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BigPapi2012
05-15-2014, 07:24 PM
Has anyone noticed on Backpage and craigslist (or any site for that matter) that there are a number of girls that post in the description "No Black Men" or post a picture saying the same thing or "I love white guys, get over it." Can any of the escorts on here tell me why the girls would do that? Is it because of a black mans size? A bad experience with black men? Black men are cheap? And also does it refer to just black american men and not black latino men like myself (David Ortiz, Laz Alonso, Victor Cruz etc.) Just curious.

And to the guys, are any of you offended by that?

Personally it doesn't "offend" me but I but I feel as though if it's because of a bad experience that they may have had with another black guy or they believe a black guy is going to be cheap or something like that than they are being judgmental and judging a book by it's cover, which I would think a transexual woman would be a little more understanding in that department. As someone who hasn't been with a trans-woman yet and is still "looking" I'm disappointed when I see it because I feel as though I'm being put in a category that I shouldn't be put in. I'm the nicest, coolest guy in the world and the GG escorts I've dealt with (if they could review me) would say the same and that I've never played any games or anything like that. Now if they just like white guys better then that's cool I can understand that but I think it's a little financially counterproductive if you're an escort to discriminate by race. If it's a dating site then I get it because it's what you would prefer to be with in a long term relationship.

Anybody can chime in. Thanks

lifeisfiction
05-15-2014, 08:13 PM
My best advice, leave them and find some who will see you. From what I understand, there is nothing you can do to convince them. Unless you are multi-millionaire or super famous.

sucka4chix
05-15-2014, 08:29 PM
Has been discussed on here, ad nauseam. The absurd responses here mostly say its a girl's preference, which is bullshit. Typically there's a pimp or guy calling the shots on that decision (not my words but those of a provider) or yes they feel that the only people who ever give them problems are blacks. Half of them are usually fucking black guys in their personal life.Whatever.
I find it offensive when someone posts it over and over with that obnoxious "get over it" crap, but it's meant to be offensive. Fuck 'em.

Turlington
05-15-2014, 08:34 PM
There are too many other fish in the sea. Forget about it and take Young Dro's advice.

Jericho
05-15-2014, 08:37 PM
Here we go again... :shrug

bluesoul
05-15-2014, 08:42 PM
Personally it doesn't "offend" me but

just had to make a thread about it right?

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TSMichelleAustin
05-15-2014, 09:14 PM
Im an escort and I will give u my view point...

I have had some amazing black guy clients. One I see here in vegas about once a month. He is very respectful, educated and a good guy.

But I have have had major issues with many black guys. The young ones, the ones who come high, talk their slang, not proper english are the ones I always have issues with.

In LA one of my first clients I ever seen, came in pulled out his dick, when I asked for donation, he kept saying, "Come on dont you like this dick? Give me a lil head so I can see if its worth it." I said no, and get out, thats when he backed me into a corner and tried to put his hands on me. I screamed and kicked him in nuts, ran to door, and told him to leave.

Other guys who smoke and come high, cant cum, take up way too much time. Want to bring down your rate the minute they get to your place. They can be aggressive, and rude.

I find most older black men, who are educated, dont speak in their ghetto slang, come over and love their time with you. Enjoy your company and treat you with respect. THey dont try to low ball you, or go dont you love my big black cock.

The minute a guy talks on phone and I cant understand him, or he is using stupid ass lingo, or calling me baby, ma, or any of those terms you call your gf, are the guys that give you trouble. It goes for hispanic and white guys who do the same thing. If u talk that bullshit I hang up the phone.

But with that said I dont put NO BLACK GUYS or ANY OF THOSE THINGS! I just go with how u talk to me on phone.

bluesoul
05-15-2014, 09:26 PM
damn boo: why you gotta be like that?

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BigPapi2012
05-15-2014, 09:26 PM
just had to make a thread about it right?

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No bluesoul it doesn't offend me and yes I made the post because I wanted to hear from an actual provider the reason as to why and if other men are offended by it. Is there a problem?

BigPapi2012
05-15-2014, 09:29 PM
Cool Michelle. I think have a better understanding of it now. I figured as much.

bluesoul
05-15-2014, 09:30 PM
No bluesoul it doesn't offend me and yes I made the post because I wanted to hear from an actual provider the reason as to why and if other men are offended by it. Is there a problem?

it's not a problem, i just don't believe you. if it doesn't bother you, why even make a thread about it? obviously you thought about it enough to care what others think

Donkey
05-15-2014, 09:38 PM
Unfortunately there's a whole bunch of low rent lil niggas out there who try to hustle these girls and give them problems which makes it hard on the rest of us.

BigPapi2012
05-15-2014, 09:38 PM
it's not a problem, i just don't believe you. if it doesn't bother you, why even make a thread about it? obviously you thought about it enough to care what others think
That's ok. You don't have to believe me. Something doesn't have to bother you for you to have to make a thread about it. Bothered/Offended and curious are two different emotions. I was curious. Far from offended or bothered by someones preference. If I posted a thread asking "Why don't most providers post videos on their backpage ad." That doesn't mean I'm offended or bothered that they don't. I'm just curious as to why they don't because I think it would prove their authenticity.

