Timewasters - why ?

[brumlegend]

Sitting with my ts escort friends, the amount of timewasting phone calls is unbelievable.
makes me wonder what people get out of calling an escort.
either you want to make a booking or you dont.
why call and ask the price, when it is written on the websites ?
why ask if they are working next week, or in a few days time ?
it is so easy to spot,
" where are you,
how big are you,
how much,
your pictures are beautiful,
where you from,
what time you working till,
whats your postcode"

And thats the end of it. usually finished off with " can you text me your postcode".
never to be heard from again.

i dont know if some pricks get a kick out of this, or what drives them.
maybe its a fantasy thing, and they have a wank afterwards.

on behalf of all ts ecsorts, my message is simple.
if you are not calling to make a booking, then dont call.
they dont actually like you, its just business.
stop pissing about.

[Kevin Dong]

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[CaptainPlanet]

Sitting with my ts escort friends, the amount of timewasting phone calls is unbelievable.
makes me wonder what people get out of calling an escort.
either you want to make a booking or you dont.
why call and ask the price, when it is written on the websites ?
why ask if they are working next week, or in a few days time ?
it is so easy to spot,
" where are you,
how big are you,
how much,
your pictures are beautiful,
where you from,
what time you working till,
whats your postcode"

And thats the end of it. usually finished off with " can you text me your postcode".
never to be heard from again.

i dont know if some pricks get a kick out of this, or what drives them.
maybe its a fantasy thing, and they have a wank afterwards.

on behalf of all ts ecsorts, my message is simple.
if you are not calling to make a booking, then dont call.
they dont actually like you, its just business.
stop pissing about.


Must have really been getting under your skin. :loser:

[bluesoul]

on behalf of all ts ecsorts, my message is simple.
if you are not calling to make a booking, then dont call.
they dont actually like you, its just business.
stop pissing about.

http://i.imgur.com/oENaQWb.jpg

[Chaos]

Sitting with my ts escort friends


they dont actually like you, its just business.
stop pissing about.

This makes me laugh....
So let me get this straight.....You can be friends with them but they hate everyone else...... :bs:

[brumlegend]

not everyone,
they quite like the young clean gym guys.
but anyone over 40 with a gut and 3 chins, hairy back, fat arse , shit teeth , body odour, skidmarks and a divorce behind them is fucked.

no money, no honey.

[Ms.Stepford]

It's the worst thing about the business, after no-call-no-shows, and the guys who actually go so far as to book a date, be super-excited about it all the way until you're all ready to go (shiny clean guts and all), jerk off thinking about it and feel dirty enough or get cold feet about seeing an SW/seeing a TS SW/cheating on their SO, then suddenly get called to work/fall off a ladder/get food poisoning/have to fly to Europe to find their daughter, and then you're pretty much left to do subtraction and get back on the hustle.

Being that hiring an escort is pleasure and luxury, a lot of people don't really seem to give much consideration to our business side of it. They don't realize that they're part of an annoying overarching time suck. They don't think about it as deep as we do.

And a lot of people don't read, or click on links that could answer their frequently asked questions. I think they just see pictures and look at the bottom for contact info most of the time.

I fear it's a built-in annoyance of the job, at any level, but it's worth venting about.

[brumlegend]

ive just called a pizza place.
i didnt actually want one, just called them up, asked if the deliver, how much is a twelve inch etc....
gave me a right hard on.
might call again tomorrow.

[Chaos]

It's nice that you think you're clever....
But the fact is that cancellations and no shows happen in EVERY business.
The fact that you immediately assume that it's someone who had NO intention of showing up without evidence is astounding.
What if they didn't like what they heard on the phone?
What if said escort was rude on the phone or sounded distracted?
Hell,you could see a pic of Vanna White,and end up talking to Barry White...
That'll throw a few off...
Yes,the deliberate time wasters suck....but I HIGHLY doubt ANYONE here needs you to tell them that.
I'm thinking you were trying to come in here all heroic like....and tripped over your own cape...
How else do you go from defending escorts to pranking pizza shops.....idiot

[Rusty Eldora]

It's the worst thing about the business, after no-call-no-shows, and the guys who actually go so far as to book a date, be super-excited about it all the way until you're all ready to go (shiny clean guts and all), jerk off thinking about it and feel dirty enough or get cold feet about seeing an SW/seeing a TS SW/cheating on their SO, then suddenly get called to work/fall off a ladder/get food poisoning/have to fly to Europe to find their daughter, and then you're pretty much left to do subtraction and get back on the hustle.

