Why do guys lie about their anal experience?

[RobynBlakeTS]

Hi di hi one and all,

As the title says why do guys lie about how experienced they are anally? So many people claiming to be first timers with no anal experience and so I always take it nice and slow and start with fingers and toys before easing in. The trouble is you start with the fingers and straight away your whole hand is in there with out the guy even batting an eye lid and then when it comes to the sex they take it like a pro. I don't get why the guys have to lie about this aspect of their sexuality? or is it fantasy to always be a anal virgin and pretending to be losing it for the first time? I have to admit when it happens it is a bit of a turn off for me that the person is clearly lying and always makes me think what else they are hiding in terms of health etc.

[Prospero]

... because every time is the first time with a new gir,l Robyn? lol..... if we ever meet I assure you I'll not tell any fibs. I've only had a few hundred cocks... so I'm not that experienced.

[RobynBlakeTS]

... because every time is the first time with a new gir,l Robyn? lol..... if we ever meet I assure you I'll not tell any fibs. I've only had a few hundred cocks... so I'm not that experienced.

Lol I've had people visit me claiming to be a first timer, then 2 months later seeing me again and still claiming to be a fist timers with no anal experience before lol

Lol Prospero the village bicycle, everyones had a ride on that bum :p well your always very honest and there's no shame in that and no shame as a guy saying I like to be fucked up the arse and have done it a few times before. It just boggles my mind when guys have to go through this charade of being an anal virgin yet I can get my whole hand in there and fuck hard and im just thinking hmmmmm really first time.

[Prospero]

lol... the village bicycle.... jeez

[LibertyHarkness]

lol yes i get glove puppets too :) does make chuckle

[toybuyer]

Maybe she's only used anal toys, and considers herself still a virgin for real dicks?

[Chaos]

I've never lied about it. I am a virgin when it comes to the girls. I have done things myself,but girls were never involved....which sucks.

[flabbybody]

same reason they lie about sucking cock. so many guys have trouble dealing with their "feminine side". Lying to the provider about gay sex experience is part of the self denial.
Of course the girls go along with the pathetic deception, laughing to themselves

[nysprod]

I don't bottom for any tgirl, they bottom for me.

[Turlington]

I don't bottom for any tgirl, they bottom for me.

Yup.

Why do girls lie about their age? There are girls on Eros and Backpage that have been saying they're 28 for the last ten years.

[Tapatio]

Maybe those guys say "first time" because they don't want to get pounded like they're in a TS Seduction vid.

I don't understand guys who date (or hire) TS women and have nothing to do with the cock. What's the point? Are they so fixated on anal sex that they just want a girl who will definitely receive?

Are they lying?

As for me, I'm not such a fan of anal- giving or receiving. I'd let a GG fuck me with a strapon, but wouldn't get fucked by a TS.

And I'd beg, if necessary, to suck a cute girl's cock but I would never do that for a GG with a strapon.

But I'd never claim it was the first time I'd sucked or been fucked. What's the point?

[dabaldone]

I think in most cases, guys feel the girls will think "less" of them. Admitting that you like trans-women is one thing. Admitting that you have experience bottoming makes some men feel less "manly".

[Tapatio]

I think in most cases, guys feel the girls will think "less" of them. Admitting that you like trans-women is one thing. Admitting that you have experience bottoming makes some men feel less "manly".

The irony... and you're probably right: many guys who want to get fucked are homophobic.

"The greatest loooovvvee of allllllll..."

Love yourself, people.

[Tapatio]

I don't bottom for any tgirl, they bottom for me.


That's funny

[south ov da border]

like lying is gonna make her care lol

[RallyCola]

guys lie because it is part of their fantasy of taking cock and guys also lie to make the girl think they are more manly...they would feel odd if they admitted to the girl that they love some cock.

i don't lie...i tell the girl the honest truth...i love it but it is always painful on the first 5-10 strokes...but after i seem to relax...fuck me like i owe you money.

