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mtbazz
12-26-2013, 02:47 AM
Does anyone here ever meet any of the girls that advertise in the casual encounters section of craigslist ? There are usually a few from my area (Philadelphia/Allentown), but I've always been afraid I'd wake up at the bottom of a well with someone saying "It puts the lotion on its skin"..

Would love to hear about any positive encounters people have had.

RallyCola
12-26-2013, 03:06 AM
i have had several CL dates. They are extremely hit or miss simply because there are far more escorts out there than reviews you can trust. Plus, i've also found that rates really don't mean much at all as some girls have high rates but provide terrible service where others have lower rates (for whatever reason) and are more attentive. I've had several excellent experiences and while I think at times I've definitely overspent for services received, I only really have 1 horror story out of 15 hookups.

Above all though, I've found that there are too many CDs on CL posing as girls in transition...that is when you meet them, they are far more masculine than their carefully chosen photos show AND quite often, they have not had any surgeries or are not on hormone therapy. that is not to mention those ads with fake pics/bait and switch. I've had times where I've arrived for the date and not gone through with it because i feel the escort has purposefully misrepresented themselves in their photos or maybe their photos were once real, but they are a strung out shadow of themselves. you are the buyer, so buyer beware and make sure you reserve the right of refusal so to speak.

i am not saying CL is a bad place...it is one of the easiest places to meet a tgirl if you don't want to go to clubs. that said, I can't remember who it was, but there was a girl that had a list of rules and her rates on her website...rules like motel meet ups or in-calls only at first, she will drink only from store bought containers of liquid that are opened in front of her, etc...ya know stuff to protect her from having to put lotion in a basket...it goes both ways so just be wary.

EvaCassini
12-26-2013, 03:13 AM
Does anyone here ever meet any of the girls that advertise in the casual encounters section of craigslist ? There are usually a few from my area (Philadelphia/Allentown), but I've always been afraid I'd wake up at the bottom of a well with someone saying "It puts the lotion on its skin"..

Would love to hear about any positive encounters people have had.

I used to live in Catasauqua! :) I miss PA.

By the way, I am sure we girls are more weary of being forced into a well, after someone saying "Wouldja?"

Buffalo Bill wasn't a transsexual. He was a sociopath.

Also, why would a tranny escort want to cut off the skin of a man? That seems to be counter-intuitive.

mtbazz
12-26-2013, 03:19 AM
I used to live in Catasauqua! :) I miss PA.

By the way, I am sure we girls are more weary of being forced into a well, after someone saying "Wouldja?"

Buffalo Bill wasn't a transsexual. He was a sociopath.

Also, why would a tranny escort want to cut off the skin of a man? That seems to be counter-intuitive.

Actually Im not too far from Catasauqua…

and, lol..good point on Buffalo BIll…

Ben in LA
12-26-2013, 04:09 AM
Yup...hit or miss.

TSMichelleAustin
12-26-2013, 04:48 AM
Ive heard stories of guys posing as girls on CL in Vegas then when guy gets over beat up and rob him. But majority of girls on CL are CDs. Good luck.

mericson91
12-26-2013, 05:44 AM
Never tried it, it scares me, but it does seem very enticing.

runround04
12-26-2013, 06:19 AM
I used to live in Catasauqua! :) I miss PA.

By the way, I am sure we girls are more weary of being forced into a well, after someone saying "Wouldja?"

Buffalo Bill wasn't a transsexual. He was a sociopath.

Also, why would a tranny escort want to cut off the skin of a man? That seems to be counter-intuitive.

Less questions and more getting in the hole, please. lol

EvaCassini
12-26-2013, 06:23 AM
Less questions and more getting in the hole, please. lol

hehehe, well dammit...ya got me. How bout you get in my hole, eh? ;)

my my my!
12-26-2013, 07:33 AM
Craigslist is hit and miss.

Casual Encounters, are usually crossdressers, drug addict TS, sugar babies, and backpage rejects, or dudes that are so desperate they figure they can get a guy that likes tgirls.


