasadin]

:popcorn

[Vicki Richter]

if he is good enough to con Yasmin, I'm sure he wasn't stupid enough to use a real phone number...connect the dots...

Well... the girls I know don't accept calls from phone booths, the calls have to show up on caller ID, etc. I am just saying that there are ways that girls protect themselves. I'm not exactly sure how you use a fake phone number.

How would you go about using a false phone number... I could imagine, "excuse me, can I use your phone for a minute to call AAA"? I guess you could use one of those portable cell phones that you throw away when you run out of minutes.

If there are emails exchanged, you can easily trace an IP address. It's in the mail headers.

[wombat33]

"What goes around comes around"? and "Funny how things come full circle"? I know you gentlemen can not possibly mean to imply that any of these misdeeds by others is justification for what happened to Yasmin. That is, however, what it sounds like. Bad experiences with TG escorts do not justify robbery any more than Robbery justifies bad experiences. Be careful not to slip into a mentality that blames the victim.

YasminLee has been a welcome presence here on HA, she has done nothing to deserve these witticisms that in fact cast aspersions on her. Again I do not believe that was either of your intentions, but take care in what you write, it is out there for a very long time




I meant what goes around comes around as in the guy will get his one day for pulling that shit on Yasmine.

[blahblahblah]

if he is good enough to con Yasmin, I'm sure he wasn't stupid enough to use a real phone number...connect the dots...

Well... the girls I know don't accept calls from phone booths, the calls have to show up on caller ID, etc. I am just saying that there are ways that girls protect themselves. I'm not exactly sure how you use a fake phone number.

How would you go about using a false phone number... I could imagine, "excuse me, can I use your phone for a minute to call AAA"? I guess you could use one of those portable cell phones that you throw away when you run out of minutes.

If there are emails exchanged, you can easily trace an IP address. It's in the mail headers.

May I remind you that IP Addresses are almost meaningless on Yahoo and
Hotmail accounts and similar.... Reason being is because anyone with an IQ over 2 can go into www.anonymizer.com or similiar proxy server to view the web page for Yahoo (or hotmail), sign-on, and their IP address will not be their real IP address.... Its only 1 reason why many sites
refuse to use free e-mail addresses for verification purposes.....

[blahblahblah]

Why don't you post his phone number. All escorts I know always have the guy's phone number before a date as a precaution.

He he, this is even funnier.. You post his phone number or his mail on public services, and an army of your slaves starts threatening him. That part is ok, but how about the other part: An army of your stalkers and people that hate you also call him and mail him, but what they do is not threatening him but trying to find out your address and your real identity by asking him.. He is off course pissed off, and if he happens to live in your neighborhood and really KNOWS who you are and where you live. He will more than gladely reveal that for that stalker\hater army.

[greenkb]

Post his number, the fucker deserves to be hounded. :lol: Danielle Foxxx did the same thing on her myspace page recently. some bastard was buggin her and she posted his number, albeit she removed it after a couple of days, but I'm sure he got the point. The point being, you don't fuck about with someone who as a HUGE fan base. I bet he had to change his number :lol:

[blahblahblah]

You know, that idea is nice but if i were a celebrity i would really think twice before making these steps.. At least, in such cases, you should be prepared to change your address AND your identity very quickly, just in case.. That, off course, if you appreciate your own helth. Because those bastards won't strike back emidiately, but more likely after some time has passed, when everyone seem have forgotten the issue... That's life, se la vie. It depends very much on the level of the "damage" you did to them by exposing their identities on the www. Right?

[BeardedOne]

McManaman has a point. Warning the gurls is one thing (You can do that via PM and just spread the word), but beyond that it can get touchy.

Don't get me wrong, retribution is its own sort of fun (Ah, those meories of the smell of gasoline, burning rubber, amonium-iodide, styrofoam pellets and wired coils *Sigh* My misspent youth :? ), but sometimes there is a karma of sorts. True may it be that revenge is a dish best served cold, but how cold will it be when it comes back on you?

DO: Spread the word with the gurls so others can learn from your misfortune and so that this git doesn't grow balls from future successes.

DON'T: Get on the vigilante justice wagon and possibly make matters worse.

Heh. :) Green said "Comeuppance". :lol:

[greenkb]

hey, BeardedOne whats wrong with "comeuppance"??? :? I thought it was an appropriate word to us in this situation. We english use it all the time when Scoundrels and ruffians are naughty. :)

[BeardedOne]

hey, BeardedOne whats wrong with "comeuppance"??? :? I thought it was an appropriate word to us in this situation. We english use it all the time when Scoundrels and ruffians are naughty. :)

I am remembering the Orson Welles film, The Magnificent Ambersons and the oft-used phrase (Which no one seems to get).

"A series of disasters befall the Ambersons and George, and he gets his come-uppance in the end."

[Nowhereboy]

"What goes around comes around"? and "Funny how things come full circle"? I know you gentlemen can not possibly mean to imply that any of these misdeeds by others is justification for what happened to Yasmin. That is, however, what it sounds like. Bad experiences with TG escorts do not justify robbery any more than Robbery justifies bad experiences. Be careful not to slip into a mentality that blames the victim.

YasminLee has been a welcome presence here on HA, she has done nothing to deserve these witticisms that in fact cast aspersions on her. Again I do not believe that was either of your intentions, but take care in what you write, it is out there for a very long time




I meant what goes around comes around as in the guy will get his one day for pulling that shit on Yasmine.

Wombat33,

I am sorry, I should have been more precise with my post. The"what goes around comes around" was not from your post but from deadclan's post. I did not see that you had written the same phrase. I apologize for the misunderstanding

[GrimFusion]

It's nice to hear you're looking out for your friends by getting the word out, but I can't honestly say I'm empathetic for you. I mean, when you're in a business like escorting, you surround yourself with people that assume they're volunteering for illegal activities.

If you surround yourself with sex desperate people willing to break the law to get their jollies off, it should be downright expected that you're going to encounter other crimes from time to time. No more bathroom breaks for you, hmm?

[YasminLee]

GAYLESTPAU@AOL.COM JUST SEND ME THESE EMAILS....

IDIOT SAID:
I'm not trying to be mean but I guarantee you thought since he wasn't an African American that you could feel comfortable but he got your a-s. I tried to date you when you came to DC and I could tell you were prejudice towards blacks. So guess what you got robbed by someone who you thought would never do it. I don't feel sorry for you.You stereotype people so that's what you get. Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors.


ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U....

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IDIOT:
How is it a felony crime your are a prostitute. When was that legal. I tell you for somebody with a degree you sure are dumb. They need to put an asterisk next to your degree and put special on it.

[Shining Star]

Twas I who made the comment about "white" men and since we are speaking of providers, has no relation to airport security, etc.

In another thread many Black and or Latin men complained girls would not see them, and wanted to know the reason why. My reponse to the query included the fact many girls will see goodlooking/well built white men for free and that such men are not above working their mojo and or stealing from girls (or worse).

For whatever reason many girls are so happy to see an Antoino Sabato Jr. look alike they let their guard down.

Not picking on Yasmin, but not many old school pros, or smart pros in general would go off and take a shower leaving a date (a total stranger) alone in their apartment/house. Nor is it a good idea to allow a date to see where one's stash is located.

One girl told me I'd be surprised how many emails (with photo's attached), and phone calls she gets from guys asking if they can sleep over, crash at her house while they are in the city, have an long multiple hour date with showers and sleeping in between fun. She always says no, but there are plenty of girls out there that take these guys up on the offer. Many times it is young,goodlooking guys (they send pictures or say so over the telephone), and it just amazes me that anyone has the nerve to ask such a thing of a total stranger, or that any provider with a brain in her head would say yes. But then again many providers run their business like a personal dating service, and when they see a hot stud, all caution goes out the window.


One one invites total strangers into one's home, and make no mistake, "dates" are mostly total strangers, you keep your eyes on them at all times. Dates have been known to leave with any thing from a remote control to a girl's money/wallet.

