Newbie

[Dinger]

I have been an admirer of m-to-f Transexuals, crossdressers, shemales, and ladyboys since I was about 18. So over the 25 years or so my curiosity has been continuing to build and I am really starting to get serious about my first encounter with an experienced transexual. With that being said i would love to get some advice on how to go about getting together with one of you sweet gals or even someone you could recommend. Being new and never having had this experience before I am sure I will have a lot to learn. I'm sure patients will needed.

Any advice would be most appreciated!

Dinger

[dderek123]

Use a condom.

[nysprod]

25 years, a quarter of a century, and you're now "really starting to get serious."

Ok.

[ELDERGOD]

Props to you for going through with it.
Still have not got up the courage to go through with it.

[nysprod]

Props to you for going through with it.
Still have not got up the courage to go through with it.

I think for some it's better left a fantasy...kind of wish I'd done that with golf...

[ELDERGOD]

I think for some it's better left a fantasy...kind of wish I'd done that with golf...

Yeah I think your right.
Who knows if it were ever in front of me I might.

[Jericho]

Any advice would be most appreciated!


Leave yer wallet and watch at home! :shrug

[dderek123]

I have been an admirer of m-to-f Transexuals, crossdressers, shemales, and ladyboys since I was about 18. So over the 25 years or so my curiosity has been continuing to build and I am really starting to get serious about my first encounter with an experienced transexual. With that being said i would love to get some advice on how to go about getting together with one of you sweet gals or even someone you could recommend. Being new and never having had this experience before I am sure I will have a lot to learn. I'm sure patients will needed.

Any advice would be most appreciated!

Dinger


Props to you for going through with it.
Still have not got up the courage to go through with it.

You only live once and life is short. Go have your first experience but be safe. The worst that could happen is that you didn't enjoy it and decide to not to do it again. Then again, you may enjoy it immensely but the novelty of the experience could wear off. There are so many possibilities so YMMV.

But, you gotta be smart about it. If this is a fetish/fantasy sort of thing just go see an escort with great reviews. If there isn't one in your town just do it the next time you travel to a city that has them. That way you've made sure that you'll most likely enjoy it, its discreet, there are no strings attached, and you can have your pick of which beautiful TS you'll see.

If it's something that feels like more than a fetish just keep an open mind. Feelings like being fascinated by their sexuality, beauty, unique femininity, strength, etc. could very well lead to you pursuing more than escort encounters. But that's rare. It's difficult enough, IMHO, to meet anyone compatible enough to have something more meaningful. You'll only really know if that's the case until after you've had some experience with TS under your belt.

That's my best advice for noobs. Oh, and use a condom always.

[ELDERGOD]

You only live once and life is short. Go have your first experience but be safe. The worst that could happen is that you didn't enjoy it and decide to not to do it again. Then again, you may enjoy it immensely but the novelty of the experience could wear off. There are so many possibilities so YMMV.

But, you gotta be smart about it. If this is a fetish/fantasy sort of thing just go see an escort with great reviews. If there isn't one in your town just do it the next time you travel to a city that has them. That way you've made sure that you'll most likely enjoy it, its discreet, there are no strings attached, and you can have your pick of which beautiful TS you'll see.

If it's something that feels like more than a fetish just keep an open mind. Feelings like being fascinated by their sexuality, beauty, unique femininity, strength, etc. could very well lead to you pursuing more than escort encounters. But that's rare. It's difficult enough, IMHO, to meet anyone compatible enough to have something more meaningful. You'll only really know if that's the case until after you've had some experience with TS under your belt.

That's my best advice for noobs. Oh, and use a condom always.

Thanks for that, im sure ill go through with it one of these days.

[MacShreach]

Thanks for that, im sure ill go through with it one of these days.
You know, it's not that big a deal,you shouldn't be shy. The geography is pretty similar, and I have never really been able to feel a lot of difference between being in a ciswoman's ass and a transwomans.

Mark you, the moans are sometimes in a lower register with transwomen. I'm told this has to do with my thickness making them forget the girl voice...

[Jericho]

I'm told this has to do with my thickness making them forget the girl voice...

Don't put yerself down like that...That's our job! :tongue:

[nysprod]

You know, it's not that big a deal,you shouldn't be shy. The geography is pretty similar, and I have never really been able to feel a lot of difference between being in a ciswoman's ass and a transwomans.

Mark you, the moans are sometimes in a lower register with transwomen. I'm told this has to do with my thickness making them forget the girl voice...

Your self-aggrandizing would be funny if it wasn't pathological.

