Person First, Model Second.

[Jamie French]

Just got this email from a member of my website... Pretty tame stuff but I thought I'd share. To the other girls... what are some of your favorite demanding emails?

DUDE:

I have a subscription to your web just for your pale skin that makes you more feminine and your pale feet, please don't tan!
R****. Sent from my iPad

ME:

Wait a minute. Let me get this straight. You want me to interrupt my personal life and put my private choices about my own body on hold so you can jerk off better? I have 7 years of unhealthily paled skin content for you to look at. Since I've started tanning, I feel better, have more energy, my skin is smoother and by all accounts I look a lot more feminine than I did with vampire skin... My only regret is that I didn't start tanning sooner. I love it and I'm not going to quit so you are more than welcome to email CCBill and get your money back. I have no interest in accepting money from people who treat me as if I'm a commodity. I take pictures and make movies, whatever I make is what you get and if you don't like it neither one of us has an obligation to one another, meaning you are free to jerk off elsewhere.

Might have sounded a little harsh on my side but he got to me before I had a chance to finish my morning coffee.

[nysprod]

It's your business, so run it however you think best...FYI, those tanning beds can be detrimental to your health.

[runningdownthatdream]

You should have thanked him for his input and told him you'll take his feelings into consideration. Someone who writes something so crass ,and anonymously too, should be seen only as the jackass he really is. Why not take his money!

[dderek123]

I wouldn't have bothered with replying. But thats just me.

[Jamie French]

I don't pay for tanning... sitting next to the pool with a timer set on my cell phone is free.


It's your business, so run it however you think best...FYI, those tanning beds can be detrimental to your health.

[Jamie French]

It's the principle of the thing. I can't be bought for anything other than what I bring to the table, on my own terms.


You should have thanked him for his input and told him you'll take his feelings into consideration. Someone who writes something so crass ,and anonymously too, should be seen only as the jackass he really is. Why not take his money!

[Jamie French]

These kind of situations are the perfect opportunity to vent. When I stop replying to these type of guys in this fashion, my walls end up eating bits of my fist.


I wouldn't have bothered with replying. But thats just me.

[martin48]

A little hard on a simple punter.



Just got this email from a member of my website... Pretty tame stuff but I thought I'd share. To the other girls... what are some of your favorite demanding emails?

DUDE:

I have a subscription to your web just for your pale skin that makes you more feminine and your pale feet, please don't tan!
R****. Sent from my iPad

ME:

Wait a minute. Let me get this straight. You want me to interrupt my personal life and put my private choices about my own body on hold so you can jerk off better? I have 7 years of unhealthily paled skin content for you to look at. Since I've started tanning, I feel better, have more energy, my skin is smoother and by all accounts I look a lot more feminine than I did with vampire skin... My only regret is that I didn't start tanning sooner. I love it and I'm not going to quit so you are more than welcome to email CCBill and get your money back. I have no interest in accepting money from people who treat me as if I'm a commodity. I take pictures and make movies, whatever I make is what you get and if you don't like it neither one of us has an obligation to one another, meaning you are free to jerk off elsewhere.

Might have sounded a little harsh on my side but he got to me before I had a chance to finish my morning coffee.

[martin48]

As my therapist would say "And how does that make you feel?" :)


These kind of situations are the perfect opportunity to vent. When I stop replying to these type of guys in this fashion, my walls end up eating bits of my fist.

[Jamie French]

As my Steve Martin would say "Obsequious, purple and clairvoyant."


As my therapist would say "And how does that make you feel?" :)

[dderek123]

These kind of situations are the perfect opportunity to vent. When I stop replying to these type of guys in this fashion, my walls end up eating bits of my fist.

Damn Jamie you scary! I really really like your tan by the way.

[Jamie French]

I'm not that bad... I've been in this particular apartment just over a year and there's only like, three holes tops in various walls.


Damn Jamie you scary! I really really like your tan by the way.

[dderek123]

I'm not that bad... I've been in this particular apartment just over a year and there's only like, three holes tops in various walls.

Three holes per wall or three holes total? :)

[BellaBellucci]

I need to respond to this thread like I need a hole in my wall. :lol:

Ahh, fuck it. I really have to know what the legal fees were for (in your sig). :?