[FreddieGomez]

I don't bottom either.

why not just get a dude if it's that serious?

[bluesoul]

Yup.

Why do girls lie about their age? There are girls on Eros and Backpage that have been saying they're 28 for the last ten years.

i prefer the tgirls that post fake pictures in their profile. not sure why, but i like the obvious deception. it's like a taste of the bigger facade they will be presenting later

[RallyCola]

well...if i meet a girl that has faked her pics, i'm not wasting my time. it is not that i don't think girls lie about age, size and even at times functionality, but really...to use fake pics...the whole idea of bait and switch is just bullshit. i'm not that horny and desperate to fuck just anyone.

[STARTUP999]

[QUOTE=RallyCola;1501009]guys lie because it is part of their fantasy of taking cock and guys also lie to make the girl think they are more manly...they would feel odd if they admitted to the girl that they love some cock.


Ever notice how many TS porn vids have the male acting surprised, that the hot girl he was making out with has a cock. It usually goes something like, "Hey you have a cock! ...I don't know about this... gobble...suck...slurp etc.

Rally has it. Seeing an escort is often acting out a fantasy. Being a "first timer"
can be part of that. And guys are often shy or embarrassed by their taking cock. Seems silly but it seems to be common.

[Prospero]

So many lies, so many fantasies, so much confusion.... frankly I simply enjoy and hope that as often as possible i also provide enjoyment. Life is way too short to get so hung up.

[tsadriana]

One thing i don`t like about some guys is when they say "BUT YOU KNOW IM STRAIGHT RIGHT?" ,nobody asked them about their sexual identity ,lol

[Prospero]

I'm crooked.... and as Kant said "Out of the crooked timbers of humanity no straight thing was ever made."

[RallyCola]

guys that lie to escorts are really quite stupid....they are providing a service for which you are paying, they will take your money all the same whether you are lying or not so why bother. is the fantasy that important? for me, the fantasy was once more important than reality but i was 15 then....once i lost my first nut to a transwoman...reality is so much fucking better when you get out of your own way.

[the_corner]

... and on the same note... why do providers lie about well... everything.

If she says she is 120 pounds, she is 160... if she says she is 5'7", make it 5'10", if her dick is 8 inches, make it more like 4, a half hour session is a 15 minute handjob and a VIP session is a half an hour and get out, if she says she's upscale.... well, you get the deal. It seems there are only a handful of good providers out there.

The only thing that is not a lie in the ads is if the girl claims to be "hormone free", which probably means "never had any hormones ever".

People lie, get over it. Providers, particularly in the USA, lie AN AWFUL LOT!, yet you have a bunch of "upscale" girls putting that "screening is mandatory" in their ads, WTF.

Upscale people do not sell sex in backpage.

Sorry about the rant, but so many girls that "sell an illusion" (endemic liars), yet you hear these complains about John's that lie, come on people get real!

Rant over.

[RobynBlakeTS]

*Sigh*

Why has this had to turn into a a rant and moan about the girls which lie. Yes I know there is bullshit girls out there. The point of the original post wasn't to talk about that subject but the nature of guys claiming to be anal virgins but clearly not being. I just don't get why guys when seeing a girl claim to be anal virgin's when they clearly aint. If you guys want to rant and moan about the bullshit girls then make a thread about that.

[nysprod]

One thing i don`t like about some guys is when they say "BUT YOU KNOW IM STRAIGHT RIGHT?" ,nobody asked them about their sexual identity ,lol

Lmao...guys actually say that?

[tsadriana]

Lmao...guys actually say that?
Yes,unfortunaley,quite often.

[RobynBlakeTS]

Lmao...guys actually say that?

I've had someone say that as I was sat on the edge of the bed with my cock firmly up his arse lol wasn't quite sure how to reply to him.

[nysprod]

Yes,unfortunaley,quite often.


