So tell us how you really feel?

[Vic]

This is a forum for the transgendered ladies that are not porn stars, escorts, or online video exhibitionists, and are not assuming to roles of a transgendered lady (pre-op). My question to you is, are there any of you out there that want that role, and want to keep your dicks? From what I've seen through the years is that most transgendered ladies don't really want to have anything to do with having a dick!?! From a male perspective that is the interest in being attracted to a transgendered lady, where the attraction is related to the fact that you have a dick! If it wasn't for the fact that you have a dick, you would be a genetic woman. Granted, I understand that many of you want to become women; totally. And, once you have the SRS surgery you become mixed into the sea of genetic women; which is fine. I'm not saying that it’s about sucking dick or getting fucked in the ass, it’s about enjoying the visual pleasure of knowing when you are aroused because your dick is hard when you are turned on. My biggest turn-on is seeing you ladies aroused, and rock-hard ready for love! I don't know if I'm in a minority here, but it this thing that keeps me interested in TS porn.

Now to digress, are there ladies here that don't want the porn lifestyle, and who have transitioned but have kept their dicks, and are pursuing general lifestyles outside of porn and escorting that are interested in pursuing long-term commitments with hetero-males? I would be interested in your stories, and how your lovers, family, and society are treating you? Granted we as men find the alternate lifestyle: (porn, escorting, and all-out hoe-ing) to be great from a getting our rocks off situation. But, the mainstream day-to-day lifestyle is what I would like to hear about; I don't think that I've ever heard anyone provide those types of details details here? And if I'm missing something, please feel free to enlighten the rest of us; me specifically.

On personal note, I have worked in an office where a male was transitioning into a female, and the powers that be cautioned the staff to be accepting or suffer the consequences. However, I ended up leaving that situation before the situation totally played out; so I'm not sure what happened there?

Thanks,

Vic.

[Vic]

I figured that this might be somewhat of a hot topic, but I guess it is what it is?!? It's all about money, and ain't a damn thing funny!

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This is a forum for the transgendered ladies that are not porn stars, escorts, or online video exhibitionists, and are not assuming to roles of a transgendered lady (pre-op). My question to you is, are there any of you out there that want that role, and want to keep your dicks? From what I've seen through the years is that most transgendered ladies don't really want to have anything to do with having a dick!?! From a male perspective that is the interest in being attracted to a transgendered lady, where the attraction is related to the fact that you have a dick! If it wasn't for the fact that you have a dick, you would be a genetic woman. Granted, I understand that many of you want to become women; totally. And, once you have the SRS surgery you become mixed into the sea of genetic women; which is fine. I'm not saying that it’s about sucking dick or getting fucked in the ass, it’s about enjoying the visual pleasure of knowing when you are aroused because your dick is hard when you are turned on. My biggest turn-on is seeing you ladies aroused, and rock-hard ready for love! I don't know if I'm in a minority here, but it this thing that keeps me interested in TS porn.

Now to digress, are there ladies here that don't want the porn lifestyle, and who have transitioned but have kept their dicks, and are pursuing general lifestyles outside of porn and escorting that are interested in pursuing long-term commitments with hetero-males? I would be interested in your stories, and how your lovers, family, and society are treating you? Granted we as men find the alternate lifestyle: (porn, escorting, and all-out hoe-ing) to be great from a getting our rocks off situation. But, the mainstream day-to-day lifestyle is what I would like to hear about; I don't think that I've ever heard anyone provide those types of details details here? And if I'm missing something, please feel free to enlighten the rest of us; me specifically.

On personal note, I have worked in an office where a male was transitioning into a female, and the powers that be cautioned the staff to be accepting or suffer the consequences. However, I ended up leaving that situation before the situation totally played out; so I'm not sure what happened there?

Thanks,

Vic.
Well I think I'm technically none of those, but probably only because you don't seem to understand the webcam business. (I don't think my very small number scenes qualifies me to be a pornstar.) Successful cam models can make a considerable amount of money. Exhibitionists get off on people watching. I cam for money, but I do love putting on good show.

Liking hard dicks on ladies is very normal for male porn fans.

Genitals don't define gender. If you lost yours in an accident, would you stop being a guy?

MtF trans people have female personalities. Most girls are not interested in porn or paying for sex, so few of them would in a porn/escort forum unless they do sex work. Most trans people don't do sex work.

@hannahwarg Explained non-op very clearly here:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OAoOBzsjV14 (
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Personally, I've considered being non-op for financial and medical reasons. But, I would strongly prefer matching parts.

[seenowiam]

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But, the mainstream day-to-day lifestyle is what I would like to hear about; I don't think that I've ever heard anyone provide those types of details details here? And if I'm missing something, please feel free to enlighten the rest of us; me specifically.

From my experience, the "mainstream day-to-day lifestyle" living with a transwoman is the same as living with any other woman.

Likely I have a more traditional 1950's lifestyle than most. But it's great, I take care of the "work stuff" and she takes care of our "home stuff", we are equals with each having our own role to play... Oh sure, she has her mood swings, she remembers only what she wants to remember, and she likes to be shown appreciation, just like any other woman. Difference is that unlike any other woman; she's my best friend, partner and I love her dearly with commitment, total commitment. It's fabulous.

Point is that guy's don't ask questions about what's it like to have a relationship with a woman after grade school, because they already know.

My suggestion to those "wondering" what a relationship with a real live, feeling, thinking, walking and kicking transwoman would be like: would be well served to stop asking such questions, and start asking for phone numbers, just date, fall in love, and get married to a transwoman and find out firsthand how wonderful life is.

[Odelay]

I figured that this might be somewhat of a hot topic, but I guess it is what it is?!? It's all about money, and ain't a damn thing funny!
Just seems like anyone with a join date of 2002 would know most of the stuff you're asking about just by monitoring this forum for 13 years. Lots of girls have come onto the forum and shared their stories and lives. Not sure what you're after. Seeno's advice seems like it would be good for you to follow.

[Vic]

Well thanks for the perspective, and I don't recall reading about situations than involved transgendered women who have led lives that didn't involve some type of porn; my bad! I saw what I wanted to see in the forums, that is hot, sexy and turned on T-girls. I never imaged what it would be like to met a lady under ordinary circumstances, and find out that she was transgendered, and pursue a relationship from there? A young me, would make it all about sex, and probably left it at that. The mature me of today, was just curious.

Thanks for the insight,

Vic