What is your theory on the rise of the t-girl??

[TSaddicted]

I haven't seen any real debates on this discussion page, here's one to get you thinking.

T-girls tell us your reasons, men give us your opinions on the topic.

[Nikka]

personal reasons and then after several sexualn arrasment and men being pigs, is just money

[TSaddicted]

Thank you for expressing how you feel. It is a subject I know some people don't want to talk about but there's nothing wrong with a lil' discussion.

I've been in this game for less than a year and had the pleasure of being with many t-girls, I've never been charged but I'm sure I'll pay in time. Money is not everything, sex is much more better with a lil' romance.

Life is short, do whatever makes you happy.

Lol get as much money as you can.

[Jericho]

Rise of the t-girl?
The internet.

[Ms.Stepford]

There aren't anymore trans women than there have been before.

It's just that it's easier to come out and live as trans than it has been since pre-Xtian times, and the internet allows us to communicate on our own terms.

[GroobySteven]

As Jerico stated, the Internet. The ability to know you're not alone - to connect with others - to see that people are doing it.
AKA - GROOBY :-)

[nysprod]

I've been in this game for less than a year and had the pleasure of being with many t-girls, I've never been charged but I'm sure I'll pay in time. Money is not everything, sex is much more better with a lil' romance.



Those who do the most talking in reality have the least to talk about.

[TSaddicted]

Lol why do you sound so upset?? If you have nothing to say then why don't you just say nothing.

Is this not the discussion page?? Instead of putting a picture of my cock up I thought about having a nice debate with people who share the same sexual preferences as me. There's always one.

[giovanni_hotel]

Rise of the Tgirl??

Did I miss Planet of the Tgirls???

Does the sequel make sense if I haven't seen the first one??

[francisfkudrow]

I think the medical technology has advanced to the point that guys who would have at one time resigned themselves to being male now see transitioning as a realistic option.

[gaiseric]

TSaddicted you made 2 mistakes when you started this thread.

Firstly you assumed people of here want to have a sensible discussion. If you have spent any time reading the various posts on here, you would have realised that they don't.

Secondly you decided to broadcast your sexual history with TSs in such a way as it sounds like a big ego bragging and this is guaranteed to attract the humorous, sarcastic or nasty comments.

Better luck next time.

[TSaddicted]

Thanks for that, you are spot on. I've seen a few childish comments already. Instead of joining in some will try and find something to moan about, they sound really miserable inside.

Life is short, too short to be miserable.

[my my my!]

There aren't anymore trans women than there have been before.

It's just that it's easier to come out and live as trans than it has been since pre-Xtian times, and the internet allows us to communicate on our own terms.

Agree with the 2nd part, but disagree with the 1st part.

Yes it is easier now, and in reality there are more transwomen now than there were years ago. Due to the fact you stated in your 2nd point.

there's plenty of aged 40 and above men, that never had the courage to go through transition in their youth. Sad.

[Prospero]

I am not sure what you mean by "the rise".....

[nysprod]

TSaddicted you made 2 mistakes when you started this thread.

Firstly you assumed people of here want to have a sensible discussion. If you have spent any time reading the various posts on here, you would have realised that they don't.

Secondly you decided to broadcast your sexual history with TSs in such a way as it sounds like a big ego bragging and this is guaranteed to attract the humorous, sarcastic or nasty comments.

Better luck next time.

Utter nonesense i have zero belief in what he said.

[Stavros]

Some factors to add to those mentioned already:
-a rise in global population means a rise in the percentage of people born intersexed or without definitive gender markers;
-medicine and surgery (but possibly not psychology?) has advanced to deal with these issues at an early age, but not in all societies, for religious/cultural reasons;
-the costs of surgery have declined as demand has risen, I wonder what proportion of young transexuals in say, Asia and Latin America have breast enhancement procedures before they are 25, compared to an equivalent cohort ten years ago;
-rising standards of living and cheaper transport costs mean access to places previously out of bounds for reason of cost;
-the communications revolution has bridged previously unbridgeable gaps in the world, and given transexuals online access to a quality of advice on their issues which previously did not exist (but they may need to understand English);
-a majority of transexuals probably live in urban environments where identities can be changed and where there is greater anonymity than in, say, a village or a small town;
-the law, equal opportunities and greater tolerance in some societies has made life more bearable for transexuals;
-BUT what I don't know is whether or not transexuals themselves feel life is easier, better, cheaper, safer, more fulfilling than it was 10, 20 or 30 years ago, and whether or not the truth, outside those parts of the world still in denial, is that being transgendered is more acceptable than once it might have been, outside structured situations such as carnival, cabaret, 'show-business' -in other words, in day to day living.

