Married Guys??

[alctec]

Just want to say I really enjoy the forum and glad I found it. It provides a place to express thoughts etc that I would not otherwise, thku.

Are there a lot of married guys here???

And if so do you often wonder what it would be like to be married to a TG i/o of a GG??

From my own thoughts, I stumpled across the TG world about 15 yrs ago. A friend sent me a power point of Patricia Aroaju (not sure if I spelled that correctly, apologies). Well I was loving every picture and then at the end there it was, her cock. That was it - the light bulb on my head went off and I new I had to have that experience and since then I have been with many escorts and a few aquaintances.

So when i think back, knowing how satisfying the love making is and how much I enjoed the personal company of many, I wonder, had I got involved further back, would I have married? I often wish I did.

Just curious on other stories.

[bluesoul]

i'm not nor have i ever been married but currently in a long term relationship with a gg. never been with a transsexual either.

[alctec]

Well - when and if you do with a TG, you will enjoy it. - Best of all worlds.

[Ananke]

Mae West: "Marriage is a great institution, but I'm not ready for an institution yet"
I should have thought of that before getting married!:party:

[thekretch]

I am going to go 1924 on you here, but bear with me. It's probably the alcohol. It is my belief that when you chose to marry the woman you are married to, it was because you loved her. There was something about her. Maybe it was the way she made breakfast. Maybe it was the way your lip tingled when she kissed yours. Maybe you had never seen or felt anything so beautiful when you first laid eyes upon her.

The problem of people today is they have short memories and intense desire to be something different than what is promoted.

I challenge you to remember, through all the haze and porn and escorts, just what it was that first challenged your knees to bend and offer this human being a ring.

People are great. Women are great. M2F are great. Men are great. F2M are great. Hell. You commit to a human being. Innie. Outie. I assure you at 60, none of that will matter. Can you have lemonade? Can you vacation together? Have you even tried to inform your wife of your desires and allowed her the chance to role-play?

Once again, in no way is this an attack on you or your heart. You know what you want. So. Do. Or do not. There is no try. And there should not be a situation in which your spouse is clueless to your desire. It's why you have to look outside of your commitment to find it.

[alctec]

Superbly put - that was great, and you are so right, enjoyed reading that and gave me much food for thought.

Always open to more point of views and great responses as this.

However, I still wonder, had I met a TG then, or seeked one out then, would I have found the same love. I don't really regret my choice, my weakness does lie in my attraction to the TG world. I don't want to condone my behavior, it's obviously a form of infidelity, but I can't discount the thought - what if. If I was divorced now, I would more then likely seek companionship in the TG world.

[Ananke]

I suppose you marry someone for their personality mainly, not for their gender!

[rockabilly]

Not for much longer

[bluesoul]

Well - when and if you do with a TG, you will enjoy it. - Best of all worlds.

hey thanks for the encouragement, although, i do not actively seek out transsexuals.

[fred41]

Not for much longer

Whoa...that's not good. Hope you're kidding.

[robertlouis]

Whoa...that's not good. Hope you're kidding.

I'll second that. Not good news Rock. Hang in there.

[samspud]

Been married almost 24 years, have 2 wonderful boys, been through just about anything a couple can go through, have stood by helplessly and watched our first born almost die twice! There is nothing she does not know about me, and I about her! There is no one on earth I would rather be with!

Yet in just a few short months we will be getting a divorce in order to bring someone very special into our life, She is our soul mate and so much more! She has been my vision since I was 10 and my wife has held her in her heart for just as long, we both are completely in love with her as is Thing 1 and Thing 2! She is the sun and the moon and the stars to all of us!

She is a ladyboy, and no that is not why I'm marrying her, and no she's not just marrying me to get to the USA in fact she would much rather we move to the Philippines and be with her at her home, and no she's not marrying me for money, she knows we have none. She has completely transformed our life and we can not imagine it without her in it!

So, what might it be like to be married to a TG? I'm about to find out, I'm not marrying her for her dick and she is not a fetish or fantasy, both my wife and I plan on spending the rest of our life with her as our sort of Daughter with benefits LOL, yet she will be a big sister to our kids and one day when we pass on she will be their guardian.

"Life is what happens to you when you've made other plans"

[Prospero]

Remarkable samspud... your story sounds almost unique

[rockabilly]

Whoa...that's not good. Hope you're kidding.

Made it 2 years and a week but she has developed a serious meth problem.

We did it together a few times and had mind blowing sex for hours but i knew when to stop. I snorted it with her then she started to smoke it the final straw was when she kicked me out and shot it up 5 times.

I tried to get her in rehab and she refuses , Her own family disowned her.

I love her but i wont watch her destroy herself. I moved out and the ball is in her court.

She said she was happy that she lost our babies and did not want me.
Broke my heart

[lixx]

I wont condone infidelity. However, monogamy doesn't work.

Many users of prostitutes are marrird or in relationships. So it doesn't matter really.

[Wendy Summers]

Made it 2 years and a week but she has developed a serious meth problem.

We did it together a few times and had mind blowing sex for hours but i knew when to stop. I snorted it with her then she started to smoke it the final straw was when she kicked me out and shot it up 5 times.

I tried to get her in rehab and she refuses , Her own family disowned her.

I love her but i wont watch her destroy herself. I moved out and the ball is in her court.

She said she was happy that she lost our babies and did not want me.
Broke my heart

Damn... I'm sorry. Dealing with an addict and the crazy shit they say can't be easy. I'm glad you recognized is healthy for you to leave. If she won't help herself, there's little you can do.

Good luck.

[fred41]

Made it 2 years and a week but she has developed a serious meth problem.

We did it together a few times and had mind blowing sex for hours but i knew when to stop. I snorted it with her then she started to smoke it the final straw was when she kicked me out and shot it up 5 times.

I tried to get her in rehab and she refuses , Her own family disowned her.

I love her but i wont watch her destroy herself. I moved out and the ball is in her court.


Any addiction is tough ,both on the individual and all others that love them...and addictions destroy many a relationship - and personal lives.
...but you probably know all this already - You did the research, discussed this with family...perhaps talked to counselors, friends or acquaintances familiar with these type of problems. Some people can be fixed...others are permanently broken.
I hope for the best.
I hope somehow this turns out well for everyone.
If not, only you know when it's time to move on to a new life. That part of it is different for every individual.


She said she was happy that she lost our babies and did not want me.
Broke my heart

This brings up some questions ...but maybe not for this site.
I really only know you from this board, but you've always seem like a decent person who wears his heart on his sleeve. It seems you've had a crash course on relationships and life these last couple of years...and a tough one.
...and I'm sorry to hear that Rock.
PM me whenever you want.

[rockabilly]

Losing her brought back alot of pain and suicidal thoughts , My cat had died just 3 weeks prior and then she goes off the deep end.

I'm better than that though , I dont need drugs to get me through life or make me happy.
Life is about pain and hardship but rising above it to become better and stronger than you were before.

I loved her but I was not her priority , I am dealing with the loss and starting fresh.