For a more romantic and mature experience , try MISC ROMANCE and MISSED CONNECTIONS, there you find the girls that are actually serious about a relationship. I've actually had success this way. My last relationship was off a craigslist Misc romance ad, and it went really well until other factors fucked everything up.

baddoc
12-26-2013, 07:34 PM
I actually live in Philly, and have yet to have a truly satisfying CL experience. I've had a couple in which the "girl" looked more or less like her picture (yeah, they are all CDs, pros, or both), and we had fun, but there is always (in my experience) some problem: the roommate is in the other room, we only have 45 minutes, no kissing... something that takes away from what I consider the ideal CL encounter: 2 people who like each other's pics just having a hot night of uninhibited sex. I've never been robbed or attacked, but it seems the more attractive t-girls know that they are a rare commodity (especially around here... jeez, Allentown actually seems a bit better than Philly), so they either charge, or have a boyfriend. Good luck.

crystalsopen
12-26-2013, 08:30 PM
Does anyone here ever meet any of the girls that advertise in the casual encounters section of craigslist ? There are usually a few from my area (Philadelphia/Allentown), but I've always been afraid I'd wake up at the bottom of a well with someone saying "It puts the lotion on its skin"..

Would love to hear about any positive encounters people have had.

I hope this story is informative:

Back before I starting taking hormones, back when I was basically living as a closeted CD, I posted an ad (non-nude pic / no face) looking for a nerdy guy to watch sci-fi movies and have no sex. I put no sex in there like 3 times. I got 133 replies, in about an hour. Then, I took the ad down. Most of replies where aweful. Either just a phone number or dic pic, but some of them actually talked to me like a person.

I ended up having 2 guys over on different nights. One smelled funny, the other wasn't that into it (but I was a little scared having a guy I didn't know in my home and that probably made him uncomphortable). These days, I am single. I get horny and lonely sometimes, but I would not be very interested in a cl hookup anymore. These days, I perfer to date people I meet thru people I actually know.

Westheangelino
12-27-2013, 01:01 AM
CL encounters rule. That's the main avenue where I've met some VERY WELL KNOW TS PORNSTARS. And, no, there was no "rate" involved. These girls get horny too, especially the tops.

goatman
12-27-2013, 01:18 AM
BP[Backpage] & CL: Take the risk, use common sense(observe anything that seems "too good to be true") & if & when you find someone worthwhile, keep them "on the regular"[whether as a regular provider, a fwb, or significant other based on the circumstances of the first meeting]....that's what I do...

Dino Velvet
12-27-2013, 01:25 AM
I'm kinda old-fashioned liking to call and ask how much then which corner to go to before the second call to get the address with unit number. A great rare find is a gal somewhere between a slut and a whore; basically someone who doesn't want everyone to think she's easy but charges the bare minimum so she gets to sit on the most amount of wieners. Backpage is the beep-beep of the 21st Century.

FreddieGomez
12-27-2013, 01:39 AM
CL is trashy

Dino Velvet
12-27-2013, 01:45 AM
CL is trashy

I never tried it. So CL is no good on the DL? Just paying seems like less bullshit unless you're willing to have a conversation with the girl or something. Even if you do the conversation will drift toward how much money you have in your pocket. I'm cynical as all farting heck about broads. Always a charge or hidden charge or subpoena, warrant, err some other shit.

RedDevil81
01-29-2014, 07:41 AM
I've seen some nice looking CDs on CL that I'm into but as the op says I'm always wary I'm going to get my head kicked and robbed when I get there by a bunch of ne'er do wells. I'm pretty sure it doesn't happen on a regular basis but I'm still wary! Would be great if they were all real and if two people were feeling horny and liked the look of each other could hook up with no strings, money or worries of robbery. Brittany Boykins was actually on there last night advertising but I was dubious about whether it was really her or not and I'd love a roll in the hay with her.

I have actually replied to a few girls on there who were obviously not pros or fakes with properly written replies in Houston and got no where, probably due to the fact they've been bombarded by cock pics and idiots and the decent replies get lost in the mix.

