Dominant or submissive?

[Amy Gray]

Which do you prefer in your tgirls?

[Ben in LA]

"Couldn't care less as long as they're hot!"

I will admit I prefer seeing Eva Lin, Vaniity, and Annalise Rose being dominant, and Sarina being submissive...

[Prospero]

Amy - are you referring to watching or being with?

[Quiet Reflections]

Tough Question. Sexual activity aside I like women that are strong enough and aggressive enough to get what they want in life but feminine enough to let me be the man in the relationship without her having to take a submissive and/or passive role. No real man should want a doormat for a significant other.

[runround04]

Case by case, just never rude or abusive. Not into that, If I wanted be yelled at and mistreated, Id go get pulled over for speeding.

[gregorysgirl]

Think most fantasise about taking a role as an unwilling victiin in ts seduction !

[nysprod]

It's complicated (no surprise there)

I like a girl who is aggressive about wanting sex but takes the passive role during sex...in other words, she aggressively seeks out the passive role.

[Ms.Stepford]

It's complicated (no surprise there)

I like a girl who is aggressive about wanting sex but takes the passive role during sex...in other words, she aggressively seeks out the passive role.


I'd love to hear that more often. Too many times guys confuse being dominant with being a top in terms of fucking.

[ralyear56]

It's complicated (no surprise there)

I like a girl who is aggressive about wanting sex but takes the passive role during sex...in other words, she aggressively seeks out the passive role.

nysprod,

i agree with you completely. Thank you for articulating that- I never was able to describe how I felt.

[xybar555]

submissive and passive oh yeah

[nysprod]

I'd love to hear that more often. Too many times guys confuse being dominant with being a top in terms of fucking.

I'm like topping from the bottom, so I like a girl who bottoms from the top...huh?...lol.


nysprod,

i agree with you completely. Thank you for articulating that- I never was able to describe how I felt.

Lol...kind of surprised myself with that one.

[Prospero]

I confess I like it "every which way but loose." So domme in the sense that nysprod has spelt out, but active aND passive. I like us to go on journey together with no holds barred.

[VictoriaVeil]

What is described is called Femdom. You will both enjoy servicing me and my desires.... ;)



nysprod,

i agree with you completely. Thank you for articulating that- I never was able to describe how I felt.


It's complicated (no surprise there)

I like a girl who is aggressive about wanting sex but takes the passive role during sex...in other words, she aggressively seeks out the passive role.

[nysprod]

What is described is called Femdom. You will both enjoy servicing me and my desires.... ;)


Lol...nope.

[VictoriaVeil]

Lol...nope.

lol... YUP!

[nysprod]

lol... YUP!

Lol...nope...I don't want a woman to dominate me sexually, I want one who aggressively seeks to bottom.

However, I will admit to having a weakness for giving nice, full-body massages...

[VictoriaVeil]

works for me. love men giving me massages.... ;)

[blackchubby38]

Which do you prefer in your tgirls?

Dominant.

Long before I started seeing genetic girl pro dommes, I had always been a bottom to t-girls.

One of my fantasies is to have a double session with a genetic girl and a transsexual.

[nysprod]

works for me. love men giving me massages.... ;)

I don't see my giving a massage as a fem dom thing necessarily...i actually tend to defer to women, but I also know when to take the reins...

[LilyRox]

I think most guys that aren't in touch with reality expect transsexuals to be tops just from watching fake mainstream porn. In most porn they have this concept that transsexuals want to top and fuck every guy with their girlcock, mainly because the main thing that makes us unique is our cock. Most transsexuals start out as being bottoms to pursue the typical role like most females do.


I would also say that most transsexual tops switched over to topping just because they get used to having guys that want to bottom. Transsexuals are just girls with cocks guys. Topping is typically a masculine thing, just look at the animal kingdom. I'm personally a bottom.