[stan.smith]

THE INTERNET! plain and simple.

[RallyCola]

i think the rise of a tgirl is directly proportional to how much their partner turns them on or how many blue pills they popped.

[saifan]

Wait, we're suppose to brag when we get it for free? Shit, I had no idea. Get ready for some serious bragging!

[RallyCola]

Wait, we're suppose to brag when we get it for free? Shit, I had no idea. Get ready for some serious bragging!

your hand and crossdressing catholic priests don't count.

[saifan]

your hand and crossdressing catholic priests don't count.

Won't be as much but still prepare for the bragging!

[TSaddicted]

I just want to congratulate those people who wrote a personal response to my thread and proved to the rest that there are people here who do think about things other than just sex.

My opinion is that anyone to go through any transformation of their body is very brave. Dunno if it's the internet. Thailand seems like tv central, internet didn't speed up growth there. It's a new world, if that's what makes you happy, go ahead.

[amberskyi]

Agree with doesn't m part, but disagree with the 1st part.

Yes it is easier now, and in reality there are more transwomen now than there were years ago. Due to the fact you stated in your 2nd point.

there's plenty of aged 40 and above men, that never had the courage to go through transition in their youth. Sad.

The fact that that didn't transition doesnt mean their not trans.as long as the feelings are there

[swatchwatch]

I find some t-girls amazing

[jamiethewild]

My opinion is that anyone to go through any transformation of their body is very brave. Dunno if it's the internet. Thailand seems like tv central, internet didn't speed up growth there. It's a new world, if that's what makes you happy, go ahead.

It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender. It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.- by a future post-op, cunty bitch.

[SpoogeMonkey]

can we put this into a global context, rather than a minority western culture viewpoint. :)

[Marty Mcfly]

Kayla Coxx did TS porn and made TS xxx poular then all the twinks saw they can make more money so they took it up a notch took mones and grew tits.

[TSaddicted]

Wow, that comment was very blunt but carries some truth. Lol I had to look up the word "twink". So some of these feminine shaped men are calling it a day on their manhood, for a life of sex as an escort. Life as a man is pretty tough. At a period of high unemployment, I can see why the business side of the tv will shine brighter in these gloomy days.

More and more Brazilian tv's are in London to convert that pound into the real, you can understand why when you see the exchange rate. Kinky Kennedy Logan is also on London backpage for more than just a holiday, can't verify if it is actually her. You can see the business opportunities here for a hard working tv.

[Prospero]

TSaddicted.. your rather arrogant comments after a few people made a joke are somewhat surprising. Their response to you opening question was hardly surprising since it was such a vague question. I asked what you meant but got no response. Hence I found it impossible to respond with anything intelligent. If you look around this website you'll find plenty of wit and intelligence on show.

[TSaddicted]

The "rise" as in influx in tv's. The rise in population of tv's in the world. Your second comment is full of spelling mistakes, I don't understand what you mean.

Lol if you have nothing to say on the topic, just say nothing. Instead you've targeted me, almost in a way to start a conversation between just me and you, which you have succeeded in doing. "Yawn" if you want to message me privately, feel free to do so.

[Prospero]

TSAddicted... when it comes to issues of grammar I suggest you look at your own work. Tsk tsk.

Okay then. Thanks for actually offering some clarity.

TVs are not t-girls. TVs are, usually, men wearing female clothing. In some cases they are girls at an early stage in their transition. I assume you mean the genuinely transgendered male to female individuals, (and perhaps the less visible transgendered women becoming men) It is a moot point whether or not there is a "rise" as you put it. There is certainly an increase in visibility and in the number of TV and TS escorts - and in the number of clubs and websites and dating services involving the transgendered.

I think the "rise" is due to a greater acceptance to sexual and gender difference and thus a greater visibility. Can you imagine an event like gay pride taking over central london as it does now say 30 years ago? But many, many girls choose still to remain private and are not "out there" and I feel pretty sure this has been the case for decades.

But as steven says sites like those he runs have certainly given Transexuals greater visibility and also catered for the growing market in TS porn and TS escort services.

But a "rie'. Would that this were so. I think girls undergoing the transition are still finding it a great challenge to get work in non-sex professions. It is for this reason that many have recourse to porn and to escorting. We still seem to be a long way from the time when transsexuals can be both acknowledged and easily find work as doctors, college professors, teachers, airline pilots in supermarkets, as nurses etc etc.... Roll on that day.

