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Dahlia Babe Ailhad
02-20-2015, 02:41 AM
Hi Ladies and Gentlemen and everybody in between,

I remembered this song called, Sex Changes by, the Dresden Dolls.

I was having a discussion, several years ago, with a pre-op transwoman friend of mine concerning the meaning of this song.

We both came up with very different interpretations of what the song could mean.

I would rather hold back on what i thought (and still do think) the song is about because i don't want to influence anybody's opinion.
However, i will say that while i was focusing only on the lyrics, my friend was focusing mostly on the images in the video.

We both had very different ideas.
I must add that my friend's first language is French and English is her second language, and because of that, she may have missed the meaning of the lyrics completely.
I, actually, forget what her idea was because it was really so bizarre what she thought, that it's hard to remember all the crazy things she saw into it. She had some really abstract opinions.



Let me maybe suggest a method of analysis:

First, just read through the lyrics a couple of times without the song playing and not looking at the video, and try to form an opinion based just on the lyrics alone, and see what you think of. Maybe you could even mark down your ideas about each verse means to you.

Second, then listen to the song and read along with the lyrics - BUT not watching the video images as the song plays, and see if your opinion changes.

Third, finally, watch the video and listen to the song and see what you come up with, then.


For the people who already know this song inside out, be like me and don;t post your opinions right away. Let other people have a chance to think about it.

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I wonder what you will all come up with.
There's NO rush to post your comments.
Let it all sink in, maybe even sleep on it for a night (or two).
Think about it thoroughly before posting your opinions, please.



" Sex Changes "

Dear Mr. and/or Mrs. sender-
We're pleased to inform you that your application's been accepted.
Starting from the time you get this letter, your life will be one never-ending
“Hope you're feeling better”.
You get your choice of an aesthetic.
We'll need to chop your "clock" off (tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock).
It might not be what you expected - There is no money back once you've been ripped off.

Today's a very special day.
The boys'll murder for it but what will the neighbors say.
It leaves you feeling pretty hollow.
It might be nice to look at, don't forget you're stuck with it tomorrow (and tomorrow, and tomorrow....)

You're big enough to stop pretending.
You'll start to really show within a week or so.
So, don't go saying it's just come to your attention.
You'll get more than you're asking for without the right protection.

Today's a very special day.
And how you'd love to have a little thing with which to play.
But love won't get you very far.
Today be still your beating heart.
You'll have to keep on feeding it tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow.

Boys will be boys will be boys will be boys will be boys will be boys will be girls with no warning.
Girls will be girls will be guys will be boys that don't cry over toys that they use to beat girls they despise by the morning.
They always said that sex would change you...

No second thoughts, the knife is nearing.
You'll never hear the little pitter-patter, pitter-patter
Of this little feat of engineering
Of course I love you, and of course ,it's what's inside that matters.
But I think the whole charade is ending.
It seems to me to be the only way to keep from getting
caught up in a long life of regretting.
The doctors said that once you get a taste for it you'll keep on cutting.

But while you happen to be here,
why don't you whisper all those sweet-forevers in my ear.
Stiff upper lip for all this sorrow.
Hurry up and stick it in.
You never know when it will end.
Tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow and etc...

They always said that sex will change you....


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eO-dT913Zmg




Thanks.
Babe,
xoxo