ask someone that just got friendzoned by a ts anything

[islandmix]

ask away

[aprilian]

Any different than being friendzoned by a GG?

[Jamie French]

Cool. You have a new friend. Some folks don't have any, (not me, I have a shit ton of friends) so you should count yourself lucky. Good job.

[ed_jaxon]

You know what's worse?

Getting friend zoned by a pay for play babe.

That's bad.

[Jackal]

Why can't you accept that she just wasn't interested for whatever reason? What is so bad with being a platonic friend to a woman?

[Jamie French]

Whoaaa... we all know that only a very specific type of person uses the phrase, "friend zone" but let's not jump to conclusions here.

This guy jumped up on a stool, asked for some rope, it's been handed to him... lets' see what he does with it.


Why can't you accept that she just wasn't interested for whatever reason? What is so bad with being a platonic friend to a woman?

[islandmix]

Any different than being friendzoned by a GG?

other then the fact she has a penis no still the same frustration i go through with with "GG"

[islandmix]

Cool. You have a new friend. Some folks don't have any, (not me, I have a shit ton of friends) so you should count yourself lucky. Good job.

I like your positivity i was so stuck being heart broken I forgot i had a new friend all along

[islandmix]

Why can't you accept that she just wasn't interested for whatever reason? What is so bad with being a platonic friend to a woman?

The thing is she was VERY interested just a few months ago and now she completely changed her mind when I`m ready to commit. I swear getting into the head of a ts is like figuring out a sudoku rubix cube.

[maaarc]

why is the sky and ocean blue? why do we have an appendix? how big is the universe?
why do we have wisdom teeth and are they smarter than regular teeth? why do we yawn? why do quantum-scale "particles" behave like both particles and waves?
why do we have eyebrows? why do we cry? why do we hiccup? why do we have to sleep?
why do we laugh? why do we kiss? why why why why why!!! if you want a sexual relationship with this person then tell her whats up - maybe you have found that most elusive and precious thing in life - A REAL and lasting friendship :) these are rare and worth more than money, sex, drugs or even rock in roll. if you just wanna get laid make money that's a sure fire way not to get friendzoned - good luck and be well my friend

[Mr. Yates]

Do you think she'd go out with me?

[islandmix]

Do you think she'd go out with me?

if you look anything like your avatar the answer is no, just not her preference but if its worth anything I'm sure she'd top you.

[islandmix]

why is the sky and ocean blue? why do we have an appendix? how big is the universe?
why do we have wisdom teeth and are they smarter than regular teeth? why do we yawn? why do quantum-scale "particles" behave like both particles and waves?
why do we have eyebrows? why do we cry? why do we hiccup? why do we have to sleep?
why do we laugh? why do we kiss? why why why why why!!! if you want a sexual relationship with this person then tell her whats up - maybe you have found that most elusive and precious thing in life - A REAL and lasting friendship :) these are rare and worth more than money, sex, drugs or even rock in roll. if you just wanna get laid make money that's a sure fire way not to get friendzoned - good luck and be well my friend

All ts talk about is finding a man that will except them for who they are and not see them as a fetish and just when the guy of there dreams come into their life she puts that dreaded barrior in our relationship. Makes no sense

[Jamie French]

Uhhh... No one puts a barrier between themselves and who they want. That's simply not how actual humans work.

At all.

She's not preventing herself from dating you. She just doesn't want you. Want proof? She's not with you even though you are 100% available. You aren't wanted by her in that way. She's not attracted to you.

Are you fat? Old? Too young? overly muscular? Too skinny? Too manly? Too femme? Whatever you are... she ain't into it. Want proof? Go shake hands with the last sentence in the second paragraph.

Nobody wants to ask a "friendzone victim" any questions... you're on the lowest rung of the ladder. Everyone else is already relatively well adjusted when it comes to relationships. We already have the answers. You're simply posting this to hear yourself talk about it... pretty typical of a guy who thinks they are the star of their own movie. You aren't capable of acknowledging that a girl might have any agency outside of your influence and desires. Just like you weren't able to catch that whiff of cynicism in my initial reply.

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps? Totes serious.







