Need a honest opinion

[Sasha Strokes]

Hello guys its been a min I know.. But I have a question and Ts are also welcome to respond to this post if you like..

Here's the deal I recently moved to small town when I got reconnected with my birth family.. There isn't much of a gay community out here and so far im the only trans woman.. Well since my surgery im not that easy to spot im trans and alot of guys offer me drinks and dance with me flirt and etc.. The word eventually got out than a female will try to call me out and than everyone is like ewww omg nooooo.. Some end up waiting till she leave and still chat with me anyway but I just wanted to know.. Have you ever experienced this in a straight club and guys when your told she is trans by a hating sis gender woman do you still pursue her..

respond honestly please its ok if you don't I just would like an explanation why this happens...

[GroobySteven]

I've had this happen to me in Hawaii, I used to hang out with a bunch of the girls and every so often so local chick would come over and say "Hey, you know that's a dude you're with". The funniest time was when it wasn't a dude, but my ex-PA.
I usually leaned over to the girls ear and whispered ... "I know her very well and she's a lot more woman than you, you ignorant cunt", which usually got the right effect.

Flip side is, it caused a lot of fights.

[Sasha Strokes]

I've had this happen to me in Hawaii, I used to hang out with a bunch of the girls and every so often so local chick would come over and say "Hey, you know that's a dude you're with". The funniest time was when it wasn't a dude, but my ex-PA.
I usually leaned over to the girls ear and whispered ... "I know her very well and she's a lot more woman than you, you ignorant cunt", which usually got the right effect.

Flip side is, it caused a lot of fights.

omg why do they do this.. Like really what are you getting out of that.. The funny part is what she doesn't know is that she has taken all the attention off of her and has focused it on me.. Because yeah they are "shocked" at first but than eventually most of the men end up making their way over to me anyway.. Its just unnecessary..

[nysprod]

To me this sounds like a situation that could be potentially dangerous, and let me ask you this:

When this woman calls you out and acts aggressive and/or threatening to you, what are you going to do?

[Sasha Strokes]

I've had this happen to me in Hawaii, I used to hang out with a bunch of the girls and every so often so local chick would come over and say "Hey, you know that's a dude you're with". The funniest time was when it wasn't a dude, but my ex-PA.
I usually leaned over to the girls ear and whispered ... "I know her very well and she's a lot more woman than you, you ignorant cunt", which usually got the right effect.

Flip side is, it caused a lot of fights.


To me this sounds like a situation that could be potentially dangerous, and let me ask you this:

When this woman calls you out and acts aggressive and/or threatening to you, what are you going to do?

well because of my past track record *cough lol I try to avoid that and pretend I don't see.. What I do worry about is not the girls but yet the guys because honestly im getting new to this after surgery "passing" thing and usually I just use to assume everyone already knew I was trans & just let it slide.. But now some guys really dont know and they get really upset after seen grinding on me or flirting with me.. But these guys come on to me im usually in the corner with a pepsi bopping my head to the music..

[blkmamba]

You need to be more careful with your girl friends. Had this happened when I was talking to a girl and own girl friend told me she was Tran....haters

[Sasha Strokes]

You need to be more careful with your girl friends. Had this happened when I was talking to a girl and own girl friend told me she was Tran....haters

yeah that does happen alot as well.. So what did you do? Did you still talk to her anyway or acted disgusted and bail.. be honest lol

[blkmamba]

yeah that does happen alot as well.. So what did you do? Did you still talk to her anyway or acted disgusted and bail.. be honest lol

AM a grown man...Would never let a girl friend or a dude for that matter stop me from talking to a Tran, a white girl, a black girl or anyone else for that matter.

[Kioji]

AM a grown man...Would never let a girl friend or a dude for that matter stop me from talking to a Tran, a white girl, a black girl or anyone else for that matter.
Yeah i agree
I would ignore the shit out of someone (or tell them off) like "hey you shouldn't be talking to her she's trans" whatever it is i can come to my own conclusion when the moment arises that I'm informed of this or other information by the chick i'm talking too. I can't stand women who think they are helping me out by just being bitchy like for tweety bird fly the fuck away.

