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trulink1234
01-12-2014, 09:15 AM
I wanna fall in love with a tranny so bad....I want to be loved back...I'm in a straight relationship but its not the same when I'm with a tran. I love the way they speak and treat me. Why is that? I'm attracted more to them then my own girl... Feels like I'm stuck but I know in my heart that I am different. I don't know how long this relationship will last .... I just say that I hope the right trans comes my way and sweeps me off my feet...

clevelandswabbie
01-12-2014, 09:37 AM
i had a not so great marriage that lasted thru' too many 'dishes in the sink' nights...11 years. about 10:30 pm after a night life drawing class @ Wayne State, i got the notion to drive down past the Old Miami & the Temple Bars. Six foot w/thigh boots...lip gloss & charm..."hey...you...cum here". i didn't know trans worked the block. anyway, that was fun & safe, etc. yeah marriage broke up...took years to forget all the noncommunication. she's remarried etc. irony is...my grown child thinks that corner encounter set me on the right path. felt like that for years. i've gotten to where i do have a trans FB friend who i trust & luv (feels fine!). i get to write to her friends & there's the FB 'share' option.

i'm lucky (as any late bloomer like me) to have found such a beautiful & active (yep) FB girl friend. so it's not an 'intown' kind of romance. sure beats the heck out of a lot boring local stuff w/NO excitement. i'll call her "C" thinks that we're different from most people. and i'm more like her than anybody outside of family. so, nobody's alone. lonely true. first trans i saw after the Navy in San Diego? u said it "swept me off my feet." being honest, i can do.

bluesoul
01-12-2014, 09:54 AM
hey clevelandswabbie: you write like this guy i've been reading who's currently narrating his adventures through thailand. i've followed him all around bangkok, issan, udon thani, chaiyaphum, khon kaen, nahkon rachasima- down soi buakhao and back to pattaya.

he always eats alone, never goes to bars, despises farangs and had to sell his motor bike because he was always getting pulled over.

not really sure why i shared all that but i did didn't i?

Ben in LA
01-12-2014, 04:41 PM
Falling in love with a girl is easy; having her fall in love with YOU is the hard part.

Dino Velvet
01-12-2014, 05:01 PM
Put an ad in The Reader's Digest or your local periodical. Break a leg but don't break your wiener.

dderek123
01-12-2014, 05:09 PM
Totally understand how you feel. But, fools rush in to love. I was in a really close relationship with a ladyboy over in Thailand. We went on vacations together with my parents and stuff. But that's over now it didn't work out. And I feel really lonely but I'm not sure if I would have a relationship with a TS again. Not sure if I'll have the chance either. Life goes on.

runningdownthatdream
01-12-2014, 05:18 PM
Totally understand how you feel. But, fools rush in to love. I was in a really close relationship with a ladyboy over in Thailand. We went on vacations together with my parents and stuff. But that's over now it didn't work out. And I feel really lonely but I'm not sure if I would have a relationship with a TS again. Not sure if I'll have the chance either. Life goes on.

Thailand is still there. Transwomen can be found everywhere. Why hold yourself back? Seems like you got an emotional beatdown from the last relationship but you already know that every journey has potholes.

fred41
01-12-2014, 05:37 PM
I wanna fall in love with a tranny so bad....I want to be loved back...I'm in a straight relationship but its not the same when I'm with a tran. I love the way they speak and treat me. Why is that? I'm attracted more to them then my own girl... Feels like I'm stuck but I know in my heart that I am different. I don't know how long this relationship will last .... I just say that I hope the right trans comes my way and sweeps me off my feet...

You didn't say what type of relationship you're in...are you married?...or this this a GF you've been seeing for less than a year?...also , if you're in a relationship...when did you get to see a ts?
If the straight relationship is just someone you've been seeing for a bit, then break it up now - what's the point of staying in a relationship you don't find satisfying, regardless how you feel about TS...that's really a separate issue then. If it isn't working then leave so you can both try and find people to make each other happy. If there is nothing invested in this relationship (such as a ring..or children) why stay together?