All ts talk about is finding a man that will except them for who they are and not see them as a fetish and just when the guy of there dreams come into their life she puts that dreaded barrior in our relationship. Makes no sense

[maaarc]

All ts talk about is finding a man that will except them for who they are and not see them as a fetish and just when the guy of there dreams come into their life she puts that dreaded barrior in our relationship. Makes no sense

kid, and I use that term because I am assuming you are a young person - the greatest lesson I have learned in a long and wild - sometimes tragic life is not to invest too much into anyone. live for yourself and no one else. don't waste a day on grieving over what might have been cause it's a day you will never get back - this person for whatever reasons can't or won't be what you are looking for - let her go and find someone who can be everything you wish for. no one is irreplaceable. there actually are girls who are looking for great guys who are willing to make to a commitment to them - put on your emotional armour and go forth and find them. God speed young man.

[Skye]

Uhhh... No one puts a barrier between themselves and who they want. That's simply not how actual humans work.

At all.

She's not preventing herself from dating you. She just doesn't want you. Want proof? She's not with you even though you are 100% available. You aren't wanted by her in that way. She's not attracted to you.

Are you fat? Old? Too young? overly muscular? Too skinny? Too manly? Too femme? Whatever you are... she ain't into it. Want proof? Go shake hands with the last sentence in the second paragraph.

Nobody wants to ask a "friendzone victim" any questions... you're on the lowest rung of the ladder. Everyone else is already relatively well adjusted when it comes to relationships. We already have the answers. You're simply posting this to hear yourself talk about it... pretty typical of a guy who thinks they are the star of their own movie. You aren't capable of acknowledging that a girl might have any agency outside of your influence and desires. Just like you weren't able to catch that whiff of cynicism in my initial reply.

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps? Totes serious.

Someone had to put him in his place. Guys like this sounds pretty pathetic. I mean, I think we know why he got friend zoned. lol.

It might be how you view trans people from your comments. Or maybe your "holier than shit" attitude. Or because she genuinely doesn't want you. But i think it's safe to say people are laughing at you.

[Mr. Yates]

if you look anything like your avatar the answer is no, just not her preference but if its worth anything I'm sure she'd top you.


I look very much like my avatar, although it should be noted that (spoiler alert) my skin isn't quite that white. Not quite the answer I was shooting for, but I'll take it.

[maaarc]

Uhhh... No one puts a barrier between themselves and who they want. That's simply not how actual humans work.

At all.

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps? Totes serious.

Jamie, Jamie, Jamie. SMH that was a little harsh don't you think? of course that's what you do - harsh isn't - do you really believe people don't put barriers between themselves - barriers like fear and or confusion - if you don't I believe that you have much to learn about the human condition perhaps almost as much as I do :) BTW you have an incredibly nice ass

[Jamie French]

What makes these "forever alone" dudes' positions so sad isn't the dramatic situation they think they are going through, it's that they have absolutely no self awareness whatsoever. There's no starting point to even try to help the guy out. The problem is him not the shit he thinks he's up against.

You know what the girl in this situation thinks?

Nothin'.

She's not thinking about this at all and would probably be embarrassed as all hell to know he brought up his personal weirdness to a bunch of strangers on a porn forum.



Someone had to put him in his place. Guys like this sounds pretty pathetic. I mean, I think we know why he got friend zoned. lol.

It might be how you view trans people from your comments. Or maybe your "holier than shit" attitude. Or because she genuinely doesn't want you. But i think it's safe to say people are laughing at you.

[maaarc]

What makes these "forever alone" dudes' positions so sad isn't the dramatic situation they think they are going through, it's that they have absolutely no self awareness whatsoever. There's no starting point to even try to help the guy out. The problem is him not the shit he thinks he's up against.

You know what the girl in this situation thinks?

Nothin'.

She's not thinking about this at all and would probably be embarrassed as all hell to know he brought up his personal weirdness to a bunch of strangers on a porn forum.

wow! tough love from Skye and Jamie - you kids are soooo butch :) and just how do you know anything about these persons relationship other than his side of the story Jamie/Skye? sounds like you have both been dumped hard in the past which has resulted in a cornucopia of hostility

[Jamie French]

Yeah. You have a lot to learn about the human condition. We aren't talking about a person making decisions under duress. We are talking CLASSIC butt hurt ego.