Rusty Eldora
05-15-2014, 09:45 PM
The very wise Michelle (and cute) I think said it right.


Im an escort and I will give u my view point...

I have had some amazing black guy clients. One I see here in vegas about once a month. He is very respectful, educated and a good guy.

But I have have had major issues with many black guys. The young ones, the ones who come high, talk their slang, not proper english are the ones I always have issues with.

In LA one of my first clients I ever seen, came in pulled out his dick, when I asked for donation, he kept saying, "Come on dont you like this dick? Give me a lil head so I can see if its worth it." I said no, and get out, thats when he backed me into a corner and tried to put his hands on me. I screamed and kicked him in nuts, ran to door, and told him to leave.

Other guys who smoke and come high, cant cum, take up way too much time. Want to bring down your rate the minute they get to your place. They can be aggressive, and rude.

I find most older black men, who are educated, dont speak in their ghetto slang, come over and love their time with you. Enjoy your company and treat you with respect. THey dont try to low ball you, or go dont you love my big black cock.

The minute a guy talks on phone and I cant understand him, or he is using stupid ass lingo, or calling me baby, ma, or any of those terms you call your gf, are the guys that give you trouble. It goes for hispanic and white guys who do the same thing. If u talk that bullshit I hang up the phone.

But with that said I dont put NO BLACK GUYS or ANY OF THOSE THINGS! I just go with how u talk to me on phone.

Other providers have had bad experiences with or have BF's that would prefer them to not see one type. I have a GG provider friend that is Chinese, she really doesn't want to see Chinese but is happy with black guys that fit Michelle's criteria. Providers have every right to decide who they will be getting close and personal with.


Big Papi, you indicated that you have some GG providers that wish they could review you, well they can provide a reference for you. In my area, the providers regularly require references of providers you have seen, which improves the safety. Contact the Tgirl you would like to see and discuss with her what she needs to feel comfortable. If you are and act like a gentleman things should go easier than seeing the GG provider.

I'm an older XXL white guy, interestingly I have done very well with the best providers in the market, but have had problems with the 'value' end of the range.

Rusty Eldora
05-15-2014, 09:47 PM
Unfortunately there's a whole bunch of low rent lil niggas out there who try to hustle these girls and give them problems which makes it hard on the rest of us.

Well Donkey, there are a whole lot of flavors of trailer trash who try and hustle, gyp, or abuse these girls. They make life hard for the girls and the gentleman that want to see them

sucka4chix
05-15-2014, 09:48 PM
Im an escort and I will give u my view point...

I have had some amazing black guy clients. One I see here in vegas about once a month. He is very respectful, educated and a good guy.

But I have have had major issues with many black guys. The young ones, the ones who come high, talk their slang, not proper english are the ones I always have issues with.

In LA one of my first clients I ever seen, came in pulled out his dick, when I asked for donation, he kept saying, "Come on dont you like this dick? Give me a lil head so I can see if its worth it." I said no, and get out, thats when he backed me into a corner and tried to put his hands on me. I screamed and kicked him in nuts, ran to door, and told him to leave.

Other guys who smoke and come high, cant cum, take up way too much time. Want to bring down your rate the minute they get to your place. They can be aggressive, and rude.

I find most older black men, who are educated, dont speak in their ghetto slang, come over and love their time with you. Enjoy your company and treat you with respect. THey dont try to low ball you, or go dont you love my big black cock.

The minute a guy talks on phone and I cant understand him, or he is using stupid ass lingo, or calling me baby, ma, or any of those terms you call your gf, are the guys that give you trouble. It goes for hispanic and white guys who do the same thing. If u talk that bullshit I hang up the phone.

But with that said I dont put NO BLACK GUYS or ANY OF THOSE THINGS! I just go with how u talk to me on phone.

See, that's real! I can respect that. Thanks for an honest post.

bluesoul
05-15-2014, 09:58 PM
That's ok. You don't have to believe me. Something doesn't have to bother you for you to have to make a thread about it. Bothered/Offended and curious are two different emotions. I was curious. Far from offended or bothered by someones preference. If I posted a thread asking "Why don't most providers post videos on their backpage ad." That doesn't mean I'm offended or bothered that they don't. I'm just curious as to why they don't because I think it would prove their authenticity.

hey, you're right. that's the realest answer you could've given me right there. real talk

BBaggins06
05-15-2014, 11:30 PM
We interrupt this thread for some breaking news .... Providers are prejudiced against black men!!!

This just in ... Water is still wet!!! Almost as wet as all the escorts sucka4chicks wifes up on the sly ...

FreddieGomez
05-15-2014, 11:47 PM
Man, ya'll have fragile egos.

I could give a shit who likes me and who don't.