[amberskyi]

TSAddicted... when it comes to issues of grammar I suggest you look at your own work. Tsk tsk.

Okay then. Thanks for actually offering some clarity.

TVs are not t-girls. TVs are, usually, men wearing female clothing. In some cases they are girls at an early stage in their transition. I assume you mean the genuinely transgendered male to female individuals, (and perhaps the less visible transgendered women becoming men) It is a moot point whether or not there is a "rise" as you put it. There is certainly an increase in visibility and in the number of TV and TS escorts - and in the number of clubs and websites and dating services involving the transgendered.

I think the "rise" is due to a greater acceptance to sexual and gender difference and thus a greater visibility. Can you imagine an event like gay pride taking over central london as it does now say 30 years ago? But many, many girls choose still to remain private and are not "out there" and I feel pretty sure this has been the case for decades.

But as steven says sites like those he runs have certainly given Transexuals greater visibility and also catered for the growing market in TS porn and TS escort services.

But a "rie'. Would that this were so. I think girls undergoing the transition are still finding it a great challenge to get work in non-sex professions. It is for this reason that many have recourse to porn and to escorting. We still seem to be a long way from the time when transsexuals can be both acknowledged and easily find work as doctors, college professors, teachers, airline pilots in supermarkets, as nurses etc etc.... Roll on that day.

I honestly don't think its that hard to find employment as a ts woman. Most of the girls i know either work or has had a job as a girl at some point.I think its really easy for ts sex workers to use that as a crutch.
I always thought it was odd that the less "passable" girls stayed employed but "the dolls" (the really pretty passable ones) would use the discrimination excuse.if ms.bobthebuilder can get employed than your pretty ass can too lol

[TSaddicted]

That's true what you said about having a problem being employed in more sophisticated jobs, but not all want to be teachers and doctors. It's easier to lay on your back and make $100 than to study for a college degree. Working on your own accord, working at night and let's not forget tax free.

Time is a beautiful thing, gays can marry now in England and many other countries around the world. Over time we'll see more transgendered people in the workforce and which is an obvious sign of them becoming more accepted in society.

Once transvestites frown upon being escorts, that's when we'll see big changes in society. The fact that so many are willing to be sexual objects takes away their self respect. Once job application forms starting, male, female and transexual mf/fm, then you will know that we're going forward in society and closer to acceptance.

[Prospero]

Amber, I was thinking about the many remarks made by TS Miranda here some time back. Clearly, like you, a very intelligent woman, but she regularly complained that finding work outside of the world of sex was very difficult. Of course those who are discreet and "pass" may well be working in all kinds of fields that we are unaware off. For instance i was in a shoe shop the other day in Charleston, SC, and i was nearly 100 per cent sure that the woman serving me- a tall and hugely attractive woman in her forties - was a TS. But then again.... i cannot be totally certain and again, it doesn't matter a jot. She did a good job. She was very likeable and if a TS, then great for her. The woman I was staying with in Charleston clocked her too - but her attitude was "so what." That's great but not necessarily the attitude that all would embrace.

There are of course high profile TS women - like the composer Wendy Carlos but I hope that as the "rise" of T girls continues it will eventually be a matter of no interest where they started.

[jjtaks714]

the world is just waking up and thankfully the world is also become more accepting of people living their living however they would like too, hence more people living their lives out in public.. we still have a long way to go but it's soo much better than 10 years ago.. see what the next 10 brings!!

[txjr3]

The religious right warned us this day was coming. T-girls are rising, pretty soon will be taking over, and subjugating all the g-girls and g-guys. I guess it won't be so bad.

[Rusty Eldora]

I honestly don't think its that hard to find employment as a ts woman. Most of the girls i know either work or has had a job as a girl at some point.I think its really easy for ts sex workers to use that as a crutch.
I always thought it was odd that the less "passable" girls stayed employed but "the dolls" (the really pretty passable ones) would use the discrimination excuse.if ms.bobthebuilder can get employed than your pretty ass can too lol

On HA, we are admirers of Tgirls, but we appreciate the special things about them. But the public still needs to find out that they are exceptional people that already completed an incredible undertaking to be themselves. We need to push for acceptance of Tgirls as competent employees. The vast majority probably do not desire sexual relations, but would appreciate how well they worked.

[nysprod]

Amber, I was thinking about the many remarks made by TS Miranda here some time back. Clearly, like you, a very intelligent woman, but she regularly complained that finding work outside of the world of sex was very difficult.


Much as we liked Miranda, and she admitted it herself...the girl was not mentally stable.