Topping VS Bottom..which is more gay

[MrsKellyPierce]

Topping VS Bottoming..Is one more "gay"? - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OY575g8rKc)

[dderek123]

Well isn't the answer obvious?

[BLKGSXR]

Stupidest thing ive ever heard....Who cares in the end as long as you keep doing you!

[MrsKellyPierce]

You would think it's obvious if you go with the stereotype :)

But the male body has three g-spots why ignore them?

[ilovelamp]

I personally don't have an interest in bottoming, but don't have anything wrong with people that do. I think it's stupid to consider one more gay than the other. I think sexual attraction determines orientation far more than the activity you do with the person you are attracted to. If someone likes getting banged by a GG with a strap-on because they think she looks hot and it feels good, I don't know how that would make them gay.

I think society as a whole is still pretty sexually conservative, so anything outside of the norm is met with apprehension about how it might affect one's perceived sexual role.

[dderek123]

But the male body has three g-spots why ignore them?

Well I guess that depends on how gay you are. :dancing:

[MrsKellyPierce]

Stupidest thing ive ever heard....Who cares in the end as long as you keep doing you!

It may sound stupid but that's many opinions in the trans-community. Especially for transsexuals. They shame men into bottoming and even ts sisters who like to use their penis top.

The title was to grab someones attention..the video educates..

[MrsKellyPierce]

I personally don't have an interest in bottoming, but don't have anything wrong with people that do. I think it's stupid to consider one more gay than the other. I think sexual attraction determines orientation far more than the activity you do with the person you are attracted to. If someone likes getting banged by a GG with a strap-on because they think she looks hot and it feels good, I don't know how that would make them gay.

I think society as a whole is still pretty sexually conservative, so anything outside of the norm is met with apprehension about how it might affect one's perceived sexual role.

Well said my dear :) many of the arguments I used in my video

[RallyCola]

i think yet another thread about a topic that has been debated to fuck all, moreover a topic that cannot be settled, is fucking gay.

[dudeguy90]

Who cares...both are great

[Jackal]

I personally don't have an interest in bottoming, but don't have anything wrong with people that do. I think it's stupid to consider one more gay than the other. I think sexual attraction determines orientation far more than the activity you do with the person you are attracted to. If someone likes getting banged by a GG with a strap-on because they think she looks hot and it feels good, I don't know how that would make them gay.

I think society as a whole is still pretty sexually conservative, so anything outside of the norm is met with apprehension about how it might affect one's perceived sexual role.


There are some guys out there, completely straight and only had relations with GGs, and they like the submissive role in the bedroom which may or may not include pegging. Bottoming is just an act. Whether or not you are attracted to only other guys, that is what makes you gay or not gay.

[FreddieGomez]

Bottoming.... if you're a dude.

[king sun]

Neither, it doesn't matter what side of the coin you're on top, bottom or both as long as you are comfortable with who you are.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Lmao obviously people on here only go on a thread title before they type their opinion...

[STARTUP999]

Its kind of like baseball, It doesn't matter if your pitching or catching its the SAME GAME.

[nysprod]

Lmao obviously people on here only go on a thread title before they type their opinion...

From the very little I know about Kelly, I think her views on the subject (enjoying the 3 erogenous zones) is in the minority.

Obviously for an escort or porn performer they will top because there is money involved whether they like it or not or think it's gay...but ignoring the question of which is more gay or not, I would think that for the most part within a relationship a trans woman wants to be the woman.

FYI, this obviously isn't definitive...I'd appreciate hearing from the ladies on this subject.

[robertlouis]

Lmao obviously people on here only go on a thread title before they type their opinion...



:iagree: That, my dear Kelly, is the basis of practically every shitstorm and hysterical campaign on twitter and pretty much every other social media site.

[Rusty Eldora]

You would think it's obvious if you go with the stereotype :)

But the male body has three g-spots why ignore them?

Kelly-
Thanks for the discussion. I myself consider relations with a tgirl to have pulled me from the straight box out into the bi area, as with the tgirl. I love the femininity of Tgirls, and enjoy them immensely. Although I have watched gay porn, I find I choke up and go cold if the tgirl does not feel feminine, I really doubt I can handle being in bed with a guy.

