Find miss right

[Jack8941]

I'm 38 6,3
Good job nice house but love TS women only?
Hardest thing in life?
Finding miss right!

[saifan]

How have you been meeting people?

[RallyCola]

I'm 38 6,3
Good job nice house but love TS women only?
Hardest thing in life?
Finding miss right!

dude...the hardest thing in life is finding the perfect mate regardless if she is a transwoman or not.

you have to consider the following...
1) where are you looking? the internet only?
2) are you seeking a transwoman BECAUSE she is trans?
3) do you have anything to offer any woman (trans or not) other than your money because as you specifically chose "good job and nice house" as your points and not your looks and personality speaks volumes about you and what you think women want.

[Tapatio]

I don't believe in Miss Right.

I don't think there is a "right" person- just someone we like enough that we're willing to put up with their bullshit or deficiencies.

Best of luck.

[Jack8941]

In every way over the past 20 yrs I have had long term in past but not for last 2 yrs
I've met girls in clubs as I used to work all over uk but since I've been promoted im office based

[RallyCola]

I don't believe in Miss Right.

I don't think there is a "right" person- just someone we like enough that we're willing to put up with their bullshit or deficiencies.

Best of luck.

that is the definition of miss right. there could be many out there but you really only need to find 1.

[Jack8941]

dude...the hardest thing in life is finding the perfect mate regardless if she is a transwoman or not.

you have to consider the following...
1) where are you looking? the internet only?
2) are you seeking a transwoman BECAUSE she is trans?
3) do you have anything to offer any woman (trans or not) other than your money because as you specifically chose "good job and nice house" as your points and not your looks and personality speaks volumes about you and what you think women want.

The good job and nice house is more a reference to being ready to settle down to show I'm not some spotty teenager fantasising about it while living with my parents
Yes I do want a TS woman as GG just don't do it enough for me
I have plenty to offer if being a good honest man is of interest

[Tapatio]

that is the definition of miss right. there could be many out there but you really only need to find 1.

Good point- never really thought about it that way.

My problem would then be how long I'm willing to put up with it. Historically, I max out at 3 years.

[Veal Cutlet]

Do not listen to the nay-sayers. I found my TS soul-mate 8 years ago and we have a very normal relationship so it can be done. And my wife was once a shemaleyum GOM. so its no like she was a goodie two shoes when I met her. She learned at lot from her past life and works a normal office job now. We both come here simply to 'let the inner faggot out' (her words) once in a while but we are 100% monogamous and do not get involved in prostitution or porn. So it can happen, do not lose hope and if it matters much I am older than you. do not give up keep trying.

[tao1kiku]

Nicely said Veal Cutlet. I'm in the same boat as he (sorta). Found my soul mate now legally wedded wife (completing each other's sentences, knowing when the other is not feeling well without seeing them or hearing them, etc etc.) At the time I met her was working 2 jobs, no home ownership. But I decided I was going to be 100% me, warts and all, no putting on my best face, keeping it all honest and open. And I met her at the age of 48.

Though she was never a porn or working girl, never one to much go out to bars or clubs, she was just trying to lead a normal life and wasn't even "looking" at the time.

So it does happen, though it takes time and alot of patience till you find that right one.

[Jack8941]

Thanks you two give me hope

[Odelay]

My recommendation? Hit the chat sites. There are lotsa girls who are not necessarily doing porn but are supplementing income doing erotic chat. This might seem expensive at $4/min or whatever you get in for, but in the long run it's not that bad. And if you have money and can travel, you'll find cool girls in places like the Philippines who will eventually invite you to come to see them once there is some chemistry btwn you. Met my current g-girl wife from Colombia, this way. Before this, though, I met a really cool t-girl from Colombia who I had some fun times with.

Good luck!

[crystalsopen]

My recommendation? Hit the chat sites. There are lotsa girls who are not necessarily doing porn but are supplementing income doing erotic chat. This might seem expensive at $4/min or whatever you get in for, but in the long run it's not that bad. And if you have money and can travel, you'll find cool girls in places like the Philippines who will eventually invite you to come to see them once there is some chemistry btwn you. Met my current g-girl wife from Colombia, this way. Before this, though, I met a really cool t-girl from Colombia who I had some fun times with.

Good luck!

I used to work chat sites as my main source of income. For me I find that connecting with an attractive person even though a computer screen is very enjoyable. But you should understand those girls are like strippers (sometimes webcam is called "couch stripping"). They are looking to entertain, not find a husband.

[Veal Cutlet]

I live in New York so I met mine at a club.

[francisfkudrow]

Try adultfriendfinder. I find trying to meet people at a bar or club to be awkward at best. AFF is admittedly mostly about sex, but with that comes the open-mindedness required to have available t-girls. (My guess is that you won't find them on eharmony) And it is possible to start an LTR from meeting someone there. (I've met people who wanted an LTR, but it's not what I was looking for).