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kyleharod69
12-24-2014, 04:56 AM
Let me know how they reacted how it came out that you like your girls with cock

rbiller
12-24-2014, 05:48 PM
Sorry but I guess I don't have the guts to tell my friends. I think they would understand but I'm not willing to find out.

Jack8941
12-24-2014, 06:13 PM
I haven't but I seen there reaction when a pretty TS comes on TV

AshlynCreamher
12-24-2014, 06:55 PM
If my hubby were to tell everyone in our family that I'm trans - it would fuck everything up :( Ive been on both sides of the wire and on one side' my relatives still use male pronouns (absent mindedly) it gets to be very annoying very quickly. But on this side of the wire everyone knows me as a normal girl, they use female pronouns and they don't ask stupid questions or tell everyone they know that I'm trans because no-one knows I'm trans (in my private life) So I prefer living in stealth, it just feels more normal.

kyleharod69
12-25-2014, 05:41 AM
Hmmm thats interesting hearing it from a trans perspective

Smiley22
12-25-2014, 05:54 AM
I told my family...no one cared. They figured I was NOT gay because I seen them a females. I'm not into cross dressers and since the ladies I dated were women outside of genitalia it was a non issue. I am a "top" only and who I've dated in the past only wanted to treated as women except ejaculation. We never talked about it again and everything is normal like I never said anything.

Smiley22
12-25-2014, 05:56 AM
Then again I never told my friends and I probably never would. I feel dudes probably would react differently and start labeling me and I do not feel like getting into arguments and fights over bs.

lifeisfiction
12-25-2014, 06:55 AM
If my hubby were to tell everyone in our family that I'm trans - it would fuck everything up :( Ive been on both sides of the wire and on one side' my relatives still use male pronouns (absent mindedly) it gets to be very annoying very quickly. But on this side of the wire everyone knows me as a normal girl, they use female pronouns and they don't ask stupid questions or tell everyone they know that I'm trans because no-one knows I'm trans (in my private life) So I prefer living in stealth, it just feels more normal.

You're married, did not see that coming.

JenniferParisHusband
12-25-2014, 07:45 AM
Yep, brought a few ladies home with me, have a good friend who still pops by to see the folks whenever she's in town. My job has made me since keep it on the DL. But for people I'm close to, I have no problems sharing it. Jennifer Paris is still the wallpaper on my I-phone whenever I code-in.

JenniferParisHusband
12-25-2014, 07:46 AM
If my hubby were to tell everyone in our family that I'm trans - it would fuck everything up :( Ive been on both sides of the wire and on one side' my relatives still use male pronouns (absent mindedly) it gets to be very annoying very quickly. But on this side of the wire everyone knows me as a normal girl, they use female pronouns and they don't ask stupid questions or tell everyone they know that I'm trans because no-one knows I'm trans (in my private life) So I prefer living in stealth, it just feels more normal.

I didn't know you were married either. Lucky man.

Deimos
12-25-2014, 09:21 AM
everyone i know is aware of my sexuality, and none of them seem to care... so it's whatever

Veal Cutlet
12-25-2014, 12:29 PM
My TS soulmate, former yum GOM lives with me for 8 years now. I have other family members in my house too and they all know.

omnifarious
12-25-2014, 03:14 PM
Nope and I would never. My family is composed of extremely hateful, pridefully ignorant people. I often feel embarrassed to be related to them. I've lost count of the number of infuriating arguments I've had with them over the whole LGBT thing.

I've given up.

Toadily
12-25-2014, 03:25 PM
Wow, this seems like some good conversation today for the Christmas diner, I think it would be the perfect time, I don't want to be there anyway. lol

diddyboponTOP
12-25-2014, 09:20 PM
I'm sure everyone knows about ash on the low but don't say anything there is no suck thing as a possible ts

Instrumental
12-25-2014, 09:47 PM
No, if someone asked, I'd tell them, but I don't see the need or point of just randomly telling someone that.

hermesx
12-25-2014, 10:40 PM
Nope. A friend of mine knows I dated a TG woman back in the late 1990s, and she seems pretty intrigued by me since she knows I'm primarily straight. But when I told a girlfriend about my past relationship, she freaked right the fuck out. We never really recovered from that. So I'm veeeeeeerrry leery of who I tell.

jamesedwards
12-25-2014, 10:53 PM
I have told a couple of freaky women and they love the idea. But guys no, they don't like TGirls so why tell them? one of the girls told me she would love to see me suck a TGirls dick she would get turned on. LOL we laughed I called her a dirty bitch and she said "wtf are you then"? LOL we both laughed. she still wants to see and watch.

mtbazz
12-25-2014, 11:43 PM
Nope...