With that said, if I am with a tgirl that acts fem what we do is not gay. I personally love being topped and it is really the best thing a tgirl can do for me. I am not really dominant in my life, but I am the bread winner and always have the 'father' role of making things happen. To relax, be adored, OK also submitting to her, and getting my brains fucked out can be the most intense high I experience in life. Yes, gender roles are reversed but instead of being a dungeon or porn star experience, it is often the total GFE intimacy. Its odd, I think it makes her 'superfem', the ultimate caring for her man.

In terms of my being a top, I find I much prefer being a top with GG's rarely doing anal but I could live in her pussy.

[Dannigurlfriend]

It would depend on who you were talking to and in what context.

I straight man would say both, personally I guess I would say topping...yuck LOL.

[califorlife123]

I'm 99% sure ms Kelly shore is saying there is a stereotype of bottoms being less masculine and more gay compared to their top countertops. And in the video she clearly states she doesn't believe in that stereotype. I think she is just wondering what others feel on this topic. My two cents on it, is I'm big and prefer sex with GG, but when I'm with a girl or guy I'm verse but prefer to bottom. Its a completely different pleasure. And no one questions my masculinity lol

[Prospero]

Yawn... woke to find this.... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[MacShreach]

There are some guys out there, completely straight and only had relations with GGs, and they like the submissive role in the bedroom which may or may not include pegging. Bottoming is just an act. Whether or not you are attracted to only other guys, that is what makes you gay or not gay.

Inside one very limited cultural definition of the term.

[MacShreach]

Kelly-
Thanks for the discussion. I myself consider relations with a tgirl to have pulled me from the straight box out into the bi area, as with the tgirl. I love the femininity of Tgirls, and enjoy them immensely. Although I have watched gay porn, I find I choke up and go cold if the tgirl does not feel feminine, I really doubt I can handle being in bed with a guy.

With that said, if I am with a tgirl that acts fem what we do is not gay. I personally love being topped and it is really the best thing a tgirl can do for me. I am not really dominant in my life, but I am the bread winner and always have the 'father' role of making things happen. To relax, be adored, OK also submitting to her, and getting my brains fucked out can be the most intense high I experience in life. Yes, gender roles are reversed but instead of being a dungeon or porn star experience, it is often the total GFE intimacy. Its odd, I think it makes her 'superfem', the ultimate caring for her man.

In terms of my being a top, I find I much prefer being a top with GG's rarely doing anal but I could live in her pussy.

Exactly; men who enjoy being 'topped' are indulging in a transgender experience that fits one definition of autogynephilia, deriving erotic stimulus from their exploration of a female sexual role.

[MacShreach]

Yawn... woke to find this.... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Well, off you go back to sleep.

[MacShreach]

There are two things to remember: the first is that almost everything that is discussed here is regarded by some people as 'gay'.

The second is that the term itself has no standard meaning. It is a political term originally coined by male homosexual political activists, in order to counter the very negative connotations and language adopted by 'straight' society. Even the modern concept of 'homosexual' had no meaning before the middle of the 19th century.

What was constrained before this was NOT affection between males, but buggery, sodomy, cornholing, poopshoot-plugging...you get the drift. Oscar Wilde was not jailed for being in love with a man, but for buggery, and England's anti-sodomy laws were not repealed until the 1960s.

Personally, I like sodomy; I have been sticking me todger up women's arses since my teens. I really don't care what my partner has round the front, as long as she looks, feels and acts soft, warm and feminine. I am not attracted to all women--just glamorous, sexy, hot ones. As for them sticking things in me, errrrr...no, thanks all the same.


I don't really see that what I do is gay, but I accept some people think so (even with a cis-woman), and also that I definitely don't fit exactly into the definition of 'straight'.

But then again, 'straight' just means 'conforming to the accepted behaviour of the dominant social group', something I have never had any great desire to be a part of.

[Prospero]

Exactly. This topic echoes around these (hallowed lol) halls endlessly. Why such hang-ups. Enjoy instead and enough with al the repetitive soul searching.

