Do I stand a chance?

[curious_stud]

I've been fantasizing about being with a T-girl for years now (originally signed up here years ago but I forgot my password) and I really want to act on it. But I have no idea of how to go about it and I keep hitting a brick wall in terms of finding a partner.

I'm in my 20s, I'm fit, but I am in the closet but I am willing to be in a video as long as I am masked. I am in NJ which I know, is the wrong coast for porn lol.

[amberskyi]

I've been fantasizing about being with a T-girl for years now (originally signed up here years ago but I forgot my password) and I really want to act on it. But I have no idea of how to go about it and I keep hitting a brick wall in terms of finding a partner.

I'm in my 20s, I'm fit, but I am in the closet but I am willing to be in a video as long as I am masked. I am in NJ which I know, is the wrong coast for porn lol.

no you dont stand a chance if your looking to deal with a girl socially as most ts woman find it insulting for a guy to be closeted.your basically saying to the girl that she's good enough to fuck but not to be associated with.
you definitely dont stand a chance if your looking to get into porn as most companies dont use male models who dont want to show their face because it can cause bad chemistry with the girl, it looks horrible and there are many men who are willing to work but dont have those hang ups

[saifan]

Eros, Backpage, etc...

[danthepoetman]

Yes, Curious Stud, why don't you start with an escort?

[gaysian71]

If you are trying to find out if you can get into making vids with a TS girl, I have no idea. But if you are asking if it's possible to date one and have her for a girlfriend, the answer is yes. You just need to find one that will be with you. The fact that you are in the closet does limit your chances, that's for sure, but there are others that won't mind, and even a few that are %100 passable and no one in your circle of friends and family needs to know. If you are willing to "Come out of the closet", then your possibilities are endless. There are so many Trans women out there. It would probably shock you if you knew exactly how many there are. Porn is not the only industry that you will find a TS. In fact, they are in just about every profession you can think of. Although lots of them may be hard to identify until you get to know them. Some are very pretty, some average looking and some what you would consider to be downright ugly. But it's surprising how passable some of the not so good looking girls can be. They just aren't what you would consider to be sexy and beautiful.

I was just watching a video of Destiny. She is about as passable as a TS girl can be, as long as she keeps her clothes on. http://tnij.org/31ax6xo Maybe if you are lucky, you can find one like her.

[bluesoul]

Yes, Curious Stud, why don't you start with an escort?

maybe he wants to get paid rather than pay


I've been fantasizing about being with a T-girl for years now (originally signed up here years ago but I forgot my password) and I really want to act on it. But I have no idea of how to go about it and I keep hitting a brick wall in terms of finding a partner.

i'm curious, but how are you going about finding a partner?

btw: i like your name. i'm guessing you're good looking if your name is stud, so i'd be against wearing a mask. you want people to see your beautiful face so the ladies can see exactly what they're getting right?

[curious_stud]

I've heard so many horror stories about escorts that I'm afraid to even try until I spend time reading reviews. I think I'm good looking although I'm sure many would disagree, haha. I am in New Jersey if that makes a difference. I wouldn't seek compensation for being in a video anyway.

[bluesoul]

I wouldn't seek compensation for being in a video anyway.

you work for free? interesting. so basically, you're just a man who saw a problem with the current system and you're looking to fix it.

do you still need a mask or do the chicks at least get to see the stud?

[EvaCassini]

3 things.

1. It would be nice to see what you look like other than a self-proclaimed "studitude". Blocking out your face/head for any scene is lots of extra work and quite disrespectful and degrading towards the girl you would be in the scene with.

2. Being somewhere that is far away from the HQ of where our porn ( and most porn ) is shot is a big hindrance. I live in Dallas, but I still manage to produce vast quantities of porn within my home studio and my frequent trips to LA. ( You have to make an effort )

3. You must be able to "perform" well. Under hot lights. Stay hard and/or be able to get hard quick and maintain for shot angles. Perform for at least 2-4 hrs ( for just one scene ). Also, it is best when you look like you are enjoying it. Hiding your face doesn't show that. Even not hiding your face, your actions and expressions should show that you enjoy what you are doing. The male talent I know and a couple I have performed with really do enjoy their work, not just for the pay, but the fact that they are performing with someone whom they are attracted to without shame.

Those are just the 3 basic, simple facts about shooting. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings or taunt you. That's just how it is. You have to commit, make/show effort, have experiences, and not be ashamed.

[bluesoul]

3. You must be able to "perform" well. Under hot lights. Stay hard and/or be able to get hard quick and maintain for shot angles. Perform for at least 2-4 hrs ( for just one scene ). Also, it is best when you look like you are enjoying it. Hiding your face doesn't show that. Even not hiding your face, your actions and expressions should show that you enjoy what you are doing. The male talent I know and a couple I have performed with really do enjoy their work, not just for the pay, but the fact that they are performing with someone whom they are attracted to without shame.

well, the man said he'll work for free- so i assume he enjoys pleasing others. he's also a stud. the thing i don't get is why he'd want to not share that with the world. i mean- can you imagine how many dry vaginas there would be in the world if johnny depp decided to act in movies wearing a mask?

you're denying mankind something special by hiding yourself. you're in shape, in your 20s and a stud. i say celebrate that. let us see it so we can envy you. do what kanye west does. your family and friends might not get it, but tell them they're not politically correct anyway

[stan.smith]

check out the reviews of girls in NJ thread in the escort reviews section