I've had someone say that as I was sat on the edge of the bed with my cock firmly up his arse lol wasn't quite sure how to reply to him.

I've heard that the money for escorting is in topping...that true?

[tsadriana]

I've had someone say that as I was sat on the edge of the bed with my cock firmly up his arse lol wasn't quite sure how to reply to him.
I know the felleng :D

[tsadriana]

I've heard that the money for escorting is in topping...that true?
Yes if you top guys more chances to make more money ,then a girl who is bottom...Depends in the end how atractive the girl is and more important her personality.

[Prospero]

*Sigh*

Why has this had to turn into a a rant and moan about the girls which lie. Yes I know there is bullshit girls out there. The point of the original post wasn't to talk about that subject but the nature of guys claiming to be anal virgins but clearly not being. I just don't get why guys when seeing a girl claim to be anal virgin's when they clearly aint. If you guys want to rant and moan about the bullshit girls then make a thread about that.

Happens all the time on here Robyn.... you gotta roll with the punches. or try to forcibly drag the topic back into focus.

[tsadriana]

Happens all the time on here Robyn.... you gotta roll with the punches. or try to forcibly drag the topic back into focus.
Maybe some guys dont like to be debated so we tun the thread 360 degrees focusing in why girls lie abt age /size/etc lol

[Prospero]

That might be true Adriana....

[nysprod]

A tgirl who cums as she's fucked is the ultimate experience.

[nysprod]

Holding her hard cock as you ease yourself into her is an extremely close second...like a photo finish.

[Ms.Stepford]

I think it's gotta be the fantasy. They want to set it up like we're corrupting them.

Funny, because if they weren't paying me, I wouldn't be at all interested in their hairy flat asses.

I'm about to start working a PSO job as cis, and advertising as a bottom. I know my earnings will take a hit, but it'll be worth it.

[bluesoul]

*Sigh*

Why has this had to turn into a a rant and moan about the girls which lie. Yes I know there is bullshit girls out there. The point of the original post wasn't to talk about that subject but the nature of guys claiming to be anal virgins but clearly not being. I just don't get why guys when seeing a girl claim to be anal virgin's when they clearly aint. If you guys want to rant and moan about the bullshit girls then make a thread about that.

the rant above this post you made actually had an answer to your question if you simply looked closer.

i think most men figure they're being deceived anyway by the escort (either she's using a false name, wouldn't be with him if he weren't paying, doing a certain routine they otherwise wouldn't do in their private life if not being compensated etc.) that they feel they might as well compound that lie/illusion with one of their own.

but this sort of exchange is also the corruption brought about by paying for sex.

[Prospero]

Of course they use fake names and would not be having sex with strange guys if it were not for the money etc. Get real! It is naive of anyone to think otherwise.

[bluesoul]

Of course they use fake names and would not be having sex with strange guys if it were not for the money etc.

ummm that was exactly my point

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[Slave 2 Alekssandra]

Rerally interesting thread, personally I don't see the problem in being honest as it makes for a better session for all and whilst I am a complete bottom I therefore try and use my search to find more active/dominant tg's as they genuiinely seem to enjoy topping and their work, :-) x

[Ts RedVeX]

Hey, why would any of you, gentlemen, ask for a girl's age?? ;>

[Prospero]

I wouldn't but sometimes when you and the girl (or woman) have become friends it seems like an obvious part of the conversation. I am hopeless at guessing ages - and also people's ethnicities. I'm always asking people from Brazil or Sweden if they are Russian or Japanese or whatever. But personally I am genuinely interested to know the girl behind the professional mask a little. I often find i really like them as people.

[Jericho]

Hey, why would any of you, gentlemen, ask for a girl's age?? ;>


I like 'em kinda young but don't want to be stepping over any legal lines! :hide-1:
Of course, i jest. A gentleman never would.