The scam played on Yasmin is a variation of the oldest trick dates play on pros. Some guys feel they should not have to pay for it, and afterwards will either steal or take back their money by force. Others arrive with the A more dangerous variation is once inside, the "date" takes control and lets his "associates" (waiting outside) in and then things can get VERY ugly.

Providers working indoors alone are very vunerable to this sort of crime as the thugs know providers mostly will not call LE, how can they? The most a provider can hope for is to put the word out and if she sees the guy again, beat him down (which has happened).

Remember unless a provider has a decent security method/system no one knows who has been there besides the date and herself. Someone could do horrible things, including murder (it has happened), and no one would probably know until the stench of a rotting body prompts a call to the police.

On the other hand there is the true story of a NYC provider (long since dead), who killed a date and kept his body in her closet for years. His mummified body was found after she died and her apartment was being cleaned out.

Finally as for those in some way sticking up for the thug who robbed Yasmin, as a way of getting their own back for all the ill treatment they have suffered from other trannies; shame on you. If you have a beef with how a girl or girls treat you, take it up with them. Wishing harm or being some what happy at someone else's troubles just is not right.

SS

[YasminLee]

I'M STILL SHOCK THIS GUY EMAIL THIS TO ME...

[Legend]

GAYLESTPAU@AOL.COM JUST SEND ME THESE EMAILS....

IDIOT SAID:
I'm not trying to be mean but I guarantee you thought since he wasn't an African American that you could feel comfortable but he got your a-s. I tried to date you when you came to DC and I could tell you were prejudice towards blacks. So guess what you got robbed by someone who you thought would never do it. I don't feel sorry for you.You stereotype people so that's what you get. Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors.


ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U....

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IDIOT:
How is it a felony crime your are a prostitute. When was that legal. I tell you for somebody with a degree you sure are dumb. They need to put an asterisk next to your degree and put special on it.

No one should be hurt because of a personal preference NEVER but at the same time they just need to be educated that you can't base one race on a couple of people but from your line of work its better to be safe then sorry.From the look of his email looks like you made the right call.

[blahblahblah]

GAYLESTPAU@AOL.COM JUST SEND ME THESE EMAILS....

IDIOT SAID:
I'm not trying to be mean but I guarantee you thought since he wasn't an African American that you could feel comfortable but he got your a-s. I tried to date you when you came to DC and I could tell you were prejudice towards blacks. So guess what you got robbed by someone who you thought would never do it. I don't feel sorry for you.You stereotype people so that's what you get. Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors.


ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U....

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IDIOT:
How is it a felony crime your are a prostitute. When was that legal. I tell you for somebody with a degree you sure are dumb. They need to put an asterisk next to your degree and put special on it.

Just be careful with those maniacs. Escorting is among worst kind of businesses i can imagine, and i personally feel very sorry for you ladies being forced to do that. Vast amount of you do not deserve destiny like that.. But that's just me. Be careful.

[YasminLee]

SINCE MY POST...A FEW GIRLS HAD CALLED ME AND TOLD ME THEY BEEN CON BY THE SAME PERSON....HE DID NOT CAME OVER AS A CLIENT....AND YES I HAD MY GAURD DOWN..HE KNOCK ON MY DOOR..5STAR HOTEL...SAID HE'S 4 DOORS DOWN..THAT HE SAW ME A LITTLE WHILE AGO WHEN ON HIS WAY TO ELEVATOR..THINKS I'M BEAUTIFUL.."I PLAY FOR THE NY YANKEES, WONDER IF U WOULD LIKE TO COME SEE ME PLAY"
SHOW ME THE OFFICIAL SITE AND WHO HE CLAIM TO BE...HE LOOKS SIMILIAR TO THE GUY EVEN...GEORGE ANDY PHILLIPS...AT LEAST FROM THOSE PICS...THIS WASN'T AN IN AND OUT...IT WAS DURING THE COURSE OF 12 HRS...HE WAS ALSO WORKING WITH OTHER PEOPLE...A GIRL AND ANOTHER GUY...THE GUY SUPPOSE TO BE HIS AGENT/HOTEL MANAGER/ A FEW OTHER ROLE...GIRL HIS ASSISTANT...ETC....YES HE GAVE A #...IT GOES ST8 TO VOICEMAIL..SO I FIGURE...TYPICAL CELEB..CAUSE I BEEN WITH A FEW....THEY NEVER PICK UP PHONES...ONLY CALL BACK AAND WHEN THEY DO IT'S A PRIVATE #.....


TO THE COMMENT ABOUT PROSTITUTION...YES I BEEN THINKING ABOUT STOPPING...IT'S A VERY SOLITUDE LIFESTYLE...I'M TIRE OF GOING TO SLEEP ALONE EACH NIGHT...SO YES..I START SCHOOL THIS SEPT...AND GETTING A REGULAR JOB...I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS INDUSTRY AS WE SPEAK...NOT TO SAY I MIGHT NOT BE BACK IN IT...ALL OF THIS IS BASE ON HOW I FEEL NOW..HOWEVER DEEP DOWN..I KINDA HOPE I DON'T RETURN.....

[Legend]

Alot of you girls on here are smart enough that they could be successfull in other lines of work,dont you think if you kept doing what you are doing the same thing will happen again.

[Phat]

I bet you could probably track him down somehow, get some one to rob his shit blind

[greenkb]

TO THE COMMENT ABOUT PROSTITUTION...YES I BEEN THINKING ABOUT STOPPING...IT'S A VERY SOLITUDE LIFESTYLE...I'M TIRE OF GOING TO SLEEP ALONE EACH NIGHT...SO YES..I START SCHOOL THIS SEPT...AND GETTING A REGULAR JOB...I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS INDUSTRY AS WE SPEAK...NOT TO SAY I MIGHT NOT BE BACK IN IT...ALL OF THIS IS BASE ON HOW I FEEL NOW..HOWEVER DEEP DOWN..I KINDA HOPE I DON'T RETURN.....

I'm so glad that your undertaking a degree, may I ask what its in? if its anything to do with marine science I'll help with your homework. :)

yasmin, albeit stop the escorting, all it takes is one disgrunted bastard and you could get seriously hurt. However, surly you need money, more money than a regular job can give you, to help fund your unversity degree??!! You don't want to leave with huge debts, like I did. still haven't paid them off and I've been finished 7 yrs. All I can say is perhaps you should reduce your adult films/photo shots to the bare minmum in order to help fund your way through university....... or college as you americans say.

[YasminLee]

It's nice to hear you're looking out for your friends by getting the word out, but I can't honestly say I'm empathetic for you. I mean, when you're in a business like escorting, you surround yourself with people that assume they're volunteering for illegal activities.

If you surround yourself with sex desperate people willing to break the law to get their jollies off, it should be downright expected that you're going to encounter other crimes from time to time. No more bathroom breaks for you, hmm?

THOUGH I'M NOT ASKING FOR ANYONES SYMPATHY, IT'S SAD THAT SOME DON'T UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION..YES MY LINE OF WORK IS VERY RISKY AND WE CAN POTENTIALLY RUN INTO BAD PEOPLE, BUT IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE DESERED IT..I WOULDN'T FOR A MILLION YEAR WISH A MINOR TO BE KILLED DURING HIS WORK.....A CRIME WAS COMMITTED ON ME..WHAT THAT PERSON DID IS WRONG..WHETHER TO ME, U, YOUR FRIEND? MOM? ANYONE...IT WAS ROBBERY......

IN RESPONDS TO US GIRLS WORKING....THIS IS SAD, BUT DO U GUYS WONDER WHY SO MANY OF THE GIRLS ARE WORKING? I'M HOPING U DON'T COMPARE US TO G GIRLS....THINK ABOUT IT..I'LL GIVE ME MY SIDE OF THE STORY...

