Giving this a try? 21 y/o sailor

[Tattudsailor]

So I've never been with a Ts, never really talked to one so I guess I'm just here to see what all the buzz is about, ladies feel free to message me, and I guess just post any questions yall have?

[Jamie French]

So I've never been with a Ts, never really talked to one so I guess I'm just here to see what all the buzz is about, ladies feel free to message me, and I guess just post any questions yall have?

A.) What incentive would anyone have to to message a total stranger on request?
B.) Ask you questions? What, are you a famous guy or something?

[Tattudsailor]

A.) What incentive would anyone have to to message a total stranger on request?
B.) Ask you questions? What, are you a famous guy or something?


Wow not even 20 minutes on this site and this is what I'm dealing with... Umm not sure what to say to you.. I'm curious about the Ts community and was maybe hoping to get a few tips, pointers, but if you don't have anything positive please be on your way

[Instrumental]

Transgender people would like to be treated with decency and respect (and as the gender they identify with) like everyone else. That's pretty much the only tip or pointer to give.

[Jamie French]

Hey new fish, be on YOUR way. See the name? See the post count? The membership level?

When someone points out your lack of self awareness you take it on the chin like a man or get the fuck out.

Your in my world son.


Wow not even 20 minutes on this site and this is what I'm dealing with... Umm not sure what to say to you.. I'm curious about the Ts community and was maybe hoping to get a few tips, pointers, but if you don't have anything positive please be on your way

[Jericho]

Don't know how accurate it is, but, i got it from the chasers handbook...

Use female pronouns.
Don't ask what her boy name was.
Never, EVER, under any circumstances, no matter how many times it's offered on a plate, fuck her best friend.

That's about it, really! :shrug

[STARTUP999]

Don't know how accurate it is, but, i got it from the chasers handbook...

Use female pronouns.
Don't ask what her boy name was.
Never, EVER, under any circumstances, no matter how many times it's offered on a plate, fuck her best friend.

That's about it, really! :shrug

That's great stuff esp, the part about being with her friend, that advice would have saved me some trouble.

I would add:

Do not ask about if she is getting SRS or anything you would not say to a genetic female.

Remember even if she is a sex worker she is a person with feelings not a curiosity or a stunt cock,

Basically always think of her and treat her like a lady at all times even if she happens to be forcing her cock into one of your orafaces.

[STARTUP999]

And Sailor friendly advice, don't get into a battle of wits with Jamie, you will loose.

[Tattudsailor]

And Sailor friendly advice, don't get into a battle of wits with Jamie, you will loose.




Haha I've noticed. I'm not trying to insult anyone on this site, I'm new to this site as well as the Ts community. I would love to talk to one, get to know one, and maybe start a relationship. Maybe start off in the personals?

[lovelygirlyamy]

it's really rude to start off by saying.. "ive never been with a TS" and also to say "ladies just message me"

1.) We are women just like any other woman.
2.) We see through assholes bullshit, remember we have to deal with douche bags daily.
3.) Why would me or any of the other ladies want to message you?

And Jamie is very well know and a very respectable adult model, so be respectable towards her and others on this forum.

[youngblood61]

Go easy guys he's a Rookie lol.:)

[Tattudsailor]

Go easy guys he's a Rookie lol.:)

Thank you! 😓

[pimpdog]

lol@at wondering what the buzz is about, stop, just buy a hooker, see if your fantasy lives up to what you thought it would be, and go from there.

[jennylicious]

Go easy guys he's a Rookie lol.:)

A rookie or not, he just started a thread saying he was searching for information, and then said "post any questions yall have".

Seriously, what?

Outside of the HA message board and in the world in general that makes no sense.

"I've never been with a Ts", So what? I've never been with someone who was ginger. If I was talking to someone I was attracted to that was ginger, the last thing I would do is say "I've never been with someone who is ginger", as if it's some kind of sexual todo list I'm keeping.

Then he goes on to say "I'm just here to see what all the buzz is about".