[dderek123]

Mark you, the moans are sometimes in a lower register with transwomen. I'm told this has to do with my thickness making them forget the girl voice...

http://i.imgur.com/6tKs5m3.jpg

[Ananke]

I think for some it's better left a fantasy...kind of wish I'd done that with golf...
LOL!! Hole in one?

[MacShreach]

Your self-aggrandizing would be funny if it wasn't pathological.

You remind me of Cliffy from Cheers. You don't have an intelligent thought in your head, but you can't stand not hearing your own voice.

Except Cliffy was written to to be witty and unconsciously self-deprecating; you, on the other hand, are just a cunt.

[MacShreach]

Don't put yerself down like that...That's our job! :tongue:

Like I say, it can take a moment to get from AAAAARGH to ooooooohhh.

[maddygirl]

You remind me of Cliffy from Cheers. You don't have an intelligent thought in your head, but you can't stand not hearing your own voice.

Except Cliffy was written to to be witty and unconsciously self-deprecating; you, on the other hand, are just a cunt.
I disagree. Nysprod is one of the most intelligent, witty, delightful people to post on this forum. What a beautiful ray of retarded sunshine. Hehe.

[nysprod]

You remind me of Cliffy from Cheers. You don't have an intelligent thought in your head, but you can't stand not hearing your own voice.

Except Cliffy was written to to be witty and unconsciously self-deprecating; you, on the other hand, are just a cunt.

Wasn't trying to be witty or unconsciously self-deprecating...actually, my comment was more along the lines of being a diagnosis...



I disagree. Nysprod is one of the most intelligent, witty, delightful people to post on this forum. What a beautiful ray of retarded sunshine. Hehe.

Thank you, sweetie...I think...lol.

[MacShreach]

Wasn't trying to be witty or unconsciously self-deprecating...actually, my comment was more along the lines of being a diagnosis...


And there goes that WHHHHOOOOOOSHHHHHH sound as yet another comment goes right over your empty head,,,,

[MacShreach]

I disagree. Nysprod is one of the most intelligent, witty, delightful people to post on this forum. What a beautiful ray of retarded sunshine. Hehe.
Irony is such a lovely thing.:Bowdown::dancing:

[nysprod]

And there goes that WHHHHOOOOOOSHHHHHH sound as yet another comment goes right over your empty head,,,,


Yet not so delusional as to think anyone would give a shit about his "thickness making them forget the girl voice."

[Jericho]

Jeez...Will you two get a room.
And whomever goes on the bottom...Don't forget that girl voice! :hide-1:

[MacShreach]

Yet not so delusional as to think anyone would give a shit about his "thickness making them forget the girl voice."

Yet you consistently post airheaded, unconsidered drivel about things you have no knowledge of...I think you're very confused.

[MacShreach]

Jeez...Will you two get a room.
And whomever goes on the bottom...Don't forget that girl voice! :hide-1:


Woooo Jezz sorry, if it's a choice of bugging out or sharing a room with it, I'm outa here.

You do realise I'm spoken for?

How is that rather cute Cheviot of yours anyway.....:)

[Jericho]

How is that rather cute Cheviot of yours anyway.....:)

A little woolly when it comes to making decisions, but with winter drawing near, it is nice to snuggle...Cuts down on the leccy bill! :shrug

[nysprod]

Yet you consistently post airheaded, unconsidered drivel about things you have no knowledge of...I think you're very confused.


Confused about "thickness making them forget the girl voice" being another example of your self-important bullshit? Hardly.

[Prospero]

Hey guys ... just don't read each other''s posts. This is just tiresome.

[dderek123]

Hey guys ... just don't read each other''s posts. This is just tiresome.

Haha or entertaining :)

http://www.somegif.com/gifs/1359472577211223204.GIF

[MacShreach]

Haha or entertaining :)

http://www.somegif.com/gifs/1359472577211223204.GIF


hehe Prospero is sadly in need of a humour injection!

(actually this whole place is)

[dderek123]

hehe Prospero is sadly in need of a humour injection!

(actually this whole place is)

I hear you on that. It's been slow for the last little while. The last light-hearted thread that comes to mind is Dans old whisky thread.

[MacShreach]

I hear you on that. It's been slow for the last little while. The last light-hearted thread that comes to mind is Dans old whisky thread.

Censorship will do it any time. I guess it has a certain neo-Stalinist/brutalist chic. Bit like 'Darkness At Noon' without the horse-laughs.

Bring back Mimi!

[dderek123]

Censorship will do it any time. I guess it has a certain neo-Stalinist/brutalist chic. Bit like 'Darkness At Noon' without the horse-laughs.

