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Meedmike
01-16-2015, 05:33 PM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. I thought you lot being the hound dogs that you are must've gone through something similar in your early days. She wasn't working or anything, at least that wasn't the nature of my relationship with her. Just two consenting adults with some grade-A kush lol. We smoked we talked we talked until we got aroused and started kissing and and moaning and touching each other. My jeans came off and then her bra came off. Then I sneaked my hand below her waist to find a monster of a cock. I'm serious that thing is thick! I said I wanna try and she says go ahead and I go to town. And I must've lost track of time because next thing I know I'm upside down getting rimmed while sucking her. Anyway when the time came for me to be penetrated I had a freak out and she was kind enough to understand and not press me to continue. I collected myself and put my clothes back on and thanked her for having me. Now I'm confused sexually. I don't know, and frankly I'm afraid, that if the opportunity comes I might not be attracted to pussy. Like I'm constantly running a scenario in my head where I'm in a bar and I find out that I'm not attracted to the women there, like I don't know why it's terrifying to feel no attraction to females. I'm still confused and it's been a week since my experience.

Jericho
01-16-2015, 06:27 PM
Yep...Gay! :shrug

Instrumental
01-16-2015, 06:40 PM
Lmfao. No, never had any hang ups about my attraction to trans girls. I like and am attracted to another human being, there's nothing confusing about that.

Donkey
01-16-2015, 07:29 PM
I've never understood these stupid fucking posts. And there's no shortage of them.

giovanni_hotel
01-16-2015, 07:32 PM
It's no one else's business except yours, so why the confusion???
The confusion comes it when you try to rationalize your sexuality to people who don't matter. Those are the ones who aren't in your bedroom.

Did you want her to fuck you or not?? That's not something I'd experiment with unless I had a overwhelming urged to be fucked.

TGs won't make you stop being attracted to GGs....not totally anyway!!Lol

Plaything
01-16-2015, 07:34 PM
You're not confused. You're processing. It'll come.

dreamon
01-16-2015, 07:45 PM
Yep dude totally gay, you'll never be attracted to pussy ever again. Might as well go find a big fat hair bear and shack up.

EZWind
01-17-2015, 08:30 AM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. .

...you're a guy who's startin to have some fun now....relax, man...quit trippin on it. The two are not mutually exclusive...it's not like choosing to be a Republican or Democrat...or Labour or whatever you've got over there (thought I detected a British accent there)
No reason you can't have both...I've had maybe a dozen or so TGirl adventures, and I still enjoy munching the ole bearded clam just as much (tho there's more clam and less beard these days, which is a good thing)
...bottom line is ....go with the flow, as our elders from the Woodstock days used to say...if it feels good....do it

pimpdog
01-17-2015, 08:46 AM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. I thought you lot being the hound dogs that you are must've gone through something similar in your early days. She wasn't working or anything, at least that wasn't the nature of my relationship with her. Just two consenting adults with some grade-A kush lol. We smoked we talked we talked until we got aroused and started kissing and and moaning and touching each other. My jeans came off and then her bra came off. Then I sneaked my hand below her waist to find a monster of a cock. I'm serious that thing is thick! I said I wanna try and she says go ahead and I go to town. And I must've lost track of time because next thing I know I'm upside down getting rimmed while sucking her. Anyway when the time came for me to be penetrated I had a freak out and she was kind enough to understand and not press me to continue. I collected myself and put my clothes back on and thanked her for having me. Now I'm confused sexually. I don't know, and frankly I'm afraid, that if the opportunity comes I might not be attracted to pussy. Like I'm constantly running a scenario in my head where I'm in a bar and I find out that I'm not attracted to the women there, like I don't know why it's terrifying to feel no attraction to females. I'm still confused and it's been a week since my experience.lol@no attraction to pussy.

Adam_Thompson
01-17-2015, 09:57 AM
Listen to ezwood. I've been around the world and I totally agree with ez

TSaddicted
01-17-2015, 10:22 AM
Once you are first intimate with a trans woman you do think about your sexual preference. To be honest, my first thoughts are HIV, you must be safe in bed. I'm sure you will be back for more, nobody goes that far without wanting it!!

It comes down to whatever makes you happy. People spend too much time categorising things, it's a new world, enjoy yourself and live your life. Trans women are absolutely amazing. I haven't met nothing but high sex driven, sexy, intelligent t-girls and I'm sure you will too.

Tapatio
01-17-2015, 08:18 PM
These threads are the best.

We've probably all been there, so we're probably speaking to ourselves- but lololololololol.

Vladimir Putin
01-17-2015, 09:24 PM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. I thought you lot being the hound dogs that you are must've gone through something similar in your early days. She wasn't working or anything, at least that wasn't the nature of my relationship with her. Just two consenting adults with some grade-A kush lol. We smoked we talked we talked until we got aroused and started kissing and and moaning and touching each other. My jeans came off and then her bra came off. Then I sneaked my hand below her waist to find a monster of a cock. I'm serious that thing is thick! I said I wanna try and she says go ahead and I go to town. And I must've lost track of time because next thing I know I'm upside down getting rimmed while sucking her. Anyway when the time came for me to be penetrated I had a freak out and she was kind enough to understand and not press me to continue. I collected myself and put my clothes back on and thanked her for having me. Now I'm confused sexually. I don't know, and frankly I'm afraid, that if the opportunity comes I might not be attracted to pussy. Like I'm constantly running a scenario in my head where I'm in a bar and I find out that I'm not attracted to the women there, like I don't know why it's terrifying to feel no attraction to females. I'm still confused and it's been a week since my experience.