[nysprod]

I think most guys that aren't in touch with reality expect transsexuals to be tops just from watching fake mainstream porn. In most porn they have this concept that transsexuals want to top and fuck every guy with their girlcock, mainly because the main thing that makes us unique is our cock. Most transsexuals start out as being bottoms to pursue the typical role like most females do.


I would also say that most transsexual tops switched over to topping just because they get used to having guys that want to bottom. Transsexuals are just girls with cocks guys. Topping is typically a masculine thing, just look at the animal kingdom. I'm personally a bottom.

And a VERY cute one at that...

[Rabbiteyes]

I think most guys that aren't in touch with reality expect transsexuals to be tops just from watching fake mainstream porn. In most porn they have this concept that transsexuals want to top and fuck every guy with their girlcock, mainly because the main thing that makes us unique is our cock. Most transsexuals start out as being bottoms to pursue the typical role like most females do.


I would also say that most transsexual tops switched over to topping just because they get used to having guys that want to bottom. Transsexuals are just girls with cocks guys. Topping is typically a masculine thing, just look at the animal kingdom. I'm personally a bottom.


Yup, and also...

If a trans women IS a top, in my experience, chances are she will be into girls. lol

[Jericho]

How do you prefer trans women to act?Do as i say, and let me got to asleep after I'm done! :shrug

Christ, if only! :whistle:

[fivekatz]

There is a third possibility where both partners take their turns at being aggressive, personally I enjoy it when a GG takes the initiative and rides on top. My preference is for very free, open and wildly sexual partners and great sex does not have to conclude with a screwing.

But it does seem to me the majority of girls prefer bottom but in porn world and escort world tops seem to be the dominant factors.

It would be a better world if we all didn't give a shit what anybody did except the one you are with.

[Amy Gray]

I confess I like it "every which way but loose."

Jeeze, give me a break already. I told you I'm doing exercises to tighten back up. :mad:

[Amy Gray]

Most transsexuals start out as being bottoms to pursue the typical role like most females do.

That's not my experience at all. Personally, I enjoy topping even more than I enjoy bottoming. I couldn't care less about typical female roles, for me, sex is about feeling good and making my partner(s) feel good, not getting hung up on what a girl would do.

[BellaBellucci]

The results of this poll are shocking.

OK, not really. This is the #1 site for closeted gay males on the internet after all.

You know what else is shocking? I'm submissive in bed, even as I'm dominant pretty much everywhere else. Some kinksters have decided to label my 'type' recently: submissive alpha female. Google it! <3

~BB~

[robertlouis]

Passive in the sexual sense but not necessarily submissive, I guess. It's a very interesting question, as we've come to expect from the fabulous Amy. And the girls like Lily and Rabbit Eyes who are not involved in porn are the ones that echo my experience. If a girl in transition intends to go as far as she can, up to and including srs then she'll usually prefer to take the woman's role in sex too.

[LilyRox]

Passive in the sexual sense but not necessarily submissive, I guess. It's a very interesting question, as we've come to expect from the fabulous Amy. And the girls like Lily and Rabbit Eyes who are not involved in porn are the ones that echo my experience. If a girl in transition intends to go as far as she can, up to and including srs then she'll usually prefer to take the woman's role in sex too.

Yeah if I was doing porn it would be totally be opposite. I would quickly get used to being a Mistress and punishing bad boys :P

[Amy Gray]

This is the #1 site for closeted gay males on the internet after all.

:hide-1: I've been discovered! Was it my ascot that gave me away?

[nysprod]

The results of this poll are shocking.

OK, not really. This is the #1 site for closeted gay males on the internet after all.

~BB~

If you guys who want to bottom for a TS ever had any doubts about how trans women see you, consider the matter settled.

[nysprod]

Yeah if I was doing porn it would be totally be opposite. I would quickly get used to being a Mistress and punishing bad boys :P

Why is that?

[BellaBellucci]

If you guys who want to bottom for a TS ever had any doubts about how trans women see you, consider the matter settled.

