Do some transexuals dislike anal sex?

[suckseed]

In a recent post, I talked about my first time bottoming for a TS. It was very exciting, but painful, and I'm still not sure whether I'd do it again. I'd fantasized that somehow it would feel as good as vaginal sex can feel for a woman. Now I'm wondering whether that's unrealistic. I understand that it can be a matter of getting used to it, using toys to loosen things up a bit, etc. But I've also heard Dr. Drew of Loveline (I like to listen on my way home at night) say that it's not for everyone, and that those for whom it hurts shouldn't do it.
I understand that some transexuals do not bottom, but that might just be a preference when it comes to having sex for money. But are there TS's who just plain don't like having anal sex?
Related but separate question: Does anyone here have any experience with someone they know doing permanant damage to their anus/rectum from sex? (I've seen a prolapsed anus in GG porn, and I don't for the life of me understand how someone can do that to themselves - don't they have any instincts of self-preservation?)

[MacShreach]

Related but separate question: Does anyone here have any experience with someone they know doing permanant damage to their anus/rectum from sex?

There was a story last year about a guy who died from a ruptured colon after anal sex, but I think it actually was a horse that done for him, rather than just someone hung like one. 8)

[Ecstatic]

But are there TS's who just plain don't like having anal sex?
There are definitely tgirls who prefer to top, and I know one girl who does not bottom at all (she's a colon cancer survivor and doesn't risk any activity in that area).

[Ecstatic]

Related but separate question: Does anyone here have any experience with someone they know doing permanant damage to their anus/rectum from sex?

There was a story last year about a guy who died from a ruptured colon after anal sex, but I think it actually was a horse that done for him, rather than just someone hung like one. 8)
That's true. As Vicki Richter once said, "I guess horse cock can really ruin your day. Let that be a lesson to you."

[Trogdor]

But are there TS's who just plain don't like having anal sex?
There are definitely tgirls who prefer to top, and I know one girl who does not bottom at all (she's a colon cancer survivor and doesn't risk any activity in that area).

I think I know who you are referring to. :idea:

[Ecstatic]

Could be, but I'm not saying.

[BeardedOne]

In a recent post, I talked about my first time bottoming for a TS. It was very exciting, but painful, and I'm still not sure whether I'd do it again.

Never say never.

My first experiences with anal sex were clumsy, rushed, and painful. Turned me off the experience for many years.

Then, at the hands of a most considerate individual, I learned that the experience could be quite pleasurable.

If you follow the basics of relaxation, lubrication, and communication, you can have quite the good time. If any one of those ingredients is lacking, things might not go so well.

[RubyTS]

well if u wanna know if there are ts's who dislike anal, you should try asking the tgirls... There's so much diversity in this world. God there are people turned on by amputees, (other thread) people into animals, people into golden and brn showers. Then there are people who are not. So if u r asking if there are transsexual who arent into recieving anal, i would assume so. Its actually surprising how many girls i know that prefer to top. Then there are some who will only top with clients, but bottom with "boys." And there are those who are generally top, but will bottom for the right price.

Now as far as the idea that bottoming is only meant for certain people... i would have to disagree. I think anyone could enjoy the experience. I remember MY 1st time i was like WTF OW OWWW OWWW OWWWWWWWWWWWWWW OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW for like 10 minutes curled into a ball wondering when the pain would go away. That would DEFINITELY scare off most people. NOT MEEEEE.

I love bottoming. The release from jerking off with a cock deep inside you is SO intense. Of course when you cum... u dont want the cock in u anymore lol. But you have to take ur time.

Heres a trick i use. Have your partner tease you with their cock. rubbing it up and down on your hole, nice and wett. Most tops like to have their bottom feel pain, its an ego thing about size or whatever. They tend to ram it in u to make u squirm. it turns them on ;-) i know cuz I used to do it, lol. So u need to be with someone who is patient and understanding. Have them work it in you slowly. You should lay on yoour stomach and relax your whole body. Its not gonna work if youre with someone u dont trust. You will start feeling the pleasure after relaxing. it will feel like an itch being scratched, and soon you will loosen and become moist (at least i do.) Before u know it, YOU will be the one grabbing their thighs to take it deeper and you will want mooooore! Then its a wrap. Youre hooked on getting fucked ;-)

[suckseed]

Thank you, Ruby. Yeah, I was asking the question for any girls who wanted to chime in. Many threads I've seen posted here with a 'question for the girls' type heading seem to settle to the bottom quickly.
My TS experience, which happened about two and half weeks ago, was with an escort who definitely seemed to be into getting in as quickly as possible. Saying "Relax baby" to a somewhat nervous first timer who's feeling freaked out and in pain isn't the greatest foreplay. But of course the thrill of being with a TS for my first time, and her being fine as hell, was working in my favor. My second experience with probably also be with her. If she's forgiven me for cumming in her eye, that is.
Thanks to everyone for your insights. Ruby, your reaction to your first time made me laugh...I'm right there with you babe!

[RubyTS]

Thank you, Ruby. Yeah, I was asking the question for any girls who wanted to chime in. Many threads I've seen posted here with a 'question for the girls' type heading seem to settle to the bottom quickly.
My TS experience, which happened about two and half weeks ago, was with an escort who definitely seemed to be into getting in as quickly as possible. Saying "Relax baby" to a somewhat nervous first timer who's feeling freaked out and in pain isn't the greatest foreplay. But of course the thrill of being with a TS for my first time, and her being fine as hell, was working in my favor. My second experience with probably also be with her. If she's forgiven me for cumming in her eye, that is.
Thanks to everyone for your insights. Ruby, your reaction to your first time made me laugh...I'm right there with you babe!

no problemo... another thing is that although it may be painful, a lot of guys like a forceful ts top. While the pain may seem excrutiating AT THAT PARTICULAR MOMENT, the thought of a ts taking control and having her way with u is exciting to a lot of men. Some girls MAY just be forceful by nature, some girls may be because they believe u will like it even if u say no, and some girls have erection problems and dont have the time to try and work your hole or they may go soft on u.