Bring back Mimi!

Oh man Mimi ruffled a few feathers back then. I liked it when Nicole would tear someone up for a couple of weeks. But when she locked horns with another Angel it would cause a nuclear meltdown around here.

I think there's a fine line between being funny/cheeky and being a crass asshole. Well it's not that fine but people tend to have plenty of difficulty with seeing it.

[MacShreach]

Oh man Mimi ruffled a few feathers back then. I liked it when Nicole would tear someone up for a couple of weeks. But when she locked horns with another Angel it would cause a nuclear meltdown around here.

I think there's a fine line between being funny/cheeky and being a crass asshole. Well it's not that fine but people tend to have plenty of difficulty with seeing it.

I loved every minute of it-- and I had a few major meltdowns with Nicole (some before she was Nicole). But you know what? I ended up really liking her. I mean really. She turns up on my doorstep tomorrow and the guest room (well one of em) is hers. (I might have to lock her in it from time to time, but still...) And she would not be alone with that...level of trust.

The thing is, the girls have a lot to work out, but actually, so do the guys. What we do is...edgy...and sometimes difficult...It makes you ask very deep questions about just exactly who and what you are; well if you're not a complete moron anyway. Now I happen to have training that helps there, but most people don't, and HA used to be the place where you could go 'fuck dealing with the straight world and all its hangups, gimme a pint, and BTW who the fuck do you think you're looking at?'

Oh and btw readers, if you want to know more, buy 'The Warm Pink Jelly Express Train'. Links below!

[dderek123]

I loved every minute of it-- and I had a few major meltdowns with Nicole (some before she was Nicole). But you know what? I ended up really liking her. I mean really. She turns up on my doorstep tomorrow and the guest room (well one of em) is hers. (I might have to lock her in it from time to time, but still...) And she would not be alone with that...level of trust.

The thing is, the girls have a lot to work out, but actually, so do the guys. What we do is...edgy...and sometimes difficult...It makes you ask very deep questions about just exactly who and what you are; well if you're not a complete moron anyway. Now I happen to have training that helps there, but most people don't, and HA used to be the place where you could go 'fuck dealing with the straight world and all its hangups, gimme a pint, and BTW who the fuck do you think you're looking at?'

Oh and btw readers, if you want to know more, buy 'The Warm Pink Jelly Express Train'. Links below!
I totally respect what you're saying. But the hardcore trolling that was going on back then wasn't always fun. I liked Nicole a lot too. Never really locked horns with her or chatted though. I think Mimi crossed the line though. The line being spreading HIV rumours about others.

Like today i had a nice chat with Krissy about computers. We had a difference of opinion but she never called me a faggot lol. Back when I first joined I think things would have happened differently.

[MacShreach]

I totally respect what you're saying. But the hardcore trolling that was going on back then wasn't always fun. I liked Nicole a lot too. Never really locked horns with her or chatted though. I think Mimi crossed the line though. The line being spreading HIV rumours about others.

Like today i had a nice chat with Krissy about computers. We had a difference of opinion but she never called me a faggot lol. Back when I first joined I think things would have happened differently.


Clearly, lying about others should be flagged, like calling people names (doesn't matter what name, but TIC excepted.) But now...Huge fuckin meh. The thing was, before, you could choose...if you didn't want to get into it, you avoided those threads...and they were obvious. HA used to be a resource; now it's a shop front. I don't mind that--I mean Seanchai put good money that belonged to him into it and he absolutely deserves a return on that--but the level of intrusion into discussion is...unfortunate.

[MacShreach]

BTW Krissy is an absolute darling and gets nothing but support from me.

[dderek123]

Clearly, lying about others should be flagged, like calling people names (doesn't matter what name, but TIC excepted.) But now...Huge fuckin meh. The thing was, before, you could choose...if you didn't want to get into it, you avoided those threads...and they were obvious. HA used to be a resource; now it's a shop front. I don't mind that--I mean Seanchai put good money that belonged to him into it and he absolutely deserves a return on that--but the level of intrusion into discussion is...unfortunate.

Well there's always 4chan if you want a wild west type of forum. I like reddit because it offers a bit of everything to everyone.

[MacShreach]

Well there's always 4chan if you want a wild west type of forum. I like reddit because it offers a bit of everything to everyone.

Yeah, but HA was ours, you know? There are a lot of forums (my classical education makes me hate saying that) where you can have a barney...but the old HA was different because here we said up front, either I'm a transwoman or I like transwomen--and let us be certain here-- I like transwomen A LOT.

Anywhere else and you have to deal with the twats, you know?