As to why guys lie?
Because for the first 16 years of our lives, we're brought up by women...After that, it's 2nd nature! :shrug


Not that I'm misogynistic...I hate everyone! :hide-1:

[RallyCola]

Hey, why would any of you, gentlemen, ask for a girl's age?? ;>

because 17 will get you 20

[nysprod]

I can't even imagine why a tgirl escort would care or more importantly, why she would not indulge this innocent fantasy...ladies, you are in the ENTERTAINMENT business, once you realize that you'll have a lot more regs and big payers.

[STARTUP999]

I've had someone say that as I was sat on the edge of the bed with my cock firmly up his arse lol wasn't quite sure how to reply to him.

Sometimes say stuff like that just to see what the reaction is. Like the first time I visited Cleo near Hollywood. She was so my type, Latina, flat chested and really hung. I implied it was my first time (it wasn't).

Once I got used to her girth, I supplemented her fairly gentle doggy style penetration (while she took a call) by reaching around to her hips and driving her into me as deep as she could go.

When she finished, I said timidly,"I need your opinion on something because I trust your experience." I think...there might be a possibility that...I'm...bisexual."

The look on her face was priceless. After a moment she said, "I think its obvious that your at least bi."

I thanked her for her honesty, "Whatever now can you get dressed I have a regular here in ten minutes," she said shaking her head.

When I saw her post boob job a couple of years later she remembered me so it must have made an impression.

I can't post a photo from an IPad but if the link below does not show Googling Shemale strokers/shemale_cleo or TS Cleo shemalestrokers will get it if anyone is interested.

http://tour.shemalestrokers.com/shemale_cleo.html

[Pelheckitt]

Men have a natural tendency to lie about everything, be it how many times they have been topped by a transgender girl or how many cups of coffee they had before 10 am.

The best head I have ever received was from men who all said it was their first times.

I think personally that some men are embarrassed

[Rabbiteyes]

I get a bit uncomfortable with a guy I'm seeing having anal experience (especially if they did it more than once).

Simply because I don't top...and if that is something he is into, then eventually it seems like it would be a problem.

I'm guessing a lot of guys lie about it to not scare of bottoms? A trans woman who is actually into topping guys is pretty rare....and if you talk about it at the start of dating, you can easily scare off a trans woman who is looking for a total top.

Though, lying about it doesn't really solve the problem. It just delays the break up.

[fred41]

I'm guessing a lot of guys lie about it to not scare of bottoms? A trans woman who is actually into topping guys is pretty rare....and if you talk about it at the start of dating, you can easily scare off a trans woman who is looking for a total top.


I think this probably hits the nail on the head...even if it's pay for play, because most people, whether they want to admit it or not, inherently want to be liked. They care what people think about them...even if it's a fantasy.

[pimpdog]

Because they think ts girls are judgemental hypocrites, and they might be right.

I've had someone say that as I was sat on the edge of the bed with my cock firmly up his arse lol wasn't quite sure how to reply to him.
him identifying himself as straight with a cock planted up his ass, is the same as you identifying as a women with a cock hanging between your legs, see how that works?

[Chaos]

Because they think ts girls are judgemental hypocrites, and they might be right.

him identifying himself as straight with a cock planted up his ass, is the same as you identifying as a women with a cock hanging between your legs, see how that works?
Aww someone is a bitter,clueless,tactless,douche...

[STARTUP999]

@Pimpdog,
If that is the way you feel why are you hanging out on a TG forum?

Did it ever occur to you that the distain many TG ladies have for versatile and bottom guys (like me) is that the attention on their male parts reminds them of the part they probably like the least about themselves and may deeply want to change?

It doesn't take much effort to put yourself in their place, and have a bit of empathy / tolerance for where they are.

And NO I am not a White Knight looking for free sex for defending the TG community I pay for it (most of the time) like everyone else here but Christian.

[Prospero]

Go back to your cave pimpdog

[STARTUP999]

Sorry Prospero and Smith don't have to pay for it either I am pretty sure.

