Advice for a 1st timer

[bangaloreyes]

Greetings Gents,

After a few weeks of browsing through, I just joined this wonderful community. I am looking for some advice for a first timer. I have only recently discovered the wonderful world of transsexuals and I am considering having my first T Girl experience when I visit London next month. Do you have any advice for a 1st timer? Should I give in to my desires? Generally is visiting an escort safe for a 1st timer? What are the risks both in terms of physical safety and STD's? Any advice or recommendations would be great. BTW I am in a relationship with a GG and I am wondering if I could ever go back to having GG sex if I enjoyed my trans experience...

[saifan]

Greetings Gents,

After a few weeks of browsing through, I just joined this wonderful community. I am looking for some advice for a first timer. I have only recently discovered the wonderful world of transsexuals and I am considering having my first T Girl experience when I visit London next month. Do you have any advice for a 1st timer? Should I give in to my desires? Generally is visiting an escort safe for a 1st timer? What are the risks both in terms of physical safety and STD's? Any advice or recommendations would be great. BTW I am in a relationship with a GG and I am wondering if I could ever go back to having GG sex if I enjoyed my trans experience...

Search function should lead you to several threads here with great advice.

As for your last question, GG sex probably won't be as fulfilling.

[Prospero]

I disagree with Saifan. GG sex and TS sex are just part of the rich diversity of sexual experience. For me enjoying one does not preclude the other. I don't post about GG experiences here because of the nature of this forum, but both are fantastic.

As for advice. Play safe - always. And don't chooe a girl with a mega cock for your first experience. An asian might be a good choice. Gentler and more acquiescent as a general rule.

Read the reviews!

[saifan]

Completely understandable, Prospero. For me though there hasn't been a desire to go back since taking the plunge in 2008.

[Prospero]

We are all different Saifan... that is one of the problems about offering advice here.

[bangaloreyes]

Thank you for your replies. I understand that each person is different and may not feel the same about GG sex after....I guess I will never know until I try it..

[saifan]

Thank you for your replies. I understand that each person is different and may not feel the same about GG sex after....I guess I will never know until I try it..

You in an open relationship?

[bangaloreyes]

Yes Saifan..open but have not discussed my ts desires yet...

[Dino Velvet]

I just flip a coin only caring that I flip her onto her belly. Whichever way my wiener points me is the direction I proceed.

[bluesoul]

BTW I am in a relationship with a GG and I am wondering if I could ever go back to having GG sex if I enjoyed my trans experience...

i'd discuss this issue with your GG girlfriend. she might have some pointers for you

[SammiValentine]

Greetings Gents,

After a few weeks of browsing through, I just joined this wonderful community. I am looking for some advice for a first timer. I have only recently discovered the wonderful world of transsexuals and I am considering having my first T Girl experience when I visit London next month. Do you have any advice for a 1st timer? Should I give in to my desires? Generally is visiting an escort safe for a 1st timer? What are the risks both in terms of physical safety and STD's? Any advice or recommendations would be great. BTW I am in a relationship with a GG and I am wondering if I could ever go back to having GG sex if I enjoyed my trans experience...


No its only safe on the 4th go and then you have to wearwellies and pink gloves. O Rly?? Yes rly!!!!!!!!!!!


Actually no, go to your local GUM and have a pow wow with some staff. Its amazing how many people dont have any clue about STDS in general yet are balls deep in anything moves, including chickenpies on roller blades and thats some fowl shit.

keep it real STDWarr10rs of narnia!!!!!! may the piece (ring be with you, just use the force, obi one - jam it in he did, oh no bareback it was. but in 4th episode, stronger his forceps can be .

[nysprod]

My advice to the o.p:

Open wide!

[fred41]

We are all different Saifan... that is one of the problems about offering advice here.

This is so true Prospero,...really, I mean - in a general sense some of our likes and dislikes might line up with others on this site, but the reality is that the journey isn't always the same.
..or the journey might be similar but the destination different.
...or the journey and the destination is the same , but some keep on traveling while others stay comfortable at home....or
...lol...or in all seriousness, that's why people have to stop with versions of the "am I straight" or "am I gay" questions. ..because people are a tad more complex than that.
Anyhow, I'm babbling again and this post probably doesn't belong in this thread.
Sorry Bangaloreyes.
I guess the answer to your question then, is "Yes". If you enjoy it..but "No" if you never really did.

...Hmm. I'm gonna change it to "Maybe" then.

...No, No...technically it would still be "Yes"




...I think.

[Dino Velvet]

My advice to the o.p:

Open wide!

Don't get yer gravy robbed.

[Jericho]

"Advice for a first timer".

Run!
Run and don't stop, before it's too late!
Bitches be fucking with yer head until you don't know up from down...Run!

[bangaloreyes]

Saifan. .yes I do think I need to talk to my gf about this...though im not really sure if I have made up my mjnd yet. Maybe I will wait to talk to her until I am unable to resist any longer. My experiences thus far have been confined to porn and have never even seen a hot ts in real life. I have only seen some cd's who never tempted me at all. So I suppose a ts party or something similar maybe the place to start rather than an escort....thank you all for your uninhibited views!

[fred41]

Saifan. .yes I do think I need to talk to my gf about this...though im not really sure if I have made up my mjnd yet. Maybe I will wait to talk to her until I am unable to resist any longer. My experiences thus far have been confined to porn and have never even seen a hot ts in real life. I have only seen some cd's who never tempted me at all. So I suppose a ts party or something similar maybe the place to start rather than an escort....thank you all for your uninhibited views!

If you have access to a place that has a good one, a TS party is an excellent place to decide if this is for you.
Good luck if you decide to go. I hope you enjoy the experience.

[RedDevil81]

If you are going to London I would suggest going to Way Out, I have been there three times and picked up every time I have been there. There are escorts there as well as none pros so should you fail with the none pros there is always a back up option! I would guess not though I usually just hang round the bar till someone makes eyes with me or starts chatting, it usually doesn't take long.

[nysprod]

Don't get yer gravy robbed.

Thanks Vlad, and good night.

[bangaloreyes]

Thanks Gents, yes I was looking at way out in London. However I understand that their parties are only on Sat and I may be in London only a Mon thru Thurs so may miss Way Out...are there any other parties that happen during the week? I did check the party board on HA but it looks to be mostly NYC specific....