My sexual orientation?

[Yummster]

Hey,

I'm rather confused here when it comes to my sexual orientation. I'm a 22 year old man who normally have sex with women, and I normally only date women. But sometimes I get damn turned on by seeing a woman with a dick. I'm never attracted to men, and i'm only into woman and shemales.

I'm like 90% hetero and 10% into shemales, what kind of sexual orientation is that going to be called? I'm not fully bisexual

[GrimFusion]

Hey,

I'm rather confused here when it comes to my sexual orientation. I'm a 22 year old man who normally have sex with women, and I normally only date women. But sometimes I get damn turned on by seeing a woman with a dick. I'm never attracted to men, and i'm only into woman and shemales.

I'm like 90% hetero and 10% into shemales, what kind of sexual orientation is that going to be called? I'm not fully bisexual

Should it matter? So long as you know what you like, it's not as if you need to broadcast it to everyone. Just be yourself, and if that means liking transsexuals 10% of the time, so be it.

[Samantha]

Hey,

I'm rather confused here when it comes to my sexual orientation. I'm a 22 year old man who normally have sex with women, and I normally only date women. But sometimes I get damn turned on by seeing a woman with a dick. I'm never attracted to men, and i'm only into woman and shemales.

I'm like 90% hetero and 10% into shemales, what kind of sexual orientation is that going to be called? I'm not fully bisexual

Ask ten people and you'll get plenty of different interpretations. A lot of people will say that if you're a human being that was born with a penis and you like other human beings that were born with a penis, that makes you gay no matter what (or bisexual in your case).

Many others (myself included) will say that to be a gay or bisexual man you have to like the features typically associated with men. Personally I very much disagree with the opinion in paragraph #1 - because how "straight" would it be for an ordinary man to have sex with a female to male (especially one that looks totally like another guy).

Others might say that liking TS might make you a bit queer (not the same as gay) or have a bit of a fetish (especially if you have an overwhelming desire for TS women). In your case, since you're mostly into GGs you might just be looking at attractive women and be able to forgive a strangely misaligned body. It's like that for me too - a hot girl is a hot girl, it doesn't matter what's between her legs.

Either label yourself as you wish or just be happy as you are. If someone disagrees with how you view yourself - fuck them, they're probably an idiot anyways.

[Yummster]

Hey,

I'm rather confused here when it comes to my sexual orientation. I'm a 22 year old man who normally have sex with women, and I normally only date women. But sometimes I get damn turned on by seeing a woman with a dick. I'm never attracted to men, and i'm only into woman and shemales.

I'm like 90% hetero and 10% into shemales, what kind of sexual orientation is that going to be called? I'm not fully bisexualDo you find some comfort in putting that 10% label on it? Do you feel like that absolves you of being a "queer"? Because the minute you're jerking off to shemale porn, it's actually more like 100%. ;)

The fact that you would even care at all implies you're homophobic in the classic sense (the fear of being, or being perceived as, a homosexual). But that other label you're looking for dosen't exist yet. So now what?

Well I am not homophobic at all;) I have fiends who's gay too. But i'm never really attracted to men.

What I meant about that 100 and 10% label was to point out that i'm most likely into women and I want to settle down with a female too. It's just that I find very good looking shemales beautiful at times. And I most of the time jek off watching women.

Anyway, this is something i won't boadcast to my fiends etc and it's ok to stay anonymous about it.

[Onyx]

what if.... what if you're gay!?

[chefmike]

It has been a few days since our last "Am I gay" thread...it was only a matter of time....

[Yummster]

It has been a few days since our last "Am I gay" thread...it was only a matter of time....

Well I know for sure that i'm not gay;) I was experimenting with different things in my teenages and I was uncomfortable with a guy, I didn't feel that sexual thing.

It came some pretty good arguments above, so I guess i'll start worrying less and focuse on whatever i'm comfortable sexually which for now is woman.

[BeardedOne]

Wait for it...

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:lol:

[Onyx]

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this emoticon lmao

[Yummster]

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:lol:

I just think that some shemales are good looking physically, woman can still think that woman is good looking without being lesbian? and guys can think other guys look good without really feeling any specific sexual attraction to men and still not be gay.

[Onyx]

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:lol:

I just think that some shemales are good looking physically, woman can still think that woman is good looking without being lesbian? and guys can think other guys look good without really feeling any specific sexual attraction to men and still not be gay.

the point is you came to this forum and registered lol

[Yummster]

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:lol:

I just think that some shemales are good looking physically, woman can still think that woman is good looking without being lesbian? and guys can think other guys look good without really feeling any specific sexual attraction to men and still not be gay.

the point is you came to this forum and registered lol

Well I was asking for serious and objective opinions related the this subject, and wonder what to be called when guys are into shemales and woman ONLY. Not to be made fun of.