~BB~

[EvaCassini]

Lmao :)

[Donkey]

Overreact much?

[EvaCassini]

everyone gets angry, everyone has certain ways to release anger in ways that dont hurt others...walls have no feelings. And it's not like our walls look like swiss cheese, there are only 2 tiny holes.

Then there are those who don't know how to positively and correctly deal with anger issues... i.e. The Hulk, Danny Bonaduce, Jenna Jameson, Mel Gibson, Anakin Skywalker, John McEnroe, and many many others. :)

[dderek123]

everyone gets angry, everyone has certain ways to release anger in ways that dont hurt others...walls have no feelings. And it's not like our walls look like swiss cheese, there are only 2 tiny holes.

Then there are those who don't know how to positively and correctly deal with anger issues... i.e. The Hulk, Danny Bonaduce, Jenna Jameson, Mel Gibson, Anakin Skywalker, John McEnroe, and many many others. :)

I usually just swear like a drunken sailor when I get frustrated. Or I save it up for when I'm alone in the shower or car to have an imaginary argument. If I went around hitting things I'd just break my hand I think haha.

[EvaCassini]

I usually just swear like a drunken sailor when I get frustrated. Or I save it up for when I'm alone in the shower or car to have an imaginary argument. If I went around hitting things I'd just break my hand I think haha.

HAHAHA i think i would like to see you having a solo argument in your car. I would find that entertaining. Then after you are done, I would coax you out of the car and give you a nice squishy hug! ;)

[EvaCassini]

@Dderek, 3 total.

2 from Jamie, and they are small. 1 from when we got robbed. Someone stupidly decided to get in a "tiff" with the gunman, and she got shoved into the wall, thus creating the 3rd hole. The "big hole".

[dderek123]

HAHAHA i think i would like to see you having a solo argument in your car. I would find that entertaining. Then after you are done, I would coax you out of the car and give you a nice squishy hug! ;)

Aww thanks Eva. We all need a good hug every now and then.

[nysprod]

I don't pay for tanning... sitting next to the pool with a timer set on my cell phone is free.

Surgery $$$ spent on legal fees in Vegas. Got to start from scratch.



You put this out there so I'll ask...what happened in Vegas?

[Ben]

Just got this email from a member of my website... Pretty tame stuff but I thought I'd share. To the other girls... what are some of your favorite demanding emails?

DUDE:

I have a subscription to your web just for your pale skin that makes you more feminine and your pale feet, please don't tan!
R****. Sent from my iPad

ME:

Wait a minute. Let me get this straight. You want me to interrupt my personal life and put my private choices about my own body on hold so you can jerk off better? I have 7 years of unhealthily paled skin content for you to look at. Since I've started tanning, I feel better, have more energy, my skin is smoother and by all accounts I look a lot more feminine than I did with vampire skin... My only regret is that I didn't start tanning sooner. I love it and I'm not going to quit so you are more than welcome to email CCBill and get your money back. I have no interest in accepting money from people who treat me as if I'm a commodity. I take pictures and make movies, whatever I make is what you get and if you don't like it neither one of us has an obligation to one another, meaning you are free to jerk off elsewhere.

Might have sounded a little harsh on my side but he got to me before I had a chance to finish my morning coffee.

Jamie, you should do what's best for you.... :)

[kmersh]

There is no excuse for your customers, FULL STOP!!!!!

Having said that, I am afraid he lost sight of the difference between paying for a item and paying for access to a website devoted to a specific individual or individuals.

In the prior a person has a right to have it his/her way as they are paying for an item, in the later a person is paying for access to a website,magazine or what have you, which is devoted to a specific person or persons and while they (the payee) may enjoy that person one way or another they really do not have a right to interfere with said person or persons.

It is an easy mistake to make and I myself have been guilty of said mistake, but thankfully I have the ability to catch myself and say, "hey wait a minutes, I may like said individual one way or another, but they are a person, not an item and I cannot have it my way."

Again, your customer was wrong, but it is an easy mistake to make (though admittedly it is a grievous mistake)

k

[Jamie French]

Although the following blocks of text appear daunting the situation is really pretty cut and dry.