[STARTUP999]

Men have a natural tendency to lie about everything, ...The best head I have ever received was from men who all said it was their first times.

I think personally that some men are embarrassed


Beginners luck?????

[red-cyberman]

yes it's sort of a habit to lie not only men, everybody lies. my TS Girlfriend told me that for a short period of time she used to escort to get some money for her breast implant and butt augmentation and some minor changes like hair removal and other stuff. She told me that most guys were married and said they are anally virgins and like to top but she told me most of these guys you could fist them cause they were so loose so yes she knew they were lying but didn't say anything. I think lying especially when you escort is part of the game and it gives it sort of privacy for both parties.

[pimpdog]

What im saying is judging people is a slippery slope, why do it unless you wanna be judged yourself? people should be able to idenify as they want.

[Karabella]

Some of the best (& easiest) head/ass you'll ever get is from guys who are "100% strict tops" or from guys who've "Never done this before"...

xoxo
-K

[ElectricWoody]

The girls would get jealous

[nysprod]

Some of the best (& easiest) head/ass you'll ever get is from guys who are "100% strict tops" or from guys who've "Never done this before"...

xoxo
-K

I'm a total top and I give head, if I know the girl well enough...I don't see the two as being mutually exclusive.\

BTW, have you recently discovered that guys are easy? lol

[maaarc]

I'll give head to just about anyone as long as it's covered :) sucking cock is like shaking hands to me no big deal - LOL - that said there is no way I would ever willing give up my ass cherry - not even to Tatiana Summers - if you like to bottom and it makes you happy that's great it's just not my thing - my 2 cents

[RallyCola]

i disagree....to me giving head is far more intimate and a bigger deal than taking it up the ass. i realize not many will agree with me there but to have your face in someone's junk is a bigger deal to me. it's the same with going down on a ggirl...i think eating a girl out is more intimate than fucking her. just my opinion because i've always regarded penile invasion as standard fare regardless of the orifice.

[RobynBlakeTS]

I can't even imagine why a tgirl escort would care or more importantly, why she would not indulge this innocent fantasy...ladies, you are in the ENTERTAINMENT business, once you realize that you'll have a lot more regs and big payers.

Well on the one hand I don't care after all someone is paying for my time and experience and if they want to pretend its their first time that's cool. Then on the other hand I do find it strange because you are paying for a intimate moment, im not going to be judgemental, so don't see why guys cant be honest and just say I like being fucked up the arse, It allows me then gauge their experience and I can be rougher, fuck harder etc instead of pussy footing around taking it slowly not wanting to hurt them or worried if I do it will put them off anal for good etc. Then there is another side of me that worries about the lying of your sexual experience could be hiding something, because I take my personal health extremely serious.


Because they think ts girls are judgemental hypocrites, and they might be right.

him identifying himself as straight with a cock planted up his ass, is the same as you identifying as a women with a cock hanging between your legs, see how that works?

Ouch someone is a grumpy wumpy. Im not so hung up on perceptions though, I don't perceive myself as a woman but just as me an fluid individual. Truth is the guys who do see me ask me that question and my answer is always the same, I don't have gay clients, gay guys don't like trans people, my clients are straight in mentality and social behaviour, a visit to me is nothing more then taking care of a itch, a out of the box kinky fetish taboo moment of pleasure. Take care of the itch then return to normal life until the itch is back. Yes in a genetic sense im male and they are male so it is gay but in social orientation they are straight guys.

[britman]

Lots of guys struggle with their sexuality and their preferences.

I like cock. I love genetic women and t-girls. I don't like men. I like to be topped.

I descirbe myself as bi, but I don't fancy guys.


I'm unusual. Lots of mine with my preferences descibe themselves as straight. Its as if they are shamed of being topped (and liking it).