[Yummster]

Well I was asking for serious and objective opinions related the this subject, and wonder what to be called when guys are into shemales and woman ONLY. Not to be made fun of.Hey. I've got this crazy idea... Why don't you just not give a shit what you are? :D

hehe good point;)

[BeardedOne]

Well I was asking for serious and objective opinions related the this subject, and wonder what to be called when guys are into shemales and woman ONLY. Not to be made fun of.

Don't worry too much about it. This place is chock full o' wiseasses (And soft asses, and jiggly asses...*Ahem* Where was I?).

Seriously, how about "A guy that likes shemales"? Works for me. :)

[Yummster]

Well I was asking for serious and objective opinions related the this subject, and wonder what to be called when guys are into shemales and woman ONLY. Not to be made fun of.

Don't worry too much about it. This place is chock full o' wiseasses (And soft asses, and jiggly asses...*Ahem* Where was I?).

Seriously, how about "A guy that likes shemales"? Works for me. :)

Yeah, a small part of me thinks some of them looks good and that's it;) btw, I do have a gf and i'm pretty happy with her:)

[ARMANIXXX]

You're goin straight to hell with the rest of us Yummster :lol:

[chefmike]

Wait for it...

Wait for it...

Almost there...

Here it is! :claps

:lol:

about time...were you taking your two hour break...as Newman would say... :wink:

[scipio]

I can't believe we've gone several days without an "am i gay?' or "what's my orientation?" thread.

Hey man, if you want to be 10% into TS and 90% into GG, then that's your orientation (although how you got the percentages I wonder). You'll have to come up with your own label though --

how about "Ten Persexual"
or "Tenthsexual"
or "Decisexual"

please.

[BeardedOne]

You're goin straight to hell with the rest of us Yummster :lol:

:lol:

BTDT, most refer to it as my last 'relationship'. :P


about time...were you taking your two hour break...as Newman would say...

Oh, so now it's about my damn job, eh? :x

As Pratchet would say: Neither rain. nor snow, nor glom of nit... :lol:


Yeah, a small part of me thinks some of them looks good and that's it;) btw, I do have a gf and i'm pretty happy with her:)

Yah, I had one of those...Well...A lot of those. :roll: The last one had these cool nipple rings, but she was a psycho just like all the rest. *Sigh* :smh

True, there's a lot of fine-ass T-gurls out there. Bonus points if they're sharp as a whip. :D

[ezed]

Yeah, a small part of me thinks some of them looks good and that's it;) btw, I do have a gf and i'm pretty happy with her:)

Does that "small part" of you get larger when you do? Also, have you experimented with a tgirl? If not, I would not go buying a wedding ring just yet until you have (you'll always be coming here and taking a peek. And be wondering...."I wonder....?") If after being with a beautiful tgirl, you can pull up your pants and walk out of the room and say to yourself as you drive home...Nah! that sucked,why the fuck did I do that ...then head over to Tiffiney's and get that ring ... or wait until you've sampled a lot of gf's.

However, if within a week you're saying....fuck, I wanna do that again....

Why the fuck are you worried about being gay in this day in age..according to the TV's and the movies, it's the latest fad! Nobody give a shit anymore. What do you think you are? Is it a problem?

I myself LOVE TGIRLS! I fucking love them! Am I gay? (Here we go again! Back off you religious fanatics!) NOT IN MY SOFTBALL SIZE BRAIN! To me, they're like Christmas...OH LOOK, A FUCKING DROP DEAD GORGEOUS GIRL WITH A JOYSTICK! I KNOW HOW TO WORK ONE OF THOSE THINGS, (I GOT ONE MYSELF!). AND SHE'S A HOTSHIT TO BOOT!!!!!

And to ease your conscience, if Jake or the other guy from Brokeback, approched me and said "Aren't you cold?" I'd say "Get lost, fuck face".

So you see I'm not gay! But there's nothing like a hot hard one on a beautiful girl...As the Joker said .... "Where did he/she get all those wonderful toys?"

Dr. Malfi

That will be three dollars!

[Onyx]

Yeah, a small part of me thinks some of them looks good and that's it;) btw, I do have a gf and i'm pretty happy with her:)

Does that "small part" of you get larger when you do? Also, have you experimented with a tgirl? If not, I would not go buying a wedding ring just yet until you have (you'll always be coming here and taking a peek. And be wondering...."I wonder....?") If after being with a beautiful tgirl, you can pull up your pants and walk out of the room and say to yourself as you drive home...Nah! that sucked,why the fuck did I do that ...then head over to Tiffiney's and get that ring ... or wait until you've sampled a lot of gf's.

However, if within a week you're saying....fuck, I wanna do that again....

Why the fuck are you worried about being gay in this day in age..according to the TV's and the movies, it's the latest fad! Nobody give a shit anymore. What do you think you are? Is it a problem?

