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Bark
12-04-2014, 06:32 AM
I live in a quiet suburb and its next to impossible to see trannies where i live, if you do its kind of out of place. I mean I was lucky to see a tall one in a Safeway in a dress and high heels. I was way too shy to talk to her, though I did like having a sighting (Like deer in the wild).

My sister had her encounter at Nijo Castle Sushi bar in Fremont, CA (yeah, I live there) doing karaoke at the restaurant bar. I should drop in on them, whats a good day for trannies to meet at a bar besides I know some of you would say everyday or anytime. Guess for Friday or Saturday night.

Hey, if your the ones that go there and read this, invite me, just wanna hang out and see how its like. No expectations other than getting tipsy.

BLKGSXR
12-04-2014, 07:06 AM
The same exact way you would approach a female, Like a man....now I cant teach you how to be a man, but thats how you do it good sir.

Teydyn
12-04-2014, 07:41 AM
Treat her like a human being
Dont call her tranny or shemale or heshe
Dont ask her about her penis. Unless thats all you are interested in so she knows...

Bark
12-08-2014, 02:07 AM
Treat her like a human being
Dont call her tranny or shemale or heshe
Dont ask her about her penis. Unless thats all you are interested in so she knows...
Folks are misunderstanding what i ask, its where do the majority of them hang out? Not how to ask one out, I am confident i could do that.

You were the most helpful compared to the obnoxious post by the other fellow.

New2this11
12-08-2014, 02:40 AM
I kind of want to know the same thing. I live in Vegas so you would think it would be easy for me, but I have no idea where to look, or how to notice them.

Dark passenger
12-08-2014, 02:43 AM
The same thing many of us need to know. What about Pittsburgh Pa?

Kioji
12-08-2014, 09:19 AM
I kind of want to know the same thing. I live in Vegas so you would think it would be easy for me, but I have no idea where to look, or how to notice them.

I heard Vegas is full of trans women idk personally though mate

Mr. Yates
12-08-2014, 10:35 AM
Well.....luck?

Keep in mind that by and large, transwomen generally seek to pass as women. What this means to you is, if a TS is hanging out somewhere that is specifically known to be a designated TS spot, odds are she is there for business reasons, not social/intitmate interaction.

There are exceptions to every rule, of course, but I think that's a pretty good broad guideline to keep in mind.

EvaCassini
12-08-2014, 10:53 AM
THERE IS NO PLACE "WE" HANG OUT. WE"RE JUST FUCKIN' PEOPLE.

You goddamned dudes need to get out of your own heads about us. We aren't mystical fucking fairies. We aren't elusive. Our numbers are simply few. Our demand is high. We keep away from ya'll until we decide on one WE like. It's a safety thing, it's practical and pragmatic approach to dudes, (IF dudes are even what we're into.) Unfortunately for ya'll, it means you'll most likely only ever encounter us online or on Eros. For pay.

POSTED by Jamie French. I didn't realize I was on her account. All the same, she agrees.)

Rusty Eldora
12-10-2014, 08:43 PM
THERE IS NO PLACE "WE" HANG OUT. WE"RE JUST FUCKIN' PEOPLE.

You goddamned dudes need to get out of your own heads about us. We aren't mystical fucking fairies. We aren't elusive. Our numbers are simply few. Our demand is high. We keep away from ya'll until we decide on one WE like. It's a safety thing, it's practical and pragmatic approach to dudes, (IF dudes are even what we're into.) Unfortunately for ya'll, it means you'll most likely only ever encounter us online or on Eros. For pay.

POSTED by Jamie French. I didn't realize I was on her account. All the same, she agrees.)

Said so Well Jamie. The pay route actually is quite good, you are helping them as you learn. That can lead to meeting the tgirls in your area where you both can find out if there is real interest. Should probably rephrase - I'm looking for my girl, being transgender is OK, possibly preferred. Yes they are people.

Yuengling
12-10-2014, 09:42 PM
If you see an add for a tgirl that says she charges $200 per hour, is that the true total, or will there be an additional tip expected in additon to the $200 when you actually meet?

fireblad
12-11-2014, 12:59 AM
I live in a quiet suburb and its next to impossible to see trannies where i live, if you do its kind of out of place. I mean I was lucky to see a tall one in a Safeway in a dress and high heels. I was way too shy to talk to her, though I did like having a sighting (Like deer in the wild).

LOL!!! There is a porn site (or maybe used to be) called Tranny Hunter maybe you should check it out.

livepersona
12-13-2014, 06:22 PM
There is usually a bar/club in major cities where you can meet them. You'll have to use the Internet to find the ones in your local area. Otherwise you'll have to meet them on online through varies adult sites or craigslist/backpage/Eros.