There is none, so don't make transsexuals into a fetish. There are more Roberta Muldoons in the community than there are Ryder Monroes. So when guys come in and say "I really want to meet a transsexual" it's utter rubbish. What they are really saying is "My knowledge of transsexuals is largely based on what I've seen in the movies" which, as with everything else, presents an idealised and unrealistic image of the real world.

If you've never met or talked to a transsexual, I can absolutely assure you there is no buzz, transsexuals are just the same as the people you met who weren't transsexuals. They come in all different sizes, characters, and levels of attractiveness, and they live in the same world as you.

[Jack8941]

Sailor?? 21??? Are u sure your not 12
Grow up and so some respect!

[Jamie French]

Yup.


A rookie or not, he just started a thread saying he was searching for information, and then said "post any questions yall have".

Seriously, what?

Outside of the HA message board and in the world in general that makes no sense.

"I've never been with a Ts", So what? I've never been with someone who was ginger. If I was talking to someone I was attracted to that was ginger, the last thing I would do is say "I've never been with someone who is ginger", as if it's some kind of sexual todo list I'm keeping.

Then he goes on to say "I'm just here to see what all the buzz is about".

There is none, so don't make transsexuals into a fetish. There are more Roberta Muldoons in the community than there are Ryder Monroes. So when guys come in and say "I really want to meet a transsexual" it's utter rubbish. What they are really saying is "My knowledge of transsexuals is largely based on what I've seen in the movies" which, as with everything else, presents an idealised and unrealistic image of the real world.

If you've never met or talked to a transsexual, I can absolutely assure you there is no buzz, transsexuals are just the same as the people you met who weren't transsexuals. They come in all different sizes, characters, and levels of attractiveness, and they live in the same world as you.

[Tattudsailor]

Ok everyone ha. I get the point. Can we kill this thread please? It's getting childish... Thanks

[TSPornFan]

Seriously what was wrong with him say ""ive never been with a TS"? He is new to the community and is simply saying he does not all of the norms with being with a TS woman. What if he said "I've never been with anyone"? I'm sure people would start laughing and insulting him for being inexperienced. He's just giving a heads up that he may make a mistake without knowing before hand.

[LI SEAN08]

A rookie or not, he just started a thread saying he was searching for information, and then said "post any questions yall have".

Seriously, what?

Outside of the HA message board and in the world in general that makes no sense.

"I've never been with a Ts", So what? I've never been with someone who was ginger. If I was talking to someone I was attracted to that was ginger, the last thing I would do is say "I've never been with someone who is ginger", as if it's some kind of sexual todo list I'm keeping.

Then he goes on to say "I'm just here to see what all the buzz is about".

There is none, so don't make transsexuals into a fetish. There are more Roberta Muldoons in the community than there are Ryder Monroes. So when guys come in and say "I really want to meet a transsexual" it's utter rubbish. What they are really saying is "My knowledge of transsexuals is largely based on what I've seen in the movies" which, as with everything else, presents an idealised and unrealistic image of the real world.

If you've never met or talked to a transsexual, I can absolutely assure you there is no buzz, transsexuals are just the same as the people you met who weren't transsexuals. They come in all different sizes, characters, and levels of attractiveness, and they live in the same world as you.

Well.... if u truly believe all that, then my fair lad..... you need to take a trip to NY and see how different trannys can be!!

[jennylicious]

Oh, really? Do tell me more?

How are people different in NY?

And I'm not a "lad".

I suspect I was reading when you were still looking at the pictures, but times have changed.

[Tattudsailor]

Seriously what was wrong with him say ""ive never been with a TS"? He is new to the community and is simply saying he does not all of the norms with being with a TS woman. What if he said "I've never been with anyone"? I'm sure people would start laughing and insulting him for being inexperienced. He's just giving a heads up that he may make a mistake without knowing before hand.

