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fuzzunoisedk
12-28-2013, 08:54 PM
:offtopicI just wanted to post this i think Theres a difference between being in love with someone have sex with them in your house and then sex on cam. Seems lately or that I have become more aware that sex on tv and the intraweb are another mans fantasy presented to you. I think ive been having trouble like most men in mid thirties with the women in my life, I think I have let porn become so big that it in some way ruined my private love life. Now ive try to use time on fitness and spend it meeting new dates. Just wanted to post it because i cant be the only one in here having same problems.

fuzzunoisedk
12-28-2013, 08:56 PM
Lesser porn on the computer have made my love life alot better in private and now i dont run around looking like im ready to explode every moment i meet an hot date irl. Best part is now that i focus more on private sexlife that it has become more fun. I still Watch and wank off sometimes but now i let my dates do the handling in the bedroom.

goatman
12-28-2013, 11:27 PM
I try to live the whole "Life imitating art" perspective when it comes tothe whole [real]sex life vs porn debate (you only live once) but yeah...:iagree: At best, porn(mainstream, alternative, ts, what have you) is the producer's fantasies/turn-ons that you may share[viewed through the director's lenses via performers]...
A loving & intimate relationship beats that hands down...

Jamie French
12-29-2013, 04:15 AM
Know what immediately fixes all of that?

MAKE a porn. Just do it once and you'll never confuse fantasy with reality again. It'll straighten your shit right out.