Is that supposed to 'expose' me or something? :lol:

~BB~

[robertlouis]

Why is that?

Duhh...

[LilyRox]

Why is that?

Because that's what a lot of porn is like xD

and money ;)

[nysprod]

Duhh...

Well, IDK all that much about how much money a girl can make topping men in porn vs. being a bottom. Actually, I don't know anything about guys bottoming at all.


Because that's what a lot of porn is like xD

and money ;)

I know about TS Seduction although I've never watched any...I'm mostly into the ladyboy scene where you almost never see guys topped.

I do remember a poll here which indicated guys have a preference for topping scenes by about 60/40, so really I would say a versatile girl would have the highest earning potential.

But I'm no expert on this.

[LilyRox]

Yes, BDSM TS domination pays good ;).

TS seduction and TS pussy hunters are very popular from kink

[robertlouis]

Yes, BDSM TS domination pays good ;).

TS seduction and TS pussy hunters are very popular from kink


True, and I know a few professional dommes who prefer to bottom in their private lives.

[nysprod]

True, and I know a few professional dommes who prefer to bottom in their private lives.

The vast majority of trans women prefer to bottom in their private lives...they're women, afterall...


Yes, BDSM TS domination pays good ;).

TS seduction and TS pussy hunters are very popular from kink

Pussy hunters is hot...TS seduction I have zero use for.

[Ben]

Which do you prefer in your tgirls?

Dominant. :)

[BellaBellucci]

the vast majority of trans women prefer to bottom in their private lives...they're women, afterall...

Pussy hunters is hot...ts seduction i have zero use for.

Qft.

~BB~

[robertlouis]

Not surprised that the voting shows a majority in favour of dominant girls given the general bias on the forum, but I am surprised that it's running at more than 2.5 to 1

[LilyRox]

Yeah lol. I always think it feels gay to dominant a guy with my girlcock. I really don't care to do it. I would only do it for pay or someone special ;)

[robertlouis]

Yeah lol. I always think it feels gay to dominant a guy with my girlcock. I really don't care to do it. I would only do it for pay or someone special ;)

I'm intrigued by that, Lily. Are you saying that you would do it for someone special even though you don't necessarily like doing it?

[nysprod]

Not surprised that the voting shows a majority in favour of dominant girls given the general bias on the forum, but I am surprised that it's running at more than 2.5 to 1

Actually 1.5/1

[LilyRox]

Yes, for the right man if he liked being dominated ^.^


I'm intrigued by that, Lily. Are you saying that you would do it for someone special even though you don't necessarily like doing it?

[nysprod]

Yeah lol. I always think it feels gay to dominant a guy with my girlcock. I really don't care to do it. I would only do it for pay or someone special ;)

Any other ladies care to follow up on this?

[nysprod]

Yes, for the right man if he liked being dominated ^.^

But would you want a steady diet of it? What if the guy never wanted to top? What would make "the right man"?

[Ben]

Any other ladies care to follow up on this?

What about a poll... no pun intended -- :)
Because I'm guessing it's the majority....

[LilyRox]

But would you want a steady diet of it? What if the guy never wanted to top? What would make "the right man"?

Maybe just once in a while. All the guys I been with so far have been top or vers. If he's vers and wanted nice night I would. xD you just know ;P

[broncofan]

But would you want a steady diet of it? What if the guy never wanted to top? What would make "the right man"?
A poll is preferable because then people can vote their genuine preferences instead of expressing those they think most will agree with.

The reason I say this is because the votes are telling a very different story from the posts;).

[nysprod]

Maybe just once in a while. All the guys I been with so far have been top or vers. If he's vers and wanted nice night I would. xD you just know ;P

How about if a guy is top only but likes giving you head? Does that feel gay to you or is it something you like? Or is it just something you'd do with the right guy?

Talking about in your personal life...BTW, I know what you mean by "you just know".