Eva and I were in Vegas for a few days because the hotels are cheap and only 4 hours from LA. We were biding our time until our shoot with Joey Silvera for American Shemale X 4. Since we had time to kill and not a lot of money to spend I figured I'd put out a BP ad to see if I could pick up some quick pocket change for the duration of our stay. I post the ad and receive about a million billion responses - but they all seem a little suspicious, douchey, rude or just plain riddled with red flags. After about two days of shifty contacts I dropped the idea all together and figured we'd just have to live frugally until our shoot with Joey was complete.

On our last day in Vegas I get an email from a guy that seemed just perfect... all the right things were said, he dispensed with all the nonsense that first timers and flakes usually toss my way... the guy even seemed to have extensive knowledge about my career in porn, claiming to be a member of my site every now and again. I had little if any reason to distrust him... he knew about things on my site that only members have access to. The guy sounded square so I gave him the ok.

About ten minutes before the guy shows up at our hotel room, Eva decides it would be wise to kill some time downstairs in the casino while I tend to my client.

Eva leaves, the guy shows up, makes a little small talk. Nothing out of the ordinary. He places money on the dresser, asks if I'd get naked and go wait on the bed while he uses the restroom. I says, "no problem." I undress and wait as instructed.

I hear the door to the room open. Whammo! Six burly cops in day-glow yellow jackets shuffle en masse through a small hallway and into my hotel room - and there I am, naked as a lie.

I'm told to sit on my hands while two of the cops keep an eye on me. The four other officers go rummaging around my immaculately kept hotel room. They're looking for drugs, maybe a weapon of some sort. Two of the rummaging officers are making snide remarks and asking about all the film equipment and computers I have set up, (I just got done shooting Eva for Shemale Strokers the night before) When they couldn't find any drugs they asked outright where I was keeping them. I explained that I've never touched an illegal narcotic in my life. Satisfied with my answer but still looking for a way to make me feel shitty about hooking they asked if I knew how many men I may have given HIV to. I motioned to my brand new blood test sitting next to the money the vice cop initially laid out. I explained to them that I've been in porn for 7 years, blood tests are mandatory and to be taken every 28 days. Full panel. I explain that I'm just passing through to LA. I explain the cameras, lights and so forth. I am polite. I am completely zen. I am not the bust they had hoped for.

The men grew quite. The "john" approached me and apologized for having had to do this but since they have gone this far that an arrest would have to be made.

I'm quietly led out of the building, read my rights and officially banned from the hotel (Southpoint Hotel) for life by the hotel security crew just before being placed into the front seat of an unmarked white 94 Civic. My "john" is at the wheel. It's his job to drive me to a paddy wagon parked a few blocks away behind the Bellagio.

The entire ride was a ruse to get me to cop to a greater crime or to possibly get me to agree to another "session" once I get out of jail. The guy seemed to forget that he was dealing with a someone a couple of years older than him, who had been around the block maybe 30 times or so. His good cop routine was wasted on me.

He's apologizing, he's saying he's a fan, he's asking if I have a boyfriend. He's asking for another chance at a real appointment. He's telling me that he's not arresting me on moral grounds. He's flashing trusting smiles, but somehow he's all canine teeth. The entire situation was a joke and he sincerely believed I was missing the punchline.

Rookie.

I'm in a paddy wagon. I'm on the freeway. I'm in a booking station. I'm in a holding area. I'm in a holding area for 26 hours. As Eva puts the puzzle pieces together about my sudden disappearance on the outside, I am on the inside speaking with no one, waiting for anything.

Gears are turning on the outside. I am told that I've made bail.

Thanks to a regular client of mine back in Dallas and with the help of our good friend, Lucia Mathews, Eva is able to come up with the money. I am out and we are a day late for our shoot. This is not a problem as Eva has spent the entire duration of my incarceration tying up loose ends. When Joey Silvera finds out about my bust he is furious. Not with either of us but with the LVPD. Joey reschedules the shoot and pays for our entire hotel stay in Studio city, CA.

As a freakin' gift, on top of pay.

That's the story. The rest is boring court proceedings, paying back loans, bondsmen, etc.


You put this out there so I'll ask...what happened in Vegas?

[Donkey]

^ Thanks for sharing. Hate to hear that happened.

Kudos to Joey Silvera for being one outstanding dude.