[Helvis2012]

same reason they lie about sucking cock. so many guys have trouble dealing with their "feminine side". Lying to the provider about gay sex experience is part of the self denial.
Of course the girls go along with the pathetic deception, laughing to themselves



He knows.......:cheers:

[wiltthestilt]

I see frequently see escorts, mainly GG, but also a few TS's. It's never once occurred to me to lie about my experience. I don't tell the GG's that I see TS's. But I have told the TS's I've seen about my prior TS experiences. I've never bottomed and don't care to. But if I did, I would be more inclined to lie in the direction of having more experience than I really did. I would think a TS would be more likely to offer to top me if she thought I knew what to expect. I know I wouldn't be eager to stick my cock in someone's ass who had never gotten it there before (particularly someone I didn't really want to be fucking).

[mwilliams001us]

Well I prefer topping, but I am not an anal virgin :)

[wiltthestilt]

Some of the best (& easiest) head/ass you'll ever get is from guys who are "100% strict tops" or from guys who've "Never done this before"...

xoxo
-K

Well, I can believe that coming from you. I'm a strict top and don't mind giving head. Though I'm pretty sure the TS's I've sucked believe me that I don't have much experience with it.

[wiltthestilt]

Oh, and on the topic of lying. I've read a ton of TS reviews, and always reading shit about TS's spontaneously donning condoms and then proceeding to fuck their clients in the ass without any prompting. It will read like "well, I wasn't expecting to get fucked, but when a beautiful woman asks, who am I to argue."

I've never once had a TS try to do anything w/ my ass. I've had several tell me they are versatile and ask me what I wanted, but none tried to do anything without asking. Maybe it happens occasionally, but I'll most of those guys really asked for anal at the outset, and that's why it went down like that.

[pimpdog]

Oh, and on the topic of lying. I've read a ton of TS reviews, and always reading shit about TS's spontaneously donning condoms and then proceeding to fuck their clients in the ass without any prompting. It will read like "well, I wasn't expecting to get fucked, but when a beautiful woman asks, who am I to argue."

I've never once had a TS try to do anything w/ my ass. I've had several tell me they are versatile and ask me what I wanted, but none tried to do anything without asking. Maybe it happens occasionally, but I'll most of those guys really asked for anal at the outset, and that's why it went down like that.
Girls ask to fuck me all the time... weird.

[pimpdog]

Im gonna start lying the other way, and say ive been getting dicked down 15 inchers since i was boy.

[nysprod]

i disagree....to me giving head is far more intimate and a bigger deal than taking it up the ass. i realize not many will agree with me there but to have your face in someone's junk is a bigger deal to me. it's the same with going down on a ggirl...i think eating a girl out is more intimate than fucking her. just my opinion because i've always regarded penile invasion as standard fare regardless of the orifice.

No...a man and tgirl together has more to do with a man and woman together i.e. the man penetrates and the woman is penetrated...mutual oral is a big part of that, the fact that a tgirl has a dick is irrelevant so the man-woman dynamic remains...only when the man is penetrated have the roles been changed.

[tsloverbrum]

[QUOTE=britman;1501948]Lots of guys struggle with their sexuality and their preferences.

I like cock. I love genetic women and t-girls. I don't like men. I like to be topped.

I descirbe myself as bi, but I don't fancy guys.


I'm unusual. Lots of mine with my preferences descibe themselves as straight. Its as if they are shamed of being topped (and liking it).[/QUOTE
I'm exactly the same love GG and pussy and I love cock too the bigger and harder the better !! but I don't fancy guy's at all !!

[unamasa]

Could think of nothing more pathetic than being afraid to admit to a ts escort, of all people, that I like taking it up my arse.
The girls must find it pathetic too.

[skirtrustler]

... being afraid to admit to a ts escort, of all people, that I like taking it up my arse.

Knowing a few girls really well ... the good ones can work it out and smell the bullshit within seconds.

I have never lied about it. There is no point in lying, as (... smell the coffee) you have hopefully chosen well and you are there paying for sex with an experienced professional. IMHO you are an idiot if you don’t weave the truth and what you are looking for into the small talk when you arrive; even with those you know very well. Those that do not pay attention to this are not worth a second visit.