Being that hiring an escort is pleasure and luxury, a lot of people don't really seem to give much consideration to our business side of it. They don't realize that they're part of an annoying overarching time suck. They don't think about it as deep as we do.

And a lot of people don't read, or click on links that could answer their frequently asked questions. I think they just see pictures and look at the bottom for contact info most of the time.

I fear it's a built-in annoyance of the job, at any level, but it's worth venting about.

Tgirls have it worse than GG's. Most GG's do advanced booking out to say a week before, nearly every Tgirl is same day. A far bigger case of cold feet, or "I have to parachute into Serbia"

[brumlegend]

Read it again Mo,
im asking the question why?
as in, Why call unless you want a booking.
nobody knows why, so i figured id ask on here.
i didnt think youd all be getting your suspenders in a twist.
although i did expect the cartoon copy paste stuff, every forum has these trainspotters.
chances are most the timewasters are on here, asking if anyone knows this one, anyone knows that one.
save up your pocket money, get a pair of balls and meet them for fucks sake.
they dont bite and your wife wont find out.

actually, i was going to go the gym tonight, but instead i thought fuck it.
ill get on birchplace and call up loads of escorts for a chat.
if i tell them they are beautiful, i might get invited round for tea.

for those not too quick on the uptake. let me explain the pizza comparison.
see, i dont really want pizza tonight, but ill entertain myself all night and call up all the shops and chat with the girl on the phone, if i find one that sounds nice, ask her twenty questions, then ill tell her i might order one on friday.
when friday comes, ill call her up, ask if she remembers me, tell her we chatted the other day......
tell her im thinking i might order one, then ill ask what time she closes.....
you get the picture. ( or maybe not ).

[LibertyHarkness]

boredom
Hornyness
Retards
Dodgy People


thats pretty much why people do it .

[Dino Velvet]

I was working the door in a Metal Club in Texas and this Pakistani cab driver comes running in in a panic. He cries out to me, "Are you Frank?" I replied, "To be perfectly honest, and thanks for asking, but I'm more the type of fella who prefers to beat around the bush." He was in such a hurry and I was having so much fun delaying him.

[hairyguy]

i used to frequent craigslist-posting tgirls here in new york city but everytime i would show up, the girl would be of a different race, or look manly or anything but like the picture. so i quit. for the gg, i have always gotten the girl i saw in pics. regardless, i now travel for sex tourism rather than call girls here. the prices are also absurd. i want a quick 5-10 minutes max (i usually have an erection before she opens the door and can cum within minutes - no, i do not need a "cultured" conversation with you. you are not special or important. you are providing me with a sex service so stop wasting my time with your "personality") and that still costs about $150 or so. $100 for butt-ugly tgirls (and gg as well). they charge by the half hour or whatever. the most it's worth is $50. i can get hours of service overseas in many countries at that cost. and i have never stood up a girl i have called. i realize it's their time and energy invested (like you said, get all shiny and clean inside) however i will also vent with the outrageous costs just like you girls vent about time wasters.

[Jamie French]

A lot of dudes just call up to jerk off to your voice. No one gets my number till an appointment has been scheduled and confirmed through email.

[Jamie French]

You sound like a treat.

i used to frequent craigslist-posting tgirls here in new york city but everytime i would show up, the girl would be of a different race, or look manly or anything but like the picture. so i quit. for the gg, i have always gotten the girl i saw in pics. regardless, i now travel for sex tourism rather than call girls here. the prices are also absurd. i want a quick 5-10 minutes max (i usually have an erection before she opens the door and can cum within minutes - no, i do not need a "cultured" conversation with you. you are not special or important. you are providing me with a sex service so stop wasting my time with your "personality") and that still costs about $150 or so. $100 for butt-ugly tgirls (and gg as well). they charge by the half hour or whatever. the most it's worth is $50. i can get hours of service overseas in many countries at that cost. and i have never stood up a girl i have called. i realize it's their time and energy invested (like you said, get all shiny and clean inside) however i will also vent with the outrageous costs just like you girls vent about time wasters.

[dderek123]

Yeah don't rub one out before you go see an escort.