[LilyRox]

A good reason not to get into prostitution. Those cops are good at what they do. I don't agree that prostitution should be illegal, but cops are good at what they're paid to do. In prostitution it's like there's sketchy characters you can't trust and the good matches are cops half the time xD. Like Jesus Christ it's not even worth it when you add in the risk of disease. I'm not gonna sugar coat it with "escort" either. Prostitution is prostitution.

[EvaCassini]

uhhh...then you don't know it very well. Call it whatever you want, Escorting can be good and safe as long as all precautions are met. For example, any "prostitute" can get routinely tested AND bring condoms. Not that hard.

If you want disease, go to somewhere 3rd world, like the Philippines, Thailand, and China. I've been to these places and that's where you'll find "prostitutes" with diseases. In places like the ones I have mentioned, there is no testing, and condoms are party favors that get inflated like balloons.

In the good ole' US of A, most escorts I know get tested and always have condoms on them. But as for shitty guys, there will always be shitty guys. The cop indecent was a complete fluke.

Because the only reason the whole thing went down is because they were hoping for a drug bust, that's it. As Jamie said, since they've gone that far in the "bust" they had to make the arrest. Cops have quotas, and since prostituting within LV limits is illegal, they got a tally that night.

[Quiet Reflections]

A good reason not to get into prostitution. Those cops are good at what they do. I don't agree that prostitution should be illegal, but cops are good at what they're paid to do. In prostitution it's like there's sketchy characters you can't trust and the good matches are cops half the time xD. Like Jesus Christ it's not even worth it when you add in the risk of disease. I'm not gonna sugar coat it with "escort" either. Prostitution is prostitution.
not all cops are good at what they are paid to do. They seem OK with the money, it's just the protecting and serving they take issue with.

[kmersh]

uhhh...then you don't know it very well. Call it whatever you want, Escorting can be good and safe as long as all precautions are met. For example, any "prostitute" can get routinely tested AND bring condoms. Not that hard.

If you want disease, go to somewhere 3rd world, like the Philippines, Thailand, and China. I've been to these places and that's where you'll find "prostitutes" with diseases. In places like the ones I have mentioned, there is no testing, and condoms are party favors that get inflated like balloons.

In the good ole' US of A, most escorts I know get tested and always have condoms on them. But as for shitty guys, there will always be shitty guys. The cop indecent was a complete fluke.

Because the only reason the whole thing went down is because they were hoping for a drug bust, that's it. As Jamie said, since they've gone that far in the "bust" they had to make the arrest. Cops have quotas, and since prostituting within LV limits is illegal, they got a tally that night.

I completely agree, the 3rd world is a good place to get sick from using the services of a "professional". I would have to imagine that due to our standards of living the USA (and in most developed nations around the world), we have a better understanding of how to stay as safe as possible and have the funds available to get tested for associated diseases far easier than a "Professional" from the third world who is most likely not even close to the same socioeconomic scale as a "professional" from the 1st world.

With regards to the police, I have a sense that the LVMPD Vice Crimes unit is extremely active and in places I would never imagine to find a Vice Crimes officer.

A few years back I was staying at the Four Seasons in Las Vegas and while returning to my room I saw many uniformed Police Officers standing in the hallway and a gentleman being escorted by two officers to the elevator, I asked one of the police officers what had happened and he said that Vice is busting Johns adding, "even in expensive hotels like this one".

I went into my room and said to myself if I ever had the thought about using the services of a "Professional", I am now entirely sure I have no interest as the arrest is just not worth it.

I cannot speak for other cities, but Las Vegas is the only city where I have ever actually seen an active Vice bust and the few times I have watched COPS it always seems that Las Vegas is where the Vice busts are taking place.

k

[dderek123]

I completely agree, the 3rd world is a good place to get sick from using the services of a "professional". I would have to imagine that due to our standards of living the USA (and in most developed nations around the world), we have a better understanding of how to stay as safe as possible and have the funds available to get tested for associated diseases far easier than a "Professional" from the third world who is most likely not even close to the same socioeconomic scale as a "professional" from the 1st world.

With regards to the police, I have a sense that the LVMPD Vice Crimes unit is extremely active and in places I would never imagine to find a Vice Crimes officer.

A few years back I was staying at the Four Seasons in Las Vegas and while returning to my room I saw many uniformed Police Officers standing in the hallway and a gentleman being escorted by two officers to the elevator, I asked one of the police officers what had happened and he said that Vice is busting Johns adding, "even in expensive hotels like this one".