Why lie?

[natina]

You know the experienced ones because they come to you Vaselined up and fully shaved with a pink arse whole. There asses are so loose it feels like a post pregnant vagina.


Note!;
Vaseline and baby oil erodes condoms.
Say No to petroleum products cause they dissolve condoms.

[natina]

I like to put Two medium sized Dildoes up there ass so no matter if there experienced are not there prostate Gushes like Thunder.

Two dicks in the ass is Wonderful!

[natina]

Most guys don't give good head and even some drag there teeth over the top.
I remember at a party being well dressed and not caring so much I allowed guys to suck me back to back. My dick was raw when all had finished. It's hard for me to cum from guys cause one I'm not into it and two I am on hrt, Eve n thought I stay Rock hard.

[DisguisedHornyGent]

Lol. That pretty much sounds like rape. I have not experienced that either. However to your point for the longest time my ass was a no fly-zone. I’ve been told I have a nice ass across the board, until I met a “beautiful girl” like you said and just went for it. I’ve done it a few times then, but I still prefer to top.

[holzz]

i don't think anal size represents anal experience. maybe they just went for a shit, or have some medical condition. it's wrong to say the anus is loose for any experienced guy. it's a muscle, it gets tight if there is no need to shit.

that said, i don't get the need to feel pensive or lie about this. since the escort knows why you're there and they won't laugh at you. we all know that bottoming is a major part of the deal in sex with trans women.

[Slave 2 Alekssandra]

I used to say this to myself all the time, I have learned to just let go and go with the flow and enjoy it. I am submissive but why worry myself with other labels.

[Lorca81]

Lots of guys, whether they are into other men or trans women, feel ashamed that they enjoy bottoming (hence the term "bottom shame"). However, IMO, the propensity many trans women to engage in blatant bottom shaming of men any guy who isn't a 100% top also plays a huge role.

[mikey_stl]

The last escort I went to didn't even ask me what I wanted (which was to suck her and get fucked and get sucked too) She seemed to know instinctively what I wanted -- and gave it to me.

If it's a provider, I'd just want to know, because she might be using old pictures. I personally don't like to tell my age, so I can understand a lady not wanting to.

I don't want to give the impression that I'm some kind of anal whore. I love anal. However, for me it is a rare treat. I love the feeling of being filled, and to know that the person banging me is getting off. It just feels so good to have a cock slide in and out of me -- it feels better than a dildo. My anus is one of my main erogenous zones. I'd never had a GG fuck me with a strap-on, and I'd love to have that too. But I do like the feeling of a real dick. I rarely get to experience that, so when I go to a trans provider, that's one of the things I want. I don't know if that answers the question, but those are my thoughts.

Anal sex is pretty taboo, especially for a straight guy. It may be easier to just pretend that this is the first time. I personally haven't had anal that much, and I'm pretty tight. I've never said it's my first time, but I am a bit shy about admitting that I like it.

[Yepyepp]

I dunno about lying, but I often just want to suck some girly dick, only to be coerced or even straight forced to take the D

Maybe they lie because they feel intimidated or have encountered heavy handed girls before

Hmmm, heavy handed girls...

[Cereal Escapist]

if you are paying for it...why lie? they only care about your cash and hate you whether you are a top or bottom. you are just their current ATM.

if you are not paying for it...why lie? it only makes it more awkward to get what you want AND when you finally get to it, the chick is going to wonder if you truly are just curious or were lying the whole time.

[Murmdrum]

out of all my experiences I have only had one anal experience ...I wasn't looking for that either. it just happened during the session and was with a well known provider with a weapon that probably wasnt smart being my first time lol. ( Carla Brasil) but the point is she didn't believe me that it was my first time. she said alot of guys say that. I said hand to god I am not lying or trying to play out some fantasy. You just took my cherry. not sure if she ever believed me but I know .