...and don't ever say "sweeps me off my feet" again!........(J/K)

clevelandswabbie
01-12-2014, 06:24 PM
@bluesoul...had to sell the bike? eh...i've got a hostel next block; apple dumplings all @ home. young tho'...say 18-21. not the party type right now. civic awareness in a Big 10 college town tries to complicate simple smiles into something for political correctness. housemum is striking too (@ the grocer's) Janey from Warren also here. myself, still thinking about going down the block on Cass; the two bars are still there & it's safe near Comerica Park (Tigers'). Hollywood friendlies hang out in ann arbor. i drive a limo.

RallyCola
01-12-2014, 06:28 PM
problem number 1 is that you think falling in love with a "trans" is any different than any other girl.

problem number 2 is that you are wishing/imagining falling in love rather than getting out there and meeting a girl that you could actually love and who could actually grow to love you.

problem number 3 is that you are on a porn board talking about love where a "trans" sweeps you off your feet...that's a role traditionally reserved for the dude in a relationship so again, you are being too passive.

problem number 4 is that if you are really unhappy with your current girl and remain with her, you are a poor partner because not only are you not true to yourself, but you are also being untruthful to your present partner.

clevelandswabbie
01-12-2014, 06:35 PM
problem number 1 is that you think falling in love with a "trans" is any different than any other girl.

i like his advice...sometimes u see new emotions expressed; maybe they're her own & just new to you. i settled on what kicks on my switch...less crowded this way.

STARTUP999
01-13-2014, 11:37 AM
You may do better if you don't refer (or even think of them) as "trannies." The term is offensive to some girls and the attitude seems to reflect objectification.

In my experience many TG girls are more issue-laden and complex than genetic ladies. Many have been isolated, and mistreated by men and need a lot of patience. So thinking of them as person first rather than a porn fantasy is a big step in the right direction if your looking for more than an escort, or FWB.

That may not be your attitude at all, just say'n.

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SheWantsTheD
01-13-2014, 12:39 PM
I just say that I hope the right trans comes my way and sweeps me off my feet...
Only a man is gonna sweep you off your feet. Do you want to be a trans yourself or do you want to be a man and sweep a trans off her feet?

Prospero
01-13-2014, 01:13 PM
I hope you find a love to sweep you both away.

be2378
01-13-2014, 07:33 PM
We all want to fall in love with a tranny, it's why we are on this site.

Ryz
01-13-2014, 08:19 PM
Falling in love with a girl is easy; having her fall in love with YOU is the hard part.

Preach brother

STARTUP999
01-13-2014, 11:35 PM
Falling in love with a girl is easy; having her fall in love with YOU is the hard part.

Ben! That is brilliant.
I so wish I had said that. I would have used it as the tag under my name.

bluesoul
01-13-2014, 11:44 PM
We all want to fall in love with a tranny, it's why we are on this site.

not me. i'm here for the porn :(

bimale69
01-16-2014, 12:57 AM
With trans it's the same as with a gg.... TREAT HER LIKE A LADY. Which means respect her the same way, don't go trying to suck her off and act like she's a fantasy for some porn flick. I mean my partner is barely on hormones and doesn't even plan on or believe in changing her body through surgery, and I love her just like I would if she were born female. This "shemale fantasy" bullshit is the quickest way to drive a ts girl off.

MrBest
01-16-2014, 05:31 AM
I wanna fall in love with a tranny so bad....I want to be loved back...I'm in a straight relationship but its not the same when I'm with a tran. I love the way they speak and treat me. Why is that? I'm attracted more to them then my own girl... Feels like I'm stuck but I know in my heart that I am different. I don't know how long this relationship will last .... I just say that I hope the right trans comes my way and sweeps me off my feet...translation: i want GFE all the time