I went through that phase myself 30 years ago after the first time I jerked off to and released myself over a pic of a T-girl sporting a cock. I then went into a panic asking myself "am I really into cock? Does this make me a faggot? Oh shit, I don' wanna be a faggot. I hope I'm not going to be attracted to guys next!"

At that time, I was still mostly attracted to GGs but this was when my sexual attraction to pre-op TSs started to evolve. A few years later, I met one in person for the first time at the now-closed Show Center in New York's Times Square. It was also the first time I was no longer ashamed or grossed out over being attracted to pre-op TS. We were in the private booths. She showed me her dick, I showed her mine, we both jerked off together staring at each other's dicks. A few months later, I saw her again downstairs at Show World (also long closed down) in the TS section. I was in the front row when she did her strip dance. After I tipped her came my very first time I touched another person's cock - her cock. That was exciting. A couple of months later I tipped another beautiful TS at Show World to come in the booth with me (which was technically illegal but who cared about laws in New York before the Giuliani era?) where I first touched her cock, then she put on a condom and then followed my very first experience of sucking someone off. The rest is history ...

It's nerve racking at first, but it gets better. I know you will eventually look favorably towards your first time. You might even regret you didn't let her fuck you in the ass! You will learn to accept yourself and be at peace with yourself.

I'm still attracted to GGs, but I'm no longer attracted to pussy, unless she has a big clit.

EZWind
01-19-2015, 06:15 PM
like I said earlier, don't sweat it
...when it gets to the point where you start to amass a collection of David Bowie and Judy Garland CDs,,,,THEN it's time to start worrying

canihavu
01-20-2015, 12:01 AM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am. I thought you lot being the hound dogs that you are must've gone through something similar in your early days. She wasn't working or anything, at least that wasn't the nature of my relationship with her. Just two consenting adults with some grade-A kush lol. We smoked we talked we talked until we got aroused and started kissing and and moaning and touching each other. My jeans came off and then her bra came off. Then I sneaked my hand below her waist to find a monster of a cock. I'm serious that thing is thick! I said I wanna try and she says go ahead and I go to town. And I must've lost track of time because next thing I know I'm upside down getting rimmed while sucking her. Anyway when the time came for me to be penetrated I had a freak out and she was kind enough to understand and not press me to continue. I collected myself and put my clothes back on and thanked her for having me. Now I'm confused sexually. I don't know, and frankly I'm afraid, that if the opportunity comes I might not be attracted to pussy. Like I'm constantly running a scenario in my head where I'm in a bar and I find out that I'm not attracted to the women there, like I don't know why it's terrifying to feel no attraction to females. I'm still confused and it's been a week since my experience.

While I admit that I had my hangups in the beginning, I wasn't sure why I liked trans women. I wouldn't even go near their dicks for the first two years or so. I have never ever ever lost my attraction to pussy though.

Devilboy
01-20-2015, 12:17 AM
I try not to label things. The way I see it- people just like what they like. Just go with what you like. I like hot girls. If a hot girl happens to have a dick, that's fine...I have one too. I like what I like and don't like what I don't like...just keep those separated and you'll be fine.

bimale69
01-21-2015, 04:06 AM
like I said earlier, don't sweat it
...when it gets to the point where you start to amass a collection of David Bowie and Judy Garland CDs,,,,THEN it's time to start worrying

Damn....that means I can't regard Rob Halford,Freddie Mercury, and Mina Caputo as my idols? I've always hated Wizard of Oz!

islandmix
01-21-2015, 04:21 AM
good thing you didn't let that tranny fuck you, trannies are sort of like a gateway drug into full gay with men

nysprod
01-21-2015, 04:25 AM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am.

The probability is high that you didn't know before either lol

francisfkudrow
01-21-2015, 04:44 AM
Relax. In with the good. Out with the bad. You're attracted to who you're attracted to, so if you've honestly found GGs attractive in the past, you'll find them attractive again. Don't worry about labels as sexuality is too complex to easily categorize. Maybe you'll nail it down one day, but if you can't, you can't. Enjoy the journey.

Ts RedVeX
01-21-2015, 04:52 AM
I experimented with a transsexual (pre-op) and now I don't know what I am.

You are who you always have been, only wiser...

By the way, you should get those trousers replaced if they fell off just like that xD

Jackal
01-21-2015, 05:18 AM
You're new (I'm guessing not knowing much about TG issues to begin with) and you need to process...no problem. You are attracted to women and some women have penises. Trust me, there are a lot more guys attracted to transwomen than there are transwomen or than most people would ever guess.

steviex00
01-21-2015, 01:58 PM
I agree with the majority of posters - don't fall into society's trap of categorization. You don't have to consider yourself straight, gay, bi or whatever - we don't have to wear badges declaring our sexuality, do we? Just be true to yourself and submit to your feelings.
Since I started seeing t girls on webcams, I've loved a good mutual wank session. This progressed to meeting up and taking it further. So I thought, if it's all about the cock, I should try with a guy on webcam, but it wasn't a good experience for me, so I'll stick with pretty girls from now on, with or without cock. After all, variety is the spice of life!

gregorysgirl
01-21-2015, 04:47 PM
I kinda get where you are, personally I feel no attraction to men, sexually another man is of no interest, however I positively throb over tranny porn, experiences with ts escorts are mixed and in spite of my marital situation am certain I will again be sampling shemale cock.

I guess its a matter of acceptance...

daltx_m
01-21-2015, 05:09 PM
You're human. you like sex. why the need for a label?