[Dino Velvet]

Yeah don't rub one out before you go see an escort.

I do right in the shower before I head over. Gotta let off some steam.

Arnold Schwarzenegger in Commando - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19R2fDXCzcM)

[Ms.Stepford]

i used to frequent craigslist-posting tgirls here in new york city but everytime i would show up, the girl would be of a different race, or look manly or anything but like the picture. so i quit. for the gg, i have always gotten the girl i saw in pics. regardless, i now travel for sex tourism rather than call girls here. the prices are also absurd. i want a quick 5-10 minutes max (i usually have an erection before she opens the door and can cum within minutes - no, i do not need a "cultured" conversation with you. you are not special or important. you are providing me with a sex service so stop wasting my time with your "personality") and that still costs about $150 or so. $100 for butt-ugly tgirls (and gg as well). they charge by the half hour or whatever. the most it's worth is $50. i can get hours of service overseas in many countries at that cost. and i have never stood up a girl i have called. i realize it's their time and energy invested (like you said, get all shiny and clean inside) however i will also vent with the outrageous costs just like you girls vent about time wasters.

It kinda seems to me like you should just jerk off. Have you ever thought about having a girl tease you and keep you on the edge for an hour?

I think you could be having a lot more fun, and training yourself to last longer, too.

[Jamie French]

You shouldn't waste that many words on someone who barely qualifies as a person. Things like this are broken brained from the womb and are too far gone too be given any useful advice.


It kinda seems to me like you should just jerk off. Have you ever thought about having a girl tease you and keep you on the edge for an hour?

I think you could be having a lot more fun, and training yourself to last longer, too.

[brumlegend]

As someone else said, i think they phone up and have a wank listening to someones voice.
never quite going to get that one myself, and normally id say each to their own.
but in this case it aint, its fuckin other people around.
escorts are not a bleedin chat line.
tossers.

[wiltthestilt]

Im no White Knight, but I never contact lady unless Im prepared to make an appointment. If a schedule Iis available, I even propose a date and time in my first email. I usually don't ask questions, but I usually see gg's where the range of services for a basic session doesnt vary much. TS's tend to be more of a hassle. Hard to schedule in advance. Availibility is cloudy (call me tomorrow, ect.). Lack of responsiveness. Im sure this is a case by case basis--but finding a TS I like with professional business practices has not been easy.

Regarding the OP, Im not sure why a client is ranting about other clients. It might be true, but you have your own business to worry about.

[brumlegend]

I'm not a client , that's why.
I am the one in the other room as security on weekends.
I do enjoy looking at you all on the video intercom when they buzz you in.
My favourite was the guy who brought red roses with him.
Having Spent the last ten years in Thailand surrounded by men who walk the walk , I find the behaviour of some of you lot very strange.

[wiltthestilt]

I'm not a client , that's why.
I am the one in the other room as security on weekends.
I do enjoy looking at you all on the video intercom when they buzz you in.
My favourite was the guy who brought red roses with him.
Having Spent the last ten years in Thailand surrounded by men who walk the walk , I find the behaviour of some of you lot very strange.

Understood. Thanks for clearing that up. Rant on.

[buttslinger]

When I used to pick up street prostitutes, I had no idea I was being rated, one girl turned me down, and my next time around the block she flagged me down because the other girls said I was "OKAY"
She was a very sociable southern girl, wrote poetry, and later we picked up a druggie guy friend of hers, who I recognized as being in my Sunday School class decades before. Weird guy. Weird World.

I always got SEXXED UP at the strip clubs before I hit the STRIP, if we hit it off we hit it off, if we didn't we didn't. That's the way it works. For the money I was paying then, I expected nothing.

Half the girls I dated were what I would call unsatisfactory: annoying, thieves, some girls had no clue how to fuck or suck. Some were screwed up for life, way before they hit the streets.

The sex was important, but I remember the people more than the sex, it's corny but I remember the intimacy.

I forget the name of the two sites that rated callgirls, but I do remember transsexuals usually had a remarkably low number of reviews. Some of the gg girls had 300 reviews. If you leave a girls place so glad you gave her 300 bucks, she's got to be something special.

I'm just guessing here, but I'd wager the large percentage of transsexual dates don't look like Jamie French, Ms. Stepford, or Liberty Harkness. The ones I called couldn't speak English too good. WHAT??? WHAT??? WHAT????.