Jamie French
01-29-2014, 01:24 PM
I spent five minutes checking out Craigslist and all I got was the clap. Never had to leave the house.

CraigsList: "Why not? You're already dead inside."

Prospero
01-29-2014, 01:28 PM
In London a lot of the girls on craigslist are just poor looking cross dressers to judge from the pictures they post. Backpage is more reliable as most of the girls on there advertise in other places so you know they are for real.

SammiValentine
01-29-2014, 02:50 PM
Craig and all those lists. OCD !!

daltx_m
01-30-2014, 03:49 AM
I think it's a matter of numbers and locale.
I'm from Dallas so I visit there often. I currently live in Wichita, KS (a shithole).
Everytime I visit dallas I find someone on CL and have a good time.
Never had any luck in Wichita.

JeyneRiley
01-30-2014, 03:58 AM
I went there once for a hookup. If I go back I'll make sure to inquire about the person's hygiene first. Seriously, sucking an un-showered dick....ewww

stallion79
01-30-2014, 04:28 AM
I used to hook up on Craigslist a lot when I was in college. I probably met 5 or 6 really cool girls, many of whom I actually formed friendships with. A good majority of them were more crossdresser than full-time TS, but I also met two girlfriends through CL who were well into their transition and I had a pretty fantastic 7 month relationship with one of them. Haven't used the site in years for sexual stuff though.

Tapatio
01-30-2014, 06:37 AM
I went there once for a hookup. If I go back I'll make sure to inquire about the person's hygiene first. Seriously, sucking an un-showered dick....ewww

Damn that's nasty. Even clean, some of them look like sausage fresh out of the grinder.

I feel for you.

caliuncut
01-30-2014, 09:13 AM
Sounds like a lot of you guys are confusing "hooking up" with getting a prostitute. Seems like the OP is talking about just finding someone through CL to hook up with, not an escort. CL used to be awesome a number of years ago, there were way less ads constantly flooding in and a higher percentage of them were real people who would actually respond. Nowadays everyone and their mom posts on CL and a huge number of them are either fakes, flakes, pic collector loser or just straight spammers.

Over the years I've met a lot of awesome/hot people through CL and the internet in general, of course you get your dud or "wtf was I thinking" every now and then but for me the good has vastly outweighed the bad. I mean how else does a guy meet a hot TS who wants to play without calling an escort....escorts can be great, but a real encounter where both parties are there because they want to be is a thing of beauty.

Too bad CL is 90% crap nowadays.

RedDevil81
02-05-2014, 07:06 AM
I had my first CL hook up last night, finally got a reply from someone after about 20 attempts even though I always send a photo with my response and I am a decent looking guy so it puzzles me the lack of response unless every CD and TV in Houston who isn't a hooker is extremely choosey!

Met said TV in a motel and even though I was panicking I would get robbed/shot/murdered...even went so far as to leave the car running as I knocked on the door (!) for a quick exit it went well. Had a good time and she was very horny and like her pictures on the advert, I am less sceptical about doing it again.

Had a quick look last night and there was another TV advertising who was really appealing to me who was obviously not fake as I haven't seen her advert 10 times before but I had already committed to the one I'd spoke to the night before, hopefully she will advertise again and I will get a response....the one I met I answered the night before and Monday at work was terrible...all I could think about was the coming nights hookupand I had a semi on pretty much all day! Much easier than trying to hook up at a trans bar and avoiding all the hookers!

elchingon8
02-06-2014, 07:54 PM
I can honestly say it is extremely hit or miss. I met my first ts gf off cl because she was bored one night and wanted to go out. Had the absolute best time of my life with her. Everything I learned about the ts world I learned through her.i was there for her for all her surgeries and in one year went from very pretty to jaw dropping stunning.

The second notable encounter was in a different city after we had split. A girl in my current city was offering massages so I said what the heck.
Turns out we went out for a drink after and she was an amazing girl. We got to know each other and we had a pretty awesome thing going for about 4 months. We also split but I will say she was a gorgeous blonde with huge fake boobs.