I went into my room and said to myself if I ever had the thought about using the services of a "Professional", I am now entirely sure I have no interest as the arrest is just not worth it.

I cannot speak for other cities, but Las Vegas is the only city where I have ever actually seen an active Vice bust and the few times I have watched COPS it always seems that Las Vegas is where the Vice busts are taking place.

k
A survey was done in Phuket around two years ago. It was to check the general knowledge of safe practices of sex workers. They found that the majority of sex workers believed that it was possible could get HIV from being bitten by a mosquito. I shit you not.

[EvaCassini]

3rd world = a lot of uneducated people = misconceptions = some oblivious drunk white guy gets HIV.

[dderek123]

Yep thats the sad reality.

[Jamie French]

Hey, you know what? Fuck you and everyone you know. I've been at it for 7 years and have only had ONE incident. My arrest in LasVegas. If you think a little misdemeanor jail time is something to be scared of you're truly a weak piece of shit.

I came to terms with the potential dangers of whoring a LONG time ago and the only decision I regret is not having started sooner. Fuck you and you're inexperience wreck of a world view.

I don't know what you're doing here on a board like this but if you plan on getting any closer to this industry and I find you running around in any of my circles I will insure that we both wind up having a very bad day.

You are making the wrong enemies.



A good reason not to get into prostitution. Those cops are good at what they do. I don't agree that prostitution should be illegal, but cops are good at what they're paid to do. In prostitution it's like there's sketchy characters you can't trust and the good matches are cops half the time xD. Like Jesus Christ it's not even worth it when you add in the risk of disease. I'm not gonna sugar coat it with "escort" either. Prostitution is prostitution.

[Jamie French]

This whore shaming nonsense I will NOT put up with. I do good things with the money I earn. I keep almost nothing for myself and expend all of my energies helping friends and family. I invest in resources that I use to benefit other people's creative inclinations. I give everything that is good about me away for free and only charge strangers for a few fleeting moments with the most unimportant part of me, my flesh. I do things that I would never be able to do with $50,000 of student loan debit hanging over me while suffering 60 hour work weeks in some shit brained entry level sales position.
Life is for the brave. Life is for those that know there are rules that must be broken. Life is for people like me and I will not sit quietly while some uninformed douchebag with self informed opinions makes light of what is to them, an alien and untested situation.

[Donkey]

Jamie, your postings have become a bit unhinged lately.

[betts]

if you plan on getting any closer to this industry and I find you running around in any of my circles I will insure that we both wind up having a very bad day.

You are making the wrong enemies.


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[EvaCassini]

For those who make "assumptions" about things they know nothing about or what they here from "Facebook memes" and the like, shouldn't give their say, especially in a porn forum such as this, where girls like Jamie and myself and all other girls here who strive to provide a quality product ( be it porn, camming, escorting ).

Jamie has extensive knowledge of the work she performs and is highly skilled and experienced. For someone, we all know who, to say the things that have been said without knowledge and first hand experience, can't speak with any merit to aid in the conversation.

It's quite simple. Without knowledge and experience, misconceptions, fear, and panic ensue.

Thank you.

Now I am going bowling, and then the club! :D

[LilyRox]

Hey, you know what? Fuck you and everyone you know. I've been at it for 7 years and have only had ONE incident. My arrest in LasVegas. If you think a little misdemeanor jail time is something to be scared of you're truly a weak piece of shit.

I came to terms with the potential dangers of whoring a LONG time ago and the only decision I regret is not having started sooner. Fuck you and you're inexperience wreck of a world view.

I don't know what you're doing here on a board like this but if you plan on getting any closer to this industry and I find you running around in any of my circles I will insure that we both wind up having a very bad day.

You are making the wrong enemies.


I think you have it backwards Jamie. I would think a porn director would prefer someone who isn't escorting so they don't have to worry about your incident or their girl ending up in a ditch somewhere. Too threaten me that I won't make it in the business because I don't want to escort is laughable.

And I'm not sure what you mean by this: "I find you running around in any of my circles I will insure that we both wind up having a very bad day. "

I'm getting into the porn business because I want to, not because I have to. There's no reason for me to escort right now as I'm doing financially well off.