A lot of people I know are just intolerant ignorant assholes, most would not understand..

There are a few that would not care either way though.

Bottom line is it really isn't anyones business but my own

jamesedwards
12-26-2014, 12:46 AM
Nope...

A lot of people I know are just intolerant ignorant assholes, most would not understand..

There are a few that would not care either way though.

Bottom line is it really isn't anyones business but my own

:werd::werd::werd:

SXFX
12-26-2014, 05:40 AM
yup.....friends....its was like...so she was hot....nice!

holzz
12-26-2014, 07:06 AM
no...why? I live my life without divulging...i allow my friends/family to do the same..

even long-term spouses don't know everything....why must they? To say it's "cruel" or "not nice" is bull...people who make that assertion don't really get human conduct...

lust4love
12-26-2014, 07:54 AM
I don't consider myself "into transsexuals", I'm into women/girls.

Just like Smiley22 said in his post, I see them as women.

I've never dated a ts woman, I'm not searching ts woman for relationship or sex but if meet Ms Right and she happens to be TS I would go all in (just as I would if she is cis).

youngblood61
12-26-2014, 02:28 PM
Nope, and don't plan to.

Lovesex1
12-26-2014, 02:45 PM
I showed a girlfriend of mine pics while fucked by Suzana Holmes...she got very excited and we dated a shemaleescort in Amsterdam together.
But loving transsexuals is a hobby not generally accepted by everyone...

seenowiam
12-26-2014, 03:46 PM
My ex girlfriend one day suggested I tell my family she was trans...

Although in my mind it would be like telling my family that my GF has red pubic hair http://th01.deviantart.net/fs71/150/i/2014/040/e/e/female_pubic_hair___red_by_george2224-d75s6rf.jpg(like; that stuff is private, right?).

So anyway, I tell my sister one day in conversation that my then GF is a transgirl. She got really pissed at me, and told me to stop bullshitting her about such things. BTW, my sister liked my ex GF.

Then later in the day when I get home, and tell my GF that my sister did not believe me, she said "forget it, they don't need to know".

If you ask me, other than for some political or to "prove a point" type thing, I do feel she was right - they don't need to know.

As a side note, my ex broke up with me about a year after her GRS telling me she was leaving because "I liked T-girls too much".

Guilty as charged - but what's there not to like?

elchingon8
12-26-2014, 08:46 PM
I told my folks. Now they question whether any of the girls I date were born male. Funny but sad.

bimale69
12-26-2014, 10:57 PM
my family knows(well, most of them, the ones that don't I don't give two fucks about anyways), they've welcomed her, even a couple male members of the family mentioning how hot she is.

WesJohnson
12-28-2014, 07:41 PM
I've told damn near every woman in my life.... just feel obligated too, well the few I try to date. Men... that's another story I carefully plan out who I tell because whether I like to admit it or not, It changes a lot. I would love to force feed everybody with my nature, and maybe they'll give me a unique piece of them.

Dark passenger
12-28-2014, 09:19 PM
I went thru an issue a few years ago where the woman I was married to found out about my love for transexuals. Little to say I'm single now and she had went out of her way to let everyone know about my attraction to TS women. Some people were cool with it and some were down right nasty. I learned who my real friends were and who wasn't. I've always been really private about my life any ways but I say that to say this. It's nobody's business but your own unless you really know you can trust that whoever you tell will understand n not judge you. Just my two cents from experience.

ShawnSmith
12-28-2014, 09:38 PM
Absolutely not, it would just draw 'weird' attention. I rather keep this secret to myself :D

bte
12-28-2014, 09:45 PM
I never understood the reason why people need to come out and say that they are bisexual, gay, or like transsexuals. It really is no one's business except the person I am with and myself.

As for the topic of telling my friends and family about my attraction to transsexuals. I highly doubt that my woman that I am with would like people (family or friends) looking at her like some kind of freak instead of a woman. So no, it is never my place to out someone and I would not tell my family if I was gay, because I am sure they would catch on if I bought a guy over.