[STARTUP999]

Please consider LA or San Fran or any large civilized city where a stunning woman like you will be appreciated. (I am hoping for LA for my own selfish reasons).

[Kiwi_bloke]

Unfortunately, when it comes to small towns, they're always worse for prejudice than big cities, but I can certainly understand the attraction.

I once took a tgirl to my employer's Christmas dinner - very formal, corporate affair 200+ people. Nobody noticed until a woman clicked and went around and told everyone. You could tell from the looks what was being thought.

I noticed the women became bitchy as hell, bumping into her on the dance floor and laughing in pairs while looking at her.

We just smiled and ignored the shit out of them.

Sometimes, the only thing you can do is be yourself and fuck the prejudice and actions of small-minded cunts.

Don't fight back, wear a "Transgender and Proud of it!" badge. Don't give the bitches time to tell people what is fact - make it obvious that you have more assets than the average female.

Fuck 'em.

If you can't beat 'em, stay one step in front of 'em.

[pimpdog]

They mad cause they imagine the dudes all wanting to fuck you, little do they know you would be pounding on there dudes!!! lol, but yeah GG's like to hate, but tg's do the same thing to men, try to bust them out to other tg's and label them a chaser or faggot, whatever, its all comes down to peoples low self esteem, and taking people down a notch, sad thing is somebody could get hurt, and people do.

[Sasha Strokes]

Yeah i agree
I would ignore the shit out of someone (or tell them off) like "hey you shouldn't be talking to her she's trans" whatever it is i can come to my own conclusion when the moment arises that I'm informed of this or other information by the chick i'm talking too. I can't stand women who think they are helping me out by just being bitchy like for tweety bird fly the fuck away.

I understand where your coming from but I rarely see it happen honestly in the real world... Guys just flip the script but a few mins later be giving me bedroom eyes..

[Sasha Strokes]

They mad cause they imagine the dudes all wanting to fuck you, little do they know you would be pounding on there dudes!!! lol, but yeah GG's like to hate, but tg's do the same thing to men, try to bust them out to other tg's and label them a chaser or faggot, whatever, its all comes down to peoples low self esteem, and taking people down a notch, sad thing is somebody could get hurt, and people do.

I usually have to go look in the mirror like do I look bad? why am I getting all the negative energy

[Sasha Strokes]

i may visit la again not stay lol

[Sasha Strokes]

Unfortunately, when it comes to small towns, they're always worse for prejudice than big cities, but I can certainly understand the attraction.

I once took a tgirl to my employer's Christmas dinner - very formal, corporate affair 200+ people. Nobody noticed until a woman clicked and went around and told everyone. You could tell from the looks what was being thought.

I noticed the women became bitchy as hell, bumping into her on the dance floor and laughing in pairs while looking at her.

We just smiled and ignored the shit out of them.

Sometimes, the only thing you can do is be yourself and fuck the prejudice and actions of small-minded cunts.

Don't fight back, wear a "Transgender and Proud of it!" badge. Don't give the bitches time to tell people what is fact - make it obvious that you have more assets than the average female.

Fuck 'em.

If you can't beat 'em, stay one step in front of 'em.

RIGHT ON THE NAIL!! They are very good for the laughing in packs B.S. Like im some joke when im looking better than her..
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[Kioji]

I understand where your coming from but I rarely see it happen honestly in the real world... Guys just flip the script but a few mins later be giving me bedroom eyes..

I know what you mean totally and I'm young so I would probably seem like the type to pull something like that but that's just not my personality at all, probably why i don't have many male friends because they always want everyone to act the same and anything you don't want to do along with the group makes you a pussy and I don't deal with loser like that.

[Anubis1779]

Fuck 'em! They're just jealous that someone who was born a male looks more female than they ever will (i.e. You're 10x hotter than they could ever hope to be)....On a side note I'm gonna keep my eye out for girls in the corner bopping their heads drinking Pepsi!