[tsluva]

Shining Star wrote:

The scam played on Yasmin is a variation of the oldest trick dates play on pros. Some guys feel they should not have to pay for it, and afterwards will either steal or take back their money by force. Others arrive with the A more dangerous variation is once inside, the "date" takes control and lets his "associates" (waiting outside) in and then things can get VERY ugly.

there's nothing old trick" about taking a careless person's
leaving money behind in different room when she is
not looking...

it's not the oldest or masterful about it.
it's just the easiest task to accomplish when someone not only turns their back for a moment but goes into another room and takes a shower.
that's just a very careless moment you just dont take
with total strangers. it's a common sense issue.

and the some of the oldest tricks is straight out
" counterfeit money" , ... or a stack of cash
with 20's on top and bottom
with single one dollar bills in the middle assuming an
escort won't count. as well as
a intended shortage of agreed cash after the session.
( thats one reason why you count it before session starts )

and how many girls are going to carry a counterfeit marker
with them to verifiy good bills ?
( it goes on in strip clubs more than people know.)

[Ponyboy]

Yasmin - dont be too worried by that guys email. I think your job can be very hard that you must spend a very intimate and physical time with someone you dont neccesary like. It's only natural that sometimes you cant do it. On the other hand, its only natural that if you do reject a guy, he's going to be hurt. - It a natural hazard of the job.

So, you cant blame yourself and you cant blame him. It's better that you reject him and dont take his money than take his money and give him a shit job.

Having said that, if you rejected me Yasmin, I'd be devastated. You are my fantasy and my dream.

[arc angel]

someone must find these people and put a stop to this!! ... think its time for a trip to the city anyway.. grrr . I come as a lamb and shall be the lion!!!! ARC Angel.

[BeardedOne]

and how many girls are going to carry a counterfeit marker
with them to verifiy good bills ?

Hopefully none. That marker is the most useless piece of shit ever invented, and the manufacturer is making millions off of the public's ignorance of their money.

The ink in the marker has a chemical reaction to the phosphor content of the rag in the paper. The BEP uses a special cotton rag content paper that was formulated by and for the BEP and is not available anywhere else. The concept of the pen is sound, but the practice lacks forethought into the mind of the average counterfeiter.

A common practice in counterfeiting is to bleach a lower denomination bill (It used to be ones, but it is now fives in order to get the watermark and security strip) and print the higher denomination on the genuine BEP paper.

The Secret Service recently (About two years ago) busted some local high school kids that were using this method to print twenties on a home computer and color printer. Since the phonies were printed on genuine BEP paper, the chemical pens were fooled into believing the cash was genuine, as they reacted correctly to the phosphor in the genuine rag paper.

Throw those damned pens away and learn your money. The naked eye and sensitive fingertip are the best detectors known and the most reliable. Find the owl on the one dollar bill and rule the world.

Now, back to our regularly scheduled topic.

[beatmaker]

Yasmin, I was wondering if you could elaborate on the following comment.

"ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U.... "

I have two problems with your response.

1) How did you know you weren't attracted to him, if you only spoke to him by telephone? Obviously, you can't see how someone looks over the phone, but you could probably tell he was black. Hmmmm.

2)You seem to use the same B.S "past experience" justification, that's getting as old as Methusala. However, you will never allow this experience to sour you and your opinion of good looking white men.

I recall you stating on one of your earlier videos (the Neheolani era), that you are half black, half asian. Personally, I am tired of seeing biracial girls and latinas hanging all over white men, like they are the alpha and omega. My opinion, which I like to call the "Tiger Woods Theory" rests in the fact the black parent is usually self-hating and prefers to date out of their race. The children of these unions sense this and coupled with larger society's antagonistic views of blackness, they seek to distance themselves from that part of themselves, which they loathe.

Karma is funny. It isn't always tit for tat. Maybe some of you black or biracial chicks, that run around profiling black men and kissing the ass of any attractive white man with a little bit of game, get stung by your ignorance, self-loathing and hypocrisy. I live in NYC and any black man in NYC can tell you how hard it is to catch a taxicab. So when I hear about one getting robbed by a white guy or not being able to make end's meet because of gas prices. I think about all the cabs that passed me, even though I'm well dressed, college educated and gainfully employed.

You can tell alot about the girls, by the guys you she them with in party photos. Every picture I see with Yasmin, it's her hugged up with a white guy. So, while I don't feel what happened to you is right; if you feel that you only needed to be "cautious" based on "past experiences" with brothas, then oh well!

It's funny, while typing this I'm watching "Flava of Love. There is this biracial (black/asian) chick named Patiencz. She is clearly confused and self-loathing. She is constantly talking about hooking up with an Asian man, because she probably always got the 2nd class citizen treatment in her community due to her partial black heritage. It's Psychology 101, you seek out the opposite of what you loathe in yourself! There was an excellent episode of Law and Order SVU, that dealt with this topic.

[truplaya4real]

The past experience excuse is a cop out. And besides, she's contradicting herself because she just admitted she had a bad experience with a white guy! So will she hold this bad experience over every white guy from now on? I doubt it. Who cares anyway. If she and/or any other TS are rejecting black men because of past experiences, that's less money in their banks.

[Ponyboy]

Everybody has preferences - you can't blame Yasmin for that. She's normal for having preferences.

[BeardedOne]

Oy.

Been reading and re-reading this one for days and the only thing I dared post so far was 'Counterfeiting 101'. :roll:

First off, sorry you got scammed/robbed, Yasmin. We all do at times, some more often than others and in so many different ways. It hardens us, makes us distrustful, teaches us. Shit happens, better you lost your money and your dignity than your life.

Yet the subject has turned to race and racial profiling.

Would that we could enjoy Ursula K. Leguin's (Sp?) simple solution from her tale "Lathe of Heaven". Let's all be grey. All the same, a neutral color (If you consider white/black/grey tones 'color'), never a worry about color barriers or stereotypes or profiling.

Unfortunately, this is the real world, and the real world sucks and has race issues all the time. Racial profiling sucks, but it happens. Some, like myself, make an effort not to do it (In calls I've made to the turret I am typically asked if I could tell the race of the persons/suspects and, if I can say without a doubt, I will tell them. I will not, however, just hazard a guess based on situation and was rather put off when one cop asked me directly "Were they black?" because such a question drives the interview and often gets a witness to say "Yes" when they really don't know), others make no effort at all (Which tends to be surprisingly regional...Or not so surprisingly), while some tend to do it subconsciously based on past experience or anecdotal evidence (Which is where I believe Yasmin and some of the other gurls fall).

When I drove a cab, I was robbed three times and had four fares skip on me. In all cases, the people were black. Yet I continued to pick up black people and, in my post-hack days, have had black clients, waited on black customers without reservation or disrespect, and (Here comes the cliche-du-jour) some of my best friends are black. Or do you want me to cowtow to political correctness and say 'people of colour'? :roll:

I'm not a total saint (So stop washing my feet, eh) and confess to having some discomfort around POCs at times, due to the aforementioned past history issues. When I was driving a limo I took a family to Atlantic City for New Year's and they asked me to spin by the neighborhood corner store before we hit the road. Limousines, in any setting, attract attention and a number of large, dark men in cammies and headbands approached the car while we were parked in front of the store. I swear, my muscles turned to stone and I was sure that I was going to die that night. When they reached the side of the limo, the largest, most menacing of the bunch, greeted the family in the back of the car and threw his arms out and gave me a huge bear hug while growling "Happy New Year, m'man!".

Thus was my first experience with a black street gang.

So, profiling, bad. Is there a cure for it? Doubtful. Should we beat the gurls up over it? I vote nay. People operate the way they do from the ongoing nature/nurture crapola that begins at birth and haunts us until we're taking our dirt nap. Sure, teach, train, discuss, debate, all you want, in an attempt to make the world a better place for all. But you can't eradicate a fear or distrust from someone by spanking them or poking them in the eye.

Oh, and to make this post complete: Gosh, Yasmin, what a sweet ass you have and oh, that cock! :wink:

[truplaya4real]

Everybody has preferences - you can't blame Yasmin for that. She's normal for having preferences.

How can you have a preference when you're an escort? You're trying to tell me people who escort expect to be attracted to their clients? So how do those nasty old gargamel out of shape men get away with seeing escorts all the time? The point is she's rejecting black men because of the ones who are 'thugged-out' or project themselves that way. You can't reject all black men because of that stereotype. And there are some white boys(a lot in fact) who talk like, "Whatchu doin, ma?" too yet she'd jump to be with them. She contradicted herself by saying she refuses to see black men because of a past experiences. But now she just had a bad experience with a white man who robbed her. So I just want to know, is she gonna hold this bad experience against every white man now too?!

