your opinion counts;this handsome white male works at a gay club

[natina]

your opinion counts;this handsome white male works at a gay club

as a bartender and he tells me he is perfectly straight

he was very clean look in appearance like a twink

not any visible body hair,young and handsome and ripped

SHOULD I BELIEVE HIM?


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twink_(gay_slang)

[robertlouis]

Ummmm......

[danthepoetman]

I hate juging people from the outside, Natina, but I share your doubts... He's indeed "clean look in appearance like a twink"...
Don't let yourself be fooled. Be careful! ;)

[Quiet Reflections]

I hate juging people from the outside, Natina, but I share your doubts... He's indeed "clean look in appearance like a twink"...
Don't let yourself be fooled. Be careful! ;)
she didn't post a picture of the guy

[Quiet Reflections]

Gay bars hire just like regular bars, If I'm a bartender that needs a job then why not work at a gay bar. It is ridiculous to think that an employee of a gay establishment can't be straight especially when the job doesn't call for sex. I guess no gay people work at straight clubs. I guess no gay guys wear shitty flannel shirts and facial hair and look like burly straight guys..........oh wait there is an entire group with their own fuzzy friendly name. Looking a certain way doesn't make you that way and people are not their jobs. AND people that live off tips work where people tip good, If someone can make drinks with no shirt on and pay his bills without having to get physical then that doesn't automatically make him gay....just smart.

[natina]

yeah I know about the BEAR culture & BEAR flag

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bear_flag_(gay_culture)


http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/e/ec/Gay_bear_flag_in_action_bristol.jpeg

http://fc01.deviantart.net/fs22/f/2007/359/4/e/Bear_Community_Flag_by_MEMDB.jpg

[danthepoetman]

she didn't post a picture of the guy
Oh! I see. But who's the guy on the pictures? And why these pictures?

[Quiet Reflections]

Oh! I see. But who's the guy on the pictures? And why these pictures?
just a random picture to get a reaction

[natina]

I was giving an example of his look since I will not post his photo on a TS site or pornography website

[danthepoetman]

I see.
In the end, Natina, if you see that he doesn't want anything from you, and especially not money, you might start to trust him... I see no other reason why he would lie to you if he doesn't expect anything from you...

[LilyRox]

Why does it matter if he's gay?

[Tiffany Anne]

He may be straight now, but one night, his car won't start and then boom, gay city! (Unless stories on Literotica are lying to me, that is)

[Ananke]

Don't make assumptions, I suppose, but we all do anyway!

[LilyRox]

Straight guys do gay porn, so I don't see the big surprise of a straight bartender at a gay bar. As far as him looking "twink", that's probably a plus at a gay bar, regardless of his sexual orientation.

[danthepoetman]

I think -I don't know, and I was waiting for Natina to answer herself-, but I thought that Natina meant that this guy wanted some kind of relationship with her, but that she was sceptic about his truthfulness... So what does it matter if he's gay? Absolutely nothing for us. But if he's lying to Natina, it's something else.
But in life, you have to take risks and jump into some adventures sometimes...

[LilyRox]

I've heard that some transsexuals go to gay bars on a regular basis to get into a relationship with guys. Though some gay guys aren't interested in transsexuals, I heard Carmen Carrera talk about going to gay bars and meeting new guys before. Though I'm not attracted to gay guys, if you love him it shouldn't matter if he's gay as long as he loves you.

[maddygirl]

I've heard that some transsexuals go to gay bars on a regular basis to get into a relationship with guys. Though some gay guys aren't interested in transsexuals, I heard Carmen Carrera talk about going to gay bars and meeting new guys before. Though I'm not attracted to gay guys, if you love him it shouldn't matter if he's gay as long as he loves you.
If he's gay he's not going to love a transsexual, lol. Unless he's viewing her as another man... and I'm fairly certain she wouldn't appreciate that.

[Ms.Stepford]

I don't really think my opinion on this matter does count for anything...

[LilyRox]

If he's gay he's not going to love a transsexual, lol. Unless he's viewing her as another man... and I'm fairly certain she wouldn't appreciate that.

Not true. I've heard of some gay guys who hooked up with transsexuals before. There is still a strong belief to some people (even to some transsexuals that they are gay). Nothing is limited and everyone is entitled to what they're attracted to. The fundamentals of the gay/lesbian orientation was mostly based on the principles of cis women/men. Transsexuals is sometimes an unknown area for some people.

[Ben in LA]

There was a guy like that who used to work at Cobra (which is usually a gay bar). I knew he was straight because he introduced me to his wife when I saw him out and about one time...and yes, she knew about the club.

[francisfkudrow]

Our local gay bar has some straight customers, folks who got bored with the other downtown bars, so it stands to reason that if you are a bartender by trade, and you'd go there as a customer, why wouldn't you also work there?

[maddygirl]

Not true. I've heard of some gay guys who hooked up with transsexuals before. There is still a strong belief to some people (even to some transsexuals that they are gay). Nothing is limited and everyone is entitled to what they're attracted to. The fundamentals of the gay/lesbian orientation was mostly based on the principles of cis women/men. Transsexuals is sometimes an unknown area for some people.
I really don't understand this at all. Even when I was pre-op I wouldn't have considered dating a gay man and never had a gay man even show interest in me. Why would you want to date someone who is only interested in men? So he can discredit everything about you and who you are, and view you as a man? But, it "doesn't matter because he loves you." That makes very little sense to me. Then again, I've never seen myself as anything but a woman with a defect, and I don't personally understand that mindset, but if both individuals are happy in the relationship, go for it. Just giving my thoughts on it.