CoolAwesomeBXDude
12-29-2014, 09:34 AM
a few friends know ive been with ts' so i assume they know im attracted to ts'

helovestransfeet
12-29-2014, 06:04 PM
My brother went on my laptop and saw a few gigs worth of photos and he asked me and I told him. My mother, father and both step parents know also. Several lady friends know but no male friends. Life is good :-)

youngblood61
12-29-2014, 06:09 PM
Absolutely not, it would just draw 'weird' attention. I rather keep this secret to myself :D:iagree:

booster756
12-29-2014, 06:22 PM
Private life is private, doesn't matter if its about TS or anything else. The fewer who know the less possibility shit will come from it.

hemiv8
12-29-2014, 06:33 PM
I never talked about this with any of my friends or relatives, and don't think I'll do it in the future.

Curiousguy04
12-29-2014, 08:13 PM
How can i put this... Hell no!! Its my secret to keep.

AshlynCreamher
12-29-2014, 11:17 PM
I'm sure everyone knows about ash on the low but don't say anything there is no suck thing as a possible ts

https://neversaynever0304.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/ariel-disney-gif.gif

michneo
12-29-2014, 11:32 PM
Couple ppl know

Family friends and gf

Jamie French
12-30-2014, 03:49 AM
My family has to deal with anyone I bring home, else I they never hear from me again. Always be the one in charge.

nysprod
12-30-2014, 05:32 AM
There's no percentage in it for me to tell family and besides that, ain't none their business anyway.

Missbigdong
12-30-2014, 06:42 AM
Probably be one of those things i keep to myself
Props to those people that tell others but for me its a solo thing

LovinThaTSLadiez
12-30-2014, 08:17 AM
I've told only one friend, but he likes TS girls too. I don't think he has ever been with a TS woman, but he has a major thing for Miriam Rivera ever since he saw part of her TV show. My friend doesn't know that I've slept with TS women, but I am a private person.

I enjoy talking about it with someone even though he and I don't get deep into the conversation. We just admit that there are some very attractive TS ladies out there and go over different scenarios of "what would you do in this situation?" That all started with the Miriam show and he and I posed the question to one another of "would you date her and take the money?" My answer was "yes", but I didn't mention that I wouldn't even need the money. It would be my pleasure to date Ms. Miriam.

I found it interesting that my friend had an interest in TS women as I had long had an interest in pre-op TS women. However, I am not surprised as I think many men would find these beautiful ladies attractive even if they wouldn't admit it. Maybe one day I'll let my friend in a little more, but I do feel that some things are better kept private.

Colin92660
12-30-2014, 08:19 AM
I have shared with a few girls but thats it. I WISH I could share with friends. It's who I am.

I feel like its natural and normal. But I am not sure they would.

hairyguy
12-30-2014, 08:26 AM
no and i would never tell anyone outside of tgirl admirers or those who have the same interest. i hate being judged.

Jamie French
12-30-2014, 08:46 AM
Too late, I judge that you and the rest of ya are a bunch of pussies.
Just more reason to never associate with dudes unless we're taking your money.


no and i would never tell anyone outside of tgirl admirers or those who have the same interest. i hate being judged.

MetusBatman
01-02-2015, 08:29 AM
Too late, I judge that you and the rest of ya are a bunch of pussies.
Just more reason to never associate with dudes unless we're taking your money.

There is nothing wrong with keeping private interests, private. Do you really expect to hold the world to your standards?

AdaBlackXXX
01-02-2015, 09:47 AM
There is nothing wrong with keeping private interests, private. Do you really expect to hold the world to your standards?

Ohh that's totally fine. But do keep in mind that many classy TS myself included would never associate with a closet queer. :fu:

pimpdog
01-02-2015, 10:34 AM
Ohh that's totally fine. But do keep in mind that many classy TS myself included would never associate with a closet queer. :fu:
No loss.

pimpdog
01-02-2015, 10:36 AM
Too late, I judge that you and the rest of ya are a bunch of pussies.
Just more reason to never associate with dudes unless we're taking your money.
That kinda attitude is why men look at ts women as souless blow up dolls, they pay you to go away, we have real lives to hold, its not a option to suck dick for money like most ts.

Jamie French
01-02-2015, 10:49 AM
Herpdy dur.

If anyone is leading a real life it's a business savy escort. I've dealt with 8 years of dudes runnin' in and out of my house like scared little children hoping not to get caught doing something filthy. If you guys led real, full lives you wouldn't have to pay, hide out in your own mind and frequent boards likes this. Thank goodness y'all are mostly broken, keeps my bills paid and my time almost exclusively my own to enjoy freedoms most can't fathom.



That kinda attitude is why men look at ts women as souless blow up dolls, they pay you to go away, we have real lives to hold, its not a option to suck dick for money like most ts.

pimpdog
01-02-2015, 11:02 AM
Herpdy dur.

If anyone is leading a real life it's a business savy escort. I've dealt with 8 years of dudes runnin' in and out of my house like scared little children hoping not to get caught doing something filthy. If you guys led real, full lives you wouldn't have to pay, hide out in your own mind and frequent boards likes this. Thank goodness y'all are mostly broken, keeps my bills paid and my time almost exclusively my own to enjoy freedoms most can't fathom.
lol@buisness savy escort, doing a illegal street hustle is more legit then a man who has a job, and supports his family, get the fuck of here, what are guys gonna do, people have to live in the mainstream, while you guys hide out as some backroom circus attaction, its sad how much you girls resent the guys who like you, funny and sad, most of you sound like molestation victims.

Jamie French
01-02-2015, 11:05 AM
Eh, enough out of you - the fries are burning and your McManager is wondering who's using up all the wifi.


lol@buisness savy escort, doing a illegal street hustle is more legit then a man who has a job, and supports his family, get the fuck of here, what are guys gonna do, people have to live in the mainstream, while you guys hide out as some backroom circus attaction, its sad how much you girls resent the guys who like you, funny and sad, most of you sound like molestation victims.

pimpdog
01-02-2015, 11:09 AM
Eh, enough out of you - the fries are burning and your McManager is wondering who's using up all the wifi.
well, atleast your pretty.

AdaBlackXXX
01-02-2015, 11:12 AM
That kinda attitude is why men look at ts women as souless blow up dolls, they pay you to go away, we have real lives to hold, its not a option to suck dick for money like most ts.


No loss.


Awweeee a chaser got is big ol feeewings hurt. I'm so very sowiie. NOT. Buhh we going to touch up on some issues here okay.. (~ ̄▽ ̄)~

Seems like your more offended on the side that yes you are a closet queer. We get that okay? Big old PIMPDOG the chaser is the maaaan.. in his mommies basement fist pumping his cock to some stolen TS porn.

Now first off closet queer chaser your comment about most trans women sucking cock for money we know thats not true at all. Do most men suck cock for money? Do most gg suck cock for money because a thing called porn exist?? I know your little mind revolves around these fantasies created by porn. But half the shit in your little pee wee of a brain is false. You little tranny chasing dreamer. Hurt because I crushed his hops of hiding a trans girl friend away. Have you ever been laid.. SHIT hold on im getting off topic. Your view towards trans women is pretty pathetic and disgusting. I'm sorry your little world was blown to pieces by some trans women with real world advice. Um and I would like to make note that trans women who do sex work make most of their money by faggot scum like you sucking their cock. Because you get that deep gay desire you dream all the while feeling straight about it.. Tehehe. And don't forget you don't pay the ts escorts to go away.. you pay them because you have no sexual game. #SAD

P.S. Have a very shitty day.

pimpdog
01-02-2015, 11:19 AM
And I wouldnt fuck you for free, 1# your not very attractive, 2# you would probley turn into some wierd stalker bugging me all the time.

AdaBlackXXX
01-02-2015, 11:23 AM
lol@buisness savy escort, doing a illegal street hustle is more legit then a man who has a job, and supports his family, get the fuck of here, what are guys gonna do, people have to live in the mainstream, while you guys hide out as some backroom circus attaction, its sad how much you girls resent the guys who like you, funny and sad, most of you sound like molestation victims.


Who said i pay anybody shit? or have no "sexual game" lmfao, you dont know me stupid, calling your admirers queers shows how you really feel about yourself, ok bro? get it? just self hate, where you molested? seems like it, no feelings here, I dont give a fuck either way, keep sucking dick for money.

I kind of adressed that. STOLEN TS PORN. Also you call yourself an admirer? With the way you speak and the pronoun usage your no admirer. I'm not your bro. Kay? Closet queer. Just another scummy fuck that cums to tube porn. Hahaha. This is some great shit! SO we have a closeted queer chaser who calls himself an admirer AND on top of that the sad little fucker is transphobic.