Donkey
05-15-2014, 11:57 PM
Well Donkey, there are a whole lot of flavors of trailer trash who try and hustle, gyp, or abuse these girls. They make life hard for the girls and the gentleman that want to see them
lol, what bullshit. The only flavor that as a rule hustles these girls is nigga. It's why as a respectable black man I have to prove I am not that way rather than being given the benefit of the doubt from the get go. I never read "no white dudes" or "no mexicans" or "no asians" in these ads...only "no black men." Drop the PC bullshit please.

Donkey
05-15-2014, 11:58 PM
Man, ya'll have fragile egos.

I could give a shit who likes me and who don't.
Exactly

GroobySteven
05-15-2014, 11:58 PM
lol, what bullshit. The only flavor that as a rule hustles these girls is nigga. It's why as a respectable black man I have to prove I am not that way rather than being given the benefit of the doubt from the get go. I never read "no white dudes" or "no mexicans" or "no asians" in these ads...only "no black men." Drop the PC bullshit please.

I LIKE this post. Well said.

bob98105
05-16-2014, 04:54 AM
I don't know how many of the providers that post these comments have professional sports teams, but they should be forced to sell them.

LI SEAN08
05-16-2014, 05:07 AM
I was friends with a cpl trannys many yrs who sold their services. Each have been ripped off already. More than once and they told me all were young black dudes. Neither of them will see a black guy younger than 40 today. It is what it is!!

bluesoul
05-16-2014, 07:08 AM
I was friends with a cpl trannys many yrs who sold their services. Each have been ripped off already. More than once and they told me all were young black dudes. Neither of them will see a black guy younger than 40 today. It is what it is!!

sound logic. i'm curious if they apply this same philosophy to banks. banks rip people off all the time.

bluesoul
05-16-2014, 07:14 AM
I don't know how many of the providers that post these comments have professional sports teams, but they should be forced to sell them.

killer.

maybe a bunch of chasers should show up to the "no black men" trannies apartments first wearing their clothes inside out as a show of solidarity to our black chasers first

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AlexisDVyne
05-16-2014, 11:35 AM
I have no problems with black guys..

Tho the ones here in Vancouver tend to be a bit tamer than down south from what I can tell.. Even so I know a few guys from the states and they're all pretty cool.. :)

One thing that's true about black guys is that on average they have bigger dicks.. This is something I rather like.. Really need to try 2 at the same time one day..

Each to their own tho.. here some girls wont see east indians.. :shrug

daltx_m
05-16-2014, 03:40 PM
Unfortunately there's a whole bunch of low rent lil niggas out there
You could have ended the sentence right there.

jennifer tgirl
12-28-2014, 11:15 PM
I know it's common for GG working girls who have Pimps to have a no Black Guy policy. Not sure why t-girls who are like this-I've had no more, or no less problems with black guys than anyone else.

jamesedwards
12-28-2014, 11:26 PM
They do it because they have the freedom to do it. How is that affecting your life? They are showing pure ignorance so If I were you they are telling you who they are and you know what they say, "if someone tells you who they are you better know that's who they are". Maybe cause of their experiences with African descent men. Be as it may you shouldn't sweat it.



Has anyone noticed on Backpage and craigslist (or any site for that matter) that there are a number of girls that post in the description "No Black Men" or post a picture saying the same thing or "I love white guys, get over it." Can any of the escorts on here tell me why the girls would do that? Is it because of a black mans size? A bad experience with black men? Black men are cheap? And also does it refer to just black american men and not black latino men like myself (David Ortiz, Laz Alonso, Victor Cruz etc.) Just curious.

And to the guys, are any of you offended by that?

Personally it doesn't "offend" me but I but I feel as though if it's because of a bad experience that they may have had with another black guy or they believe a black guy is going to be cheap or something like that than they are being judgmental and judging a book by it's cover, which I would think a transexual woman would be a little more understanding in that department. As someone who hasn't been with a trans-woman yet and is still "looking" I'm disappointed when I see it because I feel as though I'm being put in a category that I shouldn't be put in. I'm the nicest, coolest guy in the world and the GG escorts I've dealt with (if they could review me) would say the same and that I've never played any games or anything like that. Now if they just like white guys better then that's cool I can understand that but I think it's a little financially counterproductive if you're an escort to discriminate by race. If it's a dating site then I get it because it's what you would prefer to be with in a long term relationship.

Anybody can chime in. Thanks

Jamie French
12-28-2014, 11:39 PM
Escorting 8 years... have taken every black dude who made it to my apartment. No Arabs/Indians ever. It's personal preference. Escorts boil themselves down to temporary sex toys for some dudes amusement, it's equally fitting that escorts boil clients down to little more than preferable sexual flavors with wallets to match. My dad is Jordanian, best dad I ever had, still - no Arabs/Indians.

fireblad
12-29-2014, 12:49 AM
Escorts (GGs/TGirls) post this 'no nigga' shyte coz its just racial, cuz. Black is supposed to be inferior and subservient, and thats just the way of the world. Can't believe there are racist trannies?!! What's the world coming to? But I have met 2 in London UK; ts Gisele (Liverpool street) and ts Gloria (muscle diva). Wierd, no?