[Legend]

How did this become a racial issue she never stated that the guy sounded black on the phone maybe he just sounded crazy or something i don't know but i have read this entire thread and haven't seen anything saying she refuses to see black guys i wouldn't call her prejudice because she rejected someone on the phone because she was scared, Thats just looking out for your own safety.

[BeardedOne]

So I just want to know, is she gonna hold this bad experience against every white man now?!

In a perfect life, she should. Whites are going to scam you as much as, or moreso, than blacks/latinas/asians. People are scum, it's universal. It's how Walmart got where it is: Cheap people seeking cheap products to lead a cheap lifestyle. Can I get it for free? I'll take two! :roll:


The point is she's rejecting black men because of the ones who are 'thugged-out' or project themselves that way.

And so she should. It's a 'date' ferchrissake! Jeezus! "Whore" or not, if you're getting up with a woman, show her some modicum of respect.

Yasmin, please note that I use the "W" reference generically and in no way towards or in reference to you (Hey, lawyerguys, did I cover my ass OK here?). Hell, Paris Hilton is more of a whore than any of the gurls here and I wouldn't stick my dick in that if =you= paid =me=. :P


So how do those nasty old gargamel out of shape men get away with seeing escorts all the time?

Heh @ Gargamel. :lol:

Well, this fat, old, broken-down piece of shit showers down and brushes his teeth and powders and deodorizes and wears a three-piece suit when I go a'courtin'. I also use whole sentences in English when I speak to her. No Ebonics, no Bostonian (Jeetchet? Nojew? Whejapahkdacah?), no "Yo, beyatch!". Whether you're paying for their time or not (And most all times you are anyway), you treat a lady like a lady. It's basic, common sense. Though 'common' is relative these days.


And there are some white boys(a lot in fact) who talk like, "Whatchu doin, ma?" too yet she'd jump to be with them.

White, black or plaid, if that type isn't wielding a wad of bills worthy of the Gates Foundation and/or hung like Johnny Holmes (Or, in this case, Joanna), any girl with sense should pass on him. If she doesn't, her bad.


But now she just had a bad experience with a white man who robbed her. So I just want to know, is she gonna hold this bad experience against every white man now too?!

Whether she does or not is up to her, but she should (And I'm one of those lily-white men she should watch out for).

Yasmin, you say this fellow showed up at your door? First warning sign! Yah, fans can drop from the sky (You're not unknown), but showing up at the door is a bad vibe right from the start. A gentleman/good client, if he knew the room #, would call on the phone first and give you an option of accepting/declining. If he touts himslef as someone 'important', you have some time to research/screen the individual as well as a few monets to ditch your valuables (That aren't attached :wink: ) in advance of the appointment.

Some other suggestions: Bathroom breaks are often biological. If he has to go, he has to go (BTDT). Listen at the door if you think he might be making a cell call. If you want to shower, invite him to watch or join you. I'd accept that sort of invitation, but a thief would not. Ferry your cash to the lobby vault (Some upscale hotels have an in-room safe with a key that you can carry with you).

Broken down: People suck. Everyone wants something from you. Let them have only what you =want= them to have.

[BeardedOne]

How did this become a racial issue she never stated that the guy sounded black on the phone maybe he just sounded crazy or something i don't know but i have read this entire thread and haven't seen anything saying she refuses to see black guys i wouldn't call her prejudice because she rejected someone on the phone because she was scared, Thats just looking out for your own safety.

It became racial when she said that it was a good-looking =white= (Caucasian/Italian) guy that scammed her. Then folx started saying how she seemed surprised that this could happen, yada, yada, yada.

Personally, I think it has less to do with race and more to do with the fact that people suck.

[truplaya4real]

I was refering to this post.


GAYLESTPAU@AOL.COM JUST SEND ME THESE EMAILS....

IDIOT SAID:
I'm not trying to be mean but I guarantee you thought since he wasn't an African American that you could feel comfortable but he got your a-s. I tried to date you when you came to DC and I could tell you were prejudice towards blacks. So guess what you got robbed by someone who you thought would never do it. I don't feel sorry for you.You stereotype people so that's what you get. Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors.


ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U....

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IDIOT:
How is it a felony crime your are a prostitute. When was that legal. I tell you for somebody with a degree you sure are dumb. They need to put an asterisk next to your degree and put special on it.

[BeardedOne]

I was refering to this post.

I have mixed thougths on that. Since we don't have an insight into the original exchange/meeting, it's hard to tell what goes on.

Granted, his grasp of the word is top notch (Relative to internet posting), so how did she suss race from this? If, indeed, she did at all? Methinks there was a photo exchanged along the way, yes?

Can't fault his logic, though: "Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors."

[YasminLee]

i chose not to see him base on our conversation on the phone...i'm not into the whole hip hop culture thing...if u're speaking english to me and half of what u said are slang and i don't understand u. I like guys that are educated. well dress, treats me like a lady when seeing me...client or not.... Also i normaly don't like to see young guys...little hot 18yrs boy...base on the fact that most tend to come over and not wanna pay the full.....guess i'm discrimative to guys 23 and under now...
i'm part black..a lot of my friends are...including my ex best friend of eight years...also in the regards to we're escorts SO WE why are we picky? That's just a very dumb statement...
WHAT WE DO ARE VERY RISKY AND DANGEROUS MEETING STRANGERS...I HAD MY SHARE OF BAD EXPERIENCES IN THE PAST..BASE ON THAT...I DO PICK AND CHOSE (PROFILE, IF THAT'S WHAT U WANNA CALL IT) WHO I SHOULD SEE....THAT'S MY RIGHT...I CAN'T BELEIVE THIS POST TURN INTO A RACIAL THING...MY INTENTION IS TO LET THE GIRLS KNOW OF THIS CON AND WATCH OUR FOR THEMSELF...SOME OF U GUYS REALLY NEED TO GET OVER YOURSELF AND YOUR COLOR...SINCERELY MISS YELLOW/BLK AND BROWN...

[beatmaker]

Well Yasmin,

No disrespect to you, but your grammar and spelling in this thread is atrocious and I had a hard time understanding many of your posts. I'm someone who does listen to hip-hop, as I'm an upcoming hip-hop/R&B producer. I definitely consider myself part of the culture. However, I do have sincere reservations about current day rap music and the image it portrays to young, impressionable black children and to non-blacks who have limited real life interaction with positive, hard working black folks. Many black men, including me and my circle of friends have corporate jobs, speak grammatically proper English when appropiate and know how to approach a real lady without the thug nonsense, yet we are still part of hip-hop culture. You see guys like Puffy and Jay-Z, while obnoxious and self-aggrandizing, still dress nice, are well groomed and speak proper English in the appropriate settings. Many people hang with blacks, who have white sensibilities as I call them. They use white slang (i.e dude, rad or awesome). The guys wear tight, worn jeans, form fitting T-Shirts, beat up sneakers or boots and listen to rock or techno music and such. My stepsister is the same way. She went to all-white schools her whole life, so the blacks she befriends are white in a cultural sense. I guess a popular word in the black community for them are "oreos".


CAN'T BELEIVE THIS POST TURN INTO A RACIAL THING...MY INTENTION IS TO LET THE GIRLS KNOW OF THIS CON AND WATCH OUR FOR THEMSELF...SOME OF U GUYS REALLY NEED TO GET OVER YOURSELF AND YOUR COLOR...SINCERELY MISS YELLOW/BLK AND
BROWN...

What were we supposed to think, based on your prior post. You actually say "I Could Have Prejudiced You" in your reply email to the fellow from D.C.