AdaBlackXXX
01-02-2015, 11:24 AM
And I wouldnt fuck you for free, 1# your not very attractive, 2# you would probley turn into some wierd stalker bugging me all the time.

I think we ALSO addressed THAT I don't associate with closet queers. Keep up you fucking moron.

AdaBlackXXX
01-02-2015, 11:54 AM
Ohh and great point while it's on my mind. Just because you came to some transsexual porn does make you an admirer. In fact many as we have witnessed some that simply cum to some great ts content can be more damaging than helpful. Want to be an admirer? Help the community, get involved, Support it, donate, use correct terminology, educate where its needed, make some non sexual transgender friends. I cream my pants in laughter when some jack off tells me he's an admirer because he jerks to porn while using shit pronouns and arguing bs views. Now get out there an admire some ladies the right way. :)

nicebrn
01-02-2015, 06:55 PM
That cat has been out of the bag for almost ten years, since my gf at the time came with me to Thanksgiving dinner with my immediate family. If some of them hadn't gotten it then, they got it four years later when a later gf had moved in with me. I had to deal with some very dramatic outbursts and break through massive walls of denial, but it's all blown over by now.

Instrumental
01-02-2015, 11:03 PM
Guess it shouldn't be a surprise that this topic has turned into catty arguments with little substance.

It is completely understandable that transgender women don't want to be treated like a hidden dirty fetish and it is understandable that people are afraid to be open about it as well and lose relationships of the people around them that they care about and be ostracized. In doing so, they open themselves to a piece of the discrimination that transgender people receive daily. However, Transgender people deserve the respect, support, and basic decency that are often taken for granted by the rest of the populous. Even if you aren't overtly supporting the trans community via organizations or means of publicity, it is worth it to be honest about your positive feelings towards them because being that beacon of support in a close minded group can change minds and otherwise the trans community is mostly going it alone and going it alone sucks.

holzz
01-03-2015, 03:12 AM
Herpdy dur.

If anyone is leading a real life it's a business savy escort. I've dealt with 8 years of dudes runnin' in and out of my house like scared little children hoping not to get caught doing something filthy. If you guys led real, full lives you wouldn't have to pay, hide out in your own mind and frequent boards likes this. Thank goodness y'all are mostly broken, keeps my bills paid and my time almost exclusively my own to enjoy freedoms most can't fathom.

so guys who have good jobs, prospects, etc are broken...

as are married men who are possibly the biggest bulk of men who see TS escorts...

and freedom? hmmm....my job doesn't expose me to STDs by routine, and provides some lasting benefit to others.....;)

Fancy fancy
01-03-2015, 03:39 AM
Tramp.



Ohh that's totally fine. But do keep in mind that many classy TS myself included would never associate with a closet queer. :fu:

pimpdog
01-03-2015, 03:47 AM
Why even try to explain something to somebody, that they wont even begin to comprehend?

transbeastiality
01-03-2015, 05:03 AM
Eh, enough out of you - the fries are burning and your McManager is wondering who's using up all the wifi.

So how many crowdfunding campaigns have you thrown to beg for money?

holzz
01-05-2015, 06:48 PM
Hmm.. my comment was strong i guess..but no butthurt on my part...just if a guy spends thousands on tss a year..he cant have a shitty job or even lack game..(if ue fucks his wife after fucking/getting fucked by a ts ;))

Rusty Eldora
01-05-2015, 07:15 PM
Ohh and great point while it's on my mind. Just because you came to some transsexual porn does make you an admirer. In fact many as we have witnessed some that simply cum to some great ts content can be more damaging than helpful. Want to be an admirer? Help the community, get involved, Support it, donate, use correct terminology, educate where its needed, make some non sexual transgender friends. I cream my pants in laughter when some jack off tells me he's an admirer because he jerks to porn while using shit pronouns and arguing bs views. Now get out there an admire some ladies the right way. :)

There are very few guys out there that will say "I like trans women" in public, but it is so needed. Yes go be a guy that does.

There are two parts of acceptance in society. The first is a general acceptance as in "transgender persons are normal and deserve to be treated normally." That is truly equal opportunity at jobs, neighbors, and friends. It does not require attraction, many will not ever be attracted to and that is fine.

The 2nd part is "I am attracted to trans women and would be honored to have her as my date at the office party."