[TS_Macy]

The amount of timewasting is still prevalent. In London - 80% of men calling are timewasters. Please remember if you are a TW, an escort will save your number as such and you won't be cathered to. The usual signs have been described but I would like to repeat them.
-asking for pictures
-messaging on WhatsApp
-asking for price (even though it is written)
-haggling
-asking for a cock's size
-asking if you are top/bottom
-endless/meaningless texts.
Nowadays there is no rule. Even mature/experienced 'gentlemen' behave as such.
I understand you pay high price here but you should follow your instinct based on the phone manner just like escorts do.
I really admire those escorts who work 24/7. It is not a steady/secure/safe business sadly :(

[holzz]

dunno.

to be honest, and no offence really to all the providers here from well-known to unknown, but then I don't see the issue.

if one calls a take-away place to make an inquiry, then so what? Would the thai food or arab food place say "fuck off, don't call me again if you don't want to order!" if you ask them how far they deliver? No, not really. Calls like that , to ask for info, are normal. So what's the difference? Food or sex, both are still products on offer, in exchange for money. The thai food place owner has as much right to pissed off as the escort for loss of potential revenue. they're both in it for the money, hence why anybody sets up a business or a product to sell.

I don't call harassment, but then random calls for info and no bookings I see nothing wrong with. Sometimes it's about weighing whom to see, and using reviews and just intuition to make a selection.

[holzz]

The amount of timewasting is still prevalent. In London - 80% of men calling are timewasters. Please remember if you are a TW, an escort will save your number as such and you won't be cathered to. The usual signs have been described but I would like to repeat them.
-asking for pictures
-messaging on WhatsApp
-asking for price (even though it is written)
-haggling
-asking for a cock's size
-asking if you are top/bottom
-endless/meaningless texts.
Nowadays there is no rule. Even mature/experienced 'gentlemen' behave as such.
I understand you pay high price here but you should follow your instinct based on the phone manner just like escorts do.
I really admire those escorts who work 24/7. It is not a steady/secure/safe business sadly :(

I know it's annoying. But it's not all from a bad place that's all.

[kmersh]

I cannot speak directly to why someone would waste anyone's times, it does not seem sencical.

Having said that, a few years back I was staying at a really nice hotes in Vegas (one of the fee non-casino hotels) after coming back from dinner, I saw three Las Vegas Officers enter a room which surprised me and admittedly I just stood there for a moment longer than I should have, rather than just go straight to my room.

Another Officer exits from another room amd says we are doing a prostitution sting, so let this be a warning to you that Prostitution is illegal and you will go to jail, now please go to your room.

I complied and after entering my room, I did call the front desk to confirm and all they would say is that yes there was Police activity and offered to change room for a different floor.

I declined as I was going to bed, but it left an impression to this very day. I have to admit, I might (though haven't to date) call a Prostitute only to remember that event and I might be a no-show for fear of going to jail. I would hope that I just wouldn't call at all or if I got nervous I would have the decency to call and cancel.

[Nikka]

I read on uber websites that people call uber and when they arrive they cancel, just for fun

in South america Uber work with cash money (also CC)

so people for fun call and cancel, same as with escorts.... is just sick people with a low life

[natina]

It could be a guys 1st time
He could be probing for a sting are setup
He checking to see if your real
He cautious because​ of above things

[nysprod]

The time wasting works both ways...scorts tell everyone who calls to come over and they go with the first one who shows up.

[TS_Macy]

Well not all escorts do that. And I assume those who do have been soiled by timewasters before. I tried to play fair game at the beginning but when 90% of calls are non-genuine than all the goodness is gone. :heartbroken:

[DeseosEscandulosos]

One trans escort wrote that clients would schedule a session, and then start feeling shame as soon as they stopped feeling horny. So they didn't show up and they didn't call to cancel. She said she had to force them to book no more than a couple of hours in advance or she couldn't make a living.

It's not just trans escorts having a problem. A study published a few years ago quoted a cis street based worker to the effect that she had access to the Internet but didn't use it because of the no shows. Some escorts feel that they have to double book just to earn a living.

A lot of this seems to involve cheap ad sites. The escorts who pay for more expensive ad sites are charging more, can afford to spend more time screening, the screening eliminates most of the time wasters, and the escorts are more likely to do advance bookings. Or at least that's the theory.