[robertlouis]

A poll is preferable because then people can vote their genuine preferences instead of expressing those they think most will agree with.

The reason I say this is because the votes are telling a very different story from the posts;).

Lurkers?

That said, the silent majority on HA, and occasionally the vocal majority too, appear to be bottoms. Not my thing, but it's how it is.

But this has been an interesting and revealing discussion. Thanks for kicking it off, Amy.

[Amy Gray]

A poll is preferable because then people can vote their genuine preferences instead of expressing those they think most will agree with.

And it's well known that I'm always happy to give men a pole... er, poll

[broncofan]

Lurkers?

That said, the silent majority on HA, and occasionally the vocal majority too, appear to be bottoms. Not my thing, but it's how it is.

But this has been an interesting and revealing discussion. Thanks for kicking it off, Amy.
Yeah, I guess it's unlikely someone would vote one thing and post another so it must be those who have said nothing.

[LilyRox]

How about if a guy is top only but likes giving you head? Does that feel gay to you or is it something you like? Or is it just something you'd do with the right guy?

Talking about in your personal life...BTW, I know what you mean by "you just know".

No, I love that. Laying back while he sucks on it. I just don't like giving a guy anal, that's a big no no.

[nysprod]

No, I love that. Laying back while he sucks on it. I just don't like giving a guy anal, that's a big no no.

How about a nice massage with the lights low and some music on...feeling a guy's strong hands working some lotion into your body...then he kisses your neck and slowly works down to your ass before turning you over and sucking it nice for you...until just before you cum...then he takes you, slowly at first, building into something that gets stronger and stronger until you explode...

[LilyRox]

Mmm god yes I love having it sucked. I also love having oil massaged all over my girlcock before I explode thick cum!

[pacman1994]

I'd do it ;)

[nysprod]

Mmm god yes I love having it sucked. I also love having oil massaged all over my girlcock before I explode thick cum!

Or how about just having your panties ripped off and being taken into the garage for a hard fuck like a little slut...

[LilyRox]

Yes... I like that mmm...

[pacman1994]

Yes... I like that mmm...

You think you can handle this? bahahahaha

[nysprod]

Yes... I like that mmm...

Bent over the car with your legs spread and your hands behind your back...fucked just like the bad little girl you are...

[robertlouis]

Or how about just having your panties ripped off and being taken into the garage for a hard fuck like a little slut...

The GARAGE, Prod?

And there I was thinking you were a sophisticated man of the world....:whistle:

[LilyRox]

Bent over the car with your legs spread and your hands behind your back...fucked just like the bad little girl you are...

Oh yes sluts get dealt with in the garage.

Mhmm my girlcock would be bouncing up and down while you fuck my tight ass as I can't move. I would be moaning so loud.

[nysprod]

Oh yes sluts get dealt with in the garage.

Mhmm my girlcock would be bouncing up and down while you fuck my tight ass as I can't move. I would be moaning so loud.


I love you LilyRox!!

[robertlouis]

Oh yes sluts get dealt with in the garage.

Mhmm my girlcock would be bouncing up and down while you fuck my tight ass as I can't move. I would be moaning so loud.


But if you did it on the bonnet of the car, or, as you guys say, the hood, it takes forever and a whole bottle of T-Cut (how appropriate! :dancing: ) to get the cums stains off the paint.....

[nysprod]

But if you did it on the bonnet of the car, or, as you guys say, the hood, it takes forever and a whole bottle of T-Cut (how appropriate! :dancing: ) to get the cums stains off the paint.....

You'll just have to use a bit more elbow grease, Robert, while Lily and I relax with some electronic cigarettes...

[Amy Gray]

I never get fucked in the garage like a slut. :(

[robertlouis]

You'll just have to use a bit more elbow grease, Robert, while Lily and I relax with some electronic cigarettes...

Elbow grease?

Do you mean this? :jerkoff:jerkoff:jerkoff

[Prospero]

Amy, I guess your guys don't have garages - just cars in pieces around their trailers?

