Tashajones
03-07-2014, 08:03 PM
Going to be a long post and a bit of a rant about people and Transsexuals.
The one thing I dislike in life is people playing victims. Stop crying and blaming others for your life, grow a pair of balls or use the ones you have and fix your shit. I am sorry if that comes off harsh but I have had a pretty shitty life and have been giving a raw deal most of my life. But I went out on my own at 14 and made something of myself. I was pushed down countless times, had my 5 minutes of licking my wounds and then got back up and made the best of what I had. You do not see me complaining about how I was born with both sexes or how my family/friends treated me. How hard it was to finish nursing school while my BF was beating the crap out of me and my family turned their back on me. Or how most days I felt like drinking draino then having to face the world. No. I dealt with it and made choices to improve myself and to learn from my misfortunes. That is called life people.
Everyone has issues and problems and guess what we all have a past. Just because it happened to you does not make you special or worse off than the next person.
Bitching about being taken advantage of and used by people can only happen when you allow it to. You do not like what someone is offering you, then do not accept it. You do not like the big bad world of porn and the people who run the company’s. Then do not work with them. Or do what I did and start your own. Do not sit there behind your computer and bitch and complain about it. It is business not a fucking charity. People do not start a business to line the road with dollar bills for everyone else to make buck. They start it to improve their own lives. If they make millions good for them. That is called smart business. Unless you own the business your feelings do not matter. They are not here for you.
Last night I was part of a conversation with some girls who were going on and on about a person who runs a porn company. Attacking him to the lowest and making very untrue statements about him as a person. You dislikeing his business is one thing but to attack him on a personal level because he made smart choices and you clearly did not is not acceptable. I had enough and finally said something. My comments where then taken to be used for more victim cry’s about how unfair it was that he was making so much money and they were not getting paid what they think they should. My thoughts were, good for him, smart business move. This is business not a charity as I said. You do not like what he offers or anyone in the business offers you then do not accept. But do not sit there and attack him and cry in your corn flakes about how hard life is.
It really showed me that some girls just need to bitch for the point of bitching. I do not join groups so I can sit there and watch girls act like victims and complain about things while never doing anything to change it. Or standing up and acting like grown woman and having a disagreement or conversation without having to toss in personal insults and attacks. Worst bitching about things they know nothing about. Running a porn company is not cheap or easy. It is time consuming and hard work. Hours of promoting and trying to deal with mental cases on a daily basis. No one is going to just hand you a pile of cash and make no money for themselves that is not smart business.
The other issue I have is girls putting down the porn business itself. “Oh I do not want to be associated with porn” But yet you will go on web cam and wank off or suck guys off in dark ally’s or troll the single sites looking to get your rocks off. Give me a break. Porn can be just as respectful as a 9-5 if done right and you respect yourself. You do not hear GG girls that are pretty with big tits bitching because that is what is in str8 porn. Why is it ok for Transsexuals to feel they are any different? Is the goal for us not to transition into woman? It should not matter what other people are doing. It should only matter what you’re doing in your own life.
You make your own choices in life. You decide how you wish to world to view you. Just because I choose to call myself this or that and get on camera and do things you have no interest in doing. This should not affect you in anyway unless you allow it to. You are in the driver seat of your life. You crash and burn that is your own fault no one else’s.
People who live in glass whore houses have no right to judge others.
Rant over! Feel better now! You do not like my views then please do me a favor and don’t let the “
unfriend button” get stick in between that broom and your ass on the way out
The one thing I dislike in life is people playing victims. Stop crying and blaming others for your life, grow a pair of balls or use the ones you have and fix your shit. I am sorry if that comes off harsh but I have had a pretty shitty life and have been giving a raw deal most of my life. But I went out on my own at 14 and made something of myself. I was pushed down countless times, had my 5 minutes of licking my wounds and then got back up and made the best of what I had. You do not see me complaining about how I was born with both sexes or how my family/friends treated me. How hard it was to finish nursing school while my BF was beating the crap out of me and my family turned their back on me. Or how most days I felt like drinking draino then having to face the world. No. I dealt with it and made choices to improve myself and to learn from my misfortunes. That is called life people.
Everyone has issues and problems and guess what we all have a past. Just because it happened to you does not make you special or worse off than the next person.
Bitching about being taken advantage of and used by people can only happen when you allow it to. You do not like what someone is offering you, then do not accept it. You do not like the big bad world of porn and the people who run the company’s. Then do not work with them. Or do what I did and start your own. Do not sit there behind your computer and bitch and complain about it. It is business not a fucking charity. People do not start a business to line the road with dollar bills for everyone else to make buck. They start it to improve their own lives. If they make millions good for them. That is called smart business. Unless you own the business your feelings do not matter. They are not here for you.
Last night I was part of a conversation with some girls who were going on and on about a person who runs a porn company. Attacking him to the lowest and making very untrue statements about him as a person. You dislikeing his business is one thing but to attack him on a personal level because he made smart choices and you clearly did not is not acceptable. I had enough and finally said something. My comments where then taken to be used for more victim cry’s about how unfair it was that he was making so much money and they were not getting paid what they think they should. My thoughts were, good for him, smart business move. This is business not a charity as I said. You do not like what he offers or anyone in the business offers you then do not accept. But do not sit there and attack him and cry in your corn flakes about how hard life is.
It really showed me that some girls just need to bitch for the point of bitching. I do not join groups so I can sit there and watch girls act like victims and complain about things while never doing anything to change it. Or standing up and acting like grown woman and having a disagreement or conversation without having to toss in personal insults and attacks. Worst bitching about things they know nothing about. Running a porn company is not cheap or easy. It is time consuming and hard work. Hours of promoting and trying to deal with mental cases on a daily basis. No one is going to just hand you a pile of cash and make no money for themselves that is not smart business.
The other issue I have is girls putting down the porn business itself. “Oh I do not want to be associated with porn” But yet you will go on web cam and wank off or suck guys off in dark ally’s or troll the single sites looking to get your rocks off. Give me a break. Porn can be just as respectful as a 9-5 if done right and you respect yourself. You do not hear GG girls that are pretty with big tits bitching because that is what is in str8 porn. Why is it ok for Transsexuals to feel they are any different? Is the goal for us not to transition into woman? It should not matter what other people are doing. It should only matter what you’re doing in your own life.
You make your own choices in life. You decide how you wish to world to view you. Just because I choose to call myself this or that and get on camera and do things you have no interest in doing. This should not affect you in anyway unless you allow it to. You are in the driver seat of your life. You crash and burn that is your own fault no one else’s.
People who live in glass whore houses have no right to judge others.
Rant over! Feel better now! You do not like my views then please do me a favor and don’t let the “
unfriend button” get stick in between that broom and your ass on the way out