[EvaCassini]

You clearly don't understand porn then sweetums! :p

Did you not read the part about how Joey Silvera was pissed at the COPS ( not us ) when I called him about what happened?

You do know WHO Joey Silvera is right?

...:smh

[nysprod]

Now that I'm thinking about your bust Jamie, I'm wondering what with all the escorts and porn stars doing escorting in LV if someone didn't drop a dime on you...it's almost too much of a coincidence, especially the part about the cop being familiar with your website...

[EvaCassini]

That's what pissed Jamie, myself AND Joey Silvera off...in retrospect, it looks/sounds very incredibly fishy.

[nysprod]

You clearly don't understand porn then sweetums! :p

Did you not read the part about how Joey Silvera was pissed at the COPS ( not us ) when I called him about what happened?

You do know WHO Joey Silvera is right?

...:smh

It's wonderful that Joey helped you guys out, kudos for him, he deserves respect...I'm sure he would have done the same for any number of performers or people he knows.

[nysprod]

That's what pissed Jamie, myself AND Joey Silvera off...in retrospect, it looks/sounds very incredibly fishy.

Wondering who was in LV at that time who may not be totally in love with Jamie...

[EvaCassini]

idk, but at that particular time...only one person, well two...would go that low as to do something like that...I can't speculate though because of no evidence and no proof.

[nysprod]

idk, but at that particular time...only one person, well two...would go that low as to do something like that...I can't speculate though because of no evidence and no proof.

Either of them based in LV?

[EvaCassini]

hehe, no....

but lets just say we used to date and lived together.

BUT it could have been just cops wanting to make a drug bust. Can't deny that. Cops love drug busts, that's media gold!

[nysprod]

hehe, no....

but lets just say we used to date and lived together.

BUT it could have been just cops wanting to make a drug bust. Can't deny that. Cops love drug busts, that's media gold!

I really don't think so, because look at how many escorts and porn stars in LV have a presence on the web...I think the drug thing maybe comes into play, but probably because the person who dropped the dime mentioned them in order to get the cops to act.

[EvaCassini]

Human brains love patterns BUT that can't clearly put any blame on a particular person, who has something out for us. I can say it was pure bad luck, well planned out by cops, or many other logical things, but I can't say that it was a conspiracy organized by a certain tranny who clearly hates us because she isn't mature.

You are looking for a name and you are 99% sure who I speak of. So there is no logical way that I should name said person, because I wouldn't even give them that much credit. Kind of make me laugh thinking that LOL.

[nysprod]

Human brains love patterns BUT that can't clearly put any blame on a particular person, who has something out for us. I can say it was pure bad luck, well planned out by cops, or many other logical things, but I can't say that it was a conspiracy organized by a certain tranny who clearly hates us because she isn't mature.

You are looking for a name and you are 99% sure who I speak of. So there is no logical way that I should name said person, because I wouldn't even give them that much credit. Kind of make me laugh thinking that LOL.

Either way, I hate to see what happened...bad fucking luck, I guess.

[Jamie French]

Who said anything about escorting? Porn, you get into porn and I find you on my set or at any of the functions I'm attending I will not hesitate to bring things to a crashing halt.

And about directors preferences... (again, you seemed to forget you are talking to a 7 year veteran that knows EVERYTHING about the business) Directors have no preference. If your paper work says you're clean, you get to shoot. What do you think this is? SAFE? Do you honestly think that this business is made up of anything more than maverick cameramen and independent entrepreneurs? This is grown up work for grown up people that assess risk and take somewhat calculated chances. This is not a business for kids. This is a business made up of sexually forward people who want to turn a buck. This is a business for people that can handle a little chaos with there coffee. A blood test and a good reference are the only things in this business that pass as protective measures and if you can't handle that you are playing the wrong freakin' game.


I think you have it backwards Jamie. I would think a porn director would prefer someone who isn't escorting so they don't have to worry about your incident or their girl ending up in a ditch somewhere. Too threaten me that I won't make it in the business because I don't want to escort is laughable.

And I'm not sure what you mean by this: "I find you running around in any of my circles I will insure that we both wind up having a very bad day. "

I'm getting into the porn business because I want to, not because I have to. There's no reason for me to escort right now as I'm doing financially well off.

