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WnnaBT
09-13-2015, 10:44 AM
Hello all, I rarely post but I need advice. I'm a 30y/o who's been married for 5 hears. I've been together for 11 years with the same gg. I'm attractive, not tooting my own but I've been told by g's and tg's on numerous occasions.I also have two kids, 1&2 and lately I find myself overwhelmed with transwomen. To the point where I'm considering divorce. I want a pretty transgirl and that's it. I love my kiddos and would never ditch them. My wife..well I truly love her but she lacks the "parts" and I feel like a transgirl would be really fun...I wouldn't deal with gg hormone crap, and with a transwoman a relationship and sex would be incredible.

My question is, are their any other men out there like me? What are your thoughts? Also do you trans girls still find a attractive young guy interesting? Even if there are kids involved. Im still stuck in the fact that I love my kids and sex is still pretty good l. (She likes to stroke me to dirty fore play which typically leads to her talking to me about cock) she knows I love it but it gets her going too. Do I linerate myself or find a occasional transgirl and stick this out??

Laphroaig
09-13-2015, 10:55 AM
You named your kids "1&2"?... :hide-1:

Don't forget that your wife had the correct "parts" to give you those kids and you must have been happy enough to make use of them at the time.

As for hormones...

WnnaBT
09-13-2015, 11:02 AM
My kids are the ages 1&2, wasn't naming them. Also I don't necessarily need "the parts" I just feel like on a whole transgirls are more fun and understanding of us men.

nobbynorm
09-13-2015, 11:52 AM
Don't let your head be turned by a glamorous TS or be fooled in to thinking that the attention of such girls is anything other than a mere daliance for them. What is of primary importance is whether your staying with your wife and children would have a more detrimental effect on them through physical or mental stress imposed by you, than leaving. If you feel that is not the case then you should seriously consider this as a test of your true resolve and commitment you gave when marrying your wife and give it time to see if it is just a passing fad in your life.

giovanni_hotel
09-13-2015, 12:12 PM
Not the kind of convo you should be having in public.
Also, I would never divorce my wife because I had an itch I wanted to scratch.

Try actually seeing an escort or meeting a TS socially before you decide you want to rearrange your entire life.

Personally I'm not married because of my lifestyle and not having found the right partner. So I'm not fucking up other people's lives.lol

If I was planning to spend $90,000 on a Porsche, I'd at least test drive it first.

Dark passenger
09-13-2015, 12:31 PM
I went thru some shit when I was married about wanting to mess with TGirls. I kinda understand what the OP is going thru. Since my divorce n the mess I had to deal with I can say in all honesty either leave her n live how U want or stay n be happy. U can always pay for some girl dick but it's gonna end up wrecking shit if u like it. Just make sure u know what's on the line. I myself am much happier but my marriage wasn't great to begin with. Just weight ur options before making a decision.

rodinuk
09-13-2015, 12:55 PM
I want a pretty transgirl and that's it. I love my kiddos and would never ditch them.

Yep it's all about you ... oh and the kiddies might ditch you later in life ....


My wife..well I truly love her but she lacks the "parts" and I feel like a transgirl would be really fun...I wouldn't deal with gg hormone crap, and with a transwoman a relationship and sex would be incredible.

If you truly love her you'd work through it with her rather than pursuing your own selfish fantasy - I mean how the hell can you say that a relationship and sex with a transwoman would be incredible since you've never experienced either or seemingly read about any of the trials and tribulations that others have gone through in that arena. This isn't Disneyland...

GroobySteven
09-13-2015, 01:26 PM
It seems like you have some sexuality issues more than anything. You are basing leaving your wife on what someone else has between their legs?