Yasmin, you live your life as a woman and are looked at as such. Furthermore, you look Asian for the most part, aside from your height, tanned skin and larger penis (which the outer world never sees). Well you could be pure Thai, based on some of the videos I've seen lately, as they have much more disparity in terms of height, skin color and penis size. In any event, you don't know what it is like to live your life in the shoes of a black man, especially in certain areas. Los Angeles seems to be very laid back and the racial attitudes seem to be less overt. It's actually known as the interracial dating capital of the United States. However, places like Chicago, Boston, New York City (trust me) and the South are real bastions of racial hostility. Just yesterday, I got on a crowded train and I stood next to a white woman and she sighed and gave me nasty look. I wasn't thinking about this broad, I was just occupying an empty space, yet my mere presence next to her caused her great discomfort. People call New York City the world's greatest melting pot, when it's more like crabs in a humongous barrel.

Yasmin, Armanixxx just started a thread about an escort on Eros named Alyssa, who flat out told him she doesn't do black clients. This brother, much like myself is clearly educated, well groomed and makes a good living. He was actually in town on a business trip. He even tried to quell any fears about safety or money, yet she still shot him down. So, before you downplay people's reality, try looking at the world thru their eyes first.

Dave Chappelle was on Oprah just now and was asked by Oprah "Is he too paranoid" and he said "What black man with any sense isn't".

[Legend]

You guys are making this into something its really not if the girls doesnt want to she a certain person thats her but she never said she doesnt see black people. If i person didnt want to see me i would be like ok fine i will find someone who will instead of complaining and making i big deal about it, after all this is escorting we arent talking about trying to find a job or anything.

[Ponyboy]

I think its time to change the subject - this one's done.

So Yasmin, would you consider taking me as your sex slave? I promise to worship you forever?

[blackrob]

[quote="YasminLee"]GAYLESTPAU@AOL.COM JUST SEND ME THESE EMAILS....

IDIOT SAID:
I'm not trying to be mean but I guarantee you thought since he wasn't an African American that you could feel comfortable but he got your a-s. I tried to date you when you came to DC and I could tell you were prejudice towards blacks. So guess what you got robbed by someone who you thought would never do it. I don't feel sorry for you.You stereotype people so that's what you get. Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors.


ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U....

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IDIOT:
How is it a felony crime your are a prostitute. When was that legal. I tell you for somebody with a degree you sure are dumb. They need to put an asterisk next to your degree and put special on it.[/quote

So you are another one of them dumb ass broads who pretends to be afraid of Black Men? I wonder if you were afraid of your dad as well since he was part Black? You deserved to be jacked.

[Legend]

blackrob after your "you deserve to be jacked" comment and the personal insults toward her you are proving why some escorts are afraid of black males if she didn't want to see you move on,there is no need to insult her it only shows your anger.She has never said in this or any of her post that she is afraid or refuses to see a black person you are just making something into nothing. Police brutality towards african american males is something to argue but a escort not wanting to see you isn't that big of a deal.Just move on to a girl who will see you, because the only color that matters in the escorting service is green anyway.

[intensity]

This whole post should serve as a strong reminder why escorting, and patronizing escorts is an activity you would be best advised to avoid. Its like russian roulette, and eventually you can really get hurt. Quit while you are ahead.

[BlackAdder]

Damn lol.....Legends come a long way if im starting to agree with his posts....

Yasmin, you still havent answered my question.....

Beatmaker, that was a great post...and I agree with Chapelle. Oreos and uncle toms...just more black on black discimination....My ex-girlfriend who is still my friend and is very dark skinned, always used to say she was torn down more often by other blacks then whites because she was percieved to lead a "White" lifestyle....yeesh.....and its 2006:(>

[willib]

u got robbed, straight robbed, not conned. conned is when you have to do some shady shit for a big payoff and it doesn't happen like you expected.
he just made you comfortable, and then robbed you.
my question is, i saw in a earlier post, a partial quote" there are some smooth talking WHITE guys ..."
does this mean that white guys get less scrutiny that others?
like at the airports? in the bank teller line? at the car rental counter?
supermarket checkout?
i don't know, i am just asking

[willib]

yes Whites are less scrutinized when it comes to criminal activity. After all this is the USA.

[BeardedOne]

yes Whites are less scrutinized when it comes to criminal activity. After all this is the USA.

No lie, that's how it works. That's how Frank J. Abagnale, Jr. was able, between the age of sixteen and nineteen to scam over two million dollars out of Pan American/World Airways, head a medical team at a midwest hospital, and serve as the assistant Ditrict Attorney for the city of Atlanta (Though he never graduated high school, let alone law school).

See the movie Catch Me if You Can, based on his life. Abagnale does a walk-on as a French cop at the end. He also makes six figures a year advising on security and fraud.

Is this wrong? Yes. Will it change? No. Because people suck.

Speaking of sucking, bring on some T-gurl clitty. This subject has long ago worn out its welcome.

[willib]

Thanks for your insight "BeardedOne"

[BeardedOne]

Thanks for your insight "BeardedOne"

Hey, I try. :D

[BeardedOne]

Children! Please!

Aw, fuck it. Is the beer cold?

[YasminLee]

FOR THE RECORD...I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE..MY FIRST KISS WAS ONE, MY BEST FRIEND, AND THE PERSON I LOOK UP TO...OPRAH...THIS IS EVERY UPSETING CAUSE THE GUY THAT EMAIL ME...SAID I DESERVE TO BE CON....BECAUSE AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER I DIDN'T WANNA SEE HIM...I RECALL THAT DAY IN DC....I DIDN'T WANNA SEE U NOT BECAUSE U'RE BLACK BUT RATHER YOUR DEMEANOR. I SEEN BLACK MEN IN THE PASS AND AND WILL IN THE FUTURE. ONE OF MY BEST EXPERIENCE EVER WAS A BLK GORGEOUS FIRE FIGHTER IN NYC.....THOUGH THIS IS A JOB AND A SERVICE...WE DO HAVE OUR PREFERENCE FOR WHAT WILL TURN ME ON....SORRY...MAYBE IT'S JUST ME....MY HARD COCK IS NOT A SWITCH BOARD...
P.S. ON A PERSONAL NOTE..I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS WORK...NO MORE PORN FOR SURE...ESCORTING..WELL I DON'T KNOW EITHER...NOT TO COMPLETELY SAY NO...JUST CONFUSING RIGHT NOW...I'M WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM THIS MAN I LOVE....IF HE WANTS TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT I DO HURTS HIM..IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO QUIT...WHO WOULD WANNA HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE....

[Realgirls4me]

Good luck in all of your future decisions and endeavors, whatever they may be, Yasmin. You sound like a very nice, down-to-earth girl, so I wish you the best.



Don't leave the business until I see you. ;)

[beatmaker]

FOR THE RECORD...I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE..MY FIRST KISS WAS ONE, MY BEST FRIEND, AND THE PERSON I LOOK UP TO...OPRAH...THIS IS EVERY UPSETING CAUSE THE GUY THAT EMAIL ME...SAID I DESERVE TO BE CON....BECAUSE AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER I DIDN'T WANNA SEE HIM...I RECALL THAT DAY IN DC....I DIDN'T WANNA SEE U NOT BECAUSE U'RE BLACK BUT RATHER YOUR DEMEANOR. I SEEN BLACK MEN IN THE PASS AND AND WILL IN THE FUTURE. ONE OF MY BEST EXPERIENCE EVER WAS A BLK GORGEOUS FIRE FIGHTER IN NYC.....THOUGH THIS IS A JOB AND A SERVICE...WE DO HAVE OUR PREFERENCE FOR WHAT WILL TURN ME ON....SORRY...MAYBE IT'S JUST ME....MY HARD COCK IS NOT A SWITCH BOARD...
P.S. ON A PERSONAL NOTE..I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS WORK...NO MORE PORN FOR SURE...ESCORTING..WELL I DON'T KNOW EITHER...NOT TO COMPLETELY SAY NO...JUST CONFUSING RIGHT NOW...I'M WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM THIS MAN I LOVE....IF HE WANTS TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT I DO HURTS HIM..IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO QUIT...WHO WOULD WANNA HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE....


Yasmin, O.K I can agree with that. Thanks for clearing the air.