Thank you for the backup. I keep saying it and I'll say it again. I never meant to insult anyone. But quite frankly I don't know how this site works. and all i meant by ask questions is for instance "why did you join to site?" "Why a transsexual?" "Where you from?" As in get to know me! But no... Everyone is so caught up in my verbage that they forgot what the he'll the post was even about... It's about me doing something I don't normally do. Stepping out of my comfort zone to try something most people would think is crazy. And that's why I'm here. Cause I'm not like everyone else. So either everyone shut up about my misuse of words. Or leave my thread. Thank you to all the people backing me up. But for being on this site for 2 days... Yall really did a great job of showing me a warm welcoming.........

[Tapatio]

Lol @ "I'm not like everybody else."

[Tapatio]

Clearly we have a rare and delicate flower on our hands.


Welcome. Your skin will thicken.

Have you made your "Am I gay?" thread yet?

[jennylicious]

Seriously what was wrong with him say ""ive never been with a TS"? He is new to the community and is simply saying he does not all of the norms with being with a TS woman. What if he said "I've never been with anyone"? I'm sure people would start laughing and insulting him for being inexperienced. He's just giving a heads up that he may make a mistake without knowing before hand.

If he was, as you say, giving a heads up then lets be clear, Jamie put him in his place and he told her "be on your way".

For someone humble enough, as you suggest, to make it clear he may make a mistake, he proved surprisingly resistant to being corrected.

Furthermore, if he wanted to tell us he was inexperienced then we could have definitely inferred it from his statement: "never really talked to one". His sexual history was therefore entirely superfluous, and the thing is, as it has been through the ages, if your sexual history is unnecessary in a conversation then it is not the done thing to offer it. You don't need an Emily Post course to work that one out.

[Tattudsailor]

Ha wow this site is just filled with nothing but pure assholes. Thought it would be chill. Maybe meet some cool people. Haha wow!!!

[Jamie French]

Uhh, dude - everyone knows why everyone is here. Boners give you boners. From where we stand, questions need not be asked. You're the new fish, you make the inquiries. If they aren't dumbfuck questions then you just might strike up some normal conversation.


Thank you for the backup. I keep saying it and I'll say it again. I never meant to insult anyone. But quite frankly I don't know how this site works. and all i meant by ask questions is for instance "why did you join to site?" "Why a transsexual?" "Where you from?" As in get to know me! But no... Everyone is so caught up in my verbage that they forgot what the he'll the post was even about... It's about me doing something I don't normally do. Stepping out of my comfort zone to try something most people would think is crazy. And that's why I'm here. Cause I'm not like everyone else. So either everyone shut up about my misuse of words. Or leave my thread. Thank you to all the people backing me up. But for being on this site for 2 days... Yall really did a great job of showing me a warm welcoming.........

[Instrumental]

Well, since you've deemed the community to be nothing but assholes, might as well give a few more tips:

-Bathroom selfies are tacky as fuck, no one looks nice with a background of public urinals to compliment them.
-The word, "Tattooed" doesn't have a 'u' in it.
-You aren't impressing anyone saying you're a sailor, you don't even have a commission.
-Making your topic title like a craigslist ad is sketchy as hell and makes it look like you're just trying to get laid, not expressing any interest in the actual community.
-Your desperation to get laid by a trans girl is bolstered by your next comment that says you've never been with a transgirl.
-Read this (http://www.glaad.org/transgender/allies) if you actually care to learn more.
-Support a pride parade and talk to people there also.

[broncofan]

I'm not sure you did anything to overtly offend but I don't understand why you have to make a thread about yourself and your situation. Why not look around and see who's who first? See who the regulars are. See what the conversations are. Join the conversations as they come up. You don't enter a club, grab a megaphone and say, "I've never been to this club before can someone show me the ropes....... and hold my hand while I take a piss.." Just mosey around.

[wiltthestilt]

He thinks this works like the Craigslist MFM section, and some TS will respond to him and meet him for sex. On this board, that sort of thing makes you look like a creepy douche. WTF is wrong with some people.

[Tapatio]

Ha wow this site is just filled with nothing but pure assholes. Thought it would be chill. Maybe meet some cool people. Haha wow!!!

Ridiculous.

