First time.. advice & recommendations?

[farvahar]

I'm 21 years old, I have a pretty active sex life, never had problems with getting with girls and I don't find anything about men attractive at all, it has never even crossed my mind and I see myself as a straight male.

I came across some shemale porn few months back and since then these TS girls have been stock in my head :jerkoff ... I've been scrolling though this forum and few escort websites for months now, there has been few occasions that I was very tempted to just pick up the phone and go for it but for many reasons I stopped myself and chickened out.. :hide-1:
But I just can't get the thought of being with a beautiful sexy woman with the "extra package" out of my head... So I've decided to finally go through with it and see if I'd enjoy it or if it's just a fantasy.

I've pretty much only been browsing through the 'yummy girls' and 'SAE' agency websites and I was amazed but how beautiful these girls look, which agency would you recommend me to go through? or does it even matter?.. I though the pictures might be all photoshopped but some even had videos. The 2 girls that really caught my eye are Ts Mimi/April and Ts Wasabi/Suki but i've seen a mixture of reviews about suki which makes me think maybe i should leave her out.. I also really liked pictures of Naraya and Nicole.
I'd like to see someone who can take control and slightly 'dominant' as i'd probably have no idea what im doing and also someone who's also able to cum, on that note are you suppose to pay extra for the girls to cum? and do the girls always see more than 1 person a day? I think i'd rather be the first..

I'm very nervous about this as it's my first time doing anything like this and seeing an escort so I'd appreciate your input and advice on what i should expect and any recommendations.

thanks

[rodinuk]

I'd like to see someone who can take control and slightly 'dominant' as i'd probably have no idea what im doing and also someone who's also able to cum, on that note are you suppose to pay extra for the girls to cum? and do the girls always see more than 1 person a day? I think i'd rather be the first..
I'm very nervous about this as it's my first time doing anything like this and seeing an escort so I'd appreciate your input and advice on what i should expect and any recommendations.
If you're that nervous about it you could see a genetic girl escort to understand what the whole pay-for-play experience is like first.

I would think most girls see more than one client a day. If they don't explicitly state a charge to cum then you should ask beforehand and agree what is and what isn't included before the money changes hands.

Recommend you read the Escort Reviews forum in depth to learn more before you proceed. Also use the Search to find theads on first-time and hygiene etc. because you're not the first to ask.

If you 'probably have no idea what I'm doing' then that worries me somewhat that you're just following a whim.

[dderek123]

Use a condom.

[TSCURIOUS]

After you take the plunge - you'll start yet another "Am I Gay?" thread

[bluesoul]

I'm very nervous about this as it's my first time doing anything like this and seeing an escort so I'd appreciate your input and advice on what i should expect and any recommendations.


how did you find this forum? have you researched transsexuals? do you know what this forum is about? have you read the review section?

read our free information pack that you were handed when you signed up, grab a ticket and wait for the next available tour guide

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[Jericho]

...And yer not gay unless you push back! :hide-1:

[Quiet Reflections]

Just do it and forget about peoples advice (except the use a condom guy because that is always sound advice). Everyones experience is different and with a bit of research you to will have a time(good or bad) that is all your own. You are 21! it is totally ok to be stupid and get a hooker and learn as you go.

[dderek123]

Just do it and forget about peoples advice (except the use a condom guy because that is always sound advice). Everyones experience is different and with a bit of research you to will have a time(good or bad) that is all your own. You are 21! it is totally ok to be stupid and get a hooker and learn as you go.

Yep you only live once.

[Mrkay]

Exact same state of affairs here matey!

That's how it all starts my friend, by the way, you're not gay!

I don't want to be starting a "Holly fuck am I gay" thread so just remember you're into women, that's regardless of genitalia.

Anyway all that is for a escort to reassure you, and help you to sleep better at night, not me so onto the advice and recommendations. :)

As said before, I have the exact same back story as you do.

I went one step further than you and called a TS. As I'm from Sheffield, not many reliable or if any at all TV/TS girls I called one and had a bizarre phone call, which totally bewildered me, leading me to never call one again.

But I met a girl at college, who at the time I thought was actually born as a girl physically, but she wasn't, that's how convincing she was! She lived as anyone else would and did.

As I kept the idea of being bottomed by a Ts woman merely a fantasy, at the same time thinking I could may well be gay, having thoughts of sucking a cock attached to a beautiful woman! I was attracted to this girl not knowing she had a cock which I would later then suck.

Anyway we had a relationship, we broke up and before I got with her I knew I couldn't be gay because I was attracted to a girl and so I figured the concept out, she then also explained it to reassure me.

In regards of advice, mate I couldn't highly recommend it enough, but please be aware of these agency's some are not to be trusted.

There are women here with reviews in abundance, just read a few and you'll be wanting to pick up the phone.

Anyway dude I was in the exact same boat not long ago, and I've still not had my first punt form a escort.

[boomer23]

if you are thinking of seeing an escort, google her number first. If search results show different girls, be careful, or if there are no results, be careful.

if she is too beautiful to believe, well better not believe it, many girls post pics of how they want to be perceived; a couple i have seen had pics of others but they were beautiful, perhaps not willing to show their true face to the public.

sites such are The Erotic Review can be helpful, some reviewers will tell you whether the girl can cum or not, and whether they can top despite what their ad says. The ads tell you only what the person wants you to know, just like you are when describing yourself to someone else, we forget to mention the things that may make us unattractive.

not all experiences will be great, but if you do a little research it should help a lot.

good luck

[starkem]

Having a "first timer"experience with a TG escort varies by the person and not the escort. Search your heart first, and settle for jerking off to some TG porn in the meantime.

All experiences are not as your fantasy expectations may suggest. They are best left to the fantasy realm. You should do some soul searching inwardly about the realities of your desire to TG intimacy, escorting legalities, and the level of anonymity you are willing to sacrifice for said desires.

Also remember that encounters of any kind take mutual respect as well as mutual benefit.

If you are still willing to take the plunge: do not discuss sexual acts for money until you are iin person to negotiate this mutual exchange...and before any money exchanges hands. You must remember the escort is seeking the same safety from harm and legal impropriety. The person may seem aloof, but, it is surprisingly difficult to establish a mutually beneficial engagement without a mutual accord.

Persistence and learning from your mistakes is key here, regardless to the course that your efforts may leaning towards. LOL but I often over think things and end up alone. (smile). Therefore, further caution to any advisement you receive here or elsewhere. I am just concerned that a 21year old does impulsive things without measuring the costs to benefit for the desired result.

Ok..good will hunting! :praying:

[farvahar]

Thanks for all your replies, although maybe I should point out that I wasn't nervous or worried because i was confused whether or not im gay or straight.. I couldn't really care about the labeling to be honest, i only mentioned i'm straight in my thread because i was trying to introduce and say a bit about myself and what i find attractive.

I couldn't stop thinking about what it would be to be with a hot TS girl so I took the "you only live once" advice and I actually ended up booking an escort through one of the agencies for an hour. She was unbelievably beautiful, I was shocked! it turned out to be a really good experience. Nothing really felt awkward or weird during the session and I was so glad i went though with it. She seemed to really enjoy herself too as time flew by and I didn't even realise until i was about to leave that I actually stayed just over 2 hours! But then she mentioned that she wants to see me again and I told her I don't really have money to be spending like that she said it doesn't matter... now i'm in a dilemma of whether or not I should go down this route.. It seems a bit 'unprofessional' and maybe something i shouldn't get into, even though she said there's no money involved I don't like taking advantage of people and i definitely don't want a relationship or anything like that... but at the same time it's very tempting and I really do want to go and see her again..