As far as your P.S, that's tricky if the gentleman knew what you did prior to getting involved with you. That is the beginning signs of a control freak. While, I own some TS/GG DVD's and have been with GG escorts in my college days (never went all the way with a TS), I too wouldn't want to take it to the next level with a woman, that shares her body with so many other men. Knowing that, I would never put myself in a position with a woman who works in the sex trade, where I can see a real relationship building. It's not my place to change or convert anyone, after the fact. That's like these corporate woman who date blue collar men, then when they catch feelings for the guy, they start giving him the "Is this all you want out of life" speech.

In closing, good luck with everything and please save your money. The money comes so fast and easy in the escorting business, that it's hard to put the future into proper perspective. I suggest reading "Rich Dad, Poor Dad", as it gives a novice a good understanding of how money and wealth works, as it relates to passive income/assets (i.e real estate, stocks, debt instruments etc.).

[beatmaker]

yes Whites are less scrutinized when it comes to criminal activity. After all this is the USA.

you seem to harbor intense negative feelings toward white people...I believe this is due to an internal desire to be white yourself, so you misdirect your hostility in an unproductive way, as a method to boost your own self esteem...

Dark Thanos,

As far as your prior post directed at me, I will address that B.S tommorrow, as my prior post got deleted by mistake before I could submit it (Boy was it a beaut!).

However, your constant tirades about people "wanting to be white" and "being on the white man's dick" are really unsettling, since you are helping to raise a half-black daughter. I'm sure you have no intention of teaching that young girl about about her history, outside of yours. It seems like you are unnerved by black men with strong points of view, who don't accept the status quo where whites sit at the top of the totem pole just because. Your statements are ironic, considering that you probably only get along with and have black friends who want to white. I couldn't see any really conscious black person being able to stomach your viewpoints on race. You clearly are under the misguided notion that pervades the psyche of too many caucasians, that racism is a figment of black people's imagination, completely blown out of proportion to give white folks a guilty conscience. I'm sure many black people notice how some whites like to digress to slavery and how it was 400 years ago (actually slavery ended on January 1, 1863/143 years ago). They also like to evoke how they or their family didn't own slaves and claim you are seeking to blame your failures in life on white people. Dark Thanos is regurgitating the same drivel, that I read and hear constantly from whites and minorities locked in denial, on and offline. This jackass claimed I probably wanted reperations. Well, I personally don't want a dime, because I do well financially. Yet, I think this country's current position as the preeminent world superpower had to do with the 400 years of free black slave labor and trillions of dollars in natural resources and land stolen from Native Americans and Mexico. Therefore, I think blacks and Native Americans should get true compensation versus the lip service and definitely not a individual check, as Dave Chappelle spoofed on his show. I actually heard one white man say "welfare" was reperatons for slavery and what's sad is he was as serious as cancer. Anyway, this is the same character assasination technique, that Republicans currently use to keep Democrats neutralized (if your not for the Iraq war, you support terrorism). This is a smoke screen used to deflect valid critique and dialogue. I have black people in my family, who buy into this silly line of thinking. They think any critique of white supremacy/skin privilege, is just complaining from negroes blaming white folks for their problems or lack of station in life. This is ridiculous, considering how many rich and successful blacks make the same criticisms. I have an income rapidly approaching six figures based on my corporate job, the music and two side businesses. If things stay at their current pace, I'll be at 500K yearly within 3 years. I don't say this to gloat, only to debunk any notion by Dark Thanos and his fellow idiots, that I'm just some disgruntled, unsuccessful black man blaming whites for his misery. Furthermore, as someone who is aware of past and present history, the last thing I aspire to be is white. Sure, blacks are made into the face of everything bad in society and many blacks have been brainwashed to actual believe this. Since, black men are viewed as criminalistic, materialistic, uneducated, big dicked sex fiends, that's what too many identify with. Current day rap music is a manifestation of this, as blacks rap about it and whites buy it. Basically, I think I'm a thug and I think your one too, so here's my 15 dollars for your lifestory. The great Carter G. Woodson, author of "Miseducation of the Negro" writes "If you tell a man to go thru the backdoor enough times, eventually he will go to the backdoor without being told. If he can't find a backdoor, he will seek to create one" This is sums up the current mindstate of many black youth, who have drunk the Kool-Aid America is serving up.

If more white people were like "Bearded One", this society would be a lot better off. Unfortunately, too many think that listening to rap/R&B music, eating Soul Food and having sexual relationships with blacks makes them unbiased. However, that is just surface level bullshit. Unfortunately, blacks feed into this nonsense too. Bill Clinton was a master at manipulating black sentiment, by showing up "in the hood" and playing the sax on Arsenio. Until, whites stop allowing ego, guilt and denial to pervade the racial dialogue, we are theoretically living in a house together where all the dirt is being swept under the rug, which invariably will cause everyone to get sick.

[Legend]

FOR THE RECORD...I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE..MY FIRST KISS WAS ONE, MY BEST FRIEND, AND THE PERSON I LOOK UP TO...OPRAH...THIS IS EVERY UPSETING CAUSE THE GUY THAT EMAIL ME...SAID I DESERVE TO BE CON....BECAUSE AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER I DIDN'T WANNA SEE HIM...I RECALL THAT DAY IN DC....I DIDN'T WANNA SEE U NOT BECAUSE U'RE BLACK BUT RATHER YOUR DEMEANOR. I SEEN BLACK MEN IN THE PASS AND AND WILL IN THE FUTURE. ONE OF MY BEST EXPERIENCE EVER WAS A BLK GORGEOUS FIRE FIGHTER IN NYC.....THOUGH THIS IS A JOB AND A SERVICE...WE DO HAVE OUR PREFERENCE FOR WHAT WILL TURN ME ON....SORRY...MAYBE IT'S JUST ME....MY HARD COCK IS NOT A SWITCH BOARD...
P.S. ON A PERSONAL NOTE..I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS WORK...NO MORE PORN FOR SURE...ESCORTING..WELL I DON'T KNOW EITHER...NOT TO COMPLETELY SAY NO...JUST CONFUSING RIGHT NOW...I'M WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM THIS MAN I LOVE....IF HE WANTS TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT I DO HURTS HIM..IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO QUIT...WHO WOULD WANNA HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE....



I really don't think you had to explain any of your personal info to prove your not racist, none of your comments has even given the slightest suggestion that you are.Because you didn't want to see someone because of the way that person talked you are considered racist, you never stated that the guy was black anyway does talking thuggish or ghetto mean you are a black person. You have a right to protect yourself even in the escorting business after all you are a human being just like everyone else.

[patsy1969]

ON A PERSONAL NOTE..I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS WORK...NO MORE PORN FOR SURE...ESCORTING..WELL I DON'T KNOW EITHER...NOT TO COMPLETELY SAY NO...JUST CONFUSING RIGHT NOW...I'M WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM THIS MAN I LOVE....IF HE WANTS TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT I DO HURTS HIM..IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO QUIT...WHO WOULD WANNA HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE....

Although I would love to see you, I hope you find your happiness with that (very lucky) guy. Good luck.

[beatmaker]

FOR THE RECORD...I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE..MY FIRST KISS WAS ONE, MY BEST FRIEND, AND THE PERSON I LOOK UP TO...OPRAH...THIS IS EVERY UPSETING CAUSE THE GUY THAT EMAIL ME...SAID I DESERVE TO BE CON....BECAUSE AT ONE POINT OR ANOTHER I DIDN'T WANNA SEE HIM...I RECALL THAT DAY IN DC....I DIDN'T WANNA SEE U NOT BECAUSE U'RE BLACK BUT RATHER YOUR DEMEANOR. I SEEN BLACK MEN IN THE PASS AND AND WILL IN THE FUTURE. ONE OF MY BEST EXPERIENCE EVER WAS A BLK GORGEOUS FIRE FIGHTER IN NYC.....THOUGH THIS IS A JOB AND A SERVICE...WE DO HAVE OUR PREFERENCE FOR WHAT WILL TURN ME ON....SORRY...MAYBE IT'S JUST ME....MY HARD COCK IS NOT A SWITCH BOARD...
P.S. ON A PERSONAL NOTE..I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS WORK...NO MORE PORN FOR SURE...ESCORTING..WELL I DON'T KNOW EITHER...NOT TO COMPLETELY SAY NO...JUST CONFUSING RIGHT NOW...I'M WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM THIS MAN I LOVE....IF HE WANTS TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT I DO HURTS HIM..IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO QUIT...WHO WOULD WANNA HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE....