I myself LOVE TGIRLS! I fucking love them! Am I gay? (Here we go again! Back off you religious fanatics!) NOT IN MY SOFTBALL SIZE BRAIN! To me, they're like Christmas...OH LOOK, A FUCKING DROP DEAD GORGEOUS GIRL WITH A JOYSTICK! I KNOW HOW TO WORK ONE OF THOSE THINGS, (I GOT ONE MYSELF!). AND SHE'S A HOTSHIT TO BOOT!!!!!

And to ease your conscience, if Jake or the other guy from Brokeback, approched me and said "Aren't you cold?" I'd say "Get lost, fuck face".

So you see I'm not gay! But there's nothing like a hot hard one on a beautiful girl...As the Joker said .... "Where did he/she get all those wonderful toys?"

Dr. Malfi

That will be three dollars!

If you're a guy, and you like dicks, you are gay. I didn't know there was a way to circumvent that rule.

[plainBob]

So.......what does it mean if you like to roll around in a big bowl of jello naked??

[Onyx]

So.......what does it mean if you like to roll around in a big bowl of jello naked??

it mean's you're really weird

[plainBob]

I'll remember to tell my mother that. I dam near went blind when i walked in on her doing that last weekend... i neeed to get my own washer and dryer.

[ezed]

[If you're a guy, and you like dicks, you are gay. I didn't know there was a way to circumvent that rule.

Yeah there is...it's rule 453. It's the sippy straw adendumn to the House Ways and Means Committee Bill. Everybody knows that!

[thmack]

Hey,

I'm rather confused here when it comes to my sexual orientation. I'm a 22 year old man who normally have sex with women, and I normally only date women. But sometimes I get damn turned on by seeing a woman with a dick. I'm never attracted to men, and i'm only into woman and shemales.

I'm like 90% hetero and 10% into shemales, what kind of sexual orientation is that going to be called? I'm not fully bisexual

Ask ten people and you'll get plenty of different interpretations. A lot of people will say that if you're a human being that was born with a penis and you like other human beings that were born with a penis, that makes you gay no matter what (or bisexual in your case).

Many others (myself included) will say that to be a gay or bisexual man you have to like the features typically associated with men. Personally I very much disagree with the opinion in paragraph #1 - because how "straight" would it be for an ordinary man to have sex with a female to male (especially one that looks totally like another guy).

Others might say that liking TS might make you a bit queer (not the same as gay) or have a bit of a fetish (especially if you have an overwhelming desire for TS women). In your case, since you're mostly into GGs you might just be looking at attractive women and be able to forgive a strangely misaligned body. It's like that for me too - a hot girl is a hot girl, it doesn't matter what's between her legs.

Either label yourself as you wish or just be happy as you are. If someone disagrees with how you view yourself - fuck them, they're probably an idiot anyways.

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fucking brilliant

[Yummster]

I love it when people come here and act like they're the last bastion of sexual normalacy.

We're not 100% straight (whatever that means)
We're not 100% gay either (don't know the lyrics to I will survive)

Listen: YOU'RE NOT GAY FOR LIKING T-GIRLS!

You're attracted to the kink of a chick with a dick that's all.

Yeah you understand my point of view, it's the kink that's kind of exciting. But that's the kink only, personally I would go for a girl to settle down with. Well anyway, I think you gave me the best point of view til now together with Samantha. Anyway, it made me be a bit calmer about the situation.

END OF DISCUSSION

[trestokk]

Its as simple as this:

Are you attracted to guys?

Yes: You are gay/bi

No: You are not gay/bi

It shouldn't matter if you're into dicks, because how can you be gay/bi if you're not attracted to men?

[Vicki Richter]

How does this fucking topic get 4 pages of responses again... for the 1000th time. C'mon this is trolling plain and simple. There are dozens of these same topics posted on here. Why do you guys come out of the woodwork to respond to this instead of the meaningful posts on here? Anyone who has been here 2 months will see this cycle repeated over and over.

[JohnnyVee]

I've seen this debate many times here, but since I was only a spectator, I guess now I'll throw my 2 cents worth (not that it's worth that much)

I spent my early life being "normal" / straight. After experimenting, I convinced myself that I was bi-sexual. I was / I am attracted to GG but also T-girls. I had relationships (GG / TG) without have my "whole heart" in it. Fear of being tagged gay really ruined some chances I had.

Finally being in a GG relationship where we became very close and talked of marriage I had to be honest with her and as important, with myself.

Its more than just sex, it's something in me that says this feels right for me -- to with share myself with a T-Girl. As some T-Girls are happy with being themsleves, I see myself comfortable with being attracted to T-Girls.

It's not an easy truth to accept as it's difficult (yes -- much more hard for TG -- I know), but now I no longer tell myself the lies. It's not a choice, it's who I am.

Am I gay -- label me as you want. We're all individuals -- straight or gay, but I'm much more than a label.

[Onyx]

so what if i like a girl with a penis and vagina and I a hybrid sexuallity if so whats it called