"I'm SO perfect for her and she's deciding NOT to choose ME! The world doesn't make sense! It's all so perfect in my head! How can she not see that?!!"

She is a prize. A thing to be won. And end game. He doesn't care about her. He cares that things aren't going his way while she's busy just trying to live her life with her own goals, ambitions and thoughts that he can't even begin to fathom because they don't involve HIM.

Don't tell me about the human condition buddy. Not every person is a broken, confused, brooding mess. Quite a few of us are born with the focus, clarity and a natural confidence that breads a happy successful life, (Ahem.)

I'm not good at math. Stephen Hawking is. Stephen is the authority there.
This guy's a loser. I'm not. I'm the authority here.



Jamie, Jamie, Jamie. SMH that was a little harsh don't you think? of course that's what you do - harsh isn't - do you really believe people don't put barriers between themselves - barriers like fear and or confusion - if you don't I believe that you have much to learn about the human condition perhaps almost as much as I do :) BTW you have an incredibly nice ass

[fred41]

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps?

Lmao...I'll definitely be using this sentence someplace / sometime in the future.Thanks.:D

[Amber Littlefeather]

I look very much like my avatar, although it should be noted that (spoiler alert) my skin isn't quite that white. Not quite the answer I was shooting for, but I'll take it.
yes he looks very much like his avatar :-D

[maaarc]

Yeah. You have a lot to learn about the human condition. We aren't talking about a person making decisions under duress. We are talking CLASSIC butt hurt ego.

"I'm SO perfect for her and she's deciding NOT to choose ME! The world doesn't make sense! It's all so perfect in my head! How can she not see that?!!"

She is a prize. A thing to be won. And end game. He doesn't care about her. He cares that things aren't going his way while she's busy just trying to live her life with her own goals, ambitions and thoughts that he can't even begin to fathom because they don't involve HIM.



I'm not good at math. Stephen Hawking is. Stephen is the authority there.
This guy's a loser. I'm not. I'm the authority here.

"Don't tell me about the human condition buddy. Not every person is a broken, confused, brooding mess. Quite a few of us are born with the focus, clarity and a natural confidence that breads a happy successful life, (Ahem.)"

Oh so you are some how special right? LOL

and how do you KNOW all this about their relationship Jamie??? I guess you are now the arbiter of all human relationship matters LOL

[Jamie French]

Yup.


"Don't tell me about the human condition buddy. Not every person is a broken, confused, brooding mess. Quite a few of us are born with the focus, clarity and a natural confidence that breads a happy successful life, (Ahem.)"

Oh so you are some how special right? LOL

and how do you KNOW all this about their relationship Jamie??? I guess you are now the arbiter of all human relationship matters LOL

[maaarc]

Yup.


I love fucking with you hard cases baby - seriously, be well Jamie

[gaysian71]

Ouch Jamie, thats so harsh. But maybe that's what this guy needs to hear from a girls point of view. It could be very therapeutical for him. If he is smart, he'll just get over it and find another girl. TG or GG.



Uhhh... No one puts a barrier between themselves and who they want. That's simply not how actual humans work.

At all.

She's not preventing herself from dating you. She just doesn't want you. Want proof? She's not with you even though you are 100% available. You aren't wanted by her in that way. She's not attracted to you.

Are you fat? Old? Too young? overly muscular? Too skinny? Too manly? Too femme? Whatever you are... she ain't into it. Want proof? Go shake hands with the last sentence in the second paragraph.

Nobody wants to ask a "friendzone victim" any questions... you're on the lowest rung of the ladder. Everyone else is already relatively well adjusted when it comes to relationships. We already have the answers. You're simply posting this to hear yourself talk about it... pretty typical of a guy who thinks they are the star of their own movie. You aren't capable of acknowledging that a girl might have any agency outside of your influence and desires. Just like you weren't able to catch that whiff of cynicism in my initial reply.

Lemme ask you... are you on the spectrum? A little aspergy perhaps? Totes serious.

[Jamie French]

Cop out. I guess it's back to the kiddy table with you. Aim high champ, you'll be able to hang with the grown ups some day. I believe in you.