I really don't think you had to explain any of your personal info to prove your not racist, none of your comments has even given the slightest suggestion that you are.Because you didn't want to see someone because of the way that person talked you are considered racist, you never stated that the guy was black anyway does talking thuggish or ghetto mean you are a black person. You have a right to protect yourself even in the escorting business after all you are a human being just like everyone else.


Legend, I think it is the epitome of arrogance for someone who isn't black, to tell someone who is biracial not to clear the air with blacks who may have been offended by her comments. Since, you aren't black, then who gives a fuck what you think she should have did. That's like me as an African-American male, going into an internet forum dealing with the tensions between Jews and Muslims in the Middle East, telling people "how they should feel" and "who has the right be offended" at certain statements. It's just sheer arrogance to mettle in such a sensitive issue, whereas I have no life experience to make me understand the position of an Israeli or Palestian person. However, you and Dark Thanos think you can tell black people why and when they should be offended, when neither one of you has walked one day in a black man's shoes. Maybe, that is why some white men (like George W. Bush and his neo-con cronies) are arrogant enough to think they can change people's belief systems, that are centuries old. The whole "When we get rid of Saddam, Iraqis will kiss the United States feet" crap. I remember the brothers in the barbershop, discussing how arrogant and foolish this thinking was. Seems like we were 100% right too! Nobody with any dignity or self-respect wants to be ruled and lorded over, by some outsider. I think blacks have the historically reference to understand these feelings of powerlessness, whereas most white men just don't get it. If you tune into Fox News, you have white men on there 24/7, telling people from other nations what they should think and what types of military and weapons they can have. How can this country have more nukes than every nation put together, yet have the audacity to tell other countries of color they can't possess one. This is the pathological arrogance that I speak of.

In terms of what Yasmin said, she posted an email from a guy who said he was black in the email and claimed she deserved what happened to her, since she discriminated against him. Her response eluded to the fact, that she could of prejudiced him and has the right to her personal preference. Many black men have heard the "personal preference" excuse time and time again, but coming from someone who is half-black is unacceptable. You like Dark Thanos need to brush up on your reading comprehension, but denial tends to have a funny effect on people's interpretation of the facts.

Legend, here's a copy of the original email posted by Yasmin, that caused the misunderstanding.


GAYLESTPAU@AOL.COM JUST SEND ME THESE EMAILS....

IDIOT SAID:
I'm not trying to be mean but I guarantee you thought since he wasn't an African American that you could feel comfortable but he got your a-s. I tried to date you when you came to DC and I could tell you were prejudice towards blacks. So guess what you got robbed by someone who you thought would never do it. I don't feel sorry for you.You stereotype people so that's what you get. Maybe next time you'll realize robbers come in all shapes as well as colors.


ME:
OBVIOUSLY I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION BY NOT SEEING U AFTER THIS BOLD STATEMENT...YES, I COULD HAD PREJUDED U...BUT THIS IS OUT OF FEAR TO PROTECT MYSELF BASE ON PASS EXPERIENCES..THAT AND I'M NOT VERY ATTRACTED TO U PERIOD. SO WHAT'S U'RE SAYING IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE I DESERVED TO BE HURT AND BE A VICTIM OF A FELONY CRIME...THAT'S REALLY BIG OF U

[TSERICAATL]

I was visiting... and i saw this hot guy that was a "professional volleyball player... and like.. we had a great time together.. he put the money on the table.. and the second i was in the bathroom... just cleaning up... he was out the door.. running down the hallway.. with the money... he's so lucky i was in underwear because my lil ass was going to run after him and spray him with mace lol... but its just not worth it... he later called and said he was sorry for what he did.. and hed see me in ATLANTA.. (my home town) YAHHHH RIGHT... like id fall for that one again.... xox Erica sorry Yasmin... and i've seen you twice on tv.. you pop star :) xox Erica

[BeardedOne]

Erica, darlin', if this bastard wants to see you again, and is truly remorseful, have him bring =both= donations (And upscale the second one for the BS factor) and get one of those rooms with the little safe in it (And don't let him outta your sight). Make him pay for his transgressions.

A lot. :twisted:

[TSERICAATL]

But.. i haven't worked in about 9 months... im involved with someone right now... i just believe in kharma.. and he will get his one day :) xox E

[beatmaker]

But.. i haven't worked in about 9 months... im involved with someone right now... i just believe in kharma.. and he will get his one day :) xox E
22 ts ATL GA... 5'4 110lbs 32c 6.5 c.... totally smooth body.. only into tall attractive white / latin / or middle eastern men.. xox contact me.. tsericaatl@aol.com ONLY if u are in the ATLANTA AREA... XOX Peace!!!

While your "volleyball player" story deals with the topic at hand, your closing is just adding fuel to the fire.

TSERICA, I'm curious. If a latin man who was darker (i.e Sammy Sosa or Manny Ramirez type) booked a session with you, would he be an acceptable client or is your definition of Latin, primarily someone in the Ricky Martin or Enrique Inglesias mold? Thanks!

[TSERICAATL]

I only like lighter skinned guys.. apparently.. because i listed.. white.. middle eastern and latin. i really dont go for dark skinned guys... just my type... im sure u have a specific type aswell xox E

[TomSelis]

What was this thread about again?

[BlackAdder]

God damn you fucking mooks!! She likes light skinned guys, get over it!! Get over yourselves!!!!

If she posted that she only liked blacks, who gives a fuck???

NEXT!!

Theres another girl right around the corner....

[BeardedOne]

What was this thread about again?

It was about getting you to post more often so we can watch your way-cool avatar, Tom. :D

[TakeMeHome]

Yasmin,


I'm sorry to hear about the incident. You know sooner or later it will catch up with him. I mean he had sex with you so he'll be trying this scam with some other girl. He got what he wanted. It was a success for him which only further empowers him with confidence to try it again with another girl.

Anyone who's been ripped off in some way or another knows what frustration one goes through. He'll have his day when gets caught or crosses the wrong person. I just hope he's ready to be a post-'justice'-op guy.

[beatmaker]

God damn you fucking mooks!! She likes light skinned guys, get over it!! Get over yourselves!!!!

If she posted that she only liked blacks, who gives a fuck???

NEXT!!

Theres another girl right around the corner....


First off bytch, who are you calling a "mook" It was just a question dumbass, because her post didn't say "light skinned". It said white, latin and Middle Eastern" men. However, there are plenty of dark-skinned Middle Eastern and Latin men, some who might want to hook up with her. So, obviously her point needed further clarification.

Since, these posts cause you so much distress, won't you take your bytch azz to another thread. I get more than enough woman, but I don't need some soft, meddling punk telling me how I should feel and think. I AM SO FUCKING SICK OF CAUCASIANS TRYING TO TELL BLACK PEOPLE HOW THEY SHOULD FEEL AND REACT TO THINGS, WHEN THEY HAVE NEVER HAD TO DEAL WITH ALL THE NEGATIVE PERCEPTIONS AND OTHER B.S.