It's hard to accept you as human at this point.

[Badgrammar7]

A.) What incentive would anyone have to to message a total stranger on request?
B.) Ask you questions? What, are you a famous guy or something?

Stop being so rude. Who are you to talk that way? Youre not even that pretty

[StlyeMeCunty]

He is 21 years old. Give him a break. How many boys in general have you met that know how to say the right things when exploring new social/sexual horizons? I'm sure he is just saying what was on his mind the best way he knew how, no matter how it was viewed by others.
On another note, It doesn't seem like a very good choice to respond so nastily to people when I would think part of the reason you are on this site is to drum up business. You do all this work to create content in a world that has gone digital and made it easy for people steal and post your hard work for free. I know that if I were in the same situation I would be nice to everyone on the site, because you never know who will pay for that subscription, or who is going to stay away because of an unfriendly reputation that you could start to create. The customer is always right, remember?

[jennylicious]

Ha wow this site is just filled with nothing but pure assholes. Thought it would be chill. Maybe meet some cool people. Haha wow!!!

What's that now? Bitchiness in the transgender community?

Who knew?!

:roll:

You said you didn't mean to offend anyone but in the fucking same post you say you just wanted to "try something most people would think is crazy." Just to be clear IN THE EXACT SAME FUCKING POST

So engaging with the transgender community in your words: "most people would think is crazy".

I just can't imagine why people are being hostile to you...

I really just don't know why anybody on this board would take offence at a remark like that...

It must be some specific thing about people on this board being arseholes, because most communities would be perfectly happy if you said something like that when you engaged with them. Yes, that's it! It can't be basic social skills you're lacking, it must be our fault!

In fact now I come to think of it, I remember a night in Harlem when a white guy came into the bar and got onto the table and said "I've never been with a black woman, never really spoke to one, so any questions don't hesitate to ask." Then it went quiet so he quickly added "Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to offend you, it's just I'm interested in stepping out of my comfort zone and doing what most people would think was crazy!"

Thinking back to the loving way the patrons of the bar took that man to their heart now. The warm way they accepted that mans heartfelt statement only goes to prove, it's not you being an arsehole, it must be us...

[Jamie French]

I can talk that way because I'm made out of pure awesome. Ain't nobody told ya? Being pretty has only like 28% to do with it. At most.


Stop being so rude. Who are you to talk that way? Youre not even that pretty

[GroobySteven]

well, since you've deemed the community to be nothing but assholes, might as well give a few more tips:

-bathroom selfies are tacky as fuck, no one looks nice with a background of public urinals to compliment them.
-the word, "tattooed" doesn't have a 'u' in it.
-you aren't impressing anyone saying you're a sailor, you don't even have a commission.
-making your topic title like a craigslist ad is sketchy as hell and makes it look like you're just trying to get laid, not expressing any interest in the actual community.
-your desperation to get laid by a trans girl is bolstered by your next comment that says you've never been with a transgirl.
-read this (http://www.glaad.org/transgender/allies) if you actually care to learn more.
-support a pride parade and talk to people there also.


post of the week for me right here. Funny and informative without resorting to insults

[EvaCassini]

post of the week for me right here. Funny and informative without resorting to insults

That post is EPIC! lol

Well done Instrumental!

[TSPornFan]

If he was, as you say, giving a heads up then lets be clear, Jamie put him in his place and he told her "be on your way".

For someone humble enough, as you suggest, to make it clear he may make a mistake, he proved surprisingly resistant to being corrected.

Furthermore, if he wanted to tell us he was inexperienced then we could have definitely inferred it from his statement: "never really talked to one". His sexual history was therefore entirely superfluous, and the thing is, as it has been through the ages, if your sexual history is unnecessary in a conversation then it is not the done thing to offer it. You don't need an Emily Post course to work that one out.

LOL I've spoke to a TS before as she was in one of my classes in college. She was not my type physically and personality wise. Speaking to her does not mean I hooked up with her or had the intentions to hook with her. Neither situation was the case at all.