[robertlouis]

I never get fucked in the garage like a slut. :(


So, let me get this straight.

You DO get fucked in the garage, but not as a slut?

[Prospero]

Shouldn't all this be be in the "my favourite car" thread?

[robertlouis]

I never get fucked in the garage like a slut. :(

Or alternatively, you DO get fucked as a slut, but never in a garage?

[robertlouis]

Shouldn't all this be be in the "my favourite car" thread?



Since you asked.....

[Amy Gray]

Amy, I guess your guys don't have garages - just cars in pieces around their trailers?

Well bless your heart darlin'. I don't care what people say, you're just as sweet as rhubarb pie. And don't you fret yourself none hun, I hear lady's are more interested in a man's personality than his looks anyways so you should have them just lining up!

[Amy Gray]

Or alternatively, you DO get fucked as a slut, but never in a garage?

They never even let me inside the house. They're always worried I might track something in. :(

[Prospero]

Sweet lady Gray.... my looks take care of themselves...

[Amy Gray]

Sweet lady Gray.... my looks take care of themselves...

Be still my beating heart! Next you're going to tell me you've got the biggest trailer in the park and set my loins all aquiver. Why, you wouldn't happen to be interested in inviting me back for a hot tub party?

http://www.bullfrogspas.com/hot-tub-blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/image.png

[Prospero]

awww Amy ... i never take a bath. It's not healthy to get all that water on me...

Here is a song all about me

The Byrds / Drug Store Truck Drivin&#39; Man (Boston Tea Party) - YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzBeV7l8bnY)

[robertlouis]

Be still my beating heart! Next you're going to tell me you've got the biggest trailer in the park and set my loins all aquiver. Why, you wouldn't happen to be interested in inviting me back for a hot tub party?





Be warned, Amy. You've heard of chavs, right?

Well, the first pic is Prospero, the second is his wheels and the third is his homies. But it's your call.....

[Prospero]

and the real Robert louis after a gig... with a soft drink instead of his characteristic bottle of Thunderbird

[Amy Gray]

Don't you eurosissies go bad talking the US of A! If there's two things we know how to do in Amerika it's Jesus and assault rifles! So don't fuck with us because we've got a lot of guns and we're stupid enough to use them.

http://www.theblaze.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/santa-and-machine-guns-portrait-1.jpg

http://brojsimpson.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/gun-christmas.jpg

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fp2MDnu39Pw/Tf3seTh-r5I/AAAAAAAARQA/moPlnhXU118/s400/Redneck-Gun-Twirl.gif

[Prospero]

Don't underestimate the brits Ms Gray....

[Amy Gray]

Don't underestimate the brits Ms Gray....

We already know how to disarm a man who attacks us with a banana so I'm not all that worried.

Btw, I would like to state for the record that sluts don't get fucked in garages, you'll never get rid of the smell of cum.

[robertlouis]

and the real Robert louis after a gig... with a soft drink instead of his characteristic bottle of Thunderbird


Well, the real pic in the avatar gives the lie to that, smartypants.

Now who's the weirdy beardy in your pic?

And it isn't Thunderbird, FFS. I'm a Glaswegian. It's Buckfast ya mug ye.

[Prospero]

How do we know the pic in your avatar is real, McHoots?

The weirdy beardy is the great writer Doestoevsky. Have you heard of him perhaps?

[robertlouis]

We already know how to disarm a man who attacks us with a banana so I'm not all that worried.




And don't forget the genius who came up with the shoe bomb and has us all queuing for hours in airports was a Brit.

Makes one proud. *sniff*

[robertlouis]

How do we know the pic in your avatar is real, McHoots?

The weirdy beardy is the great writer Doestoevsky. Have you heard of him perhaps?

Because you've met me, ya bamstick.

And yes, Brothers Karaoke, wasn't it?