I love fucking with you hard cases baby - seriously, be well Jamie

[Jamie French]

Coddling is just the worst. Not even this guy deserves it.


Ouch Jamie, thats so harsh. But maybe that's what this guy needs to hear from a girls point of view. It could be very therapeutical for him. If he is smart, he'll just get over it and find another girl. TG or GG.

[Skye]

Yup.

Agreed.
Shutdown.
Game over man, GAME OVER.

[maaarc]

Cop out. I guess it's back to the kiddy table with you. Aim high champ, you'll be able to hang with the grown ups some day. I believe in you.

ooo even more tough girl :):):):)

[maaarc]

Agreed.
Shutdown.
Game over man, GAME OVER.

LOL Canadian

[BBaggins06]

History in the making folks ... We have a white knight white knighting a white knight

[Amber Littlefeather]

:twisted:
LOL Canadian
Careful Boston.

[maaarc]

:twisted:
Careful Boston.


careful of what baby? just having some good clean fun with the HA board members

[Amber Littlefeather]

:banana:
careful of what baby? just having some good clean fun with the HA board members
Me too hun..just a little poke back it didn't hurt did it?

[maaarc]

:banana:
Me too hun..just a little poke back it didn't hurt did it?

OUCH!!! LOL thanks for the poke sweetie I'd take a poke from you anytime BTW - this place has been so boring lately thought it was time to start some trouble :)

[KiraHarden]

ask away
Happily married couples or long term relationships are in the (best of) friend zone that's why they work out and last. Maybe with you enjoying the friends with benefits zone turned her off. You gambled and lost

[KiraHarden]

Metro sexual looking men like your avatar are a major turnoff for me. They get put into the friends with out benefits zone instantly, Now a hot guy who rides a Harley, is inked up, and still cleans up well is what gets my engine purring like a kitten

[Mr. Yates]

yes he looks very much like his avatar :-D

Have we met?

[Mr. Yates]

Metro sexual looking men like your avatar are a major turnoff for me. They get put into the friends with out benefits zone instantly, Now a hot guy who rides a Harley, is inked up, and still cleans up well is what gets my engine purring like a kitten

So we can be friends!?!

D'aw.

[Amber Littlefeather]

Have we met?
Yes but just briefly at a party your Tyra's friend right.

[my my my!]

transsexual females, have about 20 times (just a guess) more guys hitting on them, because they are TS, than gg do.

this means, they can be picky, so to speak.

they can see the chasers a mile away. And will use guys that are genuinely interested in them for financial gain and perks.

If you are friendzoned by a TS, AFTER she flirted, did the quasi relationship thing with you... GET OUT.

she is just going to use you. and you will only be a "can you buy me this, please friend" chump for her.

Now, if you're friends with her, and it's been established since the beginning that all you are is "friends", then it's ok to be just friends. but make sure it's a mutual friendship. If you invite her out to eat. she has to reciprocate as well. If she doesn't , you're just a chump to her, with the more friendly "friend" label attached.

No one likes a one sided relationship/friendship.

I expect all my ts friends to once in a while buy me dinner and drinks, and they do. When it's just me all the time buying shit for them, I end the "friendzone" bullshit.

[saifan]

Haven't read the whole thread but did you fuck her prior to being zoned?

[Mr. Yates]

Yes but just briefly at a party your Tyra's friend right.


That is me, yes. After breezing through your Twitter, the feather tattoo does look familiar. I apologize, my dear. I must have met upwards of 30 people that night and I couldn't have been sober for more than 4 of them.

Plus I found the hot tub shenanigans to be a bit more distracting than I care to admit.

[Ben in LA]

I've been friendzoned...and I don't care. However, the girls that have friendzoned me don't ask me to pay for anything and just want me as a friend, which I'm cool with.

Don't get it twisted: I DO have friends with benefits.

I've also been enemy-zoned, but that's another story lol.

[Cundalini]

Don`t understand this thread ! What is it about? Where is the first post?

[Ts RedVeX]

It's about having virtual friends who seem to fulfill the virtual part of our virtual human needs of inclusion in a real society... It's like Matrix:) It shall be used in future to control the brainless mob, for it has already been proving well in creating fake temporary feelings of fulfillment within human gray matter.