[Rockit_]

For those who make "assumptions" about things they know nothing about or what they here from "Facebook memes" and the like, shouldn't give their say, especially in a porn forum such as this, where girls like Jamie and myself and all other girls here who strive to provide a quality product ( be it porn, camming, escorting ).

Jamie has extensive knowledge of the work she performs and is highly skilled and experienced. For someone, we all know who, to say the things that have been said without knowledge and first hand experience, can't speak with any merit to aid in the conversation.

It's quite simple. Without knowledge and experience, misconceptions, fear, and panic ensue.

Thank you.

Now I am going bowling, and then the club! :D


Civility is all anyone asks. And it is spelled "hear."

[LilyRox]

Who said anything about escorting? Porn, you get into porn and I find you on my set or at any of the functions I'm attending I will not hesitate to bring things to a crashing halt.


Jamie I don't have anything against you. I don't understand why you seem so angry. I meant that you don't want me on set with you because I don't escort? Over this entire discussion? This isn't a Jamie vs. Lily thing. At least to me it isn't. I don't know what you have against me. I mean we are discussing views of our opinions on things, but you act like you're in war mode all the time. I sent you a friend request Jamie and you can do whatever you want with it. I don't want this to be a negative experience if it has been at all.

[Ben in LA]

Be extra careful next time. Las Vegas is pretty shifty like that. I've heard similar stories from other girls.

[Jimmy W]

I have a subscription to your web just for your pale skin that makes you more feminine and your pale feet, please don't tan!
R****.

So, someone told you what he finds attractive about you and politely suggested you consider not exposing yourself to the possible health issues that are commonly associated with tanning. Your response was to take a shit on this person and then for six pages run rough shod in all different directions when you could have simply been gracious and said, thanks for your concern but I am an adult and am capable of making my own choices. Why did you respond like that?

[Jamie French]

Because I am a bad person.


I have a subscription to your web just for your pale skin that makes you more feminine and your pale feet, please don't tan!
R****.

So, someone told you what he finds attractive about you and politely suggested you consider not exposing yourself to the possible health issues that are commonly associated with tanning. Your response was to take a shit on this person and then for six pages run rough shod in all different directions when you could have simply been gracious and said, thanks for your concern but I am an adult and am capable of making my own choices. Why did you respond like that?

[EvaCassini]

Civility is all anyone asks. And it is spelled "hear."

Hahaha...keep in mind...I was pretty buzzed when I typed that. Hear, here, at least you understood me :)

BTW, FYI...I am pretty drunk now too lol, just got back from the club "The Church" in Dallas. I go there frequently, but this time was really cool, because Jamie and I had several people come up to us, saying they are big fans of us. It was pretty cool to hear. :) I love you all. Not because that's what drunk people say, but I truly mean it! :)

[dderek123]

Because I am a bad person.

I think so! In the 'Micheal Jackson bad' sort of way.

[Jamie French]

I think so! In the 'Micheal Jackson bad' sort of way.

I should be punished.

[uchetal]

Jamie, I think you were set up. At least that's what my gut tells me.

[scroller]

When they couldn't find any drugs they asked outright where I was keeping them. I explained that I've never touched an illegal narcotic in my life. Satisfied with my answer but still looking for a way to make me feel shitty about hooking they asked if I knew how many men I may have given HIV to. I motioned to my brand new blood test sitting next to the money the vice cop initially laid out. I explained to them that I've been in porn for 7 years, blood tests are mandatory and to be taken every 28 days. Full panel. I explain that I'm just passing through to LA. I explain the cameras, lights and so forth. I am polite. I am completely zen. I am not the bust they had hoped for.

Out of curiosity, what's your theory on why answering their questions is better than saying something like, "I'm not going to answer any questions without a lawyer present"?

And what happened to the computers and photography equipment when the arrest/hotel expulsion went down?

[Jamie French]

A: Because it was just a stupid misdemeanor charge. I've had unpaid traffic tickets keep me in jail for longer periods of time. I had nothing to hide and no real reason to plead the fifth. Also, as a bonus: I was also getting off on the fact that each of my answers helped to completely dismantled the importance of their efforts. You could literally see the cops trading disappointed looks when there were no drugs to be found, no pimp to arrest, no leads to a human trafficker, no unlicensed weapons, no disease, no attitude to contest with.