Maybe if you picked up a book donkey about culture and social politics, you would know that TSErica's attraction or preference, is the predominate one in Latin culture. I've lived and worked around many Latinos and I listen to their conversations and they tend view darker skin and courser hair, in a very negative light. I've heard so many offensive comments fly from the mouth of latinas, as it relates to dark skin or kinky hair it isn't funny. The shyt is so pathological, they'll say the shyt while a black person is standing right there. Just last week, I was walking behind a black girl and a Latin girl in downtown Manhattan, the Latin girl says to the black girl "That ugly azz bytch is "black" (very dark skinned) and "nappy headed", that bytch wishes she had hair like me". I guess she was talking about another female, whom she had some sort of beef with. I'm thinking to myself "why did the latin chick think she could make such a comment to a black women and it not be offensive and why does the black girl even socialize with someone, who clearly thinks they are physically superior. I remember a Latin girl, who was soliciting donations back in the early 90's down in Wall Street area during my lunch hour (summer internship), tell me "Your cute, you don't look too black". She was fine as hell and voluntarily gave me her phone number, but I was just coming into my cultural consciousness and didn't want to deal with someone who devalued my race like that. I remember a Puerto Rican dude I used to work with, who was a darker Latin and I've never seen such self-hatred. The dude has dealt with latinas like TSErica his whole life telling him overtly or covertly, you're too dark or black looking for me. So, he has come to see his skin color as some sort of Scarlett Letter. This dude actually cursed his mother, as we were having one of those deep life conversations with another female coworker (light skinned latina) after work, for having relations with a darker Latin man (his father), because he wished he came out looking like her. He then proceeded to say "I hate that ugly motherfucker". He wasn't even a really dark-skinned cat. I'd say he had that Sammy Sosa look, where he had black features, but you can still tell he is Latin. I remember reading an article, in which "Desperate Housewives" star Eva Longoria recounted how much she was teased by her lighter family members, for having tanned skin and darker features. They would actually call her "The Ugly Dark One" in Spanish. That is why I'm suprised she dates a black man (Spurs PG Tony Parker), even though he is light skinned. I think most dark latin GG/TS woman, aspire to be with a lighter/whiter man. It's the whole, I date what I covet in others thing. My mother's good friend dated a Domincan man, who basically was the offspring of his father's 2nd wife and she was a black Dominican. Anyway, when she passed away, he went to live with the father and the other kids and basically had to endure 12 years of hell by his step-siblings. Incessant ribbing about his darker skin and curly hair, as the father and other children where very light with straight brown hair. His father's 3rd wife, a lighter Domincan woman, treated him like a 2nd class citizen his whole life. I guess that's why he primarily dates black woman and hangs out with blacks. He says he feels like a whole person in our company. He could come to a party full of sistas and get much play, whereas in a Merengue party, he's basically the 2nd and 3rd option and when he does get play from an attractive latina, it's due to the fact he has money and a S500 Mercedes.

When I go back to school to get my Master's in Finance and African-American history (double major). I am going to write my thesis on European Colonialism and its long lasting affects on people of color in various countries (i.e skin color caste systems, etc.)

BlackAdder, the difference between you and me, is that your post on this issue is strictly emotional, devoid of any intellectual reference or study. Whereas, I have studied the issue of racial politics since college, be it in the collegiate setting or real world experience. That is why I could care less about a white GG/TS stating they "don't do black guys". There is no cultural paradigm, like there is with people who originate from countries, that were or are still colonies of Europe, Canada or America.

So I will close by quoting my man Rosebudd from the documentary "American Pimp".

Trying to explain "the life" to a square, is like trying to explain astrophysics to a whino.

This is basically how I feel, when discussing issues of race, with most whites. They just have no real point of reference, for me to take any of their opinions or disparaging comments seriously.

[TakeMeHome]

P.S. ON A PERSONAL NOTE..I'M TRANSITIONING OUT OF THIS WORK...NO MORE PORN FOR SURE...ESCORTING..WELL I DON'T KNOW EITHER...NOT TO COMPLETELY SAY NO...JUST CONFUSING RIGHT NOW...I'M WAITING TO HEAR BACK FROM THIS MAN I LOVE....IF HE WANTS TO CONTINUE OUR RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT I DO HURTS HIM..IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO QUIT...WHO WOULD WANNA HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE....

Yasmin,

Why would you quit making porn, but *possibly* continue with escorting? I mean isn't the great danger in escorting rather than going to make films? I guess escorting makes more money quicker and easier? Best of luck.

[YasminLee]

beatmaker hun...by the way u write we all can tell that u're a well educated man...however your emotion had over shadow your reasoning...u're busy being mad at me rather than a jerk who wish me ill....who said that i deserved to be rob...u immediatedly jumped the conclusion with "personal preference". and instead of asking me to clarifly u fight...yes i prejudged him...to be rude, ghetto, and not trustworthy over the phone....all i have to protect myself in this business for the most part are my instincts...and i'm very glad to had not see him...come on now...he turn out to be the type that wish a felony on girls that don't wanna see him...really now hun...think before u express your opinions

[ChicagoDave]

Sorry to hear about you getting ripped off! I guess that goes with the buisness. Are you ever gonna come to Chicago?????

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Somebody neeeds to warn all those poor young college boys about you!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck I hope that works out .......after you visit Chicago!! LOL

[Quinn]

LMAO @ this thread's resurrection. One thought: too many victims and not enough personal responsibility.

-Quinn

[deadclan69]

I find it odd that Yasmin is talking about felony crimes committted against him whenever he is sucking cock for money - a bit like drug dealers complaining their dealer sold them crap gear. Escorting is a twilight industry and I have little sympathy for escorts moaning about getting robbed - try getting a real job and you will know what being robbed really is.

[dgtlmstry]

I find it odd that Yasmin is talking about felony crimes committted against him whenever he is sucking cock for money - a bit like drug dealers complaining their dealer sold them crap gear. Escorting is a twilight industry and I have little sympathy for escorts moaning about getting robbed - try getting a real job and you will know what being robbed really is.

LOL

Honesty is such a breath of fresh air, especially after reading all of these apologists apologizing for something they:
1) Didn't do and
2) Don't really care about...it just makes them feel good to say it (and they think maybe they will get something for their 'caring' remarks).

Dgtl

[yodajazz]

I have to weigh in on this one. Nobody deserved to get robbed period. Every one deserved a fair wage for their labor. She was engaged in an activity between consenting adults. By the way, it's not illegal everywhere in the world, but robbery is. Also, I understand the history of racism, but having intimate relations with someone always comes down to personal choice. We all know what we like as individuals.
By the way, I believe that the universe does get even with those who break the rules. I was robbed by gunpoint a few doors from my home, a few months ago. Exactly a week later, someone was killed while trying to rob somebody, right around the corner.

[dgtlmstry]

Great

[YasminLee]

I find it odd that Yasmin is talking about felony crimes committted against him whenever he is sucking cock for money - a bit like drug dealers complaining their dealer sold them crap gear. Escorting is a twilight industry and I have little sympathy for escorts moaning about getting robbed - try getting a real job and you will know what being robbed really is.

LOL

Honesty is such a breath of fresh air, especially after reading all of these apologists apologizing for something they:
1) Didn't do and
2) Don't really care about...it just makes them feel good to say it (and they think maybe they will get something for their 'caring' remarks).

IT IS AMAZING THAT U CAN EVEN SAY THIS. YES I UNDERSTAND THE RISK OF MEETING STANGERS, AND IT'S MY DECISION TO CONTINUE THIS LINE OF WORK, HOWEVER, NO ONE DESERVE TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF. IF YOU STRONGLY DISLIKE WORKING GIRLS THEN DON'T ASSOCIATE YOURSELF WITH THEM. IT'S AS SIMPLE AS THAT..TO BE ON THIS SITE FEEDING AND JACKING OFF TO US WORKING GIRLS THEN TALK SHIT AFTER U CUM IS PURE IGNORANT. I KNOW U FEEL THE NEED TO SAY SOMETHING AND EXPRESS YOUR YOUNG POINT OF VIEW...BUT PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF OTHERS' FEELINGS AND U LOOKING LIKE AN COMPLETE IDOT, DO TAKE MORE TIME TO ANAL-LIZE YOUR OPINION BEFORE POSTING....:)


Dgtl

[Ponyboy]

I find it odd that Yasmin is talking about felony crimes committted against him whenever he is sucking cock for money - a bit like drug dealers complaining their dealer sold them crap gear. Escorting is a twilight industry and I have little sympathy for escorts moaning about getting robbed - try getting a real job and you will know what being robbed really is.


Deadclan - you try having sex with someone you find grotesque and you will realise how much these girls work. They give people pleasure in return for money. I have hired an escort when I was alone and I was thankful for the work they did. Not only did they satisfy me, but they also gave me company when I was far from home. If they didnt give something worthwhile, no one would be prepared to pay them. And given that it's the oldest profession in the world, history is on their side.