[Prospero]

It is a rumour spread around town that Robert louis and I are familiar with one another. I disown this rumour as a scurrilous fact.

[robertlouis]

Btw, I would like to state for the record that sluts don't get fucked in garages, you'll never get rid of the smell of cum.

You guys have this stuff?

[robertlouis]

It is a rumour spread around town that Robert louis and I are familiar with one another. I disown this rumour as a scurrilous fact.

Scurrilous, but a fact nonetheless.

Petard time..... :whistle:

[Amy Gray]

It is a rumour spread around town that Robert louis and I are familiar with one another. I disown this rumour as a scurrilous fact.

Personally, I think you two make an adorable couple. So which one of you is the top?

[Gillian]

I don't trust anyone's avatars any more ... ;)

http://img155.imageshack.us/img155/6127/mbie3lfsjivreeb5296791.jpg

[robertlouis]

I don't trust anyone's avatars any more ... ;)

http://img155.imageshack.us/img155/6127/mbie3lfsjivreeb5296791.jpg

Fuckin' 'ell.

You've got a long memory. :party:

Yep, that IS Ian Ogilvy playing guitar.

[Prospero]

Personally, I think you two make an adorable couple. So which one of you is the top?

You're the top!
You're the Coliseum.
You're the top!
You're the Louvre Museum.
You're a melody from a symphony by Strauss
You're a Bendel bonnet,
A Shakespeare's sonnet,
You're Mickey Mouse.
You're the Nile,
You're the Tower of Pisa,
You're the smile on the Mona Lisa
I'm a worthless check, a total wreck, a flop,
But if, baby, I'm the bottom you're the top

Couldn't resist.....

[gaysian71]

I prefer a strong dominant aggressive woman. I even took the plunge one again and hooked up with Ednita when she was in sf a couple weeks ago. Every time I see her it is a very memorable meeting. She is very strong, very dominant and very aggressive.

[robertlouis]

Personally, I think you two make an adorable couple. So which one of you is the top?

Hmm, I bottom for no one, babe.

And in answer to your next question, not that either. Prospero's not my type.

[Jericho]

Hmm, I bottom for no one, babe.

And in answer to your next question, not that either. Prospero's not my type.


Yeah...We've all had those morning after regrets! :shrug
Still,... Tub of Swarfega! :hide-1:

[Prospero]

The singer fellow is not my type either (as a fellow to share a drink with yes... he is good company) but in terms of getting naked to have fun... A MEGA BIG NO

[TempestTS]

hmmm let me think on that a while Im not really sure

[Jericho]

Owwwwwwwwwwww...Fuck NO!

[Stefani_Special]

Both! Versatile Switch girls are the best! Hands down...period. :-P

[NorCalJason]

Strong aggressive girls who become submissive after they start being dominated! Now that's my type:whistle:

[LilyRox]

Wow O.O

Strong, dominant, and aggressive. 67 votes
Submissive and passive. 23 votes

Sounds like lots of submissive boys ;P

[Stefani_Special]

Wow O.O

Strong, dominant, and aggressive. 67 votes
Submissive and passive. 23 votes

Sounds like lots of submissive boys ;P

Exactly! Lol

There's just a bunch of boys that want hard tranny cock up their asses who polled here. Don't misunderstand "Domme" for a "Top" boys! You get more than you bargained for that way! Possibly more than you can handle. Lmfao :-P

-Stefani

[joeninety]

Always been a Dominant kind of guy at heart, although I generally I have a mutual respect versatile attitude, but I met a girl recently who was very Dominant and I have got to say she has shifted my outlook somewhat!

[sdc1989]

I'm vers I suppose. I top for the most part, but I'm open to about anything if the mood and the person is right. Some girls I like to see in a dominant position, others passive. I guess I don't see sex as so simple that it fits into an either/or, active/passive, top or you're a closeted gay male dichotomy.

[ZELLGADISS]

I love dominant tgirl with big cock