B: Eva still occupied the hotel room, she was just downstairs in the casino at the time of my arrest. She came back to the room a couple hours later, found I was missing and started putting the pieces together.

My equipment is just my equipment, none of it illegal to own so they had no interest in doing anything to or with it. Eva simply packed up all our gear and put it in the car as she checked out of the hotel.


Out of curiosity, what's your theory on why answering their questions is better than saying something like, "I'm not going to answer any questions without a lawyer present"?

And what happened to the computers and photography equipment when the arrest/hotel expulsion went down?

[BellaBellucci]

Messy.

~BB~

[Jamie French]

QUICK STATION BREAK:

My breast surgery donation page has been updated with an incentives list and goal counter... check it out: http://www.deadgirlproductions.com/donate.html

[kmersh]

Preface: I do not know the first thing about the porn industry and I do not profess to.

Having said that, I was arrested once and spent some time in prison and it was not fun, not in the slightest and I vowed to stay out of prison for the rest of my life. I completed probation without a hitch and have done my best to stay on the right side of the law, even if I believe that the law is wrong in certain instances.

Jamie, I give you credit because my fear of being arrested again and spending time in a jail has curtailed potentially more interesting things in life (like seeking the services of a "Professional").

However, I would not knock higher education, I have a post graduate degree and luckily I was able to do it without loans, but it allows me to think critically about issues and develop a better understanding of the world around me, it has also allowed me to generate a nice income for myself even with a conviction on my record, which is generally like a DO NOT HIRE STAMPED ON ONE's FOREHEAD.

I fully understand higher education is not for everyone and I also fully understand that my situation and circumstances are not indicative of anyone else, but on those issues alone I did feel a need to voice my opinion

k

[Jamie French]

DO NOT HIRE stamps are also something I have no fear of... If I were to ever get a tattoo, (not in a million years) It would simply say "Do not hire." I didn't start my own business just to turn around and start working for someone else again. I think I really would rather die first. I'm not joking. From the age of 16 to 25 I've had about 30 maybe 32 different jobs. Hard work and I get along just fine. Being told what to do and servicing customers... No bueno. It has never worked and never would work for someone like me.

(Also, you don't need a college education to hone your critical thinking skills. 3 to 5 working senses, an early onset dissatisfaction with the world you inhabit, and the liberal use of a library card. Or as the kids call it, Google. Done. Cheap, easy, rewarding.)


Preface: I do not know the first thing about the porn industry and I do not profess to.

Having said that, I was arrested once and spent some time in prison and it was not fun, not in the slightest and I vowed to stay out of prison for the rest of my life. I completed probation without a hitch and have done my best to stay on the right side of the law, even if I believe that the law is wrong in certain instances.

Jamie, I give you credit because my fear of being arrested again and spending time in a jail has curtailed potentially more interesting things in life (like seeking the services of a "Professional").

However, I would not knock higher education, I have a post graduate degree and luckily I was able to do it without loans, but it allows me to think critically about issues and develop a better understanding of the world around me, it has also allowed me to generate a nice income for myself even with a conviction on my record, which is generally like a DO NOT HIRE STAMPED ON ONE's FOREHEAD.

I fully understand higher education is not for everyone and I also fully understand that my situation and circumstances are not indicative of anyone else, but on those issues alone I did feel a need to voice my opinion

k

[kmersh]

DO NOT HIRE stamps are also something I have no fear of... If I were to ever get a tattoo, (not in a million years) It would simply say "Do not hire." I didn't start my own business just to turn around and start working for someone else again. I think I really would rather die first. I'm not joking. From the age of 16 to 25 I've had about 30 maybe 32 different jobs. Hard work and I get along just fine. Being told what to do and servicing customers... No bueno. It has never worked and never would work for someone like me.

(Also, you don't need a college education to hone your critical thinking skills. 3 to 5 working senses, an early onset dissatisfaction with the world you inhabit, and the liberal use of a library card. Or as the kids call it, Google. Done. Cheap, easy, rewarding.)

I give you credit!

I openly admit customer service/front line/retail jobs are no fun, luckily I do not have one as it would not work for me either as like yourself it would be no beuno.

You are absolutely correct, a college education is not a necessity, it worked for me, it may not for everyone.

k