Ts RedVeX
12-13-2014, 07:27 PM
Why don't you guys just take life as it goes and look out for people you have something in common with before picking out trannies in public. If someone approached me in the street and asked if I wanted to be friends or have sex with them, justifying the situation with something like "Because I wanna befriend or fuck a tranny", I'd tell them to sod off.

Dahlia Babe Ailhad
12-13-2014, 08:19 PM
Hi men,

You men!..I tell ya. YOU all just don't think!

Look, if you want a trans-girlfriend, i mean one that is NOT an escort, you are all looking in the wrong places if you are looking in online escort sites and bars where TGs hang out because these places are usually filled with working girls.

I can tell you exactly where to meet TGs who are looking for real love and acceptance from legit caring, loving boyfriends, and who are not all escorts.

BUT, before i spill the pot of beans, i would need to have MANY of the other girls' permission to do so.
Why?
Well, because if a lot of you men all get T-Girlfriends, that could/might/maybe hurt the industry and their, and my own, income.

Many of these TGs are not at all interested in dating for money - maybe, some are. Most of them just want love, protection, and security JUST like most GGs.

I will say no more, until MANY MANY girls, in here, give me the okay in this thread, to do so.
I can see that many of them hate the question and it's normal, we are escorts, we don't know you men and probably would not want a guy as a boyfriend who hires escorts for "fantasy sex".

By the same token, i doubt men would like to share their "T-girlfriend" with a city of men. Unless, of course, all you are are dirty dogs who only want to con them into free sex, and once you've had your fill and saved oodles of cash, you break it off saying, "It's just not working out, you know? My friends and family are laughing at me because you're trans. Sorry. You understand, right? Good-bye".

I can be sure that most of the TGs you will get from my tip are not going to want to have sex with you right away. And if that's all you want, they'd probably tell you to hire an escort.

So i leave it up the the girls to decide what i should do with my info.

I will not tell ANYONE in Private Message, so please, don't bother asking because for i all i know, that pm might be from a girl with a secret account testing me. And the last thing i want is to piss off ANY of my competitors.
Got it? Clear?



So ladies, what says the majority of you?
I don't know how many okays i would need to feel comfortable with this, so i will, also, leave that number up to you girls. Not only one girl decides. I need you to talk about this. Five or six saying "okay" is not enough in a site such as this.
There has to be...oh i don't know exactly...but there has to be MANY okays.

Babe,
xoxo

livepersona
12-13-2014, 08:35 PM
Why don't you guys just take life as it goes and look out for people you have something in common with before picking out trannies in public. If someone approached me in the street and asked if I wanted to be friends or have sex with them, justifying the situation with something like "Because I wanna befriend or fuck a tranny", I'd tell them to sod off.

Because if a guy wants a tranny he wants a tranny nothing wrong with that. The real guys that want a tranny would talk to you like any other women if they seen you on the street. They just need to know where they find them at.

Rusty Eldora
12-13-2014, 08:36 PM
Why don't you guys just take life as it goes and look out for people you have something in common with before picking out trannies in public. If someone approached me in the street and asked if I wanted to be friends or have sex with them, justifying the situation with something like "Because I wanna befriend or fuck a tranny", I'd tell them to sod off.

Just think how well this line would work if she is Cis.

I suspect trans women hang out at places like their favorite restaurant, library, gym, park, or friends house. Just like a woman.

Jamie French
12-13-2014, 11:33 PM
"What's wrong with that" is that it purely is a sex thing. If you were just a normal straight guy you might go out and pussy hound every now and then, but only because you want to get laid, not because you have a vagina fetish. The whole reason dudes are into trannies is because of how novel the idea is of a chick with a dick. No one yearns for a chick with a dick when they're growing up... it's something you "discover" through the free market. It's a product, a luxury item, it's weird sex packaged and placed within reach for a nominal fee.

There is no analogue for what trannies are in the animal kingdom. Not the way you want to consume them. I'm not talking about genetic mutants with unfortunate genitals here... I'm talking about the ideal scenario, girls with boy parts. But it's a dolled up lie. All we really are are folks who are capitalizing on a weird rough patch in our lives. None of this is real and so when you tell us about your stupid preferences we know it's predicated on an intentional misconception the WE are in the business to perpetuate. So don't give us that crap.

We're so good at what we do that you don't even know you are mistaken. It's in our best interest to stay away from chasers no matter how well intentioned because we know the truth of the situation and it's not conducive to actual happiness. Not with y'all.


Because if a guy wants a tranny he wants a tranny nothing wrong with that. The real guys that want a tranny would talk to you like any other women if they seen you on the street. They just need to know where they find them at.

livepersona
12-14-2014, 12:43 AM
The guy is on a porn forum asking where he can meet Tgirls. Of course it's a sex thing! No one is trying to fool anyone. All I'm saying is that you can be a good respectful guy and treat women with respect even though you want to sleep with them.

Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. I've always been upfront and honest and always had great results.

asdolollo
12-14-2014, 01:04 AM
Hi Jamie,
I really appreciated your reply as this is a really interesting topic. I wanted to ask you a couple of questions, as i think i've not understand totally what you are saying.

Reply in quotes:


"What's wrong with that" is that it purely is a sex thing. If you were just a normal straight guy you might go out and pussy hound every now and then, but only because you want to get laid, not because you have a vagina fetish.
That is totally true, at least for me. And i can understand it is not right, it is not kind, but it is a starting point, for me. I may approach you (generic) for my chick with a dick fetish, but who knows what could happen? Maybe i could fall in love with you, and see beyond your cock.


The whole reason dudes are into trannies is because of how novel the idea is of a chick with a dick. No one yearns for a chick with a dick when they're growing up... it's something you "discover" through the free market. I don't get it... the reason guys are into trannies is because they like trannies... the same as guys likes girls or other guys, chubby, skinny, goth, punk, sweet, bossy girl/tranny/guys.
If you put the sex out of the equation i could marry a man, so you could say that i look for women only for their vagina, and this is partially true, as sex is part of a love relationship.
The growing thing is about transitioning or what? What do you mean that no one yearns while they are growing?



It's a product, a luxury item, it's weird sex packaged and placed within reach for a nominal fee. I agree, but not always. Personally i would love to meet trannies, chat with them, talk via emails (not about sex) the same as i would like with a women. I may tend to prefer a tranny because i've never had the pleasure of being friend with one and beacause i may think that we could have something more in common, maybe some similar struggles, but that is just an idea.


There is no analogue for what trannies are in the animal kingdom. Not the way you want to consume them. I'm not talking about genetic mutants with unfortunate genitals here...There is nothing like humanity in the animal kingdom. Animals never do what we do, in any case, in any direction. An animal would never kill thousand of other animals like him just to be a little bit richier.


I'm talking about the ideal scenario, girls with boy parts. But it's a dolled up lie. Ideal scenario? as i've never had a tranny friend (here is hard to even see a tranny on the streets) i can't really understand, but may i ask, with alle good faith i have, and the respect: what are you? aren't you a girl with a cock? I mean, you are a woman in a fuzzy logic, aren't you? What is different between you and a woman? the primary sexual character, which is the hidden one, and you share the secondary sexual character with a woman, the outer one.
So how could i see you? How should i see you?
A woman with boy parts (primay)? A man with girl parts (secondary)? None of the above, a third sex?
Many transsexuals change their primary character too, so should i consider them 100% like the gender they transitioned to?


All we really are are folks who are capitalizing on a weird rough patch in our lives.I don't think that transexuality leads to capitalizing by itself, it's just higly demanded and so it is easy to capitalize it. If i was yearned as you are, i would capitalyze it too, as a straight male.


None of this is real and so when you tell us about your stupid preferences we know it's predicated on an intentional misconception the WE are in the business to perpetuate. So don't give us that crap.
What is not real? what is real, so? You are real, aren't you? If you are talking about kink and videos and porn, ok, right, i personally don't expect it with a tranny and i would not like it. I would make love with a tranny the same as i make with a woman.
I'm really asking to understand, what misconception are you talking about?


We're so good at what we do that you don't even know you are mistaken.He was mistaken about what?


It's in our best interest to stay away from chasers no matter how well intentioned because we know the truth of the situation and it's not conducive to actual happiness. Not with y'all.i can understand that and i think it is right, but this is the same as gg pornstars, i think.

Forgive me if i've said a bunch of bullshits, but again i've never been inside the tranny world in real life, so mine are just mind elaborations.

Tho i will "chase" a tranny only if i like her as a human being, for her personality, for her brain, as i do with women. Not for their vaginas or cocks.

Jamie French
12-14-2014, 01:08 AM
Yeah, and since it's a sex thing we don't wanna have anything to do with your type. That's why we either charge or render ourselves invisible/unapproachable. When it come to sex WE call the shots. WE pick and choose from on high. That's the way this particular corner of the world works. No opinion there Jack. That's straight gospel.

People want straight answers about this mess, I deliver 'em direct from the core.

The OP now has access to the underpinnings, will hopefully wise up and pay for a hooker or go meet some nice girl that can shit out babies.


The guy is on a porn forum asking where he can meet Tgirls. Of course it's a sex thing! No one is trying to fool anyone. All I'm saying is that you can be a good respectful guy and treat women with respect even though you want to sleep with them.

Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. I've always been upfront and honest and always had great results.

evagalour
12-15-2014, 04:45 AM
kill me