[Sasha Strokes]

Fuck 'em! They're just jealous that someone who was born a male looks more female than they ever will (i.e. You're 10x hotter than they could ever hope to be)....On a side note I'm gonna keep my eye out for girls in the corner bopping their heads drinking Pepsi!

LMAO!!! thank you btw and yeah you it might be the secret code now lol

[jamesedwards]

How are you Sasha? Hell yeah I would still pursue, hell if I was in the club where you were I would hope you would say "Come here you're going to be my bitch and Ima fuck you in your ass and you're going to love it". :dead: lol You look sezzzzy as always so it wouldn't be a problem for me.

But to keep your business to yourself deal with a few only a few too, that you know are in the freaky realm with you and won't spill your shit all over the place. Prude people don't deserve to know shit about you and how you get down.

How you deal with dudes is on you, if a dude is feeling you, its up to you to say if you tell him you're a TGirl. Or get to know him see how freaky he is and see if he ain't afraid to take a dick! if he is you know he ain't the one.

Did you leave NYC?



Hello guys its been a min I know.. But I have a question and Ts are also welcome to respond to this post if you like..

Here's the deal I recently moved to small town when I got reconnected with my birth family.. There isn't much of a gay community out here and so far im the only trans woman.. Well since my surgery im not that easy to spot im trans and alot of guys offer me drinks and dance with me flirt and etc.. The word eventually got out than a female will try to call me out and than everyone is like ewww omg nooooo.. Some end up waiting till she leave and still chat with me anyway but I just wanted to know.. Have you ever experienced this in a straight club and guys when your told she is trans by a hating sis gender woman do you still pursue her..

respond honestly please its ok if you don't I just would like an explanation why this happens...

[dabaldone]

I had a friend who tried to tell my current gf "Did you know his ex gf was a tranny?" She told my gf that she was looking out for her. Little did she know, my gf is trans. She got her face cracked. Cis women are notorious for that. Be careful.

[andrei_balon]

hope it gets better!

If I may ask, how big is your cock? any chance of seeing a measuring picture? thanks

[Kioji]

hope it gets better!

If I may ask, how big is your cock? any chance of seeing a measuring picture? thanks

Amazingly random and off topic.

[Nikka]

women hates us dunno why, but in small cities or conservative countries only

[fred41]

..because it's simply more competition in the room.

Women are notorious for this...especially dumb ones. They also talk down about other GG women in the room...sometimes even their own friends when they're out of earshot.
(BTW...some guys ...and lots of transsexuals do this also)

...but if a hot transsexual is in the room drawing attention away from them, it's probably even worse because their vagina just lost it's superpowers...and it leaves them weaponless...lol.

[catherinefan]

women hates us dunno why, but in small cities or conservative countries only

In small cities and conservative countries, anything that is not strictly boy-girl is frowned upon.
That's no reason to think that women hate you, Nikka.
I'm sure that on the whole, that just isn't true.

There is much more in what Fred is saying, i.e. "more competition in the room".
That competition however doesn't need to come from just one direction though.
I don't see why a woman could not fall for the charms of a gorgeous girl like Sasha.
Needless to say, the competition in the room would in that scenario come from the men.

[Sasha Strokes]

I know what you mean totally and I'm young so I would probably seem like the type to pull something like that but that's just not my personality at all, probably why i don't have many male friends because they always want everyone to act the same and anything you don't want to do along with the group makes you a pussy and I don't deal with loser like that.

See and I respect you for your honesty and I could understand you following the crowd sadly you end up missing out on some good head lol but hey you keep your bro points lol just messing No serious thanks for your honest answer wanna see how many guys will be upfront and say the same:kiss:

[Sasha Strokes]

women hates us dunno why, but in small cities or conservative countries only

ugh they hate us with a passion and the ones who pretend to like us are really just being nosey..

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

see me i dont care what ppl think. if it was me i'd go after it despite if ppl talk. to be honest ppl will talk about anything. if your feet are small best believe someone is going to find something to say about that

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I find that women, as a general rule, are a poor judge of character. Their focus is purely 'topical' and rarely do they endeavor to get to know a person before passing judgment. That said, my association with a person is not altered by the opinions of others, especially those with little or no credibility.