[Jericho]

Damn...A lot of unseemly arguments going on around here.
Which is more gay, faggots...to argue or to let it go? :tongue:

[yosi]

I'm curious about this:
if I'm with a TS and we like to top each other , when I top her I'm str8 but when I let her top me suddenly I become gay?

all I know is this: if a TS is a WOMAN , having sex with a WOMAN is NOT gay.

[Jericho]

I'm curious about this:
if I'm with a TS and we like to top each other , when I top her I'm str8 but when I let her top me suddenly I become gay?

all I know is this: if a TS is a WOMAN , having sex with a WOMAN is NOT gay.


It's only gay if she uses her cock.
If she uses a strapon, she can horse-fuck you till yer arse drops out and you're still as straight as the next man...Around here!:hide-1:

[Ananke]

Damn...A lot of unseemly arguments going on around here.
Which is more gay, faggots...to argue or to let it go? :tongue:
I enjoyed this little altercation...:evil:

[Jericho]

I enjoyed this little altercation...:evil:

I enjoy them all.
So long as I'm not involved, I'm happy to stir the pot! :dancing:

[Marty Mcfly]

Bottoms.

[dderek123]

Damn...A lot of unseemly arguments going on around here.
Which is more gay, faggots...to argue or to let it go? :tongue:

To keep arguing obviously. It's called a stiff upper lip since it's more difficult to shove dicks into a mouth like that.

[MrsKellyPierce]

If you guys watch the video I go into detail on everything

I am not shaming bottoms..I talk about the stereotype..

[BlkJewels]

'more' gay, 'less' gay, Ben Gay, Marvin Gaye:confused::confused::confused:................ ............

[Ananke]

'more' gay, 'less' gay, Ben Gay, Marvin Gaye:confused::confused::confused:................ ............
....reggae?

[Jackal]

'more' gay, 'less' gay, Ben Gay, Marvin Gaye:confused::confused::confused:................ ............

This author is interested in the fairer sex and not guys but somehow he is Gay.

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_0VlEH7ku4g/Tjtbfyqj_vI/AAAAAAAAAKg/DB5cQ_c9v3U/s1600/boydgirl.jpg

[girl]

I do not consider bottom men gay, if he is attracted to (trans) women.. but I am interested in men who are strictly tops. versatile, not so much .. on the other hand I dont know what would I do with a bottom in bedroom... I guess nothing..

[rockabilly]

To be penetrated is more submissive but honestly i don't care what other people do in their bedrooms.

I prefer to strictly top but Im an old fashioned guy , the girls take it in the ass while barefoot in the kitchen.

[robertlouis]

If you guys watch the video I go into detail on everything

I am not shaming bottoms..I talk about the stereotype..



Sorry Kelly - this is HA. No-one's listening. :shrug

[Ben]

Neither. As it evokes the notion that there's something wrong with being gay. And there isn't anything wrong with being gay.
And, too, there's a whiff of homophobia about the question.... Am I wrong about this??????? If so I apologize.

[RallyCola]

kelly...is your husband a gay man?

[bluesoul]

on the other hand I dont know what would I do with a bottom in bedroom... I guess nothing..

how about talking?

[nysprod]

how about talking?

To someone's bottom? What would be there to say??

[robertlouis]

To someone's bottom? What would be there to say??

Well, as it's what most people on HA talk out of, it could be interesting... :ignore:

[bluesoul]

To someone's bottom? What would be there to say??

you can ask the bottom if it considers itself a size queen.. or maybe what it's favorite type of music is.

[Quiet Reflections]

Bottoming is just as gay as topping when the involved parties are both men that are interested in Men and not tg's or GG's. It doesn't matter if one is submissive or not because someones role in the bedroom normally has very little to do with their sexual orientation and more with their own personal preferences. Positions and roles can't be gay just people, there are many straight men out there sucking t-cocks and getting strapped by GG's that have zero interest in men

[GurlyCockLover]

You would think it's obvious if you go with the stereotype :)

But the male body has three g-spots why ignore them?


never knew that, where are the 3 kelly????:salad

[TSLoverIB]

good video

[TSPornFan]

Neither are gay. It's who you do, not what you do. To be honest I get a gay vibe when a TS tops a guy in a porno because for some stupid reason the directors start focusing on the guy............

[maddygirl]

Both. Gayness in the anus. :wiggle: