Starting up with a new TGirl

[nysprod]

Starting up with a new TGirl, but this time I'm doing it differently...

Gonna be the 100% straight man TGirls want, which means 100% treating her like the woman she wants to be, which means 100% it's not about her dick.

The anti-chaser.

[nysprod]

all the best

Thanks!

[moonunit7]

Why can't you just be yourself? If you like the D, find a girl that's cool with it.

[nysprod]

Why can't you just be yourself? If you like the D, find a girl that's cool with it.

I am being myself...dick is a porn fetish...women don't what to be fetishized, they want to be treated like women.

[dderek123]

Yeah just be yourself man. But best of luck to you.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

Sounds like the "right" way to hopefully make it work, man. I wish you and your lady all the best!!

[Bruce Wayne]

Good luck man. My advice just be yourself and treat her like a lady.

[nysprod]

Yeah just be yourself man. But best of luck to you.

This is nothing radical...nothing against D or liking D...GG women don't want it to be all about their genitalia, like a fetish...TG's are women, so why should they be any different? They're not.

Of course, people get down to party all the time...but if you want something a little deeper, if you want to be viewed differently...

[RyderMonroe]

you have changed quite a bit from the nysprod from a few months ago that didnt even consider trans women to be women. kudos. :)

[Donkey]

I am being myself...dick is a porn fetish...women don't what to be fetishized, they want to be treated like women.
Well, most real women like for men to pay attention to their genitalia. I'm not sure what "it's not about her dick" actually means, but ignoring your partner's genitalia isn't normal.

[moonunit7]

Dick isn't just a porn fetish. It may be to you, but some people see it as an integral part of their sexuality, whether they are gay, straight or whatever. You can treat a woman great and still admire and/or be stimulated by her penis, lol. Sex is a big part of love and relationships. If you liked the D before, how can you just "turn it off"?

What if you really like boobs, is that a fetish that you now have to deny yourself of? You're thinking too much. Nevertheless, I hope your new relationship works out.

[dderek123]

This is nothing radical...nothing against D or liking D...GG women don't want it to be all about their genitalia, like a fetish...TG's are women, so why should they be any different? They're not.

Of course, people get down to party all the time...but if you want something a little deeper, if you want to be viewed differently...

Yeah I hear you. Been there done that and bought the tshirt.

[dderek123]

Dick isn't just a porn fetish. It may be to you, but some people see it as an integral part of their sexuality, whether they are gay, straight or whatever. You can treat a woman great and still admire and/or be stimulated by her penis, lol. Sex is a big part of love and relationships. If you liked the D before, how can you just "turn it off"?

What if you really like boobs, is that a fetish that you now have to deny yourself of? You're thinking too much. Nevertheless, I hope your new relationship works out.

Yeah I agree. Hiding your desires and insecurities can cause issues down the line. But hey it all depends how they deal with it and get a long. Just because there might be issues it doesn't mean they won't be happy together.

[nysprod]

you have changed quite a bit from the nysprod from a few months ago that didn't even consider trans women to be women. kudos. :)

Thanks, Ryder.


Well, most real women like for men to pay attention to their genitalia. I'm not sure what "it's not about her dick" actually means, but ignoring your partner's genitalia isn't normal.

Women want you to pay attention to their mind. Everything flows from that.


Dick isn't just a porn fetish. It may be to you, but some people see it as an integral part of their sexuality, whether they are gay, straight or whatever. You can treat a woman great and still admire and/or be stimulated by her penis, lol. Sex is a big part of love and relationships. If you liked the D before, how can you just "turn it off"?

What if you really like boobs, is that a fetish that you now have to deny yourself of? You're thinking too much. Nevertheless, I hope your new relationship works out.

Right...dick, boobs, ass, these are all disassociated parts...not what a woman wants or more importantly, who she is. Treating a woman "well" as a precursor to obtaining her "parts" will lead to failure.


Yeah I hear you. Been there done that and bought the tshirt.

The whole wardrobe.

[nysprod]

Being a fawning sop doesn't work either...it's annoying and just makes things worse.

[danthepoetman]

Nysprod, this is great! And I think it's the right attitude to have, my friend. I wish you a lot of happiness with this girl. Take advantage, life is short as you know, as we all know. Happiness is often a season; we have to grab on to it to make it years...

I always felt that about you: you're the type of guy who can have very radical opinions. But you have that great quality to be able to take a step back and put yourself in question. It is a great quality, believe me, that not everyone possess. Not by far.

As to the "dick question", I think you're on the money for that too. Just act as if it was a big clit; that's all. The way you give oral to a woman, to me it's the same with a t-woman. Just my take on it...

[Dino Velvet]

Starting up with a new TGirl, but this time I'm doing it differently...

Gonna be the 100% straight man TGirls want, which means 100% treating her like the woman she wants to be, which means 100% it's not about her dick.

The anti-chaser.

Good luck with the new lady.:cheers:

[nysprod]

Nysprod, this is great! And I think it's the right attitude to have, my friend. I wish you a lot of happiness with this girl. Take advantage, life is short as you know, as we all know. Happiness is often a season; we have to grab on to it to make it years...

I always felt that about you: you're the type of guy who can have very radical opinions. But you have that great quality to be able to take a step back and put yourself in question. It is a great quality, believe me, that not everyone possess. Not by far.

As to the "dick question", I think you're on the money for that too. Just act as if it was a big clit; that's all. The way you give oral to a woman, to me it's the same with a t-woman. Just my take on it...

Thanks...that's better than the typical compliments I get, which tend to run along the lines of "you're not as bad as everyone says."

Although sometimes things do get a bit out there, even for me...last night I was in a club where this TGirl was flashing her cock and ass, but she asked me to stop looking because I was frightening her...if you can imagine.

[danthepoetman]

although sometimes things do get a bit out there, even for me...last night i was in a club where this tgirl was flashing her cock and ass, but she asked me to stop looking because i was frightening her, if you can imagine.
lmao!!
You know, I get that myself, sometimes. My gf always tell me I look like a mean mother-fucker. Yet I'm so different... It's just the look...

[nysprod]

Good luck with the new lady.:cheers:

Appreciate that, but please don't get all normal on me...the droll insanity is something I look forward to.

[MacShreach]

Well, in the spirit of cordiality... you start by liking the girl. As long as you start there, it's all pretty straighforward. You like her, you build trust, it moves forwards. There's no difference in dating a transwoman, as long as you are always aware that she is a woman, and you treat her as such. And she'll let you know a bit about her. If there is a difference between gg and tg women it is that tg women's insecurities are different, and sometimes, maybe a bit more pronounced.

After that, if she likes you, you get to know about her bits. She lets you know which bits she likes you to play with, and how she likes them played with. But it all begins with liking her, and she liking you. Whether she has an inny or an outy round the front is really neither here nor there, it's all just geography anyway.

[Dino Velvet]

Appreciate that, but please don't get all normal on me...the droll insanity is something I look forward to.

Everyone comes after me when they see a glimmer of sanity. I don't think they trust it.

[nysprod]

Everyone comes after me when they see a glimmer of sanity. I don't think they trust it.

Should we?

[youngblood61]

Good luck bro!:)

[nysprod]

Good luck bro!:)

Thanks...probably end up being another entry into my scrapbook of madness...

[youngblood61]

Thanks...probably end up being another entry into my scrapbook of madness...I hear you!