[suckseed]

I once was goin' to town with a girlfriend, exited her vag and accidentally went into her ass.....that was the end of that little episode of lovemaking. I spent the next 15 minutes consoling a crying girl. Now that I now how bad it can feel. Poor girl.
Of course, she wanted me to years later. She came like a rocket.

[sub337]

(I've seen a prolapsed anus in GG porn, and I don't for the life of me understand how someone can do that to themselves - don't they have any instincts of self-preservation?)

Damn! Hate it when that happens!

LOL

[Trogdor]

This has been another useless fact :megreen:

[suckseed]

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God I don't evr want to see that again. I am so fucking sorry I brought that up. Seriously, please get rid of that. :arrow:

[Ecstatic]

Heres a trick i use. Have your partner tease you with their cock. rubbing it up and down on your hole, nice and wett. Most tops like to have their bottom feel pain, its an ego thing about size or whatever. They tend to ram it in u to make u squirm. it turns them on ;-) i know cuz I used to do it, lol. So u need to be with someone who is patient and understanding. Have them work it in you slowly. You should lay on yoour stomach and relax your whole body. Its not gonna work if youre with someone u dont trust. You will start feeling the pleasure after relaxing. it will feel like an itch being scratched, and soon you will loosen and become moist (at least i do.) Before u know it, YOU will be the one grabbing their thighs to take it deeper and you will want mooooore! Then its a wrap. Youre hooked on getting fucked ;-)
Good advice, Ruby. My first anal experience with a tgirl was about 4 years ago, with a beautiful, sweet, smart woman. I love oral, so our first couple of times together were just oral, but then I told her I wanted to bop her and have her top me. Well, topping her went just smoothly, of course, and I loved it, but then it was my turn and, gentle and patient as she was, there was no way I could accept her 7.5"x5" tool. It hurt too much (note to first timers: it's good to start with a girl who's not so well endowed, but is rock hard, say 6"-6.5" and not so thick). It took two visits before she could do me, and inbetween (a month or so), I practiced with toys. When the time finally came, boy did I ever (come, that is). I loved it, and her. A truly versatile lady who can go for hours! My preference is for a versatile girl who will swap top/bottom with me, as I love both, but if I had to choose, I'd pick a top girl.

[MacShreach]

It is not a dildo. It is the innards doing what my lunch wants to do right now. I'm not going back up there to see who posted that but whoever you are you are one deeply disturbed puppy.

:smh :thumbsdown :puke :why

[Jamie Michelle]

well if u wanna know if there are ts's who dislike anal, you should try asking the tgirls... There's so much diversity in this world. God there are people turned on by amputees, (other thread) people into animals, people into golden and brn showers. Then there are people who are not. So if u r asking if there are transsexual who arent into recieving anal, i would assume so. Its actually surprising how many girls i know that prefer to top. Then there are some who will only top with clients, but bottom with "boys." And there are those who are generally top, but will bottom for the right price.

Now as far as the idea that bottoming is only meant for certain people... i would have to disagree. I think anyone could enjoy the experience. I remember MY 1st time i was like WTF OW OWWW OWWW OWWWWWWWWWWWWWW OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW for like 10 minutes curled into a ball wondering when the pain would go away. That would DEFINITELY scare off most people. NOT MEEEEE.

I love bottoming. The release from jerking off with a cock deep inside you is SO intense. Of course when you cum... u dont want the cock in u anymore lol. But you have to take ur time.


That's not the case with me, Ruby, and I assume the same goes with a number of other girls, as well.

I especially love it when a hard cock is inside my ass-pussy after I cum. I want the guy to keep on pounding me. After awhile, my clitty will get hard again and I can cum again.

And after I come that time, then I still want him to fuck me. So long as the sex is good, then I'm up for the ride.



Heres a trick i use. Have your partner tease you with their cock. rubbing it up and down on your hole, nice and wett. Most tops like to have their bottom feel pain, its an ego thing about size or whatever. They tend to ram it in u to make u squirm. it turns them on ;-) i know cuz I used to do it, lol. So u need to be with someone who is patient and understanding. Have them work it in you slowly. You should lay on yoour stomach and relax your whole body. Its not gonna work if youre with someone u dont trust. You will start feeling the pleasure after relaxing. it will feel like an itch being scratched, and soon you will loosen and become moist (at least i do.) Before u know it, YOU will be the one grabbing their thighs to take it deeper and you will want mooooore! Then its a wrap. Youre hooked on getting fucked ;-)

[RangeHova]

Yeah I have been with girls that the second they come you either HAVE to take the dick out of her ass or slow up yout syroke. Then others who can still go.

I dated a girl who felt likr she needed to get the orgasm out of the way. Once she had that first O, our sex would go into 5th gear. Then when we got to the 2nd it would be explosive.

The girl that I am seeing now takes awhile to get inside of but after some serious fuckin she loosens up, once she comes tightenes up again so I have to ease up a bit and lossen it up again. It is great because